ValCon888:
A typical Nigerian girl has this entitlement mentality.
They believe you must do everything for them.
You must give them money, take them out, buy gifts, make their hair, recharge their phones (and still do the calling) etc.

You must give them money before they buy you gift. And they will only use 10% of that money for your usual boxers, singlet or roll-on birthday present.

She is never altruistic or selfless. If she does something for you, she expects you to do something even greater for her in return. It is until you date a foreign chick you realize a vast majority of Nigerian girls have nothing to offer.

A selfless, generous Nigerian girl is like a Taliban Christian. They don't exist.

We have Taliban Christians

delpee:


Well, I don't have many women like that around me. I wasn't brought up that way and I counsel those who see it as normal so the generalisation sounds strange to me.

May God lead you to women with better values.

There's many like the woman below, that's why when men leave the shores of Nigeria they will always boast about the difference in mentality.

It is well.

He is a black man not a Nigerian. Only black men are ready to insult thire heritage because of Shoes.

Legendrysailor:
Hell yeah !!!!!

He is damn right. Dating a Nigerian lady is risky.

98.999% of Nigerian girls have nothing to offer in a relationship. D are damn too broke , always looking for already made men.

Pity them na

NotoriousBiggyS:
Nigerians girls are useless . The only thing they can offer is the smelly space between their legs

Haha

Olumighty123:
My wife is different, she won't let me spend a penny on my birthday, she usually does all the spending, from gift, to foods and drinks, it's a kind gesture I have always appreciate..

Ur wife na rear breed bros

womenareapess:
Good he left those piece of shiit called naija women

Very useless set of black species who got no economical value.

I always advise you date a foreigner and forget those piece of shiit.

Naija women are useless..... All of them.

I remember when I was dating to black shegoat (naija women) The highest gift I ever received was perfume of 1k naira, and that was the day I was enlightened that those piece of shiit ain't worth it.

Presently I'm dating a foreigner, and I most tell you, the experience is worth it.

Including your mum

BabbanBura:
I always talk am, our Naija ladies need to get their lazy ass from sleeping, watching series, making up, partying etc and work for their own money so relationship won't be poverty alleviation program for them instead a healthy mutually beneficial affair

Kai Dan iska ne wlh

BRATISLAVA:




This actually made me laugh.

This is a pointless thread that doesn't require any meaningful response to the male posters. A lot of damaged, worthless men are roaming in human skin. This forum has gone to the dogs. Pun intended.

Asinnnn. I no even pay am any attention after the first page. Las' las' dem go start to date each other with the way they are going.

yuping:
I have never in my life receive gift from any girl aside my mom and lovely sweet sisters, the rest na, you dey house I dey come, how far how you go take celebrate this year own, buy me shawama, you go take me out ooo you no it my birthday, send me data, kai I don suffer.

Olumighty123:
My wife is different, she won't let me spend a penny on my birthday, she usually does all the spending, from gift, to foods and drinks, it's a kind gesture I have always appreciate..

Lucky

Hassanmaye:

Kai Dan iska ne wlh

To ai zancen gaskiya ce!

Magnoliaa:


Asinnnn. I no even pay am any attention after the first page. Las' las' dem go start to date each other with the way they are going.

Once such a topic comes out, know that there will be no other posts for the next 5 pages. As you say, all that's left is for them to date themselves or any foreign misfit that will have them.

Imagine when a guy goes to the UK and Nigerian women are still tormenting him there. The uselessness is too much.

MALIGNANTGuest:
In as much as I detest USELESS GIRLS.
This is highly unfair, especially coming from a professional. It lacks content in its entirety.
Let's be Frank here,
1. What do u expect GIRLS 4rm POVERTY capital 2gIve u, when the presidency is ensuring that poverty permeates every family?

2. A country termed one of the worst countries to live in, yet you expect its humans to give you a $100 shoe?
3. A country where many LADIES can't afford sanitary pad.

