”My home is tearing apart. I made a nasty and silly mistake

”Last week, I don’t know what came over me. I picked my husband phone and checked all his messages. I got a clue of a side chick and saved the number. I got her Facebook account, connect with her husband and send him messages warning him to tell his wife to leave my husband. He told me I am a liar and I sent all the proof I saved from my husband phone to him

”My husband did not come home on Monday and Tuesday and did not pick my call either. I told his family and they reached out to him. He came home last night to announce to me that the husband of the lady I reported sent her out and he has no choice than to secure a place for her. He told me frankly that he never planned to marry two wives but if the man refused to reconcile with her he would have to marry her and adopt her only son.

”My marriage would be 15 years soon, I have never seen my husband so bitter and angry like this. I am in a serious trouble. I don’t even know what to do.

Please I need advice, you can post to the group but hide my identity. Thank you ma.”

salisuammy:
Let her kukuma marry the side chicks husband too

bukatyne:


Two ge four ni yen

salisuammy:


I say let me help their confusion na

Mercychen:
What effrontery?
What insolence?
What audacity?
What the hell of a guts the shameless husband has to be telling the wife to her face that he'll marry another woman??

Chai! Some women dey endure shit!

He's not even sorry for cheating on her, he still has the audacity to bring in another woman. If the wife does something stupid now, they'll say she went too far..

I give up on men. Seriously... This is just too much.

Mercychen:
What effrontery?
What insolence?
What audacity?
What the hell of a guts the shameless husband has to be telling the wife to her face that he'll marry his side chick??

Chai! Some women dey endure shit!

He's not even sorry for cheating on her, he still has the audacity to bring in another woman. If the wife does something stupid now, they'll say she went too far..

I give up on men. Seriously... This is just too much.

2rez:


Easy babe! With this kind reasoning, u go get problem for marriage fah. Be calming down. Don't be too hard on yourself. Aint saying the hussy did right oh k. Nobody be saint but then, when u are angry, dont let your anger becloud your sense of reasoning. Na danger e dey cause just as dey play out for the wife so. I don clear u be that.

mardis:
So the husband is even proud cheating with a married woman, he is doing to his fellow man what he can't tolerate. Well, the wife shouldn't worry herself at all. She should just ignore the man, there is no point in leaving the marriage because that is what the side chick wants. She should just transform herself to be more sexy, dress sexy. Pay attention to her appearance. If she is fat, she should try and loose weight. Attend occasions and function where she can meet and hook up with friends especially male friends.

I don't even know what to write, but if am in her shoes i will know what to do without raising a voice.

mardis:
So the husband is even proud cheating with a married woman, he is doing to his fellow man what he can't tolerate. Well, the wife shouldn't worry herself at all. She should just ignore the man, there is no point in leaving the marriage because that is what the side chick wants. She should just transform herself to be more sexy, dress sexy. Pay attention to her appearance. If she is fat, she should try and loose weight. Attend occasions and function where she can meet and hook up with friends especially male friends.

I don't even know what to write, but if am in her shoes i will know what to do without raising a voice.

Mindlog:


Do she even still have a marriage? A married man who confidently have sex with another man's wife is not worth wasting time on.......he has little time left.

bukatyne:


He should confidently have sex with single ladies?

Mercychen:
What effrontery?
What insolence?
What audacity?
What the hell of a guts the shameless husband has to be telling the wife to her face that he'll marry his side chick??

Chai! Some women dey endure shit!

He's not even sorry for cheating on her, he still has the audacity to bring in another woman. If the wife does something stupid now, they'll say she went too far..

I give up on men. Seriously... This is just too much.

crackhaus:

And if it was you in the woman's shoes, what would you have done?

The worst best you can do is to leave the marriage with your dignity and allow him enjoy his new wife.

You're blowing hot like you're capable of killing anyone.

greenie77:
Her own marriage has also ended but she is living in denial Her husband who saw no wrong in having sexual relationship with another man's wife has chosen to marry the woman, she better respect herself and divorce him for the sake of her life and her children (if any) because she has become a sworn enemy to her husband and his mistress who is to become his wife.

There is even a possibility of the husband being the biological father of his married lover's son.

Playloaded:
My Husband Wants To Marry His Side Chic After I Reported Her To Her Husband – Woman Laments, Seeks Advice

A woman has sought advise from the public on how to find a solution for the problem currently bedeviling her marriage.

She revealed that her husband wants to marry his side chic who was recently chased out of her home by her husband after he uncovered her infidelity.

Sharing her story with a relationship counselor on Instagram, she distraught woman revealed that she had gone through her husband’s chat and messaged his side chic, who was also married.

She then contacted the side chic’s husband and gave him proof that his wife was unfaithful. .

The narrator said that her husband then came home and said his side chic’s husband sent her packing, and if they don’t reconcile, he would have to take her as his wife.

Read her write-up


https://playloaded.com.ng/my-husband-wants-to-marry-his-side-chic-after-i-reported-her-to-her-husband/