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Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by AntiSimp: 10:03am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Truth is marriage is not my priority, cos it's most time a pain in our present world. My priority is to chase my interests, have fun and be fulfilled with my purpose. If paraventure I decide to give marriage a try, then it's probably because I try to give a woman a chance, then she has to be worth it. . And one of the attribute among other quality is that she has to be a virgin, otherwise she's not worth the stress of going through marriage and putting up with marital bullshits, and paying dowry. In the olden days, women were expected to marry btw 18 and 25, to give their prime and virginity to their husband of their youth. But today they give it out to bad boys, yahooboys, sugar daddy, their pastors , bosses, lecturer, doctors, and etc...and reserve a worn out pvssy and a largely infertile womb to their unfortunate and simpy husband after fuvvxking their youthful best life into oblivion . In those days if u are not a virgin, no man is mandated to pay your dowry. That's fair game. But today people pay millions for dowries and glamorous wedding to wife hoes. it's as bad, as if men don't know their worth. Hoes should stay on the street. Hoes shouldn't take it all. Though that's now the order, but few thinking men should see this fraud. . We can say virgin don't guarantee happy home, but many virgin will give u less stress than many hoes we have gallivanting around from diick to cocck just to finally land on a simps to devour and finish him in marriage. . Even if the virgin bride will only act responsible for 5 years before acting like most vile women do in marriage, then that 5 or 10 years should be worth it, and my child deserved to be birthed by unsoiled and undegraded pvssy, unlike by okrika pvssy that have long been jaded through innumerable abortion and become a mere septic tank of smelly cursed sperms from bouncing around for years on uncountable coccks You deserve better. Since u are going to shoulder the problem of your woman, why not shoulder it for a tear rubber womb than a waste product cunt. A virgin or no marriage period. Otherwise, she can be a babymama of cum dumpster. Simple 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by chatinent: 10:05am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Many virgins wouldn't make a good wife. How do you know a virgin? When they tell you they are? How can you measure it? What if they lied? Appreciate people who tell you the truth. Are you a virgin? If you aren't, you have no right to be the judge! You guys are still the same people deflowering everything you see in a skirt yet you want a virgin! If your mazi-Ibe's principle is applied, who'd marry your over run-over sisters? The Bible has always warned against premarital sex, and it was for both genders. The way you guys come here and talk rubbish disgust, making it look like every guy out there is stupider. Flee from fornication and have peace of mind! The way you don't even have the courtesy on your usage of words is bafflingly clear you are here to impress your ilks; another set of losers who feel they have become wise. Just take a look at how you use nasty words at a whim. That's how you talk in reality or your computer is a shield to hide your self-esteem and blank maturity? Keep your explanations to yourself. Have a nice century. 9 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by expertman(m): 10:05am On Sep 13, 2021 |
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Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by Sonnobax15(m): 10:16am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Na your opinion be that cha op..... But personally cha,I used to have such mentality before now,but nobody tell me first before I wake up to my senses...... Fvck virginity any time any day . We've seen threads on nairaland whereby a Nigha was the one deflowered his Banny,but later on the same banny went to collect diick from another nigha man..... Imagine am na......... gone are the days when virginity used to be a determinant in terms of marriage....These days self,nighas dey marry so long say their peace of mind dey assured...Cus what's the essence of marrying a virgin when your sanity Will be at stake? |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by AntiSimp: 10:24am On Sep 13, 2021 |
chatinent:You can go marry whoressz like your frustrated simps in marriage. . As it is obvious you are their spokesman. No qualms with that. . But coming here to spew ur pvssified and indoctrinated trash from having lost ur sense of worth will not be tolerated .. Virgin don't make home...but most marriages that don't last 3, 5, years today were marriages to whores in the name of civilization and wokeness. Few sensible men still deserve that virgin. Let them go for it. And stop projecting ur idiocy around 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by AntiSimp: 10:30am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Sonnobax15:You foool don't read and understand. You type for likes. I din't say virgin always make good home...I said they have higher chance than the runs gals u wife everyday. is that too hard to understand? Why waste money on waste product...why waste ur savings on a degraded cunt that has lost count of diick that pounded her? . I won't have problem if dowry won't be paid for them. Look at the anstronomically high bride price of Igbo women today..Men suffer to pay it and wife them while they have fvvkced the whole community and states in all the best hotels in Nigeria? U must be sick if u can't think. They don't deserve my dowries period. . They should be gifted out for marriage for free or for dining table aggrement..not dowry and pomp weddings. Nonsense. Reason why they don't value marriage and finish the man most times within years of marriage. |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by chatinent: 10:32am On Sep 13, 2021 |
