kingthreat:


Only wimps make statements like you did. You can't stand a fellow man in martial combat. You are probably a woman. If you are otherwise, you must have lived a life ostracized by male friends.

You're just a useless chest beater without any iota of brain or stamina. I won't descend so low to talk to you any further.

Gobdddd:
Strickly for the married

Good evening tweeps, my marriage is jerking. Needs a quick solution.

We married 9years ago.
She was a virgin in my Church. I am a pastor too.
Though we were not in the same state.
She was the first woman I had sex with after our marriage.
But I noticed that she has no interest in anything called sex.
She will not deny me sex, but I do not enjoy it because she's not enthused to it.

I have tried all I could to make her love sex, but all to no avail.
If you do not demand for sex, she'll not show any interest, even if you stay one year without talking about it.
And I am 100% sure that she's not seeing any man anywhere.

I took my time to educate her from the little research I made, but she wouldn't pay any serious attention.

I querried myself as to wether I do not satisfy her, on another point, sometimes, I'd last for 10-15 mins which, according to research is not bad.

Last night, I got angry at her attitude towards it. To me, she just try to open legs for me to satisfy myself and get down.

This has affected my psyche towards her.
But apart from her low libido, she is a very wonderful and good woman to be with.

So, last night, I opened up to her once again and told her she's making me to think twice and that am not happy at her actions.

Since today, our relationship has dwindled.

Alot of things have been going through my mind.

I don't know what to do. Am confused.
I can't go to another woman and leave such a good woman that have given me 4 kids.

Pls is there any known solution?

I need help.

Them de open to you to ejaculate,you still de complain.
Na wa to you oo.
On top of that,you admit she is generally a good woman.What do you really want?
It's like this economy no de worry you at all?

The man doesn't know he's got gold. He don bellefull and now looking for futility about.

Not that she denies him. If she did, it would have been a different case. In these days some married women can't be satisfied and go to meet their ex to help oga...@ op, Gobdddd, be grateful o

Romanoff:
When you knock, the woman answers, unhindered and without conditions.

She's generally a good woman and doesn't give you headache.

You married her a virgin and can even vouch she doesn't have any lovers or ex that you have to compete with sexually.

Oga, you don't have any problem.

Take your time and go through marital issue posts on Nairaland, after reading all of them, you'll count your blessings and double your tithe.

seyz91:
You a blessed man if all these you said about her is true

Imagine being sure your wife not cheating on you or seeing another man plus you said she is a good woman and you both stayed 9years with 4kids

You are blessed!

If her sex enthusiasm is her only shortcoming, i urge you to keep going on with her and bearing it and we all have our shortcomings cuz no one is perfect

If you decided to go for another woman with high libido sorry to say she's coming in with opposite of everything your wife already is cuz its really hard out there to see or meet a woman that don't cheat on their husband or lover

I repeat! You are blessed!

Keep sensitizing her in bed the best way you can and you as well keep enjoying your sex with her as you have always been.

Sex is just sex, few minutes pleasure and you out just to relieve your stress

check if she was circumsiced, sometimes it causes something like this

I hate to give you the bad news, she's seeing someone else.

Sometimes my wife is like this, she is the choir leader in our church, In 13 years of marriage she had never initiated sex upto 20 times.

But mine is somehow different, because even when she is not in the mood, I can still send her to level 999

Gobdddd:
Strickly for the married

Good evening tweeps, my marriage is jerking. Needs a quick solution.

We married 9years ago.
She was a virgin in my Church. I am a pastor too.
Though we were not in the same state.
She was the first woman I had sex with after our marriage.
But I noticed that she has no interest in anything called sex.
She will not deny me sex, but I do not enjoy it because she's not enthused to it.

I have tried all I could to make her love sex, but all to no avail.
If you do not demand for sex, she'll not show any interest, even if you stay one year without talking about it.
And I am 100% sure that she's not seeing any man anywhere.

I took my time to educate her from the little research I made, but she wouldn't pay any serious attention.

I querried myself as to wether I do not satisfy her, on another point, sometimes, I'd last for 10-15 mins which, according to research is not bad.

Last night, I got angry at her attitude towards it. To me, she just try to open legs for me to satisfy myself and get down.

This has affected my psyche towards her.
But apart from her low libido, she is a very wonderful and good woman to be with.

