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Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by Nobody: 7:33pm On Sep 06, 2021
Creative writing pays cool
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by Yusufisraelj(m): 7:34pm On Sep 06, 2021
Iyaebe:
Mind the business that pays your bills or you apply some techniques to make sure she gets caught,don't bring yourself out else it won't be funny.

What kind of friendship do you seek? A place where people look out for your best interest and are direct or speak to you subliminally on critical issue?
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by Yusufisraelj(m): 7:37pm On Sep 06, 2021
tidalstorm:
If your friend na simp, las las the guy go dey fight you if you tell am.

Na the girl sef go dey ginger the guy for your front.

It depends on the guy, because most people will take the words of their father and girlfriend before a friend.

True but na werey guy be that.
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by Nobody: 7:40pm On Sep 06, 2021
Yusufisraelj:


What kind of friendship do you seek? A place where people look out for your best interest and are direct or speak to you subliminally on critical issue?

This is a complex situation which can lead to a disastrous ending,I'm just telling him to be very careful and apply wisdom if he decides to let his friend know (which is the best thing to do).It's always wise and advisable to think of the consequences that follows every actions we decide to take over issues.Maybe my comment was misunderstood.
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by Yusufisraelj(m): 7:48pm On Sep 06, 2021
Iyaebe:
This is a complex situation which can lead to a disastrous ending,I'm just telling him to be very careful and apply wisdom if he decides to let his friend know (which is the best thing to do).It's always wise and advisable to think of the consequences that follows every actions we decide to take over issues.Maybe my comment was misunderstood.

Absolutely it was, initially you were sounding as though it was a crime to look out for a friend. But it's all adding up now with what you've just said, and it's better this way giving a more grounded perspective.

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Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by EricSmallz(m): 8:06pm On Sep 06, 2021
The Story is Fake. You are not a Medical practitioner anything. If you were, you cannot write this rubbish here. It's against the ethics of the profession
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by babtoundey(m): 8:09pm On Sep 06, 2021
You're a pro at forming fiction. Do you work in the fictional department of Nollywood?

Though you tried to make it look real, but I smelt the corcontion as soon as I read the first two lines?
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by Emperormartin(m): 8:19pm On Sep 06, 2021
Davash222:
Please save a brother from this impending disaster.


Femail gender is something else. You dey lash father and son. Tufiakwa!




Those dating Nigerian girls, my prayers are with you guys.
It can also be the other way round. I've seen a nigga that lash mother and daughter. E be tins
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by 1billi(m): 8:19pm On Sep 06, 2021
About Confidentiality and privacy in healthcare

It is the right of an individual that his/her personal and medical information is kept private or confidential. Such delicate and confidential information about the individual should only be in between him and the doctor, physician, healthcare or health insurance company.. quote author=Maxvasia post=105550475]So i am a Medical Doctor who has been seeing patients a lot today. Today was uncharacteristically busy (Guess it's because of the ongoing strike).

This young lady walks into my office with a man old enough to be her father. This is not the issue. Here is the issue:

The lady is a fiancee to my friend, a relationship my friend let me in on just 2 months ago. They are engaged.

I felt i knew this lady's face as it looked so familiar. It was my her. I looked again at the pics of her my friend sent to me and it matched.

Here is the more shocking thing: The man she walked in with was MY FRIEND'S father. Another shock is that they came for a termination of pregnancy. Of course i turned them down politely. Neither of them know or have met me before. They havo no idea i know them.

What do you think? Should i let my guy in on it? I'd appreciate as many comments as possible. I pray many people see this so that I'll have as many angles as possible. [/quote]
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by Hanibbal(m): 8:24pm On Sep 06, 2021
Ikillbrokehoes:
Zzor aka rozcol, why are you like this? you will never change.

Why is that lady always opening new accts and would deactivate again.
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by Savedday: 8:26pm On Sep 06, 2021
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

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Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by dontrulee: 8:29pm On Sep 06, 2021
Maxvasia:
So i am a Medical Doctor who has been seeing patients a lot today. Today was uncharacteristically busy (Guess it's because of the ongoing strike).

