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“I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by iamyemiakins(m): 3:29pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
A South African lady, Ifeyiwa Mkhize, has revealed that she intends to serve her husband like a king and won’t deviate from the old ways. Taking to her Facebook page, Ifeyiwa recounted how her mum treated her dad like a king in their home, even though he was a layman and a commoner. According to her, she observed that her dad felt loved and respected by her mom’s actions and it really inspired her. Sharing a photo of a woman kneeling down to serve her husband, Ifeyiwa wrote: This is literally how we grew up seeing our mothers serve our fathers and as soon as we were old enough, we were taught how to do it and to do it right. My father, a layman and commoner was served like a king in his home because that's exactly what he is. As soon as he walked in, I would take his jacket and shoes, hand him the remote and proceed to the kitchen to either tell my mom that he has confirmed that he is hungry or to fetch the warm water for him to wash his hands and wipe with a clean cloth. Sometimes my mother and I would pass each other on the passage as she carried the food on a tray or I'd go back and fetch everything.https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=671913487117268&id=100028958686381
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Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by iamyemiakins(m): 3:29pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Feminists going through the post like [img]https://media./images/db10d3f0e109e0868fcc817897e457ac/tenor.gif[/img] 9 Likes |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by BBBmall25: 3:39pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Make saphire and co no see this post o o ! |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by greenie77: 3:45pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Since it makes her happy, let her continue. 1 Like |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by Nobody: 3:52pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Hmmm, nice. |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by BBBmall25: 3:52pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Mod pleas this should front page to remind most of our 9ja sisters their ethical duties at home_thanks! 1 Like |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by Nobody: 3:53pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Shebi women too are now working and contributing financially, so should there be need for this type of slavery when she's also a provider? 1 Like |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by jmoore(m): 4:06pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Before you condemn her, make sure you start condemning men who kneel down to propose. Treat the hypocrisy first!! Her life, her choice. 4 Likes |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by Nobody: 4:18pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Knees never pain you. Fact is, all these cultural practices and demonstrations are not true sign of respect. Let the man upset her now and see how she'll react. You can still show your husband respect without all these eye service display. 4 Likes |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by ImaIma1(f): 4:21pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
My mum didn't kneel down to serve my dad and they were married till death did them part. Let everyone do what works for their marriage. 6 Likes |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by greenie77: 4:27pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
BBBmall25: What is ethical about kneeling down? If you observed your mother kneeling down while serving your father food or water, then I guess it will be so normalized for your sister(s) to do same for her/their husband(s) and for you, a wife who would knee as your mum kneeled for your dad. It is odd expecting a woman kneeling to serve her spouse when she was never socialized that way as it does not cut across all cultures. |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by Richy4(m): 4:31pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Nowadays people wash hands on sinks...But I must say, that picture was breathtaking.. 1 Like |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by BBBmall25: 4:42pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
greenie77:Well, my opinion remains that a vast majority of our 9ja sisters need to travel back to the stone age. I tire for this indomie and sex generation |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by greenie77: 4:52pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
BBBmall25: No one is travelling back to the stone age, the present day is for all. 1 Like |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by BBBmall25: 5:09pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
greenie77:If I were u, I'll book available flight now to south africa and pay homage to the lady. Baby girl learn and stop this pseudo intellectual debate |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by greenie77: 5:29pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
BBBmall25: Homage as my Lord and personal saviour? I never saw my mother do the kneeling, why should I go pay homage to a stranger whose reality bears no meaning to mine? I will equally advise you to book available flight now to Uganda and get the opportunity of enjoying ladies who derive their validation as good women by serving food in their bukas to their male customers while on their knees. 1 Like |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by Kajaard: 5:34pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
iamyemiakins: |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by iamyemiakins(m): 7:59pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
I don't even like seeing house-helps do this not to talk of a wife |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by Kobojunkie: 8:01pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Iyaebe:I thought you said on some other thread that this is what you also want for yourself, or did I read you wrong? 1 Like |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by RightToReject(m): 9:25pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
There's nothing fair about a man, or anyone at all, who demands or takes delight in his wife, or anyone else, kneeling down to serve him food - same applicable to anyone who takes delight in seeing others genuflect for them in the name of being older or more accomplished, culture or no culture, especially when they feel entitled to it. The idea of equating servility to respect and/or love is repulsive. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by Ulunne777(f): 11:18pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
;DFrom the woman who probably comes home later than the husband?Your mother was a housewife,the men don't want them anymore,They'd ask "what are you bringing to the table." BTW, once I jokingly did the shit after it was preached in church, my husband kicked me away and warned me not to try the shit again. 3 Likes |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by Kobojunkie: 12:40am On Sep 16, 2021 |
RightToReject: |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by Vision101(m): 2:20am On Sep 16, 2021 |
@greenie77 Since it makes her happy, let her continue. @me I will not talk. How you dey? |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by greenie77: 5:45am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Vision101: Feel free to talk o.....I am good and you? 1 Like |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by Sonnobax15(m): 10:03pm On Sep 22, 2021 |
Na so e suppose to be na... Meanwhile,na banny wey sabi genuflect we go introduce to our family members cha |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by JovialJune(f): 7:39am On Sep 23, 2021 |
Our Nigerian brethren will tell us kneeling down for her husband shows she is a good woman lol 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by OG1BABY(f): 2:32pm On Sep 23, 2021 |
Okay |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by Truvelisback(m): 7:26pm On Sep 23, 2021 |
The facial expression of Nairaland ladies, after reading this.
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Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by Nobody: 12:39pm On Sep 24, 2021 |
Kneel down keh!when you are not God,kam nukwa ! |
Re: “I Have No Interest To Move From Our Old Ways” — South African Lady Reveals by MufasaLion: 9:20pm On Sep 24, 2021 |
Why the fvck would a woman kneel? I have big ego but you don't need to kneel for me. |
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