WildPrimate:
Oh men
Leave the poor dog alone lol

Kennyking1234:
Going through the book. Enjoying it so far. Dropping some points soon. The book is banned in the US, that makes it more interesting.
download link': https://ng1lib.org/book/2329793/349711

Kennyking1234:
very much agree. The book written in the 90s but even more relevant today. Plus the Nigerian factor makes it 100% more relatable.

Dizzyyish:
A bit off topic but I've kinda been following some of the 'activities' in the US' social climate and I've also been noticing some 'parallels' and similarities with America's "trajectory", Babylon and the Decline & Fall of Rome.

Their society seems to have "advanced" to the point where common sense is apparently not needed anymore, as some would say, "so progressive, it's regressive." Feelings are prioritised over logic and reason and any attempt to "invalidate" said feelings are shot down with personal attacks and shaming e.g. "Misogynist", "racist", "sexist", "homo-bi-transphobe", "bigot" and the rest.
First world problems.. when your basic needs are met, you look for "inconveniences" and turn them into problems.

"Men fight for liberty and win it with hard knocks. Their children, brought up easy, let it slip away again, poor fools. And their grandchildren are once more slaves." (A mistake China seems to be avoiding, although via authoritarian means)

They push 'depravity, debauchery, degradation and degeneration' in the form of LGBTQ+ rights, gender theory (founded by psychologist and known pedophile- John Money), critical race theory, "empowering" sex work & promiscuity, modern feminism, sex transitions for kids, "58 genders" (as well as gender being a "social structure" so anyone can identify as anything), supporting women to be single mothers, etc, in their society under the guise of "progress".
To be fair, some, maybe a lot of these things probably sounded good on paper or in their heads but is horrible in practice as well as destructive for society's morals and integrity.
Society has stigmatised many of these acts for centuries for a good reason--"sexual freedom" might sound good to some on paper but actually erodes the morals & discipline of individuals causing lower moral standards of later generations, inadvertently corroding society in turn a la Sodom and Gomorrah, (somewhat akin to a "chain reaction" ).
Perversion of any kind, I guess could be analogized with cocaine--you're convinced that it's "nice", "cool", makes you "feel good", you snuff a 'line' then eventually you get 'desensitised' to one line so you "up" the dose to two lines, get desensitised to that, up the dose again to get that "high", to be able to "get off", rinse and repeat, culminating in self destruction--like that but on a societal scale. "You don't know you're addicted until you're addicted."

"Vice, in its true light, is so deformed, that it shocks us at first sight; and would hardly ever seduce us, if it did not at first wear the mask of some virtue." - Lord Chesterfield

A progressive degradation ending with a total disappearance of high moral standards. - Aristidis Matsoukis (Agricultural University of Athens Greece)

Russia and China; two superpowers, aren't adapting these harmful ideologies, for they know the detrimental effects it has, but they simply watch, perhaps in anticipation of the eventual outcome of the double-edged sword (freedom) the US so proudly flaunts.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZMAP9Ccg2-0
(51 second video)
Vladimir Putin explains how a powerful empire (US) has a tendency to overlook little problems which "snowballs" into bigger ones.

"Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake." - Napoleon Bonaparte

America being incredibly influential in the west means if left unchecked, these 'philosophies' slowly seep into other (western) countries, they slowly integrate it into their media for example, slowly desensitizing other countries and cultures, normalising it, making them "tolerant" (of course, they don't do that with countries [or religions] that draw a hard line i.e. Islamic countries, China, Russia, etc) but other countries do have a tendency to be more accepting of certain ignominious beliefs, especially in this age of social media.
That's why one must stand by their morals, integrity, for what is right, against what is clearly wrong--the Americans didn't, so they legalised gay marriage, not realising the "flood gates" they just opened, and a decade or two later, the 1-2% minority of their population has gained enough power to (ironically) oppress anyone who doesn't share their views.
People who spoke against this depravity, basically predicted their current social situation, but they were shamed, called trans- and homo-phobes, minimising their predictions to "slippery slope" fallacies, just as current day people are predicting the normalisation of pedophilia with organisations like NAMBLA (an actual movement promoting pedophilia).

If you see someone doing evil it's your obligation to stop them. You need to actually be brave and stand up to evil if you want things to go well. When good people stop others from doing evil, evil people will think twice before they try it again on someone else. Also, people who are about to do evil won't because they are afraid of the consequences and that keeps all of us safer. Everything gets a lot safer when good people don't let evil people just walk all over them. Cowards empower the criminals and allowing them to become more dangerous and competent at their craft. Criminals need practice and experience. Every time they succeed they get a little better. It's your job as a good person to stop them before they can develop. You can't just passively sit by and let this things happen, hoping they attack someone else instead of you. If everyone does that then eventually its going to be your turn. Except this time the criminals will be way more difficult to defeat because they'll have all the practice and experience of the people they took down before you while you were busy being a coward. You need to be brave or bad people will take everything from you. If you stand up for yourself on a regular basis then you'll be the one who'll have all the practice and experience and you'll be the one who is difficult to defeat. - Think Before You Sleep

stevesawo:
https://www.nairaland.com/6739248/bbnaija-im-sad-dont-know

Looking for the original definition of a Simp?, look no more, it's Tega's husband.