So, last night, I opened up to her once again and told her she's making me to think twice and that am not happy at her actions.

Since today, our relationship has dwindled.

Alot of things have been going through my mind.

I don't know what to do. Am confused.
I can't go to another woman and leave such a good woman that have given me 4 kids.

Pls is there any known solution?

I need help.

Sex isn’t mechanical, its not by lecturing her, it’s a mood, feelings and skill. If she doesn’t like it u need to understand her better instead of making her do what u like. Find out what she also like and do that. Note she won’t open up unless she feels comfortable with you, forget ur her husband even siblings only open up when they are comfortable with the other sibling. It’s also a gradual and progressive thing. Cheers.

twosquare:
The man doesn't know he's got gold. He don bellefull and now looking for futility about.

Not that she denies him. If she did, it would have been a different case. In these days some married women can't be satisfied and go to meet their ex to help oga...@ op, Gobdddd, be grateful o

Thank God he's getting an eye opener.

Gobdddd:
Strickly for the married

Good evening tweeps, my marriage is jerking. Needs a quick solution.

We married 9years ago.
She was a virgin in my Church. I am a pastor too.
Though we were not in the same state.
She was the first woman I had sex with after our marriage.
But I noticed that she has no interest in anything called sex.
She will not deny me sex, but I do not enjoy it because she's not enthused to it.

I have tried all I could to make her love sex, but all to no avail.
If you do not demand for sex, she'll not show any interest, even if you stay one year without talking about it.
And I am 100% sure that she's not seeing any man anywhere.

I took my time to educate her from the little research I made, but she wouldn't pay any serious attention.

I querried myself as to wether I do not satisfy her, on another point, sometimes, I'd last for 10-15 mins which, according to research is not bad.

Last night, I got angry at her attitude towards it. To me, she just try to open legs for me to satisfy myself and get down.

This has affected my psyche towards her.
But apart from her low libido, she is a very wonderful and good woman to be with.

So, last night, I opened up to her once again and told her she's making me to think twice and that am not happy at her actions.

Since today, our relationship has dwindled.

Alot of things have been going through my mind.

I don't know what to do. Am confused.
I can't go to another woman and leave such a good woman that have given me 4 kids.

Pls is there any known solution?

I need help.

Good morning bro,all write up looks like u are talking about my wife,they have the mentality that sex is not important,I stayed 7months without sex with her and she did not complain,as I have a side chick doing the do when I want,bro they are too religious than Jesus,my advice is don't receive any advice from anybody even me cus u are d only one that knows where is paining u,trust me she won't change,but they are loyal so decide

Davash222:
A married pastor with 4 kids and you're still bothered about sex

With this Buhari economy, you still thinking about the quality of sex from your wife after 4 kids?

Your main concern shouldn't be about the quality of sex as a man of God. You have 4 kids, concentrate more on them and how to convert many souls to Christ. Leave quality sex for worldly people, Sir.

The complains of most men is that their wives no de gree open for them.
Here is this mumu we get the chance to de ejaculate as much as he wants,he come de look for quality.
And he said the wife is a good woman ooo

[quote author=Gobdddd post=105660528]Strickly for the married
Good evening tweeps, my marriage is jerking. Needs a quick solution.

ayomilore:
Bro. Don't spoil your marriage because of what you can fix. I heard there are some recipes that improve libido, try it, you can watch some adult films together too, try serious romance prior to your lovemaking, I believe there should be improvement...
But your wife will be good for all these abroad hustlers ooo that are scared of all these local predators..

that is a clear and present danger in marrying a virgin direct,some women are simply frigid and there is no amount of Spanish fly,vibrator or adult film that can move them,he didnt even date for some time before marriage to see if they will be compatible,the pastor has a high libido and I doubt if he could have married the lady if given the chance to test her for some months,he has hanged on for 9 years which is remarkable to be with a frigid woman and being a pastor complicates everything ,he must show good example and behavior by not testing other sweet babes,and having a side chick,which to me could be a simple solution, frigid wife or not married men has side chicks anyway,it may also be a disaster if the pastor that has managed a frigid woman for 9 years could suddenly meet someone as sexually proactive like chiamaka my side chick,hmmmm!, I doubt if he will go back to that his wife again.pls pastor hang on and continue to manage, supplement with soapy when necessary,sex is not everything.