4. Does he know the number of Ladies I support in Nigeria. He's crazy.
My Last BIRTHDAY was celebrated by my IGBO woman who did everything with $2000 dollars.
5. Does he think he's the only one with such ladies around.? Why tag the UK lady?

You can't give what you don't have.
6. How do you expect a Local GIRL to compete favourably with her western counterpart?
7. How do u expect a Lady who is a product of a country where people massively consume meals at burials/mourning ceremonies, with so much grabbing of takeaways, behave like dat UK Lady?

PLEASE, If you are an INDIGENT NIGERIAN LADY, kindly indicate for a Giveaway.

I am a lady

If you meet a Nigerian babe today, her birthday will be about a week afterwards. Then her mom will be sick, she will need money for rent, hair, upkeep, feeding, phone etc. She will even display her account number on status for people to see and drop something for her BIRTHDAY. That's total nonsense to me. They should have a little dignity

BRATISLAVA:


Why do you want a reasonable post on a thread whose premise is Nigerian male foolishness? There's not one post from men in support of the doctor that shows there's a comprehension of life itself from the forum males.

What is reciprocation? Foreign ladies are only on your radar because you think there's something special about them.

Nigerian men have decided that all they want is to make money and get any girl they want. And that's what they're getting. So what is the complaint?

The doctor is just another dumb golddigging Nigerian man. If she didn't give him something worth money, would he be showing is his coal painted unattractive face? He was silent until he got something worth money.

Why complain about Nigerian girls who did the same to him, then?

You people are lost and confused. Men's approach to gender wars is usually dumb.

Foreign gurlz special are because they meet up with men @least 40% if not 50% and i think its necessary you google the definition of Golddigging ... who gold digs for pairs of shoes.
We decided to make money cos naija women are incapable of reasoning with a broke guy ... the slogan money for hand back for ground originated from the naija women.
If he felt entitled i don't he will be making a big deal out of a mere gift, how you people misconstrue the truth for hate beat all sense of reasoning. it is that hard to amend una ways or what

Plenty Yoruba for Forum.....

larryjonze:




Foreign gurlz special are because they meet up with men @least 40% if not 50% and i think its necessary you google the definition of Golddigging ... who gold digs for pairs of shoes.
We decided to make money cos naija women are incapable of reasoning with a broke guy ... the slogan money for hand back for ground originated from the naija women.
If he felt entitled i don't he will be making a big deal out of a mere gift, how you people misconstrue the truth for hate beat all sense of reasoning. it is that hard to amend una ways or what

Let's agree to disagree.

Now that we are disagreed...

Tomorrow a new thread, same old posts from Nigerian men. Some will even go to the UK to continue the Lamentations as if there was anything stopping him from dating a Nigerian guy who would give him money.

Fiestafetta:
Well, as for me Nigerian girls are best, this relationship things na luck, me I got everything desirable during my bachelorhood in short if my girlfriend could afford car as at then she could have bought it for me.... Even my wife now self is trying her best, can't thank God enough for blessing me with such a beautiful wife and family.......

You are lucky, I'm just meeting liabilities I'm tired

WrongToDeflect:
Balderdash! One can accuse most Nigerian women, and it's not even exclusive to them alone or the female gender alone, of lack of altruistic kindness, but definitely not outright lack of kindness. They're good in strategic kindness.

O por. Ahann. See gradinggg and scales. Bratislava, how you see this one na? Check am. He upgraded us smol o, unlike the rest of them.
So no be say we dey heartless and stingy in toto; we only give and gift with motives. He try, try for us. What recognition award can we give him?

cococandy:


Seun doesn’t care. It’s good traffic. NL provides an outlet for the actual and potential rapists, murderers and assaulters among Nigerian young men to come and voice their frustrations, receive validation on it and walk away more reinforced with hate.

Gbam. He doesn't care nada. Same thing with the tribalists running amok. I'm sure he could/would have done something if he wanted to about these issues. It's been years since people have been drawing his attention to these issues, but still nothing has changed.

