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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MetalJigsaw(m): 7:03am On Aug 25, 2021
Though I was red pilled before discovering this thread, but Since I consumed more and more of it here, I've noticed that my taste in women has sky-rocketed.

Subconsciously, I keep pushing the bar upwards and as a result my commitment is being placed way out of their reach.

Looks and feminine features are no longer of worth to me. I confront them and look them in the face as though I'm a fellow female.

I deal with women with 100% logic and they get astonished as f***

I get the best deal outta' dem no matter who the fvck they are or how they look and they keep coming back! (talking about my business). And I sense some even start to get kinda attached or something


I've tamed my sexual urge to the extent that even a nude Nicki Minaj won't affect my sense of reasoning. That I'm sure of.

When a man successfully subdues his thirsts for sex, he'll go a long way in life.
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This is few out of the many things the red pill has deposited into my personality.

It will do it to you, if you truly and sufficiently digest it.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Zabiboy: 8:45am On Aug 25, 2021
Mehnn...
Some posts here literally makes me feel like i'm on the wrong thread..
Which one is " Can a man be complete if he is not successful with women" angry
Like seriously sad
Anyways, i have nothing to say reason i did not quote the guy.. Las las, everyone has his own life to live

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Skepticus: 8:54am On Aug 25, 2021
MJBOLT:
https://www.nairaland.com/6718072/maternity-photoshoot-toyin-lawani-son#105138871

When men avoid them for being damaged women, and the few who stay around them, are just there for the money/pûssy, waiting to fûck and disappear, they channel their "woke" liberalistic, madness on their children manipulating them into "mother-worshippers" and emasculation. The boy is already being abused and feminized against his wishes, and if he grows up without a firm masculine presence that a man brings, he'll be damaged for life. Also, he'll be the butt of jokes among his peers when his mother's soft nudes and "thotiness" is being discussed.

MJBOLT, reverse the characters in that photoshoot - A father in similar erotic nude pose/photoshoot with his daughter/son and watch the outrage superceed the one Toyin is presently getting (if there is any major outrage). I have equally not seen the "outrage" from our blue-pilled drifters on this thread and elsewhere when the Toyin Lawani link was shared like they will jump in rage to codemn if it was a man, being the defender of "women/girl child rights. If you probe their logic of it, you'll hear typical nonsense like: "Women nurture children - leave her alone" "She is a woman, she is weak - a strong man will not bother about it" bla bla....

Remember the travails of the Yoruba language actor/comedian that was recently accused of rape and condemned on the altar of social media by women and ignorant men, without sufficient evidence to back up the accusations.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 9:01am On Aug 25, 2021
^^^^
@Skepticus

I see no masculinity in the boy. He seems disturbingly feminised.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Skepticus: 9:20am On Aug 25, 2021
Martinez39s:
^^^^
@Skepticus

I see no masculinity in the boy. He seems disturbingly feminised.

A young, impressionable boy without a strong fatherly figure active in his life, cannot stand the manipulative wimp of a super-damaged woman. I see both single mothers and married mothers do it all the time. A single mother, who is a friend and a business partner, told me that she would raise her only son to hate his father and she never hesitate at any opportunity, to make the father look bad before her son. When I dug deep to know her marital issue, I found out that she was bipolar, dramatic and abusive verbally, emotionally and physically, so much that the poor dude packed his load in one night and ran away, abandoning her and the kid. He still sends money for his upkeep but avoids her physically.

Being a super-damaged lady, she is doing it for the shock-value, "feministic and liberalistic freedom" that being woke, brings. Also, being raised with the super-entitlement mentality of a child that has gotten away with many bad behaviours, she knows she would likely do this and get away with it.

In a society with men who know their stuff, she would be arrested by the authorities, cautioned and forced to desist from carrying such act, involving a child who is not a legal adult and does not understand the consequences of putting his nude online, like the Ghanaian authorities did to that thottie who pulled same trashy stunt. At worse, take the kid from her and hand over to another adult who shows more responsibility.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Skepticus: 10:04am On Aug 25, 2021
Kantebets:
conquering pussy is a sign of top masculinity which itself is one of the traditional qualities of real top class men
You say redpill teaches self development,in all its facets and how to launch one to become an all round top man
Testosterone is male hormone which drives ambition,strength and sex drive as well as masculinity
I wonder how a guy with high levels of testosterone can’t get a pussy it’s either he is gay or something is wrong somewhere

Kantebets, from your last paragraph, are you trying to say Catholic, Buddhist, Hindu monks etc are gay, or all high "testosteroned" men stuck in maximum jails (where there are no women/pussay) may be gay or have something wrong with them?