AntiSimp: Why na Nairaland una dey carry shoulders as redpill this and that. Btw, you deliberately ignored the part of your sisters or I just pretend I didn't notice? About me, I don't go around looking for any gullible prey to bed! I respect the admonition and standards of marriage. I'm not supporting hookers anyways. I'm naturally against stupidity. Stop flirting and penising up and down and have peace! It's the same way you detest anything feminine that alpha gentlemen like us disgust your sisters too! Of course, we apply your laws against your sisters! I know you are coming back with a gymed thumb for a Persian war. I go snub you like tomorrow no dey. With due respect, get lost. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by Sonnobax15(m): 10:32am On Sep 13, 2021 |
AntiSimp:Nigha man, you're the bigger fool here You're probably a teenager yet cha...You Never get sense cha......Just imagine wetin this maga dey yan self....say virgin go make a better home more than a non-virgin,on what stand? 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by brosom(m): 10:36am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Op that's ur personal choice and don't force it down our throat. Like me now, I no even fit marry a virgin, for what? Not that she'll be an alosho but a regular girl boyfriend type of girl is ok for me. And to tell u the irony of life, I've dated 5 solid girls but 4 were virgins that I confirmed by myself and I broke up with them because of it, I don't know maybe I'm crazy but that's me, can't marry a virgin Period..!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by chatinent: 10:37am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Sonnobax15: Coming to think that his sister has a child out of wedlock is an icebreaker. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by AntiSimp: 10:37am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Sonnobax15:Ode ni e...u call me a fool and and a teenager? U can't even read and understand, u are talking thrash from cliches that used women and frustrated simps now parrot about.... . It's better to wife a virgin and enjoy her for 5 or 10 years..than wife a community sperm dumpster and enjoy her for 5 or 10 years. Simple. Nothing is guaranteed in life. But don't settle for less 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by Sonnobax15(m): 10:39am On Sep 13, 2021 |
chatinent:Bro,I just tire for the guy matter I swear.... 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by AntiSimp: 10:42am On Sep 13, 2021 |
You can all crusade for whores and be their Jesus savior. Na una sabi. I won't spend my dowry money on a woman who is not a virgin period...highest na galfriend or babymama they deserve. I'm out.. u all can be arguing blindly and asslicking the whores u want to wife.... . This is my opinion...and it shouldn't be an unpopular opinion the way u people make it seem if u all had an ounce of reasoning. . I'm off to focus on better things. Peace out! 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by ImpatienBastard(m): 10:43am On Sep 13, 2021 |
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Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by SenecaTheYonger: 10:43am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Do you think it’s easy for a girl to exercise self control in 21 century? You’re crazy with that useless post. Nobody is expecting a perfect saint from a virgin but she has a biological and physical purity that can’t be matched. chatinent: 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by chatinent: 10:47am On Sep 13, 2021 |
SenecaTheYonger: I didn't stop you from looking for virgins, sir. Just project your points rightly not making it look like everybody’s sisters is a waste of dowry. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by SenecaTheYonger: 10:49am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Honestly OP. I’m thinking my only criteria in a woman now should be Virginity. With the kind of decay in society today, I’ve dropped all the criteria’s I once had. |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by Spider20: 11:05am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Several Simps always keep running towards nairaland seeking for advice or advices when bittered/hurt from there dirty hoes they regard as Girlfriend. Unfortunately I keep on praying and wishing they should get more and more hurt from those ladies couple with some brutal sexual disease. A simp will always be a simp Stop wasting your time advising people............. |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by Jeon(f): 11:54am On Sep 13, 2021 |
VIRGINS SHOULD GO FOR THE VIRGINS NONE VIRGINS SHOULD GO FOR THE NONE VIRGINS.. Period, U can't have public dick and be searching for virgins. U can't have public pusssy and be searching for virgins 2 Likes
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Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by Kenneth10110(m): 12:05pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
AntiSimp: Post like this shows you are pained women rejected you abeg focus and do the important things first. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by RedpillAnalyst: 1:41pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
How is that supposed to be a point? Women reject men no big deal. It is a fact promiscuous women do not have ability to pair bond with their partners hence they account for most failed- relationships. On the other hand, virgins also do not guarantee a happy married life. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by w1n5t0n(m): 1:51pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Op is tired of dating bad girls. IMO virgins can be just as troublesome. Don't look for a virgin or perfect woman. Marry a woman who gives you peace of mind. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by Vinnie2000(m): 1:58pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
