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Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Nobody: 4:18pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
From the same bank that is foolishness....in case you don't know it is you the bank will hold responsible and if you dare say your father asked you to collect the loan your whole family don enter one chance.... ain't nobody more gangster than the bank ![]() My people let's watch out for a a headline like ....father and son taken to court by bank for multi million naira loan fraud |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Richy4(m): 4:21pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Noble4life: My brother God bless you too buddy.. Reading some of the posts here, I can now see why most of the Oyibo people no dey gree train their children for university... They will just send them to go and get student grant/ loan from the bank... When they graduate, they payback themselves.. The parent will save the money they would have used on them for their retirement... People are really selfish this days... People failed to understand that an 18 yrs old is an adult... He can vote or be voted for... Any parent paying their school fees at that age was simply helping out.. it was not their right ( it was only their right from primary School to secondary) It was just disheartening reading some of these posts... |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by duro4chang(m): 4:21pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Nelchuksmandela:To me, he should just manage what he has now. Taking loan every time without success is not really good enough. It is not everything that looks good are actually good. Not every is good for you. Try to study yourself. |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Kaymaxi2222(m): 4:23pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Mercychen:you are smart sis..... Are you married? ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Bngf: 4:24pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Hmmm |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by enemyofprogress: 4:26pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
No try am o |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by waa01: 4:26pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Go ahead |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by StrongInBed: 4:28pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
See comments, Nigerians are evil only few are good. Your blood father? Anyway you can also treat your mum the same... useless drug addicts generation without sense. 2 Likes |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by NoToPile: 4:28pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
enilowo: Solid points Op is the one that will service whatever amount he loans, he should find a lesser amount to gather and give the DAD because his earning power is low compared to the amount of loan he wants to take, if its contribution its better because theres no interest he will pack first and then continue payment . Loan matter ;we have not even started talking about interest and he earns 75k. If he earned more its a different thing entirely. All these lenders don't smile, they can harass terribly. I fear loans oo I have seen stuffs like this happen in families and 8 in 10 cases it doesn't end well. My prayer is God lift the OP higher where 500k will not be difficult to gather. Amen. 2 Likes |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by josite: 4:29pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Let him take the loan himself. |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Coolgent(m): 4:30pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
I can't call you an ingratitude but take the loan and personally pay off his 2 outstanding loans, upgrade his business with the remaining balance. Remember all he has done to u |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by computersoft: 4:33pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Mercychen:You are so intelligent and with a good heart. Keep it up dear 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Moikiitos: 4:41pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Family affairs... :/! Nelchuksmandela: |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by obowunmi(m): 4:42pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Don’t do it. Useless father you have. |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Ashirioluwa: 4:43pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
AutoChick4U: I know but let the op pay back the 300k the father lost while he was looking for job for him. Give him the 300k as gift not loan |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by obowunmi(m): 4:43pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Nelchuksmandela: Your father is mentally and financially ABUSIVE. Evil, wicked man. |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Nobody: 4:45pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
wunmi590: ![]() ![]() "Nah your kids go suffer am"... So, you know it is good to take care of your kids. Now that your kid will now abandon you when you needed him most because you've told another kid to run away from his father. Stupid kids who knows nothing |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by AutoChick4U(f): 4:46pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Ashirioluwa:Did you ask him if he can spare such amount for now? When did he start earning 75k? |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by AutoChick4U(f): 4:48pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Boniii7950:Even a fool can see that bet slip was edited. Thief |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Das1mama: 4:51pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Bro u have so many things to consider, 1st your dad has sacrificed alot for u and which u have to reciprocate the gesture atleast i bliv in the saying that "1 4 ALL, ALL 4 1". |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Noblewealth(m): 5:00pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Bro the best you can possibly do not to warrant any words like" I will place curse on you" is to give him certain amount like 100k or 150k and telling him frankly that dad that's the amount I can afford and you can't take loan for him.. You said you are still struggling and he still have some debt to pay back... If care is not taken after helping him with the loan you will be the one to pay all back in grief which can later affect you badly... Think deep and pray |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Lewisdinho(m): 5:01pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Op be a man, you're matured enough to take ur own decision. Let ur No be No and besides wetin ur Pman d do with those borrowed money Secondly ure earning 75k a month and still squatting with someone? Il advice u look 4 a place of ur own even if na single room u fit afford or self con. No squat with person again biko. There's dis respect ul hv wen u stay alone n not with someone. Pls look into it, i said so cos u said u r earning 75k monthly. If to say u no d work i for reason ur way As for pman matter....... Don't take that loan 2 Likes |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by donbachi(m): 5:01pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
FlipModeSquade:sacrifice |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Juoflife1(f): 5:03pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
You are the person who is going to pay back that loan. If you can, take the loan. If you can't, don't take the loan. The decision is yours. Just tell him your salary is not enough to borrow that kind of money from the bank. |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Nobody: 5:04pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Mercychen:you are a good person.. Our parents have tried alot and we need to be there for them... Especially when they are responding like OP's DAD!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by mcdokwe(m): 5:07pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Nelchuksmandela:I wish my dad was alive, so I can take a loan on his behalf, then not look up to him to pay it. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by don4real18(m): 5:07pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
aanuoluwami14:The same father took a loan to help his son get a job in NUPENG yet it's easy for you to conclude that his father wants to ruin his life. |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Kayyus09(m): 5:08pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
I don't like the idea of zztakibg loan for anything. However, if his purpose of use is genuine, kindly get the loan that you can comfortably repay, even if he default. Let him know that's the maximum amount you can access. Yes, he's your driver to this world, you have your life to live as well |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Nobody: 5:21pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
emmykk:hmm |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Nobody: 5:21pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
anastasius:your a stupid idiot for saying trash 1 Like |
Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Maryo12(f): 5:23pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Join a contribution of at least 200k and give to him. Pls don collect first oo. 20k monthly |
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