Is a man condemned if he can't get pussay or in a position where pussay is not uniquely available to him?

I'd appreciate it if you answered the questions above. There is a lot to be said on it.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Cr7772: 10:15am On Aug 25, 2021
Dear brothers, motivational speakers earn millions by telling the audience what they wanna hear.
It's a shame a sensational, astonishing and mind blowing thread like this generates zero kobo to those constantly putting in efforts into its growth.

Perhaps I don't agree with all Ubunja says but it still doesn't change the fact that the man is doing a great job liberating men and honestly, he was among those that started this movement here on nairaland. Ubunja, I remember attacking u with my banned moniker(cr777) but don't blame me, I've realized that the reason I never really got ur whole Point is cos I'm a very handsome guy, the van vicker type of handsome, I've been treated differently by women since I was 13, I never really understood the sort of work average looking guys have to put in to get what I do get from women freely.

All I'm saying is, I'm sorry for attacking you. I've had a rethink of the whole thing and honestly, your points are on point and straight up as a stick of cigar.

Members, this thread deserves some appreciation, I suggest the pioneers should set up an account for this thread with the bank name REALITY FOR MEN.
Nobody is forcing anyone to drop something into the account but brothers, these men running this thread and keeping it alive are burning money through data just to feed you knowledge, show some support even if it's urgent 2k ladies always collected from u during ur simping days before u met this great thread.

That 2k isn't the benchmark, you can do more if u want to or less if u can't afford it, your pastors are making millions by twisting the Bible and telling u what u wanna hear, these men here are serving you with the truth in its purest and rawest form, they deserve support.

It's not their right to demand money, after all this is a public forum and not some privatized blog, but there's something called common sense.

Enjoy your day brothers.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Meedon: 10:29am On Aug 25, 2021
Zabiboy:
Mehnn...
Some posts here literally makes me feel like i'm on the wrong thread..
Which one is " Can a man be complete if he is not successful with women" angry
Like seriously sad
Anyways, i have nothing to say reason i did not quote the guy.. Las las, everyone has his own life to live


Walai, I don't know why they are like that. They often tie success to having a woman. To a typical Nigerian, If you're not married or in a relationship, you're a failure.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by 2dice01: 11:00am On Aug 25, 2021
SkyFlint:


This is a grave mistake.


Blatantly uploading contents that hint at a red pill awareness on platforms where you have friends, colleagues, clients or relatives who suffer from chronic blue pill conditioning will win you no favours. It is more likely to make you lose valuable contacts/relationships .


I remember when I posted a pics of a guy frowning cause the suppose girl he brought to the eatery was a Glutton grin
I tagged it True love with a Love emoji

Instantly on of my guy send me a voice note telling me that was the same thing that happened to him yesterday
Even the girl took takeaway home
He love the girl but she haven't giving him an answer yet grin

Am talking about a struggling guy who is still trying to find his footsteps in life

I told him with time she will comply
Cus i know he can't/won't be able to handle the truth yet

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Saviolamemphix(m): 11:01am On Aug 25, 2021
Lolz one of my female friend once called me a misogynist for sharing bitter redpill truth i just snub her lol grin cheesy
SeekerofTruth1:
See what my childhood guy friend said to me on WhatsApp because of my regular Redpilled post on my status

He also blocked me too

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Saviolamemphix(m): 11:32am On Aug 25, 2021
..-\
Abba114:
martinez39s pls can you send your picture here let us see you

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 11:38am On Aug 25, 2021
Saviolamemphix:
U are stupid but u have no one to tell u. Get a lyf u jobless online troll undecided undecided
tell that to martinez39s you gay. how can somebody just admit that he hates girls? is it the only girls that hurt people? i was once falsely accused of rp but that doesnt mean i will publickly admit that i hate women.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 12:24pm On Aug 25, 2021
Some people on this thread deserve a big "mtewwww". grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kantebets(m): 12:45pm On Aug 25, 2021
Skepticus:


Kantebets, from your last paragraph, are you trying to say Catholic, Buddhist, Hindu monks etc are gay, or all high "testosteroned" men stuck in maximum jails (where there are no women/pussay) may be gay or have something wrong with them?