CaveAdullam:


The next thing will be: "I have suffered a truckload of emotional traumas when I was a young girl. I was abused and introduced into the dark world by friends I trusted. Recently, I was told by the doctor that I'm experiencing an early case of acute depression and long line of psychological problems, precisely, panic disorder, bipolar disorder and early signs of schizophrenia".

"I beg you people to forgive me because right now, I think my problem is spiritual even though I have tried various means to become a new person".

Tonnyray:
How can I get my hands on this please? Hard copy preferably.

Tonnyray:
Is it readily available in bookstores in Nigeria?

Dizzyyish:


Many women are akin to children in many ways. Children are naturally solipsistic and egocentric--I think due to the egocentrism, the world revolves around them from their view so if mental and/or emotional maturity isn't gained or instilled before adulthood, they will retain that 'narcissism' and will continue to retain it until they decide to "grow" or self improve.

Here's a "poem" I copied from a reddit thread about narcissists;
A Narcissists Prayer:

That didn't happen.

And if it did, it wasn't that bad.

And if it was, that's not a big deal.

And if it is, that's not my fault.

And if it was, I didn't mean it.

And if I did...

You deserved it.

Lots of women are good at putting up a facade a la an interviewee giving a good impression initially, but once they've gotten the job, or in this case, marriage--their true colours come out--they let themselves go after birth, they stop doing the good things that attracted you to them, for they've gotten what they're wanted so for what reasons should they continue to 'appeal' to you, should they 'kill' themselves for you because you're a 'provider'? It's your 'job' and 'duty' to provide, after all, how can one be 'entitled' to what they now 'deserve' as your wife?

Martinez39s:
The same woman saying "I never for once told him I was pregnant for him or the baby belongs to him. He assumed this on his own because we are married. I think he thinks too much and he can't blame me for this." would have feigned being offended and insulted if Nedu had asked for a DNA test and refused to assume things. The same woman would have picked offence and said "are you trying to imply that I am a slùt? Do you know the implications of your request? Don't you trust me?"

She might have even caused a quarrel that will almost destroy the marriage. Take women seriously at your own risk.

neyoohhh:


Not even normal in the west despite what you see in porn.

They should be arrested and made examples of.

Well to some Nigerians, the west means whatever they see in porn, so not too surprised. I hope it's false and maybe exaggerated but whoever is caught doing such should be jailed. Simple

We're men , we can't just sit idle and watch the collapse without actiing.

Report them.

CaveAdullam:


The next thing will be: "I have suffered a truckload of emotional traumas when I was a young girl. I was abused and introduced into the dark world by friends I trusted. Recently, I was told by the doctor that I'm experiencing an early case of acute depression and long line of psychological problems, precisely, panic disorder, bipolar disorder and early signs of schizophrenia".

"I beg you people to forgive me because right now, I think my problem is spiritual even though I have tried various means to become a new person".

"Nedu my darling husband, I will always love you and nothing can stop it. For those showing me love and concern, may God always remember you in your dark moments".

"I love you fams. One love! "

MJBOLT:

the future is female
https://twitter.com/Efe_philip1/status/1434447422713958412?s=20

MJBOLT:
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KiNg0G:
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I was discussing with my neighbor outside on a Saturday morning, my gal who came from school during the weekend was inside my apartment, after all been said, proceeded to go have my bath..buh was surprised my girl said my chairman called that i should meet him at his crib.

I was shocked, because this girl never answered my phone before, so i was wondering what gave her the Gods to pick my call.

I went inside, the bathroom my body nor just dey alright bros, i stepped out to the parlour, i say come, pick up your bag, oya dey go house.

She was stunned.

I smile, then i said it again, you pick up my call?...oya dey go house...we go talk later.

She been quite matured, she knows the kind of person i am...if i dey vex, i de force myself to smile..... she quietly picked her stuffs up.

No arguments or explaination of any kind from her side, because time when she go use tell me sorry....slap fit follow enter.



Fast forward to the evening time, she texted me, apologising for her mistake....i saw it some hours later.. from talk to talk, i got to realise she went back to school, that early morning.


Her parents nor even know say she dey town.




BROS, IN RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR GIRL, DON'T BE SCARED TO LOOSE IT......she gon respect that.



Happy birthday Kennyking1234



#streetdrills.

DieRich5:
I swr........I must DNA my children even if it costs, I'll take a load do da shit b4 she makes me a step father.......

All dis female is mad, if u still believe in love or soulmate ur mad too..........
Dem no even Dy fear again,hmmmm married women Dy cheat ooooo

BLOODYSPERM:
Hmmm
May we not face these dramatic predicament of these useless Simp calling himself an husband

https://www.nairaland.com/6740771/bbnaija-boma-apologises-tegas-husband

https://www.nairaland.com/6740801/bbnaija-tega-cries-apologises-husband

CaveAdullam:
Luminouz is back!

Qasak:

Death to simps they are the ones messing with the status quo of things.

luminouz:


Yes hommie...


I got so much gist for y'all but will take some time...



I missed here.
Respect to the OGs. I saw your mentions when I came back.


N.B: The Tega episode and that Nedu's wife Saga left a sour taste in my mudafuckin mouth. Especially that BS the Nedu's wife dey spray.
Mehnn... It's a sad sad world where a woman who fuçked and got pregnant for her sister's husband can come on TV and say trash...And a married woman could fuçk on BBN and say it's playacting.

Even NL feminists on FP couldn't stomach that shiit and lambasted them.