Limassol:
why are you painting all men with the same brush due to the irresponible act of few?

say it to the nl men painting all women "useless"

yanabasee1:
The only thing you can do to be attractive before anyone is to have money....


Your confidence will fail you when you carry yourself around rich folks

While money brings immense confidence.

If money is ur confidence u are indeed a fool.

Have u heard about knowledge and wisdom?

sunshineV:
say it to the nl men painting all women "useless"

You mean replying every wayward monicker everytime 24/7, isn't it better to ignore since some their comments does not reflect reality?

You see ehh, good looks or not, as a guy just make sure you’re of high class. You can have money and still, you won’t have levels..

I don’t usually agree fully that money builds confidence. Confidence is not an artificial trait, it’s natural. No one lacks confidence because of either poor or rich, you only lack confidence because you don’t have it in you... Money can only help you upgrade, but for the confidence, you’ll still be fighting it in you if you lack it..

There are guys that drives car, have money but they’re still sisi. Girls still dey use them play wayo... All they usually do is to flash the money, that’s it..

If a girl sees that you have money but you no get parol, she won’t really feel you. If you like, buy gift everyday, she will feel happy but she won’t feel you. That’s why she’s gon cheat on you the moment she sees a real G..

Naturally, girls don’t have basics when it comes to men’s world. They only set basics but it doesn’t usually work in reality - that’s why you’ll see a girl that her fav kind of guy is tall, but if you see her boyfriend, nah shorty..

ford101:
how would someone know that I have money.cos the money is in the bank.i dont have a car.so what will I do to make people feel that I have money.

Aside car, the kind of job u do, the kind of house u live, the kind of food u eat, the kind of clothes u wear, the kind of phones u use will tell that u av money.

yanabasee1:
The only thing you can do to be attractive before anyone is to have money....


Your confidence will fail you when you carry yourself around rich folks

LOL this is a lie

yanabasee1:
The only thing you can do to be attractive before anyone is to have money....


Your confidence will fail you when you carry yourself around rich folks

Definitely it will

Toks2008:


You have no idea.
A broke guy with great self confidence go catch babe wey millionaire no go ever get.
You be learner.

Funny enough, this is a fact sha I've witnessed

You can always fake it till you make it. Confidence doesn’t come in one day neither does it last forever. Like a car, it needs steady maintenance. After all the hard work it’ll come effortlessly.

Toks2008:


You have no idea.

A broke guy with great self confidence go catch babe wey millionaire no go ever get.

You be learner.

No broke guy can except he uses deceitful means like living a fake life, telling lies or a kind of luck. Yes, Some guys av that luck. Some guys fit dey use jax sha.

yanabasee1:
The only thing you can do to be attractive before anyone is to have money....


Your confidence will fail you when you carry yourself around rich folks

guy you be liar, money no be everything bros, as I dey like this there no place wey I no fit enter wey dem wey people no go look me two times, I dey date two rich chicks plus one sugar mummy, that's too tell you how my confidence reach.

For the past 3years, my self confidence have grown tremendously, and I can tell you, it's the best feeling ever. Not just pertaining to relationship or getting girls. Of course not. In life, if your self confidence is high, you're always sure you're going to higher places and you take pride in doing everything possible to get you there.

But the moment you start looking down on yourself, you'll most likely fail in every facet of life.

Confidence is everything.

Truvelisback:
Aside car, the kind of job u do, the kind of house u live, the kind of food u eat, the kind of clothes u wear, the kind of phones use will tell that u av money.

Even the fragrance you wear, the smoothness and freshness of your skin, the tech gadgets you use, infact you don't even need to say a word, you outlook alone will speak for itself.

Truvelisback:
Aside car, the kind of job u do, the kind of house u live, the kind of food u eat, the kind of clothes u wear, the kind of phones use will tell that u av money.

Even the fragrance you wear, the smoothness and freshness of your skin, the tech gadgets you use, infact you don't even need to say a word, you outlook alone will speak for you.