Is a man condemned if he can't get pussay or in a position where pussay is not uniquely available to him?

I'd appreciate it if you answered the questions above. There is a lot to be said on it.

in my opinion those monks are not complete men because I don’t understand how a complete man will tell me can’t get pussy or can’t get laid
Testosterone drives ambition in males and this also includes drive and energy to become successful as a man,drive to take risks,physical strength and also getting pussy
Have u ever seen a corporate body/organization appoint a monk as their director or get him appointed into a top decisive leadership position?
There is a reason gays are not allowed leadership in top places and the answer is that they are not complete
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Azurevermillion: 12:45pm On Aug 25, 2021
They came, they saw, they loathed yet they stayed.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Azurevermillion: 12:48pm On Aug 25, 2021
Kantebets:
in my opinion those monks are not complete men because I don’t understand how a complete man will tell me can’t get pussy or can’t get laid
Testosterone drives ambition in males and this also includes drive and energy to become successful as a man,drive to take risks,physical strength and also getting pussy
Have u ever seen a corporate body/organization appoint a monk as their director or get him appointed into a top decisive leadership position?
There is a reason gays are not allowed leadership in top places and the answer is that they are not complete
. Gays are society outcast and monks don't chase worldly pleasures. You redpillers are also outcast.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 12:50pm On Aug 25, 2021
Skepticus:


When men avoid them for being damaged women, and the few who stay around them, are just there for the money/pûssy, waiting to fûck and disappear, they channel their "woke" liberalistic, madness on their children manipulating them into "mother-worship" and emasculation. The boy is already being abused and feminized against his wishes, and if he grows up without a firm masculine presence that a man brings, he'll be damaged for life. Also, he'll be the butt of jokes among his peers when his mother's soft nudes and "thotiness" is being discussed.


Her tattoo and provocative (maybe promiscuous) nature is already a red flag (you can see my red flag list on page 769).

"People who get tattoos and weird piercings do so as a way of self-harm and as a way of corrupting their body."
"Trauma survivors tend to not know what is socially appropriate or desirable so they don't have those boundaries which means if you have trauma in your past and keep forming toxic relationships or healthy people keep trying to distance themselves away from you then you need to change your behaviour."
"If you don't pay attention to how people behave, then you are gonna end up unhealthy."
- Think Before You Sleep

Damaged people or trauma survivors tend to not be aware of their mental and/or emotional issues so they have a propensity to ruin their lifes with questionable/terrible choices, will ruin your life and the life of their child.
Because toxicity and maladaptive/unhealthy behaviours is what the child grew up knowing, they see it as normal, often with a tendency to become abusive or get into abusive relationships, they'll have a kid and they 'indoctrinate' them with their damaged ideologies, behaviours and tendencies.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=475i4OnHZS0

You'll see the daughters of single moms, becoming single moms e.g. Bernice Burgos, a instagram "model" and video vixen, being a single mom at the age of 15, her daughter doing doing the same at the age of 21. Or daughters following the path of their mothers who are/were sex workers. A 'vicious cycle' that can only be broken when one person in the family becomes aware and puts in work and effort to break and discontinue it.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dZjjjnqPYo4&t=2s
Fathers are there to teach the kids boundaries so when a woman lacks a (proper) father figure, they end up with attachment issues (daddy issues). They start seeking attention/approval/validation from men, dress provocatively, become promiscuous (possibly exploitative, using their bodies to "secure the bag" [gold digging] ), having hyper self conscious traits leading to tattoos, piercings, body mods etc., which in turn worsens their unresolved issues as well as leading to new mental/emotional traumas.