Please, manage her like that, if she turns to what you want, you will be the one to come and complain here, as long as she lets you in manage her that way.

Gobdddd:
Strickly for the married

Good evening tweeps, my marriage is jerking. Needs a quick solution.

We married 9years ago.
She was a virgin in my Church. I am a pastor too.
Though we were not in the same state.
She was the first woman I had sex with after our marriage.
But I noticed that she has no interest in anything called sex.
She will not deny me sex, but I do not enjoy it because she's not enthused to it.

I have tried all I could to make her love sex, but all to no avail.
If you do not demand for sex, she'll not show any interest, even if you stay one year without talking about it.
And I am 100% sure that she's not seeing any man anywhere.

I took my time to educate her from the little research I made, but she wouldn't pay any serious attention.

I querried myself as to wether I do not satisfy her, on another point, sometimes, I'd last for 10-15 mins which, according to research is not bad.

Last night, I got angry at her attitude towards it. To me, she just try to open legs for me to satisfy myself and get down.

This has affected my psyche towards her.
But apart from her low libido, she is a very wonderful and good woman to be with.

So, last night, I opened up to her once again and told her she's making me to think twice and that am not happy at her actions.

Since today, our relationship has dwindled.

Alot of things have been going through my mind.

I don't know what to do. Am confused.
I can't go to another woman and leave such a good woman that have given me 4 kids.

Pls is there any known solution?

I need help.

you want to use your own hand to destroyed your marriage .......very disappointed at you, a pastor for that matter

Gobdddd:
Strickly for the married

Good evening tweeps, my marriage is jerking. Needs a quick solution.

We married 9years ago.
She was a virgin in my Church. I am a pastor too.
Though we were not in the same state.
She was the first woman I had sex with after our marriage.
But I noticed that she has no interest in anything called sex.
She will not deny me sex, but I do not enjoy it because she's not enthused to it.

I have tried all I could to make her love sex, but all to no avail.
If you do not demand for sex, she'll not show any interest, even if you stay one year without talking about it.
And I am 100% sure that she's not seeing any man anywhere.

I took my time to educate her from the little research I made, but she wouldn't pay any serious attention.

I querried myself as to wether I do not satisfy her, on another point, sometimes, I'd last for 10-15 mins which, according to research is not bad.

Last night, I got angry at her attitude towards it. To me, she just try to open legs for me to satisfy myself and get down.

This has affected my psyche towards her.
But apart from her low libido, she is a very wonderful and good woman to be with.

So, last night, I opened up to her once again and told her she's making me to think twice and that am not happy at her actions.

Since today, our relationship has dwindled.

Alot of things have been going through my mind.

I don't know what to do. Am confused.
I can't go to another woman and leave such a good woman that have given me 4 kids.

Pls is there any known solution?

I need help.

They say you can turn a wife into a hoe but you can't turn a hoe into a wife

Before penetrating use your finger to stimulate her clitoris, do this gently she will enjoy it, also suck her nipples gently, after she cums then fvvk her well.

The reason your wife is not interested in having sex with you is because you haven't made her orgasm.

Also buy LUBRICANT and use it.

You owe me money for this advice.

You can swap her with prostitute that's the only way you will realize that you have a good wife before.

Kpekus wahala

Making Love starts with pre-intimacy … tease and be stimulated that’s the problem with men in Nigeria porn won’t teach you how to nurture and make women wet but older movies will.

I remember when learnt why some envy you.

Sexual compatibility is important and people really force themselves to enjoy sex with people they don’t find attractive what their no longer intrigued or stimulated by

I love to be kissed and teased guess the kind of man you marry if you want that?

Start sucking and rubbing don’t just think of yourself … every time pamper her

It’s not always penetration first.

That’s why no matter how many risky Dey A woman yatoooo there are veins in a woman’s breast

Person wey u go drug with Spanish fly, then take sidenafil kon fvvck am like dog

Kobojunkiee:

For her to turn into a porn star in bed after 9 years and 4 kids?

shawante:
Pastor nobody is perfect.. You of all people should know that.

If low libido is her only problem then I think you can at least bear with her on that cuz am sure you have your own shortcomings which she overlookes.

