TimeSpaceWizard:
The OP mistakes every home as an ecosystem of a bastard child and nascissistic mother of the mentally challenged dynasty.

Complete faikure

Reflection of society in real life experiences.

I don't understand why some of you want to see the OP in bad view.
Whereas, he is purely telling us what is happening on the street and in our society .
Nigerians are pretenders.
We always play the ostrich.

earthsync:


So a guy fuckiing around and a girl fuckiing around can't be placed on the same pedestal?

NO. Thats just the truth.

TimeSpaceWizard:
The OP mistakes every home as an ecosystem of a bastard child and nascissistic mother of the mentally challenged dynasty.

Complete faikure

Ok.

gotnel:


You make sense in your opinion.
I believe, we have many marriages that are still working.
Out of ten, we may find three or four.
We need not discourage marriage totally, but everyone going to marriage should bring peace, supportiveness, tolerance, love and loyalty.
Our society has become too much materialistic.
This is affecting many homes.

As per court marriage, it is not fashionable in our society.

I love your positivity, but life's not fair, its not pretty at all!

gotnel:

Reflection of society in real life experiences.

I don't understand why some of you want to see the OP in bad view.
Whereas, he is purely telling us what is happening on the street and in our society .
Nigerians are pretenders.
We always play the ostrich.

Don't waste your time on people like that pls, i know him.

TheGidRedpiller:
NO. Thats just the truth.

Why can't it be so?

oneolajire:
Nonsense post.

Firstly, we children of God follow God's rules as singles and married. God told us to abstain from fornication and adultery some we do.

He told us to abstain from worldly lust, so we do.

You guys want to eat your cakes and have it. You want to fornicate and commit adultery, make ladies commit abortions and blame them for not wife materials and unable to give birth to babies.

You have used I G M, (I Go Marry) to deceive many ladies, now they are desperate and careless.

Give your life to Jesus, follow his rules so that your life and marriage will make a meaning.

Mine is meaningful.

My brother, sit back and watch them confuse themselves.

What might be bondage to the OP might be demanding accountability for his actions and refusal to accept his excesses

OKOATA:
You are very right bro, what you feed your subconscious mind all day is negativity about women. Nobody’s perfect but if you marry the right woman your life span will last just like we have seen cases of very old lovers still together after years and if one of the couple die you notice the other dies shortly. My own is that if you want to get married don’t just get married, make sure to look out for signs and pray about it and God will show you the way. Let’s be positive even though with all the negativity we still need women in our lives. I can’t do court marriage sha o no matter what cos I am presently in court divorcing my ex right now and the stress is too much bro. Now she wants full custody and I also want full costody of our child too, she’s so stubborn and won’t compromise. The least I can do with a woman after this divorce is just family introductions like the traditional way and that’s all. Court marriage is what I think people should preach against or there should be a prenup clause instead of preaching negativity always.

Court marriage is the worst marriage a man can initiate. It puts marriages assunder. I strongly advise against it also and I would never venture into it for any reason. Traditional marriage/church marriage is the true marriage and no other. God bless your home Sir and I hope things work out between you both.

bukatyne:




My brother, sit back and watch them confuse themselves.

What might be bondage to the OP might be demanding accountability for his actions and refusal to accept his excesses

Nice grammatical placements.

earthsync:


Why can't it be so?

A popular saying goes, a key that can open any door is termed a MASTER KEY. But a door that can be opened by any key is classified useless! Let that sink!

Veggieseedies:


Is there anything good about parasytic Nigerian girls who wait until their husbands discover that yam has finished in her kitchen before buying it on his way back next time?


I will still marry by Dec. And I'm not scared, though I love her and respect her so much.
But she's a Nigerian girl.

Mmm

TheGidRedpiller:
You see christian marriages Thats where you see the most fake women!

Christians divorce the most.

gotnel:

Reflection of society in real life experiences.

I don't understand why some of you want to see the OP in bad view.
Whereas, he is purely telling us what is happening on the street and in our society .
Nigerians are pretenders.
We always play the ostrich.

Yet you refuse to realize that not all homes and towns are like your broken homes and hamlets.

How long have you and the OP been stupid?

writetopoker2:
Am married, OP God bless you for this truth.

95% of Women are demons

If you're married and you are going through those things the op wrote, then you must have married the wrong woman or you have a good wife and just bad thoughts of exploring these shady, good looking girls out there. You just want to explore more outside your marriage, that's all..

TimeSpaceWizard:


Yet you refuse to realize that not all homes and towns are like your broken homes and hamlets.

How long have you and the OP been stupid?

You have shows, who is stuck in stupidity here.

TimeSpaceWizard:


Yet you refuse to realize that not all homes and towns are like your broken homes and hamlets.

How long have you and the OP been stupid?

For as long as you have been ignorantly blind.

Olumighty123:


If you're married and you are going through those things the op wrote, then you must have married the wrong woman or you have a good wife and just bad thoughts of exploring these shady, good looking girls out there. You just want to explore more outside your marriage, that's all..

Wow, pls re-read what you just typed, what sense does it make to you

Marry the right person and you will thank God for the blessings of a wonderful person to share life with.

Marry the wrong person and end up bitter like the several bitter persons who have commented on this thread.

writetopoker2:
Am married, OP God bless you for this truth.

95% of Women are demons

if found yourself married to a demon then you're evil.

I am very sure you are from a broken home to utter such rubbish, if you don't wanna get married, it's your choice but don't mislead people with this crazy thing you think you are trying to create, it's obvious you cannot be saved.. Who knows you might even be a low self esteem kid who still doesn't understand life because nairaland has given you the privilege to be a giant behind your keyboard.. Mtcheew

Though I'm a married man but I can't sign any document in the name of marriage Ever and Never

Surrogacy is the best way out... Most women are unmarriageable these days

Mikester:

Modified: For those who feel baby mama is the way, who think having a baby mama is more peaceful than marriage, here are some disadvantages I highlighted in a post I made this year.

https://www.nairaland.com/6544708/disadvantages-having-baby-mama

Read and know if you are up to the task.

Mm

MufasaLion:


Mmm

You will not marry abi? Ok

TheWolfen:
Surrogacy is the best way out... Most women are unmarriageable these days

Look harder, good ladies are around you.

earthsync:


And you want to get married and but she's a Nigerian girl. Make I no just say anything

Cos the lazy kitchen quality I gave is like their bethrotal

I doubt sir.
They got same leech and sick mentality. I don't wanna die before my time

Mikester:


Look harder, good ladies are around you.

Veggieseedies:



You will not marry abi? Ok

No, I won't.

TheGidRedpiller:
I assure you, you will know who you really married after you have said the I DO.

I know who I be

I may have been simping for this rare girl but I no be lover boy

TheWolfen:
Surrogacy is the best way out... Most women are unmarriageable these days

I like surrogacy.

posty56:
did you know Morgan Freeman net was suppose to be $400 million but after en wife divorce am , she took $200 million! just like that chai, I no go marry after I suffer hustle make money person go come carry half mbanu! na contract I go do ain't no way anybody is getting my money free.

This happens when both signed a prenup... A lot goes into asset division, and the only thing divided is marital properties, something she must have contributed in the marriage.

Retirements accounts will be shared to, cause they both funded it, and the guy man might also pay spousal support depending on the nature of the divorce.

You don't expect the lady to be married for many years and end up with nothing after divorce.

Fear God nah

TheWolfen:
I doubt sir.
They got same leech and sick mentality. I don't wanna die before my time

What kind of environment do you search for a woman and why exactly do you want a woman?