OP You are quite Rude and too Aggressive!! But I share some of your views.. It's really Terrible dat Guys will pay a Big Bride Price n spend up to N500,000 for a Girl who has 7-10 ex boyfriends.. Let's tell ourselves d Truth!! Girls who have Fcvkked plenty Dicks should be honest and lower wedding expenses for their fiances! The Guy shouldn't Spend more dan N20,000! 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by Vinnie2000(m): 2:05pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Jeon: Our Nigerian Ladies and arguments.. Truth is that, Virginity is For women.. A man's Virginity CANNOT be determined.. Besides, many Ladies wouldn't want a Virgin man because he is inexperienced in sex.. Ladies want experienced fvckkers who knows how to scatter d place! So Males virginity is not Valued.. Female Virginity is priceless!! Girls should keep diers, if dey can.. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by RedpillAnalyst: 2:08pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
There is a common fallacy of people equating men with women. This is the most embraced and biggest miseducation in the past 5 decades. A woman's past matters when it comes to the vocation of motherhood and wife. A man's past? Not so much https://redpillers.com/discussion/topic/red-pill-200-why-her-past-matters/ 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by Vinnie2000(m): 2:13pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
SenecaTheYonger: My brother, If all Guys had their way, we would only marry Virgins as wives!! Nah poverty n other circumstances dat is causing doz pattern of reasoning!! If a Guy is given 2 young ladies for Marriage, one is a Virgin, the other has 15 body Counts, Which will any normal Guy choose? As someone once said, Guys Desire Freshness in a prospective Bride!! Ladies desire Wealth/Financial Security in a Groom! 3 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by Vinnie2000(m): 2:21pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
RedpillAnalyst: I Support you on dis!! Dats what Modern Feminists are Trying to do.. If a man is doing it, A woman should do hers, too.. A Man is man, a woman is a woman!! We are DIFFERENT! |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by multiple4u: 2:31pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Don't pay anything. If she's not a virgin. Forget it. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by RedpillAnalyst: 2:43pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
It is not easy for men and women to control the desires and temptation left and right in a hypersexualized world, but as the original poster said. It does not make logical sense anymore still treating women in the traditional way when they have en mass left the tradition and expect the men to fill the traditional roles when it soothes them. Dowry White gown Honeymoon Kneeling to Propose All these had roots in traditions and almost all Uber-promiscuous women I have known and spoken with all want these traditional things. You are not supposed to wear a white gown if you have had series of abortions. All women nowadays talk of Dubai,Maldives honeymoon, when honeymoon is actually meant for consummating your "love" after so much wait and abstinence till wedding night. What is the point in travelling outside the country with little money in a harsh economy to smash the same box that has been over smashed by several guys in 1-star hotels and dirty rooms. Kneeling to propose was an honorary thing that was started by the knights in the medieval age for honorable and respectable people in the society both men and women. The term "fair lady' started around this time to honor women who were feminine and lady-like, it was a thing to honour ladies back then by proposing in such a way because they were assumed to be pure in some form or the other. How many men still think this is a good idea is baffling when she has actually been the one on her knees on many occasions sucking off men in her her past life. Women have moved on from the traditional roles and expectations and men are still stuck in the 1950s idea of romance and love. And yes it is better to plan a long-term relationship with someone who has had very few partners or no partner than ex-slay queens who have seen more hotels than travelling bags. 1 Like
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Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by genaro2000(m): 4:01pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
RedpillAnalyst:I wish I could copy this your post and share it to a group I belong to, on Facebook, too many bluepill men are there and their ignorance is very irritating |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by Ekejoestar(m): 4:56pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Reasons why I will marry a virgin (1):My mum was married a virgin, so I will also marry a virgin. (2): virgins enters marriage with less/no baggage of past emotional trauma as a result of broken heart caused by failed relationships. (3): the first law of okafor , that law is validated daily by the news we hear everyday of women's infidelity in marriage. (4): and the last one is because I have always wanted to give someone's daughter head in a 69 position but I can't imagine myself licking a pussy that have been penetrated by different joysticks, and that particular issue is why I haven't given any of my past girlfriends head, That's my own reasons Sha,,, |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Pay Dowry If She's Not A Virgin by AntiSimp: 7:46pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
genaro2000:People no dey hear word |
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