Sonnobax15:

Op, you're very right... That was exactly what one of my guys told me two weeks ago--"obax,you don't really need to look down on yourself simply because you haven't made it yet while your friends are already cruising"...Deep down my little self,i knew that was the exact motivation I needed as at that time....

These days,I don dey try to build my self-esteem.... You-all need to see the tipper of sand wey I dey use build myself now...I no really need to make billions of naira first before I go garner mind to talk to anybody...

It's not abt looking down on urself Op is talking abt, it's abt being very attractive to people. U can't be a broke ass or poor and be very attractive to people. U are only very attractive to people when u are successful(especially in ur financial status).

Toks2008:


You have no idea.

A broke guy with great self confidence go catch babe wey millionaire no go ever get.

You be learner.

They work hand in hand self confidence and money, sometimes if you don't have self confidence been rich can boost your self confidence. But is better you have self confidence before getting rich so u have control on yourself not money controlling you.

Kriss216:


No sane man will choose a Nigerian used vehicle over a Tear rubber .

Stop giving these evening demons false hope. Guys are fools when it comes to making marital choice.

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Single mothers' market dey move o especially in the cities.

They appear more calm and responsible than your average iPhone hugging, ill-mannered gold-diggers that litter the cities.

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saferoom:
I am happy that Seun is now Godly. Those days when we nairaland.com was young the guy had this Atheistic disposition. Glory be to God that his dad or uncle Mr Osewa has impacted on him in that regard

Who is S.Y. Osewa?

And what is the purpose of the attractiveness exactly even without nothing to offer
I don't have time for all this attractiveness shit
If I ask you out as a girl and you no free,then I will move on to the next babe
I no get time to check time abeg

IamKizzbrown10:
Wow, am a stam and this gives me more confidence. Thank u

I know a guy that sings his words and he looks so attractive when he does.

You can try it too... You know that stammerers are fluent when they sing.

You cannot please people in this life, if u have self confidence same people will start complaining that you shine teeth too much that they like guys who at secretive

Chloraseptic:


Then you begin to fake it till you make it again..

Note : if you are a good liar, you can never go wrong with naija girls..

Guy ..

Naija girls love liars and deceivers...

fof1:



What Do U Mean by ...'Look Hot' as a Single Mother,Pls?

IYvonne Jegede is a single mum... Genevive is a single mum and they are hoter than many unmarried teenage ladies.

BigDawsNet:
The message is not for me...

I'm super attractive,

2-3 ladies hit on me daily

So I will pass

Pass me some jazz boss

InvertedHammer:

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Single mothers' market dey move o especially in the cities.

They appear more calm and responsible than your average iPhone hugging, ill-mannered gold-diggers that litter the cities.

/

Those single mother's of today were your average blackberry hugging, I'll mannered gold diggers of yesterday, so you're getting the same type of girl with extra liabilities.

Why would a single guy not want a single woman. Don't get it.

yanabasee1:
The only thing you can do to be attractive before anyone is to have money....


Your confidence will fail you when you carry yourself around rich folks

This honest truth is honestly honest.

yanabasee1:



How does insecurity relates to the nonsense you put up there?


You can't possibly assume that poverty has a place around rich minds....

No amount of confidence can erase ones deepest mind that tells you that you are poor and should do something about it rather than pursue women....

That guy is not wise. I shake my head when I see broke people focusing their time and energy on "catching" pretty girls for sex rather than making plans on how to be valuable in life.
So annoying.

yanabasee1:
The only thing you can do to be attractive before anyone is to have money....


Your confidence will fail you when you carry yourself around rich folks

Infact they will term it as pride and decide not to help you

There is a fine line between Confidence and arrogance sadly very few know the difference

blacknoir:
There is a fine line between Confidence and arrogance sadly very few know the difference

What to you is this line?

Use am sow clothes

ford101:
how would someone know that I have money.cos the money is in the bank.i dont have a car.so what will I do to make people feel that I have money.