Sex workers, instagram "models", video vixens, slay queens/ runz girls, (radicalised) modern feminists and "normal" women who use their bodies and sex as a proxy for feeling loved and adored--some intuitively know this kinds of people are "broken" but may not exactly know why.
Also, 'like attracts like' so if this are the kind of people you attract then you should probably reflect on yourself because "there is never one unhealthy person in a relationship."

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Venom442: 12:56pm On Aug 25, 2021
KiNg0G:


Like you said, you ain't dating her, you just felt pity which comes natural....she just another human who needs help.... that's between u and your wallet.


Buh ask yourself this question, if the case was reversed to the individual been a male friend of yours, with dîck like yours whose a sickler...or homeless... crippled.. would you ride for him this way?

Would you bring the situation to this redpill thread to ask for an opinion.


Because I see many of them in roads begging for feeds...some gettin ignored.

naah, because it's a female, you had to bring it in here to justify your actions... THE FEMALE GENDER CARD WILL always play no matter what.




Waiting for a day, I see someone come in here to say he helped a brother genuinely.

A perfect example is the guy begging guys to repair his phone wether genuine or counterfeit yet no one give a bleep.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Meedon: 1:41pm On Aug 25, 2021
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Cr7772:
Dear brothers, motivational speakers earn millions by telling the audience what they wanna hear.
It's a shame a sensational, astonishing and mind blowing thread like this generates zero kobo to those constantly putting in efforts into its growth.

Perhaps I don't agree with all Ubunja says but it still doesn't change the fact that the man is doing a great job liberating men and honestly, he was among those that started this movement here on nairaland. Ubunja, I remember attacking u with my banned moniker(cr777) but don't blame me, I've realized that the reason I never really got ur whole Point is cos I'm a very handsome guy, the van vicker type of handsome, I've been treated differently by women since I was 13, I never really understood the sort of work average looking guys have to put in to get what I do get from women freely.

All I'm saying is, I'm sorry for attacking you. I've had a rethink of the whole thing and honestly, your points are on point and straight up as a stick of cigar.

Members, this thread deserves some appreciation, I suggest the pioneers should set up an account for this thread with the bank name REALITY FOR MEN.
Nobody is forcing anyone to drop something into the account but brothers, these men running this thread and keeping it alive are burning money through data just to feed you knowledge, show some support even if it's urgent 2k ladies always collected from u during ur simping days before u met this great thread.

That 2k isn't the benchmark, you can do more if u want to or less if u can't afford it, your pastors are making millions by twisting the Bible and telling u what u wanna hear, these men here are serving you with the truth in its purest and rawness form, they deserve support.

It's not their right to demand money, after all this is a public forum and not some privatized blog, but there's something called common sense.

Enjoy your day brothers.



I concur

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Meedon: 1:48pm On Aug 25, 2021
Kantebets:
in my opinion those monks are not complete men because I don’t understand how a complete man will tell me can’t get pussy or can’t get laid
Testosterone drives ambition in males and this also includes drive and energy to become successful as a man,drive to take risks,physical strength and also getting pussy
Have u ever seen a corporate body/organization appoint a monk as their director or get him appointed into a top decisive leadership position?
There is a reason gays are not allowed leadership in top places and the answer is that they are not complete


Bros, so you mean that I'm not complete.

Note: I'm a proud monk.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kantebets(m): 1:52pm On Aug 25, 2021
Meedon:



Bros, so you mean that I'm not complete.

Note: I'm a proud monk.
grin
Chop life o bro
Redpill good but too much of everything bad
grin
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Meedon: 1:56pm On Aug 25, 2021
Kantebets:
grin
Chop life o bro
Redpill good but too much of everything bad
grin

Na so my guy

grin

But deh try reduce your insinuations abeg, with the way you insult monks.

Respect them, because they are very very wise you know.


cool

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 2:02pm On Aug 25, 2021
Zabiboy:
Mehnn...
Some posts here literally makes me feel like i'm on the wrong thread..
Which one is " Can a man be complete if he is not successful with women" angry
Like seriously sad
Anyways, i have nothing to say reason i did not quote the guy.. Las las, everyone has his own life to live

Could be a simple case of misunderstanding the red pill, understandable.
But I've seen men who use red pill and other excuses to justify sleeping around.
You'll hear "Men are polygamous by nature."

