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| How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Liliantalks: 7:07pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Please I need advice on this, help me 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by lilvicky68(m): 7:08pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
By always remembering that it will end in tears.. 174 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Sonnobax15(m): 7:12pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
 As long as your heart keep supplying blood to other parts of your body...You should know that what you're seeking for is nearly impossible.... 23 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Liliantalks: 7:17pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Sonnobax15:why naw!! I want to cut my heart and throw in the bin , can’t I just live my life 1 Like |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Liliantalks: 7:19pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
lilvicky68:funny enough when that small glimpse of hope overhaul that thought , u are going to face worse. I just want to be happy, is the too much to ask ?? 5 Likes |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by lilvicky68(m): 7:23pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Liliantalks:The problem is loving the wrong person. Just try to love the person showing you love.. 51 Likes |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Sonnobax15(m): 7:24pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Liliantalks:  has it really come to this? There's nothing you can do about it... Sometimes we pretend as tho we don't wanna fall in love but our hearts have been wired in such a way that even without our knowledge, it'll still autonomously love 29 Likes |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Franzinni: 7:24pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
I guess he is seeing the sidekick. That is why you are emotionally distressed But I most likely am wrong however my advice is start to love yourself and you will not need it from any external medium ... but as long as you seek love from external means you have to 've prepared for thethem baggage that comes with it 17 Likes |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by goodmorning40: 7:53pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Surgery Only through surgery Cut off the left hemisphere of ur brain and all your problems solved 11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Welcum: 8:12pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Focus on giving than taking. Our selfishness is the reason we suffer. 22 Likes |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Nobody: 8:17pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Liliantalks:Who broke your heart this time  1 Like |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Liliantalks: 8:29pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Bouz:that is not the bone of contention, is not like you know him or something. 6 Likes |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Nobody: 8:51pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
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| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by ruffkenny: 10:20pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
1)By knowing that anyone that say they love u might hurt u, 2)By knowing that the best way to love anyone is to realise that u might loose them at anytime 3)By knowing that there is a thin line between love and hate 4)By going after those who have feelings for u and not just the ones who u feel sth for. 5)By not allowing anyone be the reason why u will be happy but finding happiness even within urself and knowing things that make u happy and doing them by yourself.. 6)By not letting feelings be the reason u are with someone but Compartibility, chemistry, connection,moral values,shared ideas,disciplines, friendship... 7)By learning not to miss anyone and be busy doing sth worthwhile,maybe Ur job,Ur dreams,Ur goals and vision.. These might help u be unattached to anyone emotionally... Quote: BE NICE TO EVERYONE, BE KIND TO ALL PEOPLE BUT BE ATTACHED TO NONE, & ALSO TRUST NO ONE 106 Likes 17 Shares |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by MasterShifu010(m): 11:12pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
advices flying left , right and center. but non would work you know why? , because we are all wired differently , some people are more in touch with their feelings and emotions than others , some are logical than others so. know which if these categories you belong to and stick to it . find a way to find strength in who you are even though things don’t always work in your favour . the most successful people are those that do what they love , so if u love to love , do it with all your heart even if it kills you, after all the purpose of life is death 31 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by DrayZee: 1:26am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Stop seeing or being around them. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Emmanuel224(m): 1:36am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Sonnobax15:it's very possible boss, I'm cold and without love 1 Like |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Emmanuel224(m): 1:39am On Sep 11, 2021 |
lilvicky68:this is the best u shud do, it takes time for it to gt to ur head and it also comes with consequences 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Queenserah26(f): 2:38am On Sep 11, 2021 |
This is deep. Thank you for this. ruffkenny: 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by zexy2030(m): 6:21am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Liliantalks:Just one advice for you: Distract yourself with positive impacts on the less privileged. Forget yourself and develop the less privileged than you. Give a selfless service to those who can't pay you back nor can they give back or you expect anything in return. Always show that you expect nothing in return. In doing this, you will understand emotions and attract the right persons. Women think wearing sexy dresses is what makes them attractive. It is selfless service to those who can't pay you back that is the sexiest. Do it passionately but exclude romance from your thoughts entirely. Drop food for hungry widows. Pickup an orphan and train in school, not a guy o. But a kid. Definitely let it be a female child. Adopt a family to bless. Gifts to gifted children who feels unloved, just like you feel. The emotion that flows back is much more than what you get from a guy. 16 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by luminouz(m): 9:24am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Redpill mudafucker. That's the single greatest advice I will give any man out there. For a woman, put YOU first as a priority. No one will ever love you more than you love yourself,so love yourself. If you don't love yourself enough, you fall prey to sweet mouths. The key is to LOVE AND BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF. Know these and know peace 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by punisha: 9:25am On Sep 11, 2021 |
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| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by SLOVFO(m): 9:25am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Check |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Ormorlehwah(f): 9:26am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Determination |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by fuckboys: 9:27am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Always have sex with different girls, oloshos and esteemos alike, I bet you you'll hardly fall in love, you'll take all girls as a joke. Works for me tho, fuk em and unto the next. 8 Likes |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Nobody: 9:27am On Sep 11, 2021 |
By accepting that emotional attachment = entanglement. Avoid any unnecessary relation with the opposite gender. That's what I'm doing at the moment till I'm ready for marriage. 8 Likes
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| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by luminouz(m): 9:28am On Sep 11, 2021 |
zexy2030: Why not kuku ask her to open a charity organisation with CAC and continue from there.  2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by ecclize: 9:28am On Sep 11, 2021 |
no way bro. except u stop seeing the person for a long time if u are already attached to someone, if not your only escape is not to even start at all i mean don't get close to people (opposite sex) unnecessarily 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by OakConsultNG: 9:28am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Okay.. |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Teerach: 9:28am On Sep 11, 2021 |
By loving yourself first. Putting yourself first and be selfish with yourself. If you love yourself highly, you won't give space for hurt cos you'll be too busy loving yourself to care. Try by affirming "I love you" everytime you catch yourself free. Do it as much as you can. Feel the feeling. Tell yourself all the good things you want to hear from another. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by tensazangetsu20(m): 9:29am On Sep 11, 2021 |
You just need to realise that relationships and marriage especially in Africa always definitely leads to more poverty. I used to be so lovey Dovey till I saw everyone around me in relationship and marriage sinking neck deep into poverty. All my emotions vanished. 6 Likes |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by SeunNotOwner: 9:29am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Ghh 1 Like |
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