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I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by paulgabrielz: 1:45pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
I have been having sucidal thoughts lately. Any one? |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by Vulcanheph(m): 1:49pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
I'm free.... |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by yomi007k(m): 1:49pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
Suicidal thoughts is a sign of major depression. Depression is getting commoner in Nigeria in the last 3 years. What is causing such thoughts in you? |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by donbachi(m): 2:03pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
Fight a little longer my friend..its all worth it in the end. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by mariahAngel(f): 3:43pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
paulgabrielz: You are alive for a specific purpose, and without you alive, that purpose cannot be fulfilled. Humanity needs you, so make yourself useful to humanity. If you can, visit hospitals, prisons or orphanages. Give words of hope and encouragement to those that are there. Give yourself a mission. Touch at least one life a day. The moment you stop living for yourself and start living for God and humanity, life will begin to have meaning to you. Your existence will begin to make sense. Life is worth fighting for when you have something worth living for. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by Kobojunkie: 4:01pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
yomi007k:Last 3 years ke? I know of people who died "mysterious" deaths back when I was in primary school, you dey here dey talk of last 3 years. Abeg, may we stop to dey choose denial o' Jare! ![]() Depression has been around since even before man was made - animals do experience it too. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by mariahAngel(f): 4:38pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: How so? I know they experience sadness, but depression? I don’t think so. Depression is suffering that stems from the soul. Do animals have souls? ![]() |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by Kobojunkie: 4:43pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Where do you get the statement in bold from? ![]() And yes, animals do indeed experience depression - sorrow , guilt, shame and all the other emotions wrapped up in it. ![]() https://www.nationalgeographic.com/animals/article/121004-animals-depression-health-science 1 Like |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by mariahAngel(f): 4:50pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: I thought deeply to understand why so many people still get depressed, despite having everything or almost everything the world has to offer and it was revealed to me. Yes, animals do experience depression. Do animals have souls? ![]() |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by Kobojunkie: 4:57pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Depression, from my experience, has little to nothing to do with the soul. It is a mental illness and can be resolved with the tweaking of chemicals in the brain. ![]() I don't think animals have souls. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by mariahAngel(f): 5:06pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:Do antidepressants cure depression permanently? I don't think animals have souls. Right. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by Kobojunkie: 5:10pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
mariahAngel:There is no "cure" for depression. Only treatments that help the brain better manage depression. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by mariahAngel(f): 5:16pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Who or what told you that? Science? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by Kobojunkie: 5:30pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Depression is billed by medical professionals as a "mood" disorder , but recall that these moods contribute to what makes us human. So unless you are trying to cure the human condition, their no cure for depression. ![]() That aside, yes, science does not sell you a cure for depression but treatment for the condition to help the brain better manage the mood. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by paulgabrielz: 5:34pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
yomi007k:i made some stupid mistakes and i cant seem to face my family |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by mariahAngel(f): 5:49pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
paulgabrielz: What can be so bad that it’ll make you want to commit suicide? |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by yomi007k(m): 6:46pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: I added the word "commoner " . 1 Like |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by Kobojunkie: 6:49pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
yomi007k:Depression has always been common in Nigeria. However, people are now more aware of it as a problem that requires attention and not denial. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by yomi007k(m): 6:51pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: I quite agree. We are saying the same thing. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by paulgabrielz: 7:12pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
mariahAngel:got into bad company, misapproprited money meant for my schooling on irrelevances, about to throw away my life cause of those mistakes 1 Like |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by Kobojunkie: 7:13pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
paulgabrielz:And now your life has ended or you are now busy wallowing in self-pity? ![]() |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by paulgabrielz: 7:15pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:i dont know the way forward from here |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by Kobojunkie: 7:22pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
paulgabrielz:Have you at least apologized to those funds you misappropriated? ![]() Have you decided against the bad company you were involved with? ![]() Since you already ruined your chances at better educational training, you should probably be looking into getting a job, any job, so you can raise money to live on , and probably get vocational training that could help you in your chosen future. ![]() |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by paulgabrielz: 7:39pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:my dad would literally shoot me on sight if he knows what is going on. That is my fear |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by Kobojunkie: 7:43pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
paulgabrielz:Then maybe you can apologize to him later. But have you made plans on how to live and eat? By the way, how old are you? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by mariahAngel(f): 7:56pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
paulgabrielz: And you think those reasons are valid enough to want to take your own life? Do you think your parents deserve to live through the guilt/embarrassment/shame of their own child committing suicide? What would they say? why didn’t he just come to us? Allow yourself some grace, and open up if there’s no other way for you to solve the problem. Let your parents in on your worries. What is the worst that could happen that is worse than committing suicide? 1 Like |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by paulgabrielz: 8:15pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:early 20's |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by paulgabrielz: 8:17pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
mariahAngel:it is not as easy at it seems |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by Kobojunkie: 8:18pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
paulgabrielz:Oh, you are definitely old enough to start thinking for yourself. ![]() OYINBO children dey 'wake up at 15/16 years of age go dey work, learn skills and earn a better life for themselves. You need to get off your butt and start planning out how you want your life to go from here. ![]() |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by mariahAngel(f): 8:40pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
paulgabrielz: What? So, You think suicide is an easier option? You don’t have to face them now if you’re not ready. You can either choose to call, or send them a heartfelt text message. Whichever one is easier for you. A time will come when you will think back to now and realize the problem was not as bad as it seemed. |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by mariahAngel(f): 8:42pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: You’re giving him tough love. ![]() Be less hard on him please. |
Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by Kobojunkie: 8:47pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Nigerians are raised too lazy for my taste. I see it as part and parcel of the problem that is Nigeria. ![]() If say this boy na oyinbo,im for dey here dey tell us of how im feel terrible and so im don go get job at one mechanic store and maybe a construction site, to help raise the money wey im lost. ![]() I don't understand the Nigerian model of raising the next generation at all... it doesn't make any sense to me. ![]() |
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