"It's a man's biological imperative to have sex with as many women as possible. Why should I be any different?"

Your penis is just a penis, but you treat vaginas like a gold medal, put it on a pedestal and glorify it, resorting to rationales on why you need it. Women see this, become entitled and become "dishonest wh*res" as Esther Vilar would put it, and expect money and gifts for 'consensual' sex.

I don't support promiscuity for men or women (as self control and disciple goes a long way) but if they want to sleep around or live like King Solomon with 100s of wives, that's they choice-- say it with your chest rather than using rationales as a crutch for your argument, that's how denial and blame-shifting starts..

Also, monks are not 'incomplete' men because of abstinence. That sounds like a shame tactic a woman would use. A dedicated monk is an 'enlightened' man so please respect respectable people.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 2:10pm On Aug 25, 2021
When gaming to initiate sexual tension with your plate, ensure you engage in physical touch, these is the main litmus test to see if a girl is interested in you, if she enjoys your vibes she would not complain about the touch, infact she would be very receptive and would send you signals to encourage you, but ones she becomes resistant, irritated, defensive and non-compliant when you touch her, even if she was cheerful, smiling, agreeable before the touch, her reaction during the touch shows she's not interested in you sexually, no matter how much you have invested initially, once these occurs cut your loss and move on, don't waste your time

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TheDarkGamer: 2:16pm On Aug 25, 2021
Hey Don Juan,

Every day I'm emailed tons of tips and articles.

Every day I read hundreds of new posts on the SoSuave Discussion Forum.

Every day I read articles and books and magazines about dating, relationships, and women.

I have watched hundreds, perhaps thousands, of "dating" videos.

I see it all...

The basic. The advanced.

The good. The bad. And the ugly.

Whether it's in an article written by some famous relationship guru, or a post to a discussion group by some 15-year old HS freshman, undoubtedly, the most common tip I see is JUST BE YOURSELF.

If sheer volume were any indication of quality, then this tip would surely be in the girl-gettin Hall of Fame.

Unfortunately, volume is no indication of quality when it comes to relationship advice. In fact, much of the time it's just the opposite.

The more common the advice, the more often you hear a particular dating tip, the more likely it is to be false.

And "Just Be Yourself" is the one tip I'll never use.

Not at the web site. Not in the newsletter. Not anywhere.

Just be yourself (abbreviated JBY from now on) is a dangerous or, at the very least, counter-productive tip for a number of reasons.


Be Very Careful Whose Advice You Follow

JBY is the advice you're most likely to receive from someone who has no clue about how women, dating, and relationships work.

It doesn't matter if that person is male or female, young or old, single or married – it's the stock relationship answer when one doesn't know or can't think of anything else to say... but doesn't want to seem as clueless as he/she actually is.

Ask your buddy what women want, or your mother, or your minister, or Dr. Expert. They'll probably hit you with some version of JBY.

Why? Not because it's the correct answer, but because they themselves have no idea what women want.

But they have to say something, right? And besides, they've been hearing JBY for their entire lives. It must be the right answer. How could something be so prevalent, and be wrong?

As a side benefit, JBY is also an answer which allows the advice-giver to feel a sense of smugness or superiority... as if simply seeking relationship advice in the first place is somehow indicative of lower intelligence or underdeveloped social skills. And oh how people love to feel smug!

But what happens if you press them a little, ask for more details? Tell them that you've been "just being yourself" your entire life and it's pretty much gotten you nowhere at all with women. In fact, you haven't even had a date in 2 years.

What about that?

At this point they'll probably deliver you the stock follow-up answer...

"You just have to be patient and eventually you'll meet someone who's right for you."

Oh, and don't forget...

"And if it doesn't work out between you and her, than it wasn't meant to be."


Be Yourself – Patience – Faith

That's about the extent of the advice you're likely to receive.

I consider this to be ridiculous!

What kind of advice or help is this to a person who's been struggling with women his whole life? A person who goes on one date every 6 months... and never gets a second date? A person who's lonely, depressed, unhappy? A person who's obviously doing something wrong but has no idea what it might be?

Rather than simply JBYing, and waiting patiently, and having faith, perhaps it would be more beneficial if the troubled person would decide to TAKE CHARGE and actively create the kind of life he wants.

