I can tell when she's about to tell a lie

We were both good and at least 80% faithful to each other

we went from calling each like 4 times a day to not hearing from each other for a whole day to weeks

Mehnn I was hurting badly, found out she was now dating a new guy, was broken tbh,

I tried everything I possibly could to salvage the relationship but the more I tried, the worse it got and more hurt I was becoming, I begged, did lots of funny things to get my woman back, at this point I was slowly dying inside, my studies was greatly affected, my productivity dropped, was no longer going to the library, was eating less.

Acesexcell:
Exactly my kind of story. I don't know why girls derived joy from hurting someone that dearly love them. My case is just like a dream to me uptil now

Lamanii22:
A girl in the university is still exploring her life... You don't give such relationship an 80%... She's being chased by others too....

Expresswriter:
When a relationship starts on a high note of excitement or when a relationship begins way too fast with both partners always being in each other's world all the time

Chances are that it won't last.

I commend you for not accepting her back.

Never, ever accept a woman who dumped you for another guy.

She's not coming back because she has realised her mistake but because you're a supply to her-- a supply that gives her attention.

Narcissists are fond of displaying this type of trait.

They use people and dump them.

When the people they dump heal and start doing great again, the narcissist will try coming back.

Never accept such people back into your life.

Ignore them.

Ignore her.

Never allow memories of the good times you had with her becloud your reasoning into accepting her.

Those were faked acts.

Narcissist are good at mirroring.

They study you quickly and know so much about you in a short time then they begin to do, say, act the way you'd want them to.

Avoid them. They're actors with an evil heart.

Expresswriter:
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chatinent:


Abeg, you cannot tell when a woman wants to lie. It's only a woman who will tell a lie, and still remember it in 100 years to come, well organised, and even referencing future discussion to the narrative in the lie to look truthful. She will be like: “you remember about 200 years ago when I told you I was going to see Mary..right? That was the day I knew you were for me.” And it was the same day she went to ..you know.

Now you, mumu pro max will bi like.. “wow, this lady is truthful. She still remembered that thing. So truthful loving lady.”

Women are more organised than men when they lie! Men lie a lot and tend to forget lines hence they are prone to switch verses in lies. Women are not that way.


What does this mean? You cheated too!


Giving too much attention to sb sometimes is not good. They'll feel so bored and need and begin to hunt for sb who they need their attention.



Awww.




I do one thing in my live: I never accept a cheat. I let vomit remain vomit. However, you can still forgive her if you wish.

I'm glad you learnt your lessons.

iKON11:
I met this lady in our 200L (2019) and we started dating.. We were both good and at least 80% faithful to each other. I found this mad vibe in her that I have never had before. We could chat for a whole night without getting bored.. We never ran out of jokes for once, she knew what I love and what I hate, she can tell when I'm about to get angry and I knew that much about her too, I can tell when she's about to tell a lie, when she's feeling insecure, we were best of friends then, she can hit me up with a call and discuss silly things just to laugh. My whole squad knew her and actually loved her.. She was the toast of all my friends cos she can come around and boom the whole place becomes lively..
But I started noticing some changes in this lady late last year around July, I started complaining, she always promise to change but was only getting worse everyday, she started ignoring my calls and msgs, chats became more of arguments than the usual jokes and laughing emojis, babe started disrespecting me heavily. We had a ritual of calling each other every morning and I actually got used to it, she stopped doing this and even when I call she will sound so disinterested, we went from calling each like 4 times a day to not hearing from each other for a whole day to weeks. Mehnn I was hurting badly, found out she was now dating a new guy, was broken tbh, I tried everything I possibly could to salvage the relationship but the more I tried, the worse it got and more hurt I was becoming, I begged, did lots of funny things to get my woman back, at this point I was slowly dying inside, my studies was greatly affected, my productivity dropped, was no longer going to the library, was eating less.
To a point I realized I was chasing a lost cause and turned my attention to forgetting her and moving on yet it wasn't easy, there were days I will kneel down and pray to God to heal me and help me forget about this lady.. I knew it will take some time but the pain eventually subsided after it finish teaching me the intended lessons and left but the lessons I learnt from this experience are invaluable. The funny thing is this same lady for a while now is trying to come back to me, she gets mad seeing me with another lady, this same lady knows she can't get half the energy she used to get from me yet is willing to come back, I still care about her and wish I can still love her the same way I used to but I just can't,
seeing her reminds me of the pains, heartache and disrespect. I wish she never broke me this bad

