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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by FreeIgboho: 1:38am On Sep 11, 2021 |
frankdre: Doesn't have to be image. Can be a scenario - as long as as it's something you find very arousing! |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Gfskw: 2:29am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Let another man fucvvvk her then maybe you will appreciate her |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by computersoft: 2:49am On Sep 11, 2021 |
isaacology3000:Be careful my dear,very soon she will start going outside oo to get that which u are starving her, So later don't come here to complain oo |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Danisaint112(m): 3:41am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Mercychen: But you still dumped your Ex. So what is the essence of this advice now?
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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Nobody: 3:49am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Danisaint112: Ex was a boyfriend, not a husband. Well, I made some critical lifes decisions (that was important and necessary for my spiritual growth as a Christian) that affected our relationship and so we had to part ways. No regrets whatsoever. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Caseless: 3:56am On Sep 11, 2021 |
FreeIgboho: Una eye don de clear for igboho matters. |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by authority2006(m): 6:07am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Iyaebe: The man needs help and he's not afraid of speaking up. Your post wasn't in any way of help, just blame blame. mariahAngel: Our female here don't understand that this is a problem for the man himself. Well, I don't blame us, because we don't understand this kind of issues just like many Nigerians don't understand or believe that depression is real. It is wrong to guilt trip any man or woman going through this kind of shiiit, doing so means that you understand what they are going through. It shouldn't be an avenue to heap blame but to be supportive and be a part of help. This is not an issue of "let me take side with my gender" mentality. |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by authority2006(m): 6:12am On Sep 11, 2021 |
FreeIgboho: While this may work for a while but it's not going to be a permanent solution. He still needs to address the root cause. |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by FreeIgboho: 7:04am On Sep 11, 2021 |
authority2006: It can actually be a permanent solution. There are two advantages to it: one, he will know his wife will not be attractive to other men (if he is the jealous type), 2) he'll last longer in bed and be more in control of things generally due to reduced sensitivity |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by FreeIgboho: 7:21am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Caseless: My eye no clear anything o. I just picked a moniker based on what's trending at the time. I never cared one whit either way |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by fxexperts: 9:23am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Mercychen: @ The bolded. that really works Trust me. Sometimes as a man or woman married for some years, see finish always happen. you can get tired of your spouse in marriage ( especially sex). It happened to me with my wife of almost 4 years and bro if you see me wife (very pretty). I know that and she is never short of wealthy admirers both offline and online. She complained about our sex life but i try to give her anything she ask for ask. but i know deep down i was not seeing was other men outside were dieing to have. when work took me a way for about 3 months we were separated, then i found my spark back. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Nobody: 9:36am On Sep 11, 2021 |
fxexperts: Wow.... OP, I hope you can see this?? Thanks for sharing. This will go a long way. |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by authority2006(m): 10:03am On Sep 11, 2021 |
FreeIgboho: It can never be no matter the number of advantages, this approach is called window dressing. He needs to understand why his wife no longer sexually appeal to him anymore and work on that problem. |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Nobody: 12:09pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Klass99: Your question is hard because It is a bit more personal. My taste changed basically after I became close friends with a couple of good looking & smarter women at my workplace. All of a sudden the thought of I can do better started to creep in & she became less attractive as time went on. Ageism also didn't favor her, from my observation some people look more beautiful / handsome as they grow while others look less attractive as their late 20s creep in, so it's a gift to some while a curse to others. About the anal sex you mentioned, I've met someone like that & your narrated story seems familiar because she always points me to that direction which wasn't pleasant & I was not interested. So I asked where she learnt it from, she said it was her Ex. Apparently this exposure get cemented in her mind & she moved it onto the next relationship. You also mentioned US, a lot of American Born Nigerians are very liberal, I have heard too many stories from them that I can't even share. That's probably the only drawbacks of bringing up your infant children in America. |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by FreeIgboho: 5:41pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
authority2006: Oh, there are a lot of things we all need to understand. But life will not wait till we understand. This is a good solution till understanding occurs, and if it never occurs, this can be a good permanent solution. |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Fynegal21: 9:53pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Are you attractive yourself?I just hate men who whine gosh!you just confessed she has a sister could you have a secret longing for her?why don't you talk candidly to your wife help around the house,let her have time to pamper herself take time to pray good luck |
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Dagelv: 8:15pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
I suppose that you have to talk to your wife about this issue if you really value these relationships. Of course, it's kinda difficult to make yourself to start such a conversation, however I believe that couples always have to talk to each other on various matters in order to keep their relationships or marriage safe. You should think about it and understand that you're not ideal too, hence you have to accept your wife just the way she is. Moreover, you can ask her to go to the gym in order to keep fit and maybe in this case you will be satisfide with everything. Remember that you also should go to the gym in order to maintain her. |
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