To learn the mistakes he's been making in the past and how to correct this in the future. To learn the correct attitudes, behaviors, and thoughts which will enable him to attract and keep the woman or women he wants.

This would be useful advice!

But then we'd run into another problem.


A Convenient Excuse For Not Doing Anything

You see, the second major reason that JBY is so common and a potentially damaging piece of advice is that it gives the person in need an EXCUSE for not doing anything.

A convenient excuse, validated by others (after all he asked), for continuing to do what he's always done. A convenient excuse to do only what he wants to do, or what feels comfortable for him.

A convenient excuse to sit on the couch every evening drinking beer and watching TV... because, after all, he's the kind of guy who likes to sit on the couch, drink beer, and watch TV.

You see being SoSuave is not about being yourself. And it's certainly not about pretending to be someone that you're not. It's about becoming the person that you want to be.

It's about self-improvement and reaching your full potential. It's about feeling good, being happy, and learning new things.

Time and time again I've gotten emails from people telling me how the information at SoSuave has changed their lives for the better. How they now understand "the game" better, and how their social lives have dramatically improved as a result.

Yet – get this! – when they tell their friends about the site, about all the cool information there, and how it changed their lives... their friends are not the least bit interested.

Or their friends may even think the whole idea of "learning" how to act around women is ridiculous and try to make them feel bad for even suggesting such a thing.

The friends will then preach JBY to the person, and try to convince the person that he doesn't need "tricks and gimmicks" to do well with women.


Those Friends of Yours

These oh-so-wise friends are the same ones who cower in a corner when out at a bar. The same friends who spend most of their time surfing the net or playing video games.

The same friends who insist that you should buy flowers, write love notes, be "friends" first, take her to the most expensive restaurant in town, tell her you love her (on the first date, no less), etc.

In other words, these friends don't have a clue, yet have the audacity to preach JBY to those who are trying to improve themselves and understand what really works.

Talk to them about challenge, body language, confusion, desperation, confidence, conversational strategies, or any of the other basic stuff at SoSuave, and watch as their eyes glaze over like a deer caught in headlights.

Are you actually going to take advice from these people?

Why are they like this? Why can't they see that JBYing is not working for them? Why can't they understand that simply learning and implementing a few simple "tactics" could dramatically improve their lives?

Because they're lazy!


It's All About Self-Improvement

You see becoming great with women is all about self-improvement. And self-improvement involves work.

Take a look at all the info at SoSuave. It would take WEEKS just to read it all. Then you have to commit it to memory. Then implement and practice. This takes time and effort.

Make no mistake about it... you're not going to go from a Non Juan to a Don Juan over night.

Do you think that Michael Jordan became the greatest basketball player in history by JBYing? When he failed to make the varsity team in High School, do you think he went home and said, "Oh well. I guess I'm just not much of a basketball player. But I'm sure there must be something else I can do."?

I don't think so. He grabbed the ball, laced up his sneakers, stuck out his tongue... and practiced.

He wanted to be great. He decided that he was going to be great. And then he made himself great!

You have to do the same thing.


What Do Women Do?

What about women?

Do you think that they subscribe to the JBY model of dating?

You tell me...

They spend hours working on their hair, their makeup, their skin, and everything else imaginable before going out.

They spend untold fortunes on clothes, shoes, accessories, diet pills, and anything else they can find to make themselves more attractive.

And have you ever read Cosmo, Glamour, or any of the other women's magazines on the stand? Just look at the covers:
20 Ways to Make Him Fall in Love with You... Instantly
Is Your Man a Cheater? Take Our Test and Find Out
Bedroom Tactics to Rock His World
You see women have been studying "us" since they were old enough to read. When we're out digging in the dirt, playing ball, or watching cartoons, they're pouring over the latest edition of Seventeen and discovering "New Kissing Techniques that Will Leave Him Drooling."

They're having slumber parties, giggling, and professing the merits of playing hard to get, not returning phone calls, flirting strategies, not looking desperate, body language, or whatever.

They're learning the "game" and how to play it... and very, very well.

We men are busy JBYing.

And they're researching, studying, and practicing.

