ezewealth:

Which part of are u noticing this, this 042 I dey stay so?

Nna come Ngwo, udi side.
I dey 9th mile.

All those drug barons wey marry fine wives keep for mansion, how many dey stay for naija?
All of dem dey for South...leave wife for their mothers.

If not for Nsukka curse, married women for dey bleep anyhow for here.

Always teaching rubbish, that pollutes human souls. I pray she receives our lord Jesus Christ and teach on salvation of souls.

Dimitarr:


I hear things like this, and i just think you guys are joking. Like once a moth... Like say na period. Abi na as you collect salary she dey knack, so the month you no collect salary no knack for you be that... Fantabolous.
And you are supposed to do what when konji catch you..... or one sexy babe in your office is giving you eye and you want to go home and cure the konji she will give you dudu osun or what...

it is well.. i hope this is not a fresh marriage because you are in for a long ride better just order for cartoon of Vaseline and dudu osun

Boss, I'm getting accustomed to the monthly thing ooo.

freedam:

Odogwu, I weak. I swear

.......
Same complaints all my friends have but some done move to buying pussy,now na their madam de run around,de complain to me.
I go jus echo "I will talk to him" and tell my niccurs "you only live once,do whatever makes you happy".
I don't want my generation of men dying off long b4 the wives like our fathers

Very very true...

Who is this low budget simi

Ogaga87:
Na person wen get joy dey enjoy sex.. Psychological, Buhari has killed many libidos.. When person dey think how to meet up with the current spike in cost of living, you say sexx go fit solve the mata, no way

I still don't know why men pay to have sex with women, be it a prostitute, side chick or girl friend. They enjoy sex more than the men. The only point in time a man enjoy it is during the ejaculation, but women enjoys it from the beginning to the ending. They need it more than men. They only pretend.

#stoppayingforsex

There are many issues bordering this sensitive topic,in as much as women are starved men too are also starved too.

Sonnobax15:

God forbid it...

In my tribe,once a married woman lays down with another man who isn't her husband,the man's or her ancestors ancestors will attack her either through their kids,or the man if he's aware of his wife's atrocities but chose to keep mute..

And you as the man who laid down with her will be the one to provide all the sacrifices..Them no dey go church reach that side

Leave that one. You never see Lion.

Them go screw your wife she go cum. All these yeye traditions no go work.

killALIEN:
Sometimes i wish i wasnt married.

Its sad seeing even people i used to look upto live in adulterous lifestyle.

Some weeks ago i was in lagos for some important assignment, extremely feeling bored i visited a hotel around that Eleganza axis.
just sitting somewhere and observing with my Rayban partially blocking my view.

Oboy, with the stuffs i saw, from both unmarried and
people i believe are married....,. the world is ending in a month or two i believe.

Loyalty is rare.

Sonnobax15:

God forbid it...

In my tribe,once a married woman lays down with another man who isn't her husband,the man's or her ancestors ancestors will attack her either through their kids,or the man if he's aware of his wife's atrocities but chose to keep mute..

And you as the man who laid down with her will be the one to provide all the sacrifices..Them no dey go church reach that side

where are you from oga����

Dotunking01:
You might be right. I feel it is not really about the sex, you just narrow it down. Broke it into monomers and picked one of the pieces which is Sex. A complete man will always be hungry for sex whenever that's if he marries a woman that takes care of her body, looks presentable, sexually attractive. I think the drift started when all our focus is on getting more doe/money without spending quality time with our wives. Most times we act like a zombie, we flow with the way the economy moves and the chase for money will never stop but managing time and scheduling your responsibility as a husband or wife is paramount so you won't favour one role over the other. Wife, trying to communicate about your sex-starvation. It is a generic situation so spill out when there is a need for Sex

On point. And in addition , most men should also try dey satisfy their wives sexually too and not be selfish. The selfishness whereby a man only care about his own satisfaction during sexual intimacy might make some women withdraw and laid back.

eastOFwest:


Marriage itself is a sex killer.