At least thank God she is not cheating on you

Mumuuu man

Gobdddd:
Time without number.
She doesn't even know what she desires or likes about sex.

If found out that there's pre marital sex, my Church will cancel the marriage and make it look very dishonorable.
So,I can't risk that.

From the first day, she was afraid of it.

Never showed any interest afterwards, despite spending our honeymoon at Obudu cattle ranch.

Our last babe is 2. We have closed childbearing.

We are supposed to be catching fun.

I fully understand. Your idea is to what end is enjoying sex when your partner is not enjoying it. It is like it is one-sided and you are a person that is unselfish. That is highly admirable.

However, getting angry on her behalf for not enjoying what she should enjoy is not the way to go. You would only be creating issues where there is none and towards a good person.

Firstly, just relax. Now with the stress done, let's look at the origin of the issue and what has been sustaining it.

Men love sex more than women do and that is a fact - generally speaking. Her expectations of marriage were more of the companionship part which she is great at but not much in the intimacy part. To her, she is performing excellently as a wife. Don't then try to make her feel underrated in an area where she is already good at. She loves her man, takes care of your kids, and is the good woman for the 'man at the gates'. She already feels fulfilled.

You would prefer a better intimate experience which at the moment is not ranking high on her bucket list. To her, as long as she doesn't deprive you, she is okay. It is like, you don't eat maggi and she prepares a separate pot of soup for you EVERY TIME without considering the stress of doing so. Trying to force her to eat the miggi-less soup with you will create issues in the long run. There are two ways to go about it. To live with the status quo or to top up your bedroom skills (which I recommend).

Everyone has what they like in various things and over time, you must have gotten to hear that faint moan when you do a particular thing. Repeat that thing over and over and over. Take it as giving a kid sweet stick at every yellow tablet medicine intake. Taking time enough on your gameplay is really good as some can't really go more than 5 mins but thrusting is not the only activity you should keep at. I wouldn't want to speak more on this here as it is not the sexuality section but I can recommend a book that would help you in understanding a woman's sexuality and pleasing her sexually as best as is possible.

She cums first. Search for the pdf version online. You might need to buy it and I am sure you wouldn't mind doing so

You are a good man and are surely not inadequate. Just a bit more knowledge and you can achieve your objective of making your woman on the same wavelength as yourself in intimacy matters.

Wishing you well - Teemy

P.S Help with the kids and every other activity that could stress her out. It is actually a turn on seeing a man helping out with the chores. wink*

[quote author=Gobdddd post=105660528]Strickly for the married

BLOODDY MORAFUCKING PASTOR.

TUEEEEH ON YOUR FACE.


You are too found of Sex, stay away from Social media. it's seems you've started seeing some content that you want to practice with your wife and she is not ready for that.

4kids in the space of 9years marriage, TUALE OOOOOOO

Go back to your wife and stop all that evil imagination that you're having in your head.

Before I leave you to your Fate, TUEEEH ON YOUR FACE ONCE AGAIN. TUEEEH

Your story is similar.... truth be told if one is not in your shoes one will not understand..

Ok... first thing first.. where u guys in love before you got married... its happens very very well with virgins....

U said u have try all.. communication advise bla bla... do you understand her body language or are u someone that dont engage in pre-intimacy to simulate her...

And u do bond emotionally mentally?.. do guys have chemistry flowing?.. Physically u r having issues from ur write up... because the fact is this affects mentally... making u age on time and sickness will flow....!!

If all r lacking... u have a long way to go ....

Pa Winners don talk am unsatisfied Sex or Sexless marriage will eventually break up..

Now or years to come... If pastor talk am you should know he knows what he is saying..

You guys will have to sit down and lron things out and try and know ur mumu buttons...

Try and spoil urself ... go on vocations.. try new things to stimulate yourselves. .. if not....

You won don be ooo... and Mistakenly u fall in a hands of a woman wen sabi...... that is
*End of discussion*

Women No dey take your marriage for granted oo. Its better the fault is not from you ooo..

If man find woman that scatters his brain sooner or later he will leave.... kids dont hold them backs.... hmmmmmm!!

Gobdddd:
Strickly for the married

Good evening tweeps, my marriage is jerking. Needs a quick solution.

