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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Kobojunkiee: 2:03pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
gentlegenius:ROFLMAO |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Nobody: 2:04pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
valentineuwakwe:U may be right but you didn't expatiate on your solution |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by apple30(f): 2:04pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
isaacology3000:. Op this ur feeling is not ur fault ,most times it’s cause by 2much closeness ,doing d same thing wt d same person everyday,every minute ,see finish will always come into d picture ..n u dated her for 6yrs probably u guys were living together for 6yrs b4 marriage ..dats y sometimes u wonder y some men cheat on dere wifes wt a lady dat d wife is more beta than in beauty n all ,cus most time dere wife’s is 10times more presentable than those ladies ..becos in those ladies d man has not seen it all ..cus he strive to av sex wt them but his wife he can do it anytime ,n he has seen it all..so d best thing is to spice up ur sex life wt ur wife ,maybe go out on weekends to a guest house or suit for two days n go av some fun n Gud sex wt ur wife n do oda things ,dats is not d usual things u normally do wt her ,n tell her wat u want if is to wear sexy night gown or jean strings etc 90% of marriages destroy because of this ,woman cheat on dere husbands becus of this ,am so happy dat u realize it n want to solve it ,some men dnt n when d damages comes knocking ,Dey start pushing blames to each oda ......Gud luck op. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by ultimateprof: 2:04pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Does your wife still obey your instructions? If yes; then you need to check your self because there is something wrong somewhere, but if she is not obeying your instructions, then tell her to change her ways of life and by so doing you begin to find her attractive because there is love in loyalty. Again, naturally as a man you need to know or to understand that in most cases that women use to grow older than their husbands due to many circumstances. Sometimes it could be because of birth and in some cases it could be because most of them just leave themselves to look older that because they that they do not have any other things to bother themselves about. After all them don marry. Once you have this understanding and your are ready to follow this as a man, then your are matured. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Qpid5(m): 2:12pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
The OP don go bleep another gal na why he d talk.. He don d cheat since. . she beg for sex bfore she get it once or twice in a whole month, can you imagine such statement from a so called husband? . in a situation like, the wife should be allowed to cheat without been purnished i pity the wife sha, 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by FreeIgboho: 2:12pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Incredible128: It is good advice if done well. He can get himself sexually aroused then bleep his wife. It's a slight mental shift - if he stops insisting the initial arousal must come from his wife, he'd be able to bleep his wife a lot more. |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by mariahAngel(f): 2:14pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
bekpo: Tell them. |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Nobody: 2:16pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Op I'm afraid you might find it very difficult to condition your mind bcuz you have polluted it already. Work on your mindset most, you can never always have the best kpekus. Spice your marriage and be content with the improvements you get 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Litmus: 2:18pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
isaacology3000: You indeed love her. The following will be controversial: I expect, very few men find the woman they truly love and respect sexually attractive. You see, although Bonobo chimpanzees’ sexual proclivities are sighted by palaeontologists as evidence that, besides species promulgation, sexual intercourse may play similar bonds-reinforcing role in humans, intercourse for humans is really about producing the healthiest children possible. For this reason, human spices evolved through unnatural choices in partners that humans superimposed upon nature by understanding the demands of their environment. It became that female humans evolved to seek Excellent Provider looking males and male humans, Capable Offspring providing females. And due to the relative scarcity of these types in all human societies, producing children acquired a competitive dimension that became war like at the extremities. So, in short, intercourse for men became like and act of conquest, with sadistic undertones. However the western world wants to paint it, and women want to influence it, men generally want to Bleep woman not Make Love to women. At Men’s foundational being is hardwired the notion, ‘Love making makes Love not babies; Fucking produces babies!’ When people marry, some men grow to love their wives in deep, affectionate ways that demand respect. When this happens, they no longer want to Bleep their wives and since men generally cant associate sex with love, it become difficult to “sleep” with their wives. The entire situation is compounded by the subtle signals women send in loving relationships that their partners aren’t Conan the Barbarian but Big Cuddly Teddy, the loving father and husband. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by luuvv: 2:19pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Don't worry, you will get over it. I felt same way too when I had my daughter. I will be like, a whole human being passed through that honeypot |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by akmath: 2:20pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
ahnie:Mrs. Idibia is that you?? |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Klass99(f): 2:21pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Mrsoft3(m): 2:22pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
isaacology3000: Are you cheating? |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Nobody: 2:45pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
isaacology3000:You are plain silly. I don't see how you will take good care of your wife and don't find her attractive |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Nobody: 2:45pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
See a therapist. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by FreeIgboho: 2:46pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Mrsoft3: Do you see him say anywhere that he does? |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by TheGift: 2:56pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
You guys should go for sex counseling and therapy with a professional isaacology3000: 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by JInseiMatters: 2:59pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Do you find other ladies attractive? you need to listen to this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N5l5ZS5tvtg |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by TheGift: 2:59pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
FreeIgboho: Even if He didn’t say it, it is a valid question that begs for an answer. Being open to other Women can make ones wife seem sexually unattractive, even if She is sexy… and vice versa. 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by TheGift: 3:02pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
NetValueFX: YOU are plain naive… it’s called taking care of your responsibilities, which may have little or nothing to do with feelings of attraction. She’s His Wife. |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by larryking540: 3:11pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
isaacology3000:have you been In a broken home before ,or have you grown up in a broken home before ,if you haven't don't pray for such ,,if na to get drunk just to fuvk your wife better do it ,na small small things they scatter hux 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by EndRape2(f): 3:13pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
She is a mumu, let her give other men, chance, maybe when you see other men finding her attractive ,you sense will come back , She is begging for sex, some women no get sense, why will you beg your partner for sex, ask him for sex, if he refused ,ignore him Simple. Other men uote author=isaacology3000 post=105664757]I and my wife met through her senior sister who happens to be my friend and also my toaster. I ended up falling in love with my wife through her sister who claims we can't date because we're of age bracket. We courts for 6 years before getting married to her and blessed with a beautiful daughter. Lately I don't find her attractive to me anymore. She's the one begging for sex before I consider her once or twice in a month. Please nairalanders, I need advice what could cause it and what should I do because I don't want to loose my marriage. [/quote] 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by IbileIfe: 3:17pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Then why did you marry her? |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Mrsoft3(m): 3:18pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
FreeIgboho: Exactly the point, half baked story. There should be a pointer to the fact that he lost sexual feelings to his wife, atleast a maybe |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by IJEYdiamond(f): 3:25pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
FreeIgboho: Master in the game..... ladies pic too to masturbate ?? |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by maipeople(m): 3:27pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
This is genuine advice. Thank you Mercychen: |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by IJEYdiamond(f): 3:29pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Seriously this issue of sex and sexless marriages is becoming an issue in naija... i thought it just a western problem or Asian self!! Now paternity has joined.... its becoming scary oooo |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by FreeIgboho: 3:29pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
IJEYdiamond: The initial arousal doesn't have to come from the wife. If you can train your thoughts, sky is the limit 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by FreeIgboho: 3:34pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Mrsoft3: What do you mean? He no longer finds his wife sexually attractive. That's the hole issue. "hole issue" |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by AvalonSpace(m): 3:37pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
isaacology3000:You must have cheated on her.. i don't understand how you just lose interest all of sudden. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by tamzi: 3:37pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
ahnie: And how do you know that? |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by FreeIgboho: 3:42pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
AvalonSpace: What do you mean? Same way you can start losing interest in the egusi soup you used to love, if you are begged to eat it everyday |
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