There is absolutely NOTHING romantic or sexy about the process of living a married life with all its responsibilities, children, work/life balance, financial issues, personality clash, arguments, overfarmiliarity etc. NOTHING!

That is why sex is often the first victim of any marriage, but couples are not being properly prepared or warned about this. Women are the first to switch off sex because women are creatures of variety. They usually get easily bored with monotony and predictability. Even a jobless man who thinks about his wife 24/7 cannot constantly reinvent himself and how he approaches sex with his wife, including the romantic things leading up to it throughout the day.

So basically, although most women would not admit it, what they actually need is a different man from time to time. When they get bored, they move on until they begin to miss some of the older ones, including their husband.

Las Las, marriage na scam.

And before anyone says, "don't men need variety too?" A man can sleep with the same woman for years without getting bored, that is if she remains the same woman. But women change after marriage and start attaching their availability for sex to different things, including emotions. The same sex that she was giving the guy everywhere (living room, kitchen, bedroom, ontop washing machine, under cooking pot ), freely and on demand before marriage. A man can fvck if he is not happy or if he's sick (even if he's just had an operation) but women rarely do. Small argument and she's not in the mood for sex? After so many sex rejections for different reasons and the bad feelings that it brings. Yes, a woman will reject her husband sex and still feel bad about it because, apparently, its her husband's fault that she rejected him. After so many rejections, the man go begin respect himself and stay away from that issue. There's only so much rejection a man can take from his wife especially in a place like Nigeria where alternative women are readily and cheaply available. Also a man can have variety outside and still manage to give his wife sex at home if their sex life is still alive. Most women cannot emotionally do that.

I can go on and on.

Bottom life is, as far as I'm concerned, consistent hot sex life and marriage are incompatible.

Of course there rare cases where the woman has low sex drive, cu.m's quite easily and is totally satisfied with having sex once a month or so when she is ovulating and her libido is a bit up. But take it from me, no husband can satisfy a wife who has high sex drive (especially those ones that you can actually smell the musk a bit when they are wet). No one man can satisfy such and that is why out forefathers had all those Juju and taboos, so that fear of death or madness will keep such in check.

you make a very strong point and case....pls what advice do u have for us that believe "sex outside marriage is a sin" and that monogamous relationship is the only thing that is not a sin??

And if we don't comply with these that we would burn in the lake of fire forever.....

WibusJaga:

That's no good enough reason to cheat.
So sex should now be like food; 3 square meals sex a day, morning afternoon & night.
Just tell us you are a Nympho & would cheat on your husband.

Comprehension issues.

So someone is sex starved means they want sex three times a day?

You might not agree with someone yet your rebuttal is sensible.

Who is this minister of women affairs talking?

killALIEN:
Sometimes i wish i wasnt married.

Its sad seeing even people i used to look upto live in adulterous lifestyle.

Some weeks ago i was in lagos for some important assignment, extremely feeling bored i visited a hotel around that Eleganza axis.
just sitting somewhere and observing with my Rayban partially blocking my view.

Oboy, with the stuffs i saw, from both unmarried and
people i believe are married....,. the world is ending in a month or two i believe.

Trust me the rate at which married men commit adultery is so alarming, funnest part is that I still see unmarried men mingling with unfaithful married men in my office.( It's government parastatal office so it common)
I do feel they're just encouraging we youths wrongly to do the same after we get married, but I've always pray God should help me to not live such lifestyle in my marriage. Amen !

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freedam:
And my own wife prefers to have sex once a month.
Chaaai. This life no balance oooo

Be rest assured she is cheating on you and your sex is becoming boring to her as the other guy is all she desires when she is with you.

Start investigating. And when you have sex, be very adventurous. Tell her to flip here, flip there, do this, do dat and try all positions you can learn. She will begin to respond and unleash the sexual tiger in her.

Beat the guy to his game and sit her down. A lot of times, Nigerian men don't perform as much as they ought to with their wives when it comes to sex. They are afraid to tell her to do wild stuff, lose weight, act slutty indoors with them etc. They'd rather do that with their side chicks.