Is it any wonder that in most relationships the woman is in complete control? Is it any wonder that most guys, when they do occasionally get a date, make complete fools of themselves?

Is it any wonder that YOU are having so much trouble with women?

I think not. In fact, I think being an "idiot" is the norm for men. I think most guys are completely clueless.

And that's why those of you smart enough to seek out this site and subscribe to this newsletter are destined for greatness.

Those of you who visit the site regularly, those of you who study and practice, those of you who've dedicated yourselves to learning and improving, should be commended. You are in the minority.

And if you keep at it...

You will reap the rewards.

Good luck!

Allen
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Skepticus: 2:42pm On Aug 25, 2021
Dizzyyish:


Her tattoo and provocative (maybe promiscuous) nature is already a red flag (you can see my red flag list on page 769).

"People who get tattoos and weird piercings do so as a way of self-harm and as a way of corrupting their body."
"Trauma survivors tend to not know what is socially appropriate or desirable so they don't have those boundaries which means if you have trauma in your past and keep forming toxic relationships or healthy people keep trying to distance themselves away from you then you need to change your behaviour."
"If you don't pay attention to how people behave, then you are gonna end up unhealthy."
- Think Before You Sleep

Damaged people or trauma survivors tend to not be aware of their mental and/or emotional issues so they have a propensity to ruin their lifes with questionable/terrible choices, will ruin your life and the life of their child.
Because toxicity and maladaptive/unhealthy behaviours is what the child grew up knowing, they see it as normal, often with a tendency to become abusive or get into abusive relationships, they'll have a kid and they 'indoctrinate' them with their damaged ideologies, behaviours and tendencies.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=475i4OnHZS0

You'll see the daughters of single moms, becoming single moms e.g. Bernice Burgos, a instagram "model" and video vixen, being a single mom at the age of 15, her daughter doing doing the same at the age of 21. Or daughters following the path of their mothers who are/were sex workers. A 'vicious cycle' that can only be broken when one person in the family becomes aware and puts in work and effort to break and discontinue it.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dZjjjnqPYo4&t=2s
Fathers are there to teach the kids boundaries so when a woman lacks a (proper) father figure, they end up with attachment issues (daddy issues). They start seeking attention/approval/validation from men, dress provocatively, become promiscuous (possibly exploitative, using their bodies to "secure the bag" [gold digging] ), having hyper self conscious traits leading to tattoos, piercings, body mods etc., which in turn worsens their unresolved issues as well as leading to new mental/emotional traumas.

Sex workers, instagram "models", video vixens, slay queens/ runz girls or "normal" women who use their bodies and sex as a proxy for feeling loved and adored--some intuitively know this kinds of people are "broken" but may not exactly know why.
Also, 'like attracts like' so if this are the kind of people you attract then you should probably reflect on yourself because "there is never one unhealthy person in a relationship."

Facts.

TBYS is red pill grounded and leans towards men in highly gynocentric societies staying off marriage. I like the fact that he deals with the psycho-sexual sub conscious part of the red pill that escapes the open attention and awareness of most men including those of the red pill like the childish tone of their voice that women switch to when they are victims of a past trauma or exploiting their neonatal (child-like) qualities for appealing to the empathy of men to manipulate them.

In Nigeria, if you get around with damaged girls, "street" girls, club whores, hookers, models, porn stars etc, you'll notice similar traits except that most may never be able to afford medications and some of these damaged girls hide it better than others from unsuspecting, ignorant men.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ProphetJeroboam: 2:49pm On Aug 25, 2021
I asked this girl “Tell me what you want, spare me the stress”. She told me “I’m looking for money, will you give me money” Then I told her “Will you suck my deek for $1000” Then she said “No I won’t, what do you take me for” Then I told her “How about $15 since you think you’re not worth $1000” then she left me on read.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 3:13pm On Aug 25, 2021
this guy martinez39s its obvious, everyone knows that he hates women, looking through his previous posts its evident that he also doesnt like prostitutes looking at the way he criticizes guys from ashawo thread. pls what else would he be if not gay or a chronic masturbator or an impotent man? my only problem with him is that whenever u have different opinion he will criticize and condemned you and call you simp, to him the word simp is a great deal. he also thinks he is the only redpillar he takes redpill like his religion. my advice to you martinez no matter what wrong a woman has done to you in your life im not asking you to forgive her but use your redpill knowledge to deal with them instead of wallowing in hatred, because you r not doing urself a favour by occupying your mind with hatred. the fact that u cant do without food, air and water its same as sex you either jerk it off through masturbation or have a normal sex or engage in abominable kind of sex (faggotism) but this guy claim that he doesnt do any i suspect you r not healthy #i.come.in.peace

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 3:29pm On Aug 25, 2021
Skepticus:


Facts.