This young lady walks into my office with a man old enough to be her father. This is not the issue. Here is the issue:

The lady is a fiancee to my friend, a relationship my friend let me in on just 2 months ago. They are engaged.

I felt i knew this lady's face as it looked so familiar. It was my her. I looked again at the pics of her my friend sent to me and it matched.

Here is the more shocking thing: The man she walked in with was MY FRIEND'S father. Another shock is that they came for a termination of pregnancy. Of course i turned them down politely. Neither of them know or have met me before. They havo no idea i know them.

What do you think? Should i let my guy in on it? I'd appreciate as many comments as possible. I pray many people see this so that I'll have as many angles as possible.
.

Have you forgotten the rule of confidentiality?
As a doctor, you keep such informations to yourself.
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by Nemesis0147(m): 8:32pm On Sep 06, 2021
Iyaebe:
This is a complex situation which can lead to a disastrous ending,I'm just telling him to be very careful and apply wisdom if he decides to let his friend know (which is the best thing to do).It's always wise and advisable to think of the consequences that follows every actions we decide to take over issues.Maybe my comment was misunderstood.
get the f*ck out!!!!
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by Polynek(m): 8:42pm On Sep 06, 2021
If at all Dix story is true, OP You know wat to do, you ask ur colleagues who are in dsame profession with you, u can also meet some senior doctors, you ll get a valuable advice. Dix is not too strange, doctors de run am 24/7
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by Nemesis0147(m): 8:45pm On Sep 06, 2021
Polynek:
If at all Dix story is true, OP You know wat to do, you ask ur colleagues who are in dsame profession with you, u can also meet some senior doctors, you ll get a valuable advice. Dix is not too strange, doctors de run am 24/7
ask who?
Oga he should tell his friend...
Too bad that he doesn’t have any evidence!!
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by Demigod22: 8:45pm On Sep 06, 2021
This is terrible. What is wrong with our world? I am gradually losing hope in meaningful relationship with opposite gender.
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by Polynek(m): 8:48pm On Sep 06, 2021
Nemesis0147:
ask who?
Oga he should tell his friend...
Too bad that he doesn’t have any evidence!!
Remember the ethics and Norms of d profession, such information sopox to b kept secret, He can loose His licence if Him no de careful.
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by DaInferno(m): 8:48pm On Sep 06, 2021
Davash222:
Please save a brother from this impending disaster.


Femail gender is something else. You dey lash father and son. Tufiakwa!




Those dating Nigerian girls, my prayers are with you guys.
abeg, show me wo u d date
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by ProfGday(m): 9:15pm On Sep 06, 2021
IF YOUR MAMA,FIANCÉE, FRIENDS KNEW WHAT YOU'VE LICK WITH YOUR MOUTH,THEY AIN'T GOING TO LET YOU KISS/PECK THEM AGAIN...


ARE YOU PROUD OF YOURSELF NOW?
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by ProfGday(m): 9:15pm On Sep 06, 2021
ProfGday:
IF YOUR MAMA,FIANCÉE, FRIENDS KNEW WHAT YOU'VE LICKED WITH YOUR MOUTH,THEY AIN'T GOING TO LET YOU KISS/PECK THEM AGAIN...


ARE YOU PROUD OF YOURSELF NOW?
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by Villagedude: 9:17pm On Sep 06, 2021
The shock needs evidence, gather enough before telling your guy anything.
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by Palazee(m): 9:28pm On Sep 06, 2021
Justbehave:
Only a hoe like her will say this.
by there comment you shall know them
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by Nobody: 9:35pm On Sep 06, 2021
it's not abnormal to want to lump together certain people, for the action of one. Yet, common sense entails, you understand bad people cut across gender, tribe, or religion.
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by ibtommy(m): 9:41pm On Sep 06, 2021
Maxvasia:
So i am a Medical Doctor who has been seeing patients a lot today. Today was uncharacteristically busy (Guess it's because of the ongoing strike).