So if the side chick is getting the most of you, your wife would look for a replacement to sink her sexual deprivation. Turn her into your indoor side chick and f her brains out. But treat her with respect in between and not like a po*nstar. Porn movies lie a lot.

And if she wants head, give her head. If she wants to be hung on the shower wall like a sponge, be her SpongeBob. If she wants to be tied, be her kidnapper etc.

If she is hitting 35 upwards, her libido is at its peak for the next 20 yrs. So that's where you'd need a lot of exercise and physical strength becos that's when she becomes extremely addicted to sex

So enjoy her youth while it lasts

Most comments here are from singles. Marriage no be relationship. When you are single sex is a big deal, you can have sex all through the month. But when you are married, omoh you go shock say the urge no be like b4

Sonnobax15:

God forbid it...

In my tribe,once a married woman lays down with another man who isn't her husband,the man's or her ancestors ancestors will attack her either through their kids,or the man if he's aware of his wife's atrocities but chose to keep mute..

And you as the man who laid down with her will be the one to provide all the sacrifices..Them no dey go church reach that side

So wat happens to a married man who lays with another woman, doesn't the ancestors strike him also?

Fiscus105:



What about boyfriends who will keep delaying to go into marriage with their girlfriends, dating for more than 5 yrs and for no tangible reasons?

Yeah, you got a Point..But
As a Lady, if ur BF wants to Wife you, you will know..
Same as guys, if ur GF likes you to Marry her, you will know..
People just Pretend!
I Laugh when I hear words 'He/she wasted my time'..

It's the fault of the women. Most times, men do not know what exactly those beings want and how they want it, although I feel this should always be discussed by spouses.

It's the fault of the men. They're always feeling busy, chasing the bag, showing lackadaisical attitudes and seeking better treat outside.

See finish no good mehn... Na the oga kpatakpata be that.

True! But another thing is some of them have this stupid pride, which make their husband distance themselves from their wives

apart from sex


is there any other thing to expect from NIGERIAN women?

AdaAwka1:


So wat happens to a married man who lays with another woman, doesn't the ancestors strike him also?

Help me Ask Him!!
Dat Culture/AncestorsSh*t Doesn't Work again!!
When a wife cheats, some Men Families visits native doctors, same as when a husband cheat and Wife goes Diabolical..
It's not about any Yeye Traditions!!..

WHO SEX HELP?

ogbuefi677:

Na so my own madam de do.
Until I threaten her I will start buying pussy,she'll start bringing it.
And no be say she no de enjoy am oo,na she go first come,sleep off with a smile.
But I don't like d fact that I have to coerce her b4 she goes down with me.
I done warn am tire of d risk she's taking but she no wan hear,cos na like this the man go go do outside,them girls go ride you thoroughly like hired bicycle, you go get stuck.
No be say she go claim tired,2 kids,2 house helps.Her work comes maybe twice in a month
Same complaints all my friends have but some done move to buying pussy,now na their madam de run around,de complain to me.
I go jus echo "I will talk to him" and tell my niccurs "you only live once,do whatever makes you happy".
I don't want my generation of men dying off long b4 the wives like our fathers

Check all the Afonja guys in your neighbourhood. Some are servicing her on your behalf.

Trust me.

Antoeni:
"Ladies If your primary objective is to look sexy...
you will only attract guys whose primary objective is to have sex"

...And after the sex, what next?!!... Nigga will move on!

CocaineLord:
Very very true...

The last sex starved married woman I was with complained bitterly about her husband not sucking her pussy...She even said her husband is a one minute man..

I really had pity on her and sucked her adorable fresh pussy vigorously....I sucked her till she squirts on my face... After that,I bleeped her mosquito style and she came about four times..

If you're a married woman and you're sex starved,you can PM me

I'm very secretive so no cause for alarm.

Thank you

Eyah... you sucked the same pvssy, his dick has splashed cum in...several times. Yuck.

viviangist:
Relationship expert, Blessing Okoro is of the opinion that a lot of married women are sex-starved by their husbands and this makes them cheat.

She shared this thought on her Instagram page. Read what she wrote below. .

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Source: https://www.instagram.com/p/CTQW1_VoDs7/

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