TBYS is red pill grounded and leans towards men in highly gynocentric societies staying off marriage. I like the fact that he deals with the psycho-sexual sub conscious part of the red pill that escapes the open attention and awareness of most men including those of the red pill like the childish tone of their voice that women switch to when they are victims of a past trauma or exploiting their neonatal (child-like) qualities for appealing to the empathy of men to manipulate them.

In Nigeria, if you get around with damaged girls, "street" girls, club whores, hookers, models, porn stars etc, you'll notice similar traits except that most may never be able to afford medications and some of these damaged girls hide it better than others from unsuspecting, ignorant men.

True.

Some guys think that a tiny, childlike baby voice is cute or attractive on a grown woman, which is understandable as I assume it's not really common knowledge that-- "A woman's voice would stop developing at the age of their initial trauma if the trauma is bad enough." [Involuntary]
Leading to emotional, mental and traumatic baggage that affects them and the people they're (romantically) involved with.

Also, a grown woman using a childlike, baby voice and/or childlike, neotenic behaviour (often with a 'sensual' or sexual undertone e.g. calling their spouse "daddy" ) to get what they want is a very likely sign of an exploitative, manipulative woman. This types of women are likely to be abusive and play the victim.
[Voluntary]


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q2oRuX3QR-4&t=1s
For those curious, the lady in this video falls in the latter category (Voluntary). After her boyfriend broke up with her via twitter, she comes to his house, lies so he lets her in, uses a "cute" childlike voice and mannerism with a sexual undertone to convince him (which she claims has worked before) [at timestamps 1:25 & 7:35] that they're still a couple (while he live streams) in front of the camera. Later when the stream gets turn off and she thinks they aren't any cameras around she grabs his phone, runs into the bathroom and shows her true colors [at 9:30]. He had to call the police to make her leave.
Later, she posts "bruises" of body on Instagram to insinuate that he laid hands on her during the incident but because everyone watching the live stream saw what happened, she was met with backlash, prompting her to delete the post.

She also is an Instagram "model" and has an onlyfans, further proving her 'broken/unstable' nature.
Women (and people generally) like this will ruin your life. Men tend to ignore this flags because of the 'halo effect' and sex.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oxUiTNa8SI8&t=44s
[Mental instability red flag @ 0:55
Rationale behind her behaviour @ 11:20 & 13:02]
[Red flags - Astrology (on her twitter bio), heavy makeup, lewd/ thirst trap instagram content, provocative clothing, promiscuous, sex worker, uses childlike voice and (sexual) mannerism, plays the victim, abusive, can't/doesn't take "no" for an answer.
Can check out my red flag list on page 769 if curious]

Funny enough, he later got back with her after everything (I assume after they had sex) and proceeded to insult his fans who warned/advised him to stay away from her--- a somewhat common phenomenon in abusive/toxic relationships.
"There's never one unhealthy person in a relationship."

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by NYCnextStop(m): 3:45pm On Aug 25, 2021
ProphetJeroboam:
I asked this girl “Tell me what you want, spare me the stress”. She told me “I’m looking for money, will you give me money” Then I told her “Will you suck my deek for $1000” Then she said “No I won’t, what do you take me for” Then I told her “How about $15 since you think you’re not worth $1000” then she left me on read.
smiley wink

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by KiNg0G: 3:53pm On Aug 25, 2021
Abba114:
martinez39s pls can you send your picture here let us see you

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by KiNg0G: 3:54pm On Aug 25, 2021
Abba114:
martinez39s pls can you send your picture here let us see you

A nerd or a monk... dude goes with different characters.

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