Okay,,I have always been this guy that wants to get married to a virgin..Im not a virgin though but i have never been with one..

Recently I met this very young girl about the age of 18 going to 19..She is so nice and act so calmly..So she gives off this innocent vibes wherever you meet her..I guess thats why alot of men really want her..She's also pretty too..Like real pretty..

So we started dating about 4 months ago,,we had our first sex last 3 weeks..That was when I noticed she wasn't a virgin..I didn't bother because I felt character wise she was okay..I travelled for service and Im currently serving,,so we talked and got into more real details of our exs(probably due to distance)...

She had initially mentioned about her ex but this time she got into details..Told me they dated for like 1yr plus and he was the one that took her virginity,,she said things like they did everything possible couples usually do..I mean at such a young age? He dumped her later though
Since then I just started feeling uneasy and terrible when thoughts of her comes up..I feel like she was used and dumped..I ve always fantasised that first sex with a virgin and how it would feel..Like why would a good girl like that be used and dumped..I was even telling my friend that I could pay all my money just to see that she gets married to her ex cause she just seemed so innocent...According to her, she has gotten over him but I still get flashbacks of all the nasty things guys do to girls they use and do not want again...I know I love her but ryt now I feel like she's just a used property..

Being with her isnt the problem,,its the fact that my mind goes numb thinking of all the things the guy did to her and then finally dumped her...

She would be so hurt if I break up with her..I dont know what do
I just need someone to talk to me..I feel like its too much to bear

Ps:I dont usually date for fun,,I date with the hope I can grow with a girl and eventuallyget married,,and this she has promised..But ryt now Im distraught

Help me please

You're not a virgin, yet you want a virgin . Doesn't that sound a bit self-centered ? Hasn't it occured to you that you're among the people who dump and use women after seeing their nàkedness ...no let's be real here !

Baba ,do yourself a favor by either marrying her , or breaking up with her in a way she'll forgive you.

Oga this is as a result of "See Finish"


Chai,

"See finish" no good o

Used property??

How??
Any relationship can end either marriage or breakup. If you want to marry a virgin go for one. Stop referring to her as used property..

You are Confused and selfish,I would have supported you if you didn't have sex with her,you have used her and you now want to dump her as well.I blame ladies dating all these young men,rubbish.

Selfishness, u want wat u were unable to give. Y did u dig into d past when u can't even when u are aware it will hurt u. U av tasted her na so u can look for excuse. Las las everybody ge ex.

Selfishness, u want wat u were unable to give. Y did u dig into d past, when u are aware it will hurt u. U av tasted her na so u can look for excuse. Las las everybody ge ex

You are evil.

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Op,with all due respect,I think you're drunk

After you don chop her bottom pot of beans finish,to the extent say you even scrape the bottom join self,so na now you know say she no be virgin.....Why not kukuma ask her about her virginity status initially?

Op,this one na Mumu talk . If you no wor marry her,just free that banny abeg

InTheCloudySky:
She's not only "used", but she's also a "property". See 2-in-1 insult, from someone who is not a virgin himself, and no one knows what your own body count is. The hypocrisy.

Secondly, even if she was a virgin, that's how you would've slept with her then dump her, claiming you're still looking for a virgin to marry. It seems your plan all along was to hit and run.

Ladies need to keep their pants zipped before marriage but if not, at least stop opening legs for jerks like you.

Believe me,,every girl Ive ever dated, I always made it know to them that I want to marry..It was always them leaving cos of one reason or the other

Hanibbal:
You are evil.

Pls dont say that..

Iyaebe:
You are Confused and selfish,I would have supported you if you didn't have sex with her,you have used her and you now want to dump her as well.I blame ladies dating all these young men,rubbish.

The sex is wasnt even initiated by me..I dont use people...ots probably due to my age long obsession to get married at a young age with a virgin

Caramia2020:
Selfishness, u want wat u were unable to give. Y did u dig into d past, when u are aware it will hurt u. U av tasted her na so u can look for excuse. Las las everybody ge ex

I didn't really dig up...It just happened that we are far apart and talk regularly,,these things came up

IZIBLAZE4JESUS:

The sex is wasnt even initiated by me..I dont use people...ots probably due to my age long obsession to get married at a young age with a virgin

You should have kept your own virginity as well else it becomes selfishness on your own part.

You are not a virgin!
You want to dump her because she is not a virgin!
You will then go for another girl!
And taste her again!
And dump her again cos she's not a virgin!
And taste another! Then dump her! ×7

The demon in you is gradually taking shape, weldone man. Your judgement is coming!

My advice: Don't start a relationship until you are fully ready to handle whatever disappointment you meet in there and move on.

He's beginning to Believe

What a conincidence! Your ordeals is quite similar to mine: I am also in the same issue.
I am dating this girl for for like 4 months now.
...now I got to understand that this lady has dated like three notorious guys I know around. This lady loves me, and likewise me, but anything I think of her past relationship, I perceived her as a used property. She is just 21, but had had series of relationship with guys too matured and rugged...

IZIBLAZE4JESUS:
Okay,,I have always been this guy that wants to get married to a virgin..Im not a virgin though but i have never been with one..

