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Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by benson81(m): 11:35am On Sep 01, 2021
Married women also starve their husbands.its happens to both genders. By the way is it not this same Blessing Okoro who was arrested for claiming another person's house is hers for which see was arrested.

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Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by Hamiltonii: 11:36am On Sep 01, 2021
I don fúck them tire. It is the sweetest sex any young man can have. Very sensual and addictive.

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Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by Fiscus105(m): 11:37am On Sep 01, 2021
Vinnie2000:



Yeah, you got a Point..But
As a Lady, if ur BF wants to Wife you, you will know..
Same as guys, if ur GF likes you to Marry her, you will know..
People just Pretend!
I Laugh when I hear words 'He/she wasted my time'.. sad


You never know how some people are heartless, i know a friend who is married but moved to another city, pretending as a single, my friend went as far as going to the girl's parents, that he really wanted to marry her, put the girl to learn chemist, and assisted her and parents alot, financially. Yet my friend knw he was playing the girl. My friend "last last abandoned the girl.

If you are the lady that a guy has gone to that extent, wont you convince? Alot of such scenarios o

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Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by Angelfrost(m): 11:42am On Sep 01, 2021
A lot of women keep men at arm's length during dating and courtship, with the man nearly getting mad in his hunger to get in there... After wedding, the man gets his fill of the sex (most guys get over the sex thing after a few years. FACT), and is just content to be a husband and father, providing all they need in the home.

Strangely, this is the point the sleeping or latent sex drive awakens in the women... And BAM! The man is no more sexy, romantic, and interested in sex... So, time to look elsewhere to sate the consuming lust.

This is all too common everywhere.

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Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by Brushstrokes20: 11:43am On Sep 01, 2021
Spot on!
Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by tomgold4u: 11:44am On Sep 01, 2021
Thank you Okoro for saying the truth.
Many married women are sex starved, expecially in the hands of so called Pastors, Ministers and Su. Your voice is your weapon, to bring changes. Fact shocked

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Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by Scamperlee(m): 11:45am On Sep 01, 2021
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Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by fieryblitz(m): 11:49am On Sep 01, 2021
Sonnobax15:
grin
God forbid it...

In my tribe,once a married woman lays down with another man who isn't her husband,the man's or her ancestors ancestors will attack her either through their kids,or the man if he's aware of his wife's atrocities but chose to keep mute..

And you as the man who laid down with her will be the one to provide all the sacrifices..Them no dey go church reach that side undecided
A certain married woman from your tribe will try it and when nothing happens she will make it her day job.

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Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by ogbuefi677(m): 11:52am On Sep 01, 2021
KingOfAllIgbos:


Check all the Afonja guys in your neighbourhood. Some are servicing her on your behalf.

Trust me. grin
Lol.Such things don't shake me.
But it is a know fact say na una ppl both man and woman dey loose pass for the whole of Africa.
Na 2 of your sisters dey inside their husband house de curse themselves over married yerobber actor on front page yesterday grin
Just tell me one notable yerobber oil super that is on his/her first husband/wife?
The ones you call actresses are practically doing full blown prostitution from their husbands house,all of them done marry ,divorce 5 times.
Tinubu impregnated 2 different women while marrying thug remi.
Obasanjo de answer Christian but e get 7 wives.
No let me start with you oo
Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by Brushstrokes20: 11:52am On Sep 01, 2021
Very true ... My jaw dropped when a married woman told me she hasn't been intimate with her husband for 3 years shocked
Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by Truvelisback(m): 11:55am On Sep 01, 2021
It's true.
Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by CHoccolaTE: 11:56am On Sep 01, 2021
ogbuefi677:

Na so my own madam de do.
Until I threaten her I will start buying pussy,she'll start bringing it.
And no be say she no de enjoy am oo,na she go first come,sleep off with a smile.
But I don't like d fact that I have to coerce her b4 she goes down with me.
I done warn am tire of d risk she's taking but she no wan hear,cos na like this the man go go do outside,them girls go ride you thoroughly like hired bicycle, you go get stuck.
No be say she go claim tired,2 kids,2 house helps.Her work comes maybe twice in a month
Same complaints all my friends have but some done move to buying pussy,now na their madam de run around,de complain to me.
I go jus echo "I will talk to him" and tell my niccurs "you only live once,do whatever makes you happy".
I don't want my generation of men dying off long b4 the wives like our fathers grin

Lies
Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by CHoccolaTE: 11:57am On Sep 01, 2021
CocaineLord:
Very very true...

The last sex starved married woman I was with complained bitterly about her husband not sucking her pussy...She even said her husband is a one minute man..

I really had pity on her and sucked her adorable fresh pussy vigorously....I sucked her till she squirts on my face... After that,I bleeped her mosquito style and she came about four times..


You too dey lie

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Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by CHoccolaTE: 11:57am On Sep 01, 2021
So many liars on this thread, tueh.

