Exkandayee:

Mumu man

AutoChick4U:
You are mean and heartless. Tufiaaaa

AutoChick4U:
Lmfao. Mental health is a serious issue in Nigeria indeed. Seek help pls

Beloved3:


Lol Mag. What's this?

Magnoliaa:

"Observing in 3D from palm tree top."

Lol. I scrambled it, just like people say, 'I comment my reserve,' instead of 'I reserve my comment' and 'A wise is enough for the word,' instead of 'A word is enough for the wise.'

Truvelisback:
U said no woman is ready to give her child to his guy's parent(s) 4 care but u are looking 4 someone else to do it 4 u, Lol. A person who needs helps should be humble, respectful and obedient. U lack these qualities. It's obvious that u av issues with his parent(s) or there are some truth u are hiding.

Lostchild:
AutoChick4U
I am glad you have to speak put your pains. You should also not forget that nairaland is more of a rude forum. So don't be surprise when you get crazy replies.

I can marry a single mom, but I will fear the betrayal of the child.

Be strong and pray every night for God help before you sleep

Lostchild:


Curse any nairaland idiot that attack you.

I told you, many of them are heartless, that is why I will leave this forum so soon and focus on quora

Bouz:
You see , it's not actually easy, raising a family, you have only one child oh, and you are crying out loud like this, you can imagine what men go through taking care of a whole family. Both his wife that has a degree . You can imagine, and yet most ladies won't be grateful or some would still cheat, you can imagine what it feels for a lady to be billing you all because you got interest in her, and later on she would go for the higher bidder, why collect gifts from someone you don't like, why not reject. hunger won't let that happen. And some mad women will come out to seek for equality, yet upon divorce the man still pays heavily for child support on children she is claiming right over, but can't take care of them single-handedly. You can imagine , life ain't easy for the men oh, but we push . When you finally get one, ensure you respect him as much as he deserves.

Elporo:


And, her baby daddy has no relatives .. no mother , brother or sister.

With these few points of mine, I hope Nairaland is confused but not convinced about her current situation.

90% single mother are not wife material. or other 10% get married easily because their behavior bears witness for their innocence in single mother hood.

AutoChick4U:
Replying you drops my IQ as I see you lack comprehension. Last reply

AutoChick4U:
I am no stranger to Naira land and their ways so I ain't surprised.

How can a child you show love betray you?

Lostchild:


You can invest on a human all their life, and they can end up betraying you.

My own sister betrayed my mother.

I have had many betrayals in life and I havr learn to always expect the worst from humans

I learn many lessons and learn to trust only God.

Exkandayee:


Then why are you telling us he's dead, you wished death on your baby daddy, that means you a witch,commot here joor

AutoChick4U:
Wow, it ain't easy at all, it weakens my very soul that all I've worked for have really gone and no way of making ends meet for now.

Do I regret bringing another being into this world? Perhaps I do when I'm down and emotionally at my lowest but I've learnt to be strong atleast for my kid. Unfortunately finding a love interest to serve as that emotional anchor ain't even easy in our society, once you tell them, faim! Its all over.

I'm probably feeling depressed but I still hope on loving and being loved. Hoping on God wiping away my silent tears, hoping on a shoulder to lean on and a listening ear. I sooo need someone to talk to.

Please no one should come and act all holy and try to judge me o

slimkhalifa:

I didn't bother to read the story aga
But go meet the man u was moaning to ..
Abi him japa

Suck2pool:
Are

authority2006:


He's dead to her because he played dead. Let dead daddies be dead daddies in peace.

Exkandayee:


Then why are you telling us he's dead, you wished death on your baby daddy, that means you a witch,commot here joor

Moz22:
oga.. u sef rest na

AutoChick4U:
Many would wanna talk down on my situation but before you do, know that the owner isn't even alive and it he was, this story would be a happy one. Like they say, life no balance.

I have cried all the tears I can muster, I have prayed but the dead won't come back to life. Its left for me to be strong for us.

Macphenson:


You are a liar, this is ur post.

n.

bobowaja:
AutoChick4U, in as much as I won't like to be mean. I think you are responsible for your actions. I have a friend in ur shoes right now. Almost same story as yours. Las Las she carry belle for unknown dickman.

Sounds like your story right? Own up. What you need now is not a dick or a man to clean up your mess. Most will likely hit and run anyways. They just want to lick whatever is left off the pot.

What you need to do now is, go back to your parents. Drop off the kid and hustle for yourself. I see you write well which means you are educated. Naija hard now and no man will willingly take over a supposedly living deadman job.

When u gather yourself. A man will come. To be frank with you, right now, you are only a liability with two bags - yourself and the little girl. No man want such baggages. At least have some money of your own before seeking love.

Lastly, be responsible for your actions and consequences. Whatever u are going through now is a byproduct of your decisions to spread legs and have unprotected sex and still keep the child.

I wish you all the best.

bobowaja:
AutoChick4U, in as much as I won't like to be mean. I think you are responsible for your actions. I have a friend in ur shoes right now. Almost same story as yours. Las Las she carry belle for unknown dickman.

Sounds like your story right? Own up. What you need now is not a dick or a man to clean up your mess. Most will likely hit and run anyways. They just want to lick whatever is left off the pot.

What you need to do now is, go back to your parents. Drop off the kid and hustle for yourself. I see you write well which means you are educated. Naija hard now and no man will willingly take over a supposedly living deadman job.

When u gather yourself. A man will come. To be frank with you, right now, you are only a liability with two bags - yourself and the little girl. No man want such baggages. At least have some money of your own before seeking love.

Lastly, be responsible for your actions and consequences. Whatever u are going through now is a byproduct of your decisions to spread legs and have unprotected sex and still keep the child.

I wish you all the best.

Nice.. One bottle of Heineken for you

AutoChick4U leave love, man matter and hustle tight because you are no longer thinking and providing for yourself again, there's a little angel involved now. Nobody wants a liability and I'm sure you would agree with me that the country is hard as it is right now, it would be difficult for any man to shoulder such responsibilities that isn't his.
Godspeed!

Michelle55:

Nice.. One bottle of Heineken for you

AutoChick4U leave love, man matter and hustle tight because you are no longer thinking and providing for yourself again, there's a little angel involved now. Nobody wants a liability and I'm sure you would agree with me that the country is hard as it is right now, it would be difficult for any man to shoulder such responsibilities that isn't his.
Godspeed! [/b]

AutoChick4U:
Sensible post. Thank you so much. My need to start earning far outweighs need to love though and I can't be happy being a liability to any human being. Can't let myself b that vulnerable but thanks for your post.

bobowaja:

I wish you all the best.

Michelle55:

Nice.. One bottle of Heineken for you

bobowaja:


Make it 2 bottles of chilled Heineken and let's discuss how u will send them over.

That's the problem I have with Nigerians I give you bread, you want to kuku carry my bakery and go
Huncle, what did I do to you na? meanwhile, aside the 2 bottles of Heineken what else should I add to it?