We married 9years ago.
She was a virgin in my Church. I am a pastor too.
Though we were not in the same state.
She was the first woman I had sex with after our marriage.
But I noticed that she has no interest in anything called sex.
She will not deny me sex, but I do not enjoy it because she's not enthused to it.

I have tried all I could to make her love sex, but all to no avail.
If you do not demand for sex, she'll not show any interest, even if you stay one year without talking about it.
And I am 100% sure that she's not seeing any man anywhere.

I took my time to educate her from the little research I made, but she wouldn't pay any serious attention.

I querried myself as to wether I do not satisfy her, on another point, sometimes, I'd last for 10-15 mins which, according to research is not bad.

Last night, I got angry at her attitude towards it. To me, she just try to open legs for me to satisfy myself and get down.

This has affected my psyche towards her.
But apart from her low libido, she is a very wonderful and good woman to be with.

So, last night, I opened up to her once again and told her she's making me to think twice and that am not happy at her actions.

Since today, our relationship has dwindled.

Alot of things have been going through my mind.

I don't know what to do. Am confused.
I can't go to another woman and leave such a good woman that have given me 4 kids.

Pls is there any known solution?

I need help.

Try to make her stay on top of You the next time You guys engage, it could help from there. It's Your duty to put her in the mood and You can if You really know what to do.

It might just be possible that you both haven't really discovered what she likes during sex, hence her low participation.

Don't give up on her, just do the work.
Everything will be alright.

jaxxy:



Sex isn’t mechanical, its not by lecturing her, it’s a mood, feelings and skill. If she doesn’t like it u need to understand her better instead of making her do what u like. Find out what she also like and do that. Note she won’t open up unless she feels comfortable with you, forget ur her husband even siblings only open up when they are comfortable with the other sibling. It’s also a gradual and progressive thing. Cheers.

Easier said, from experience their mindset is like that,no matter what you do they won't change,mine even change for a day or 2 then go back to her normal way,I can say it anywhere my wife is faithful and can pray from morning till tomorrow but for sex,na war,as a man u need to look for a side chick else u start masturbating everywhere

No marriage or family is perfect, I guess that's your own cross that you have to carry now.
But on solution:- Try ask her what she desire most, what do make her happy maybe you can exploit on that.
And if that's not working out, I guess you have to learn how to leave with that. NO MARRIAGE OR FAMILY IS PERFECT, always have that at the back of your mind... Good wife are very very scares to see nowadays. Thou am not married yet ��

Marriage needs intentionality to work. Bcox sometime the feelings may not be there. Just be patient with her, I just noticed that generally men like sex more than women. that's why every now and then they want to nack

Gobdddd:
Strickly for the married

Good evening tweeps, my marriage is jerking. Needs a quick solution.

We married 9years ago.
She was a virgin in my Church. I am a pastor too.
Though we were not in the same state.
She was the first woman I had sex with after our marriage.
But I noticed that she has no interest in anything called sex.
She will not deny me sex, but I do not enjoy it because she's not enthused to it.

I have tried all I could to make her love sex, but all to no avail.
If you do not demand for sex, she'll not show any interest, even if you stay one year without talking about it.
And I am 100% sure that she's not seeing any man anywhere.

I took my time to educate her from the little research I made, but she wouldn't pay any serious attention.

I querried myself as to wether I do not satisfy her, on another point, sometimes, I'd last for 10-15 mins which, according to research is not bad.

Last night, I got angry at her attitude towards it. To me, she just try to open legs for me to satisfy myself and get down.

This has affected my psyche towards her.
But apart from her low libido, she is a very wonderful and good woman to be with.

So, last night, I opened up to her once again and told her she's making me to think twice and that am not happy at her actions.

Since today, our relationship has dwindled.

Alot of things have been going through my mind.

I don't know what to do. Am confused.
I can't go to another woman and leave such a good woman that have given me 4 kids.

Pls is there any known solution?

I need help.

You wanted a chaste and unblemished bride and you got one. Others love them wild and hot, they also got just that. Your problem is that you wanted a Rihanna that must be spirit-filled. Those two don't go together. No one eats his cake and still has it. Not to worry, you will still make it to heaven whether you were sexually satisfied here on earth or not.

Kuriosmynd:
Person wey u go drug with Spanish fly, then take sidenafil Jon fvvck am like dog

Na wa o