LESSONS LEARNT
1.Never trust people 100%, always leave room for disappointment cos someone you love and trust so much can also ruin your life forever.
2. Never overlook a red flag in your relationship, always discuss it out before it develops
3. Never ever take your mental health for granted in any relationship
4. Know when to leave before you start looking stupid.
5. Pray whatever they're hiding from you isn't enough to kill you

Acesexcell:
Exactly my kind of story. I don't know why girls derived joy from hurting someone that dearly love them. My case is just like a dream to me uptil now

iKON11:
I met this lady in our 200L (2019) and we started dating.. We were both good and at least 80% faithful to each other. I found this mad vibe in her that I have never had before. We could chat for a whole night without getting bored.. We never ran out of jokes for once, she knew what I love and what I hate, she can tell when I'm about to get angry and I knew that much about her too, I can tell when she's about to tell a lie, when she's feeling insecure, we were best of friends then, she can hit me up with a call and discuss silly things just to laugh. My whole squad knew her and actually loved her.. She was the toast of all my friends cos she can come around and boom the whole place becomes lively..
But I started noticing some changes in this lady late last year around July, I started complaining, she always promise to change but was only getting worse everyday, she started ignoring my calls and msgs, chats became more of arguments than the usual jokes and laughing emojis, babe started disrespecting me heavily. We had a ritual of calling each other every morning and I actually got used to it, she stopped doing this and even when I call she will sound so disinterested, we went from calling each like 4 times a day to not hearing from each other for a whole day to weeks. Mehnn I was hurting badly, found out she was now dating a new guy, was broken tbh, I tried everything I possibly could to salvage the relationship but the more I tried, the worse it got and more hurt I was becoming, I begged, did lots of funny things to get my woman back, at this point I was slowly dying inside, my studies was greatly affected, my productivity dropped, was no longer going to the library, was eating less.
To a point I realized I was chasing a lost cause and turned my attention to forgetting her and moving on yet it wasn't easy, there were days I will kneel down and pray to God to heal me and help me forget about this lady.. I knew it will take some time but the pain eventually subsided after it finish teaching me the intended lessons and left but the lessons I learnt from this experience are invaluable. The funny thing is this same lady for a while now is trying to come back to me, she gets mad seeing me with another lady, this same lady knows she can't get half the energy she used to get from me yet is willing to come back, I still care about her and wish I can still love her the same way I used to but I just can't,
seeing her reminds me of the pains, heartache and disrespect. I wish she never broke me this bad

LESSONS LEARNT
1.Never trust people 100%, always leave room for disappointment cos someone you love and trust so much can also ruin your life forever.
2. Never overlook a red flag in your relationship, always discuss it out before it develops
3. Never ever take your mental health for granted in any relationship
4. Know when to leave before you start looking stupid.
5. Pray whatever they're hiding from you isn't enough to kill you

Expresswriter:
When a relationship starts on a high note of excitement or when a relationship begins way too fast with both partners always being in each other's world all the time

Chances are that it won't last.

I commend you for not accepting her back.

Never, ever accept a woman who dumped you for another guy.

She's not coming back because she has realised her mistake but because you're a supply to her-- a supply that gives her attention.

Narcissists are fond of displaying this type of trait.

They use people and dump them.

When the people they dump heal and start doing great again, the narcissist will try coming back.

Never accept such people back into your life.

Ignore them.

Ignore her.

Never allow memories of the good times you had with her becloud your reasoning into accepting her.

Those were faked acts.

Narcissist are good at mirroring.

They study you quickly and know so much about you in a short time then they begin to do, say, act the way you'd want them to.

Avoid them. They're actors with an evil heart.