Tufiakwa

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Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by Fiscus105(m): 11:58am On Sep 01, 2021
Angelfrost:
A lot of women keep men at arm's length during dating and courtship, with the man nearly getting mad in his hunger to get in there... After wedding, the man gets his fill of the sex (most guys get over the sex thing after a few years. FACT), and is just content to be a husband and father, providing all they need in the home.

Strangely, this is the point the sleeping or latent sex drive awakens in the women... And BAM! The man is no more sexy, romantic, and interested in sex... So, time to look elsewhere to date the consuming lust.

This is all too common everywhere.


You want to go out to consume lust? Yet someone daughter is in ur custody being starved day and night yet she must be faithful to you

Put urself in that shoe bro.
Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by KingOfAllIgbos: 12:00pm On Sep 01, 2021
ogbuefi677:

Lol.Such things don't shake me.
But it is a know fact say na una ppl both man and woman dey loose pass for the whole of Africa.
Na 2 of your sisters dey inside their husband house de curse themselves over married yerobber actor on front page yesterday grin
Just tell me one notable yerobber oil super that is on his/her first husband/wife?
The ones you call actresses are practically doing full blown prostitution from their husbands house,all of them done marry ,divorce 5 times.
Tinubu impregnated 2 different women while marrying thug remi.
Obasanjo de answer Christian but e get 7 wives.
No let me start with you oo

He no shake you yet you dey cry. grin

Na yamlegged women dey loose pass. Ask your god Nnamdi Kanu wey talk say 99% of them are olosho.

I don screw them tire especially the married ones. Na una foolish enough to pay huge bride price for our leftovers nah. grin

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Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by TheSexLover(m): 12:02pm On Sep 01, 2021
Rickylambert:
You not a good friend!
Be careful!

How am I not a good friend
Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by omooba969(m): 12:03pm On Sep 01, 2021
Sex Sex Sex Sex ....kilode wón fi sé yín ni? undecided

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Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by TheSexLover(m): 12:05pm On Sep 01, 2021
freedam:

See wahala. My own go dey talk sey e no like or fancy sex at all. Na only if i give am money e dey respond wella.

But she don born pikin ba

And moreover u need to play her some lyrics oo

Mk e no reach 3month b4 u chop food o
Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by Angelfrost(m): 12:07pm On Sep 01, 2021
Fiscus105:



You want to go out to consume lust? Yet someone daughter is in ur custody being starved day and night yet she must be faithful to you

Put urself in that shoe bro.

Lol... Did you really read that carefully??! Or you were all too much in a hurry to be defensive??! grin

I merely painted an everyday scenario without taking sides! Matter of fact, that scenario happens both ways (same thing can happen equally to men and women).

Sex drive always dims in marriages... Some times it happens to men likely due to stress, worries, career demands, etc. It also happens in women (child birth demands, hormonal changes, childhood trauma, etc)! Over-familiarity can cause both to be less sexually attracted to each other, leading to lust for what is outside.

This is the reality faced by married people! The wisdom, maturity, and mutual respect to handle it makes the difference between those happily married for decades and those bitterly divorcing after a few years...

Don't take my words for it... Do some research. Ask around!!! I take no sides, and I come in peace!

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Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by elokason: 12:08pm On Sep 01, 2021
This matter sef? Well lets be watching to know the reality!
Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by mealdred: 12:08pm On Sep 01, 2021
Her write up is a case study of Tega
Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by Angelfrost(m): 12:09pm On Sep 01, 2021
CHoccolaTE:


You too dey lie

Don't mind the Porn-addict!!! undecided
Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by Fiscus105(m): 12:11pm On Sep 01, 2021
Angelfrost:


Lol... Did you really read that carefully??! Or you were all too much in a hurry to be defensive??! grin

I merely painted an everyday scenario without taking sides! Matter of fact, that scenario happens both ways (same thing can happen equally to men and women).

Sex drive always dims in marriages... Some times it happens to men likely due to stress, worries, career demands, etc. It also happens in women (child birth demands, hormonal changes, childhood trauma, etc)! Over-familiarity can cause both to be less sexually attracted to each other, leading to lust for what is outside.

This is the reality faced by married people! The wisdom, maturity, and mutual respect to handle it makes the difference between those happily married for decades and those bitterly divorcing after a few years...

Don't take my words for it... Do some research. Ask around!!! I take no sides, and I come in peace!


Hope you read OP but you commented? Also i biliv you know how to comment appropriately, The post is about how wives are being sex starved and not about how couples (man and woman) go out to consume lust

In the scenario, its husbands that goes out to and abandoned wives.
Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by luizpippo(m): 12:12pm On Sep 01, 2021
Sonnobax15:
grin
God forbid it...

In my tribe,once a married woman lays down with another man who isn't her husband,the man's or her ancestors ancestors will attack her either through their kids,or the man if he's aware of his wife's atrocities but chose to keep mute..

And you as the man who laid down with her will be the one to provide all the sacrifices..Them no dey go church reach that side undecided

What tribe is that?

