This can be a big turn-off sometimes. Monetary demands in hang-outs or relationships has the power to change the narrative of how a person perceives you.

Someone can be attracted to you or maybe at some point in love with you, but when monetary demands sets in, it makes u look like an exploitative opportunist and a gold digger or makes it look more like a business transaction... like you have something to give in exchange.

Never ever ask your partner for money... dont do that, chances are, if your partner always oblige your money request, then it is likely that they dont picture you in their plans for the long term... their short term focus will be to get as much paybacks from you before dumping you.

A better way of making anyone grow genuine interest in u for the long term is to be independent and responsible for urself and ur life... let the people who wants to be with you be matured and creative enough to take a position naturally without having to be asked or told what to do.

Doing your own thing and providing for yourself makes you super more attractive and respected.

People dont keep their tabs on persons who puts out their baggage of life problems out there to get help.

Partners should be observed as they do their thing in relationships... no one is mandated automatically to do anything under duress even as it is expected that partners should know their roles. If he's not footing the bills or she's not doing the dishes... let them be. Observe and leave if it's not going to work between u both.


"#BadRadio has spoken"

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And you may also lose your value if you keep focusing on how to find love without having a shishi on your pocket..

[s]Never ever ask your partner for money... dont do that[/s].

Asking for money (or assistance) should never be a problem between two partners. Even F&F do ask us for money. Just don't ask unnecessarily or senselessly; be considerate.

Lols...I stopped ready when i saw Genuine love. Shey na grass una wan com dey chop
Keeping dreaming op

SmellySperm:
Lols...I stopped reading when i saw Genuine love.

Genuine love equals not overdoing things in a relationship. Too much of anything is bad.

SimplyFacts:


Just be considerate

though u know u have to drop the cash at some points... but do u have to be told everytime before u do so... if you have to be told everytime before u know your partner needs it then it means u dont know what roles you should be playing in that relationship.

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BadRadio:
though u know u have to drop the cash at some points... but do u have to be told everytime before u do so... if you have to be told everytime before u know your partner needs it then it means u dont know what roles you should be playing in that relationship.

If it's not in marriage, then (in most cases) I need to be told before dropping any cash. Unless my partner is an orphan, and that's another case.

SimplyFacts:


If it's not in marriage, then (in most cases) I need to be told before dropping any cash. Unless my partner is an orphan, and that's another case.

like seriously?

BadRadio:
like seriously?

Date a better lady, bro. Let the inconsiderate guys & girls go for themselves. There are enough to go round.

I always advice my fellow guys to while chasing money chase characters too, Acquire humanitarian skills, develop your masculinity, surround yourself with Men, have a healthy lifestyle.... When you have these as a man love won't be a problem.

Just because we are dating dosen't mean a lady is entitled to my money, as some one above said, she ain't an orphan to begin with. You only give money when there is a pressing and urgent need for it - illness or an emergency else f**k that. However, Most men reward their gfs/wives good behaviours with unexpected generosity, often in the form of valuable gifts,which they deserve as a good woman deserves everything.

SimplyFacts:


Date a better lady, bro. Let the inconsiderate guys & girls go for themselves. There are enough to go round.

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