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Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by OPTOSUN(m): 9:35am On Aug 17, 2021 |
For those that did not marry from their tribe, how is it going? . Share the experience |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by ElimosCEO: 9:41am On Aug 17, 2021 |
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Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by Payperboii(m): 9:43am On Aug 17, 2021 |
Apc!!!! |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by SirIconR(m): 9:49am On Aug 17, 2021 |
Am here to read Comments |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by Ego2(f): 11:20am On Aug 17, 2021 |
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Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by Nwaotu10(m): 12:00pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
If by God's willing I'd get married, I'd be delighted to marry a Fulani; the pretty naive ones. I will school her and acculturate her with modern social ethics. |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by Nwaotu10(m): 12:01pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
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Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by ahnie: 11:41pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
Here to read comments. Thank you! |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by Lamanii22(f): 12:46am On Aug 18, 2021 |
My mom would never allow me to marry from another tribe which is why I settled with my yoruba boo. .. although I really love inter-trybe marriage. |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by MufasaLion: 5:42am On Aug 18, 2021 |
Igbo girls are just too beautiful and smart to resist. Well, I'm not a fan of marriage. |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by OPTOSUN(m): 5:57pm On Aug 18, 2021 |
I know of a couple. The wife is Yoruba while the husband is Urhobo. Though they reside in Yoruba land, the wife and children speak Yoruba language only. They don't understand Urhobo. The man can speak Yoruba fluently since he has stayed in Yoruba land for a long time. Anytime they go to the man's side, they don't cope because they couldn't speak Urhorbo language. While other members are discussing, they feel lonely. So language diversity plays a role here. 4 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by freshbear(m): 6:29pm On Aug 18, 2021 |
I will advise against inter tribal marriage.All I have seen is one sad story and the other.Tribalism is too real in naija to allow a smooth sail.The kids are often caught up in the cross fire. 3 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by MufasaLion: 7:11pm On Aug 18, 2021 |
freshbear: What statistics gave you this conclusion? Speak with facts, please, not hearsay. 2 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by Fountainofyouth(f): 8:28pm On Aug 18, 2021 |
I married from Delta state, and I'm Yoruba, I've never dated any man from my tribe before, so I accepted my fate like that, and so far, it has been great, his people are nice, no issues.....yet. 5 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by MufasaLion: 8:32pm On Aug 18, 2021 |
Fountainofyouth: And there will be none. 9 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by Fountainofyouth(f): 8:37pm On Aug 18, 2021 |
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Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by DonroxyII: 7:39pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
Nwaotu10:Fulani are more educated and more elite than you think though not for competition... They don't just loud it . Also, they don't marry outsiders even for Hausa to marry them is just manageable... they mostly marries themselves !! 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by DonroxyII: 7:42pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
Tufia... I won't cope ... I know ! |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by Nwaotu10(m): 8:23pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
DonroxyII: Yea, not overly educated, unlike the Igbos, yorubas etc. They rarely marry outside their tribe. |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by DonroxyII: 8:31pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
Nwaotu10:Most Fulani go to school in UK and they have jobs in Multinational or International development agencies waiting for them in Nigeria once they land...... They mostly marry their cousins ... Marriages in Fulani is strictly regulated because you can be disowned by the family if you misbehave by marrying outside! I wanted to date the sister to one of my Fulani friend from Bauchi State ... She likes me but told me what I stated up there !! 2 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by OPTOSUN(m): 8:36pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
DonroxyII:Wow......... |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by Nwaotu10(m): 7:45am On Aug 22, 2021 |
DonroxyII: Oh! Is that so? Thanks for the insight. Their beauty is unprecedented. I'd love to meet the educated ones pretty soon. Do you know where I could find them? Are they on social media? |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by Lostchild(m): 12:33pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
Lamanii22: Mama's girl So na your mama go choose or approve husband for you abi? 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by DonroxyII: 4:36pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
Nwaotu10:They are on all social media and as social as Southern Nigerian girls but they are very conservative, pride/proud and selective...... They won't respond to you as a Southerner and ultimately an hustler ..... They school mostly in the North from futminna , uniabuja and upward .......Abu Zaria too, ATBU etc .... I'm telling you , you don't see an average Fulani girl on the street..... unless you go to her school or place of work ... beware ... Most of them are all under watch by their men and jealously .... you can be cleared ! 2 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by kwaso2(m): 4:38pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
I am Ibo and married Efik(Cross River). Wedding rites was stress free. Family very supporting. So far, no regrets whatsoever. While she is smart enough to learn Ibo, I am not even keen on traditional relics because, when the chips are down, OYO. But am glad, at least, I am expanding my family tree beyond my state or region. That will give our children more advantage, I guess 3 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by arent88(m): 5:40pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
DonroxyII:is it this same north I know or there is another north u are referring to.whats all this u are saying like the Fulani's are some special breed.school in the UK with a job waiting for them in Nigeria. U know nothing pls 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by DonroxyII: 5:49pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
arent88:Well I'm talking about my experience and what I've seen .... I mean Fulani elite not Bororo the one selling your daily fura da nunu ! 2 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by Mariangeles(f): 6:11pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
DonroxyII: ...and here I was thinking of coming to pay your groom price Naaah! Forget it. 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by DonroxyII: 8:30pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Oh No ! .... My head is just not yet where my in-laws will be speaking other language far from my conception except French .. ... Lemme know once you are ready to pay now |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by Jimbadly: 1:10pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
DonroxyII: Oga, which tribe does not have an elite group amongst them? Your initial comments about the Fulani sounded as if all them school abroad and live sophisticated lives. You should have told us it's only the elites amongst them which only make up a very tiny percentage of that tribe. For your info, most Fulanis are rustics. |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by DonroxyII: 1:19pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
Jimbadly:OK I'm sorry ! |
Re: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by escapefromusa(f): 4:16pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
Payperboii: PDP |
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