An attack that leaves the accused to affect innocent people
Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by kay29000(m): 12:12pm On Sep 01, 2021
Divoc19:
Lol, true.
Men are too busy looking for money and they get very tired when they get home grin

Exactly. This is sums it up. Last week, my girl told me she needed something...She's a great girl to me, and she rarely asks for anything, so I promised to get her the thing. it took me three days to grind and get that thing for her. When she came to spend the night after I got her the thing, I couldn't even do anything...I was so freaking tired. Lol. I now wonder how married men do it. E no easy
Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by GeneralPula: 12:16pm On Sep 01, 2021
eastOFwest:


Marriage itself is a sex killer.

There is absolutely NOTHING romantic or sexy about the process of living a married life with all its responsibilities, children, work/life balance, financial issues, personality clash, arguments, overfarmiliarity etc. NOTHING!

That is why sex is often the first victim of any marriage, but couples are not being properly prepared or warned about this. Women are the first to switch off sex because women are creatures of variety. They usually get easily bored with monotony and predictability. Even a jobless man who thinks about his wife 24/7 cannot constantly reinvent himself and how he approaches sex with his wife, including the romantic things leading up to it throughout the day.

So basically, although most women would not admit it, what they actually need is a different man from time to time. When they get bored, they move on until they begin to miss some of the older ones, including their husband.

Las Las, marriage na scam.

And before anyone says, "don't men need variety too?" A man can sleep with the same woman for years without getting bored, that is if she remains the same woman. But women change after marriage and start attaching their availability for sex to different things, including emotions. The same sex that she was giving the guy everywhere (living room, kitchen, bedroom, ontop washing machine, under cooking pot grin ), freely and on demand before marriage. A man can fvck if he is not happy or if he's sick (even if he's just had an operation) but women rarely do. Small argument and she's not in the mood for sex? After so many sex rejections for different reasons and the bad feelings that it brings. Yes, a woman will reject her husband sex and still feel bad about it because, apparently, its her husband's fault that she rejected him. After so many rejections, the man go begin respect himself and stay away from that issue. There's only so much rejection a man can take from his wife especially in a place like Nigeria where alternative women are readily and cheaply available. Also a man can have variety outside and still manage to give his wife sex at home if their sex life is still alive. Most women cannot emotionally do that.

I can go on and on.

Bottom life is, as far as I'm concerned, consistent hot sex life and marriage are incompatible.

Of course there rare cases where the woman has low sex drive, cu.m's quite easily and is totally satisfied with having sex once a month or so when she is ovulating and her libido is a bit up. But take it from me, no husband can satisfy a wife who has high sex drive (especially those ones that you can actually smell the musk a bit when they are wet). No one man can satisfy such and that is why out forefathers had all those Juju and taboos, so that fear of death or madness will keep such in check.

Confam..

That’s why Nature itself didn’t tell any man to get married to any woman..
Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by kay29000(m): 12:17pm On Sep 01, 2021
freedam:
And my own wife prefers to have sex once a month.
Chaaai. This life no balance oooo

Wow! Only once a week? Damn! How do you survive? Once a week would have been better.
Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by kay29000(m): 12:19pm On Sep 01, 2021
ogbuefi677:

You are pretending you don't know 99% of women use sex as a bargaining chip even in marriages.

Exactly. It is almost worse when they marry.

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Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by Angelfrost(m): 12:20pm On Sep 01, 2021
Fiscus105:



Hope you read OP but you commented? Also i biliv you know how to comment appropriately, The post is about how wives are being sex starved and not about how couples (man and woman) go out to consume lust

In the scenario, its husbands that goes out to and abandoned wives.


I explained this too...

It's a two-way thing:
1. The man goes out due to loss of interest in his wife (Death of mutual attraction).
2. The man doesn't go anywhere, simply loses complete interest in sex largely due to career demands, diminished testosterone, mental stress choking out his sex drive, etc.

Both are real, and happening all around us as I type this. This also happens to women!

I also proffered solutions... If there is love and mutual respect, the above issues outlined above can be resolved by mutual and concerted efforts. But that will only happen where both partners are open about these sensitive issues. Not the one being sexually starved keeping it to him or herself while it causes them to drift apart, till the starved one ends up in the arms of a stranger.

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Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by BIDOO(m): 12:21pm On Sep 01, 2021
SmellySperm:
She's right. Most of them are sex starved and they're the cause of it

A married woman told me her husband doesn't touch her anymore. I had to quit after 3times of knacking her when she confessed she's married.
Bro's please reduce the intake of weed grin.

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Re: Blessing Okoro: A Lot Of Married Women Are Sex Starved - Relationship Expert by Mekudi: 12:23pm On Sep 01, 2021
TheSexLover:


Naso my own bin dey do oo

If no b say I changed am for her... Tell her say mk we kukuma dey like that without sex n mk I hear pip wen I look outside b4 she come dey free me puns
that's what most of them do

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