greenie77:


Bear it in mind that it will be her family that will bear the bigger weight of the pregnancy if she is to carry it to term, not you nor your family.

JovialJune:



Yes I will tell you same thing, cos those rich yahoo boys are not fit to have kids, money doesnt automatically qualify one as fit to have a child, there is more to being a father than money,

You're allowing emotions cloud your head/mind, think this through deeply so that you won't have any regrets.

generalwo:
..... You do menial jobs... U tear tickets and instead of you to face your life and see what you can make of it..... U decided to tear someone else's child pvssy.... I don't know what is wrong with children of these days.... You know say you no get money.... U dey find woman....as if e no reach, you give am Belle join..... So if the girl delivers, where will the child and the mother stay? Under your parents roof abi? And who will be feeding both of them? Abi you think say na 20k a month them take dey feed new born baby and her mother? I earn 6 figures every month, I am in my early 30s and I live alone..... I got my girlfriend pregnant and till today, I still find if difficult to make certain provisions for both mother and child.... My daughter is a year plus and I have not had sex since then because I dey fear pregnancy like another thing these days..... talkless of you wen dey tear ticket...... I am not trying to scold you or insult you but you fvcked up..... I don't support abortion as the way out but I won't blame the girl's mother for how she thinks because no woman will want to see her kids suffer.... If na dangote son of 16 give that girl Belle..... I bet you, her mother will protect that pregnancy with her life....the mistake has been made.... Pray for forgiveness and hustle more..... At your age, your education should be top of your priorities not women..... But as e Don be like this, na for you to continue to plead with the woman make she no abort the Belle.... Nobody like inlaw wen no get money....

Ayanwukoma:


We both same age group

Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.

Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

We are both same age groups, I am older than her with 3 months

She called me crying, I can't tell from her voice she doesn't want to do it.

Ishilove:
Na wa o

Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

We are both same age groups, I am older than her with 3 months

She called me crying, I can't tell from her voice she doesn't want to do it.

Ayanwukoma:


This really touched me, if I was one of those rich Yahoo boys that drives benz, would you tell me to let them abort my child.



All is well.

DBestDoc:


Lol, this boy is so entitled ee,
So you do not care that you’ve almost ruined that girl’s life? She’s also a teenager I’m sure and you want her to be burdened with the responsibilities of motherhood.

People do very abominable things with so much confidence these days that I can’t help but shudder in dismay.

If it were in the days when things were better, the parents of that girl would be the ones coming to your family with the community youths to discipline you for bringing them so much embarrassment and pain today, you the offender is contemplating going to their home to add salt to injury. Hahaha, I’ve seen it all.

Please don’t go causing that family more trouble, let them take their decision as they deem fit ‘cause they’d be the ones to bear any consequences that may arise from this mess you guys have created. Give them some space and use a condom next time.

You’ll have your offsprings when the time is right.

Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.
Like dis u get sense?
We are both same age groups, I am older than her with 3 months

She called me crying, I can't tell from her voice she doesn't want to do it.

generalwo:
..... Oga no be only yahoo Boys dey drive Benz..... Go and work hard.... If you are the son of a rich man, the woman will gladly allow her child to marry you but as it is..... You are living with your parents and u want to father a child...... Ogbeni...... Let's assume you're the girl's father..... You live in a one room apartment with your 19 years old daughter and you guys can barely feed 3 times a day.... And she got pregnant for a guy who is also 19 and lives wit his parents and cuts ticket and also do laborer job..... , will u clap for such a child?

Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.

Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.

RichAbujaGuy:
You can almost always spot a upcoming Nollywood script writer.

Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.

Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

We are both same age groups, I am older than her with 3 months

She called me crying, I can't tell from her voice she doesn't want to do it.

pixey:

Your case be like one Nollywood film like that.Young man! you have to prove to them you can take care of the child by consulting the elders of the community.At least you are not denying it.Do you love her and does she loves you?If that is the case.Nairaland elders has spoken.

Mercychen:


You hear person say him dey tear tickets for junction you still dey ask.

Na wa o.

generalwo:
..... Oga no be only yahoo Boys dey drive Benz..... Go and work hard.... If you are the son of a rich man, the woman will gladly allow her child to marry you but as it is..... You are living with your parents and u want to father a child...... Ogbeni...... Let's assume you're the girl's father..... You live in a one room apartment with your 19 years old daughter and you guys can barely feed 3 times a day.... And she got pregnant for a guy who is also 19 and lives wit his parents and cuts ticket and also do laborer job..... , will u clap for such a child?

Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

We are both same age groups, I am older than her with 3 months

She called me crying, I can't tell from her voice she doesn't want to do it.

Munzy14:

The stigma alone....Reach to give OP a forever communion...

Ayanwukoma:



Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.





Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.

Davash222:

The audacity of someone eating Mummy thank you

Philadelphia:




Bold 1:
Your parents are irresponsible to rejoice with you for impregnating a girl out of wedlock. They’re leeches.

Bold 2:
Her mom is right and you confirmed it in bold 3.

Bold 3:
Truthfully, you’re a tout and a street dog.

Bold 4:
You are a leech and that’s why you got the girl pregnant; just to benefit from her parents.

Bold 5:
How can your parents possibly assist you to take care of the child when you tear ticket for a living?
Not possible. Stop looking for cheap sympathy.

Bold 6:
You’re unemployed and you’re an agbero. Face it.

Bold 7:
Your parents should use the money they want to use to assist you in taking car of the child to train you to school. Also, tear more tickets so you can pay your school fees.
When you get a degree and a job, then you can think of impregnating a woman after marrying her.

TheGift:


None of what you have said changes the fact that Abortion in Nigeria is illegal and carries a heavy jail sentence--up to 14 years imprisonment--unless it is performed to save the life of the pregnant woman.

malcom1X:



You don marry her, if not
You have no say.