Recently I met this very young girl about the age of 18 going to 19..She is so nice and act so calmly..So she gives off this innocent vibes wherever you meet her..I guess thats why alot of men really want her..She's also pretty too..Like real pretty..

So we started dating about 4 months ago,,we had our first sex last 3 weeks..That was when I noticed she wasn't a virgin..I didn't bother because I felt character wise she was okay..I travelled for service and Im currently serving,,so we talked and got into more real details of our exs(probably due to distance)...

She had initially mentioned about her ex but this time she got into details..Told me they dated for like 1yr plus and he was the one that took her virginity,,she said things like they did everything possible couples usually do..I mean at such a young age? He dumped her later though
Since then I just started feeling uneasy and terrible when thoughts of her comes up..I feel like she was used and dumped..I ve always fantasised that first sex with a virgin and how it would feel..Like why would a good girl like that be used and dumped..I was even telling my friend that I could pay all my money just to see that she gets married to her ex cause she just seemed so innocent...According to her, she has gotten over him but I still get flashbacks of all the nasty things guys do to girls they use and do not want again...I know I love her but ryt now I feel like she's just a used property..

Being with her isnt the problem,,its the fact that my mind goes numb thinking of all the things the guy did to her and then finally dumped her...

She would be so hurt if I break up with her..I dont know what do
I just need someone to talk to me..I feel like its too much to bear

Ps:I dont usually date for fun,,I date with the hope I can grow with a girl and eventuallyget married,,and this she has promised..But ryt now Im distraught

Help me please

Mr Man, You and I are similar alike wanting marrying a virgin.
98.66666% of ladies aren't virgins and also got nomerous ex(s)
It's just a pity(failed society)
But one thing is certain I must do anything and everything in my power to see I end up with a virgin even if me going to a Virgin island or Lesotho

If she was still a virgin, so this is how you would have disvirgined her and still come and give one flimsy excuse.


Rubbish and Buhari trousers.

Ammishaddai:
You're not a virgin, yet you want a virgin . Doesn't that sound a bit self-centered ? Hasn't it occured to you that you're among the people who dump and use women after seeing their nàkedness ...no let's be real here !

Baba ,do yourself a favor by either marrying her , or breaking up with her in a way she'll forgive you.

I don't understand.

Is it self-centered for poverty stricken to want to marry rich men? I don't think it's a crime for a someone with experience to want a virgin. The choice to date or not remains with the toaster, no?

[s]

Belafonte:


I don't understand.

Is it self-centered for poverty stricken to want to marry rich men? I don't think it's a crime for a someone with experience to want a virgin. The choice to date or not remains with the toaster, no?

[/s] It's a crime to have what you don't merit . And as it stands ,the OP must be a poverty-stricken stud whose looking for chumps that are reasoning illogically like him

Ammishaddai:
[s][/s] It's a crime to have what you don't merit . And as it stands ,the OP must be a poverty-stricken stud whose looking for chumps that are reasoning illogically like him

Let the virgin be the judge of the meriting or not :/

You no be virgin, you dey vex say pesin no be virgin. Your case tire me.

If God wan punish you, mods would push this to the front page, then you would know you aren't making any sense at all. Get ready for more backlash

Ammishaddai:
[s][/s] It's a crime to have what you don't merit . And as it stands ,the OP must be a poverty-stricken stud whose looking for chumps that are reasoning illogically like him

Your papa

IZIBLAZE4JESUS:
Okay,,I have always been this guy that wants to get married to a virgin..Im not a virgin though but i have never been with one..

Recently I met this very young girl about the age of 18 going to 19..She is so nice and act so calmly..So she gives off this innocent vibes wherever you meet her..I guess thats why alot of men really want her..She's also pretty too..Like real pretty..

So we started dating about 4 months ago,,we had our first sex last 3 weeks..That was when I noticed she wasn't a virgin..I didn't bother because I felt character wise she was okay..I travelled for service and Im currently serving,,so we talked and got into more real details of our exs(probably due to distance)...

She had initially mentioned about her ex but this time she got into details..Told me they dated for like 1yr plus and he was the one that took her virginity,,she said things like they did everything possible couples usually do..I mean at such a young age? He dumped her later though
Since then I just started feeling uneasy and terrible when thoughts of her comes up..I feel like she was used and dumped..I ve always fantasised that first sex with a virgin and how it would feel..Like why would a good girl like that be used and dumped..I was even telling my friend that I could pay all my money just to see that she gets married to her ex cause she just seemed so innocent...According to her, she has gotten over him but I still get flashbacks of all the nasty things guys do to girls they use and do not want again...I know I love her but ryt now I feel like she's just a used property..

Being with her isnt the problem,,its the fact that my mind goes numb thinking of all the things the guy did to her and then finally dumped her...

She would be so hurt if I break up with her..I dont know what do
I just need someone to talk to me..I feel like its too much to bear

Ps:I dont usually date for fun,,I date with the hope I can grow with a girl and eventuallyget married,,and this she has promised..But ryt now Im distraught

Help me please

when a wise man marries a bad/stupid woman, He always know how to successfully manage his home, but when a stupid man marries even the best woman, he won't know what to do with her and he'll end up losing her.

With this reason of yours, it's evident that you don't deserve the kid.