This young lady walks into my office with a man old enough to be her father. This is not the issue. Here is the issue:

The lady is a fiancee to my friend, a relationship my friend let me in on just 2 months ago. They are engaged.

I felt i knew this lady's face as it looked so familiar. It was my her. I looked again at the pics of her my friend sent to me and it matched.

Here is the more shocking thing: The man she walked in with was MY FRIEND'S father. Another shock is that they came for a termination of pregnancy. Of course i turned them down politely. Neither of them know or have met me before. They havo no idea i know them.

What do you think? Should i let my guy in on it? I'd appreciate as many comments as possible. I pray many people see this so that

I'll have as many angles as possib.

Were you not taught the essense of medical confidentiality? Leave them to their fate. You can find a way of helping your friend to get rid of the lady rather than spewing it all out on social media.
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by Kingcalls: 9:58pm On Sep 06, 2021
Maxvasia:
So i am a Medical Doctor who has been seeing patients a lot today. Today was uncharacteristically busy (Guess it's because of the ongoing strike).

This young lady walks into my office with a man old enough to be her father. This is not the issue. Here is the issue:

The lady is a fiancee to my friend, a relationship my friend let me in on just 2 months ago. They are engaged.

I felt i knew this lady's face as it looked so familiar. It was my her. I looked again at the pics of her my friend sent to me and it matched.

Here is the more shocking thing: The man she walked in with was MY FRIEND'S father. Another shock is that they came for a termination of pregnancy. Of course i turned them down politely. Neither of them know or have met me before. They havo no idea i know them.

What do you think? Should i let my guy in on it? I'd appreciate as many comments as possible. I pray many people see this so that I'll have as many angles as possible.

U will feel very bad if something goes wrong in the future ...it will hunt u for the rest of ur life ....u will regret not telling him
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by Bennysam: 10:12pm On Sep 06, 2021
Iyaebe:
Mind the business that pays your bills or you apply some techniques to make sure she gets caught,don't bring yourself out else it won't be funny.
Evil people like you is the reason innocent people die untimely, will you still be friend with this guy if you found he new about this and didn't tell you?
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by Kingvitalisdiho: 10:15pm On Sep 06, 2021
Exposed them to your friends and your own daddy
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by flokii: 11:37pm On Sep 06, 2021
Things are really happening in this world we live in..

@OP you can use a proxy to warn your friend, let that informant tell him to be on the lookout that his fiancee has something with his dad and might be pregnant for him. If na smart guy he will know how to handle the matter but if na simp, he'll slack and fall into wrong marriage. You can't let him know the source is from you.

Your friend deserves to know.. God wanted to expose the girl to your friend through you the unknown friend.
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by flokii: 11:48pm On Sep 06, 2021
dontrulee:
.

Have you forgotten the rule of confidentiality?
As a doctor, you keep such informations to yourself.

He obviously has a conscience and has an obligation to save his friend from taking a wrong step in life.. it's situations like this that result in paternity fraud, divorce, bitterness etc.

Let him save his friend from trouble in future.
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by INCREDIBLE007(m): 12:00am On Sep 07, 2021
serious gbege
na gin
him be this o

bros
may God give you wisdom on what to do
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by lilyheaven: 1:12am On Sep 07, 2021
Advice your friend to go for pre- marital status test.
Fill- in the form for him, including pregnancy test.

Send them to laboratory, while you send the form to lab, the lady won’t see you.


Once the result is out, she would have to explain who got her pregnant.

I’m sure she has been sleeping with father in law to be, that’s why she wants to terminate it, if not, she would have hanged the pregnancy on your guy.
Re: Guys Really Need To Be VERY Careful With The Kind Ladies They Engage!! by lilyheaven: 1:19am On Sep 07, 2021
ibtommy:


Were you not taught the essense of medical confidentiality? Leave them to their fate. You can find a way of helping your friend to get rid of the lady rather than spewing it all out on social media.
Do you know who OP is?
Do you know his office?
Do you know his friend, he is talking about?
Do you know the lady?
Do you know his location?
If you do , I don’t.

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