Even their oga at the top, the pioneer of this red peel something on NL is tactically and gradually withdrawing himself from their bitterness and hate.

After the monsters he don create? Hehehe. Nefa nefa.

Olumighty123:
My wife is different, she won't let me spend a penny on my birthday, she usually does all the spending, from gift, to foods and drinks, it's a kind gesture I have always appreciate..

she is doing that because u have married her,no Nigeria girl like to spend on any man

Ungrateful fellow

goodheart02:

Oga stop lying about an imaginary IGBO woman in the US. That's what I've been hearing from u here since. Why not show us all she got for u, atleast the doctor could show us his so called "ONLY SHOE"

No be only Toyota car gift na Mack truck

I will never Blame you nor exchange words with you, for its not your fault at all.
After all, on the INTERNET every person na mate.
I visit Nairaland because that's the only place that makes me a Nigerian as someone in diaspora.
So, you can run me down here.
In Fact, I don't expect Less, it's in us.
However, you will never try such on seeing me.
That I believe.

emmanuelbrown26:

What's the problem

They will control your life lol.

Any girl who has anything to offer you that's in a position of power will control the heck out of you and relationship will crash when you refuse to let her control you. Dated then before. Daughters of politicians. Big men.

Nigerian girls. Avoid them.

GOCEO:

Nonsense talk, oga pay the young man his money n stop saying rubbish, if true u shud av told him straightforward dat u don't need his service n u want to pay him off, u pple with ur Nigeria mentality spoiling diz country, pay the man his money, see ur nonsense reason like ur deficit brain mtcheeeew

You stopped responding to my chats just when you were supposed to pay me. What type of a cruel person are you? Now you're saying you were going to pay me. It won't be well with you

GreenCitrus:




You will never end well.


Why not ask the blackmailer if he wrote even just one article for me as he claimed he wrote 100 articles. Fool

A simple background check about your activities on Nairaland reveals your what you've been doing for years. You specialize in scamming innocent young people of their intellectual property. Its a pity I was one of your victim from the numerous number people you've also scammed. You keep changing monikers to scam people. Here's another one of your different monikers. Your end will never be good. You can't continue this way forever as nemesis will soon catch up with you.

NotoriousBiggyS:
Nigerians girls are useless . The only thing they can offer is the smelly space between their legs

OH MY GOD

all you have are shoes my guy relax abeg if you like abuse Nigerian girls feeling cause you are oversees you are better than them oga in that country where you are you are seen as a Nigerian and they care less about your existence

Beebah2000:
Relationship bandit
Hahahaha....!!! Chai....!! E pain am ooo

MALIGNANTGuest:

My BROTHER I live in the US.
... a white GIRL can afford all such because she has got sustainable JOB.
Most STUDENTS drive latest cars here.
It's nothing, meanwhile students trek and remain jobless at Graduation in Naija.
You don't need to be educated in order to make money in the United States.
Since I emmigrated to the US, was when I knew what Job security was all about.
You don't expect a LADY who has got CV in her purse throw a magnificent party for you.

My woman could do it because she resides there too. IF she were in Nigeria, she would have conformed to what is obtainable.

Bro, are Nigerian guys in different job market from Nigerian girls? You make it look like there is job security for guys in Nigeria while there is none for girls. In fact, before I left Nigeria, girls were more likely to get a job than a guy. At one point I was in an interview panel for a bank. When I was appointed to the panel, my regional head said "have you noticed that there have been almost only women recruited in the last two years and the region is filled with wowen" "most of the recruits when done from head office and transferred to us?" he added "we have to balance it going forward". When I joined the panel, to my surprise, the guys were far more knowledgeable. Girls come more with confidence but less knowledgeable.

I want to tell you that I live in a country that jobs are easy to find. Even here in abroad where I live, the Nigerian girls still have that attitude that a man has to toast them for eternity and as well take care of all expenses.

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I'm not supporting the motion. I'm just saying that it's gonna be difficult. Unless for the ladies that are expose ( staying outside 9ja).