BarrElChapo:


No sane parent will willfully commit murder.
No sane parent will willfully kill their grand child.
No same parent will put their child in harm's way.
No sane parent will purposely set a bad precedent for their girl child.
I'm actually surprised that at your line of reasoning on this matter.

You expected the parents to allow their daughter have a child for such a person? Then she becomes a single mother at 18 or thereabout? When it get to your turn. Pamper and preserve your daughter and the foetus since na Dangote or Otedola your daughter go born for you

Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.

Since you know that her husband is rich and her mother is stubborn, it's likely you will leave the girl

She must have gone through bad words from her parents over the pregnancy and you

Since you don't want them to insult your parents, you have to let go

They have the right over their daughter and can decide whatever they want with her

Next time, get to know better the family of any girl you want to date so that if she gets pregnant, her family will appreciate the pregnancy and receive you

adedayourt:



Her mum was right afterall.

You are actually a tout no cap but rather than see the words of the min as an opportunity to turn a new leave. Sit with the parent and have a deep discussion of how you intend to plan out ur life and give the baby a good life. You planning of taking the street youth to the parents house.

How foolish of you.


I do not subscribe to abortion but if I was the girls parent, she would have the baby and not a fly from your household would come near or know the whereabout of the child and the mother.


If you do continue in this path you have threaded, I don't see you being a responsible father.

well i love your imput though

Left to me she won't have the child. I can't turn my daughter to a single mother because i can never never allow her marry him. Not even while am dead. That tout of a thing. If my daughter is foolish enough to follow such kind of a person. Then I will let the world knows we her parents ain't foolish like our daughter

Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.

Do everything humanly possible for them not to terminate your unborn child..

frozen70:


Since you know that her husband is rich and her mother is stubborn, it's likely you will leave the girl

She must have gone through bad words from her parents over the pregnancy and you

Since you don't want them to insult your parents, you have to let go

They have the right over their daughter and can decide whatever they want with her

Next time, get to know better the family of any girl you want to date so that if she gets pregnant, her family will appreciate the pregnancy and receive you

why would he be having sex at this time of his age by the way?

Nna eh.. some girls dey suffer o

AuroraB:
My daughter will not put me to shame and disrepute, in Jesus' name; Amen �


Just negodu ☹️���

Amen for you o and my sisters too o

God abeg o

kalvoken:



How stupid and daft can anyone be than this?

Why always mention rich yahoo, rich yahoo? Aren't they better than you touts who go about maiming and extorting those hustling for their daily bread, Now you have even added impregnating small small girls and constituting nuisance to the family. What an impetus.


God help you if the said father of the girl has gun, he would send you to your maker before people will gather.

Idiot

I go kill that guy i swear if i be the girl father or brother. I will make sure i kill him and face the damn consequences

Useless tout

Romanoff:


Be deceiving yourself.

90% of people here have told you the plain truth but you're too immature to see it.

You have NO RIGHT over that girl or that child she's carrying cause you're not married to her and she's still a teenager, her parents can decide on what's best for her.

Follow your dreams, become something in life. Grow up and while you're doing that, stay off premarital sex till you're mature to handle the consequences. Right now, you're not.

The girl is 18/19. It's not like he's 40 and preying on her.

He has a right to his child, but ultimately the choice is the girls to make. He doesn't seem to be a bad guy, but he's impulsive and childish. If I were her parents I would let her make the choice, but if she picks him then she will become his headache permanently. He seems more angry that they think he's poor, and that's why he's fighting to have the choice. Quite misguided.

Till tomorrow teenagers will have access to porn and the internet and still not know they can use condoms. And it's not even the year 1982!

BRATISLAVA:


Your sense of responsibility is commendable. You have what it takes to be a proper family man.

Exactlllllyyyy. It's the sense of responsibility for me. I'm wowed. He strikes as such a determined and goal getting person.

I 100% agree with everything else you've said. Op, I hope you'll pick some things from what she has said here.

Edun00700:
You want to show Your inlaw the tout she called you abi

Which inlaw biko? How does impregnating someone automatic make such a person an inlaw?

A tout
Agbero

Haba you no go even wish your enemy that kind thing sef

BRATISLAVA:


The girl is 18/19. It's not like he's 40 and preying on her.

He has a right to his child, but ultimately the choice is the girls to make. He doesn't seem to be a bad guy, but he's impulsive and childish. If I were her parents I would let her make the choice, but if she picks him then she will become his headache permanently. He seems more angry that they think he's poor, and that's why he's fighting to have the choice. Quite misguided.

Till tomorrow teenagers will have access to porn and the internet and still not know they can use condoms. And it's not even the year 1982!

He has no right stop saying all these please. Was she married to him legally or traditional way? Who joined them together? 18 years old girl who still have along way to go should become a single mother. Abi you wish your daughter to marry that kind person? You wanna turn the poor girl to a single mother at 18.

You do well

Magnoliaa:


Exactlllllyyyy. It's the senses of responsibility for me. I'm wowed. He strikes as such a determined and goal getting person.

I 100% agree with everything else you've said. Op, I hope you'll pick some things from what she has said here.

But he's still a kid.

Most of his desire for the child is to spite her parents. When they give him the child, what will he do? That's the important thing.

When he sees the full picture he may want to take a step back.

BRATISLAVA:


But he's still a kid.

Most of his desire for the child is to spite her parents. When they give him the child, what will he do? That's the important thing.

When he sees the full picture he may want to take a step back.

If he progresses to head of tout at the park or Junction where he's tearing ticket he can actually be making enough money from touting..
And he can pay his bills..

VTJN:
He has no right stop saying all these please. Was she married to him legally or traditional way? Who joined them together? 18 years old girl who still have along way to go should become a single mother. Abi you wish your daughter to marry that kind person? You wanna turn the poor girl to a single mother at 18.

You do well

He has a right. Whether traditionally you like it or not. Under the law, he does. It's his child growing in her.

Romanoff:


Be deceiving yourself.

90% of people here have told you the plain truth but you're too immature to see it.

You have NO RIGHT over that girl or that child she's carrying cause you're not married to her and she's still a teenager, her parents can decide on what's best for her.

Follow your dreams, become something in life. Grow up and while you're doing that, stay off premarital sex till you're mature to handle the consequences. Right now, you're not.

Please ignore that person abeg. Let him pray for his daughter to end up like that wish such a tout of a person

They'd never listen to good advice. I wonder how they get erection when they never mature, responsible with good job or business. End time is near truly

BRATISLAVA:


He has a right. Whether traditionally you like it or not. Under the law, he does. It's his child growing in her.

If you know you are so sure of this eh PM the guy and follow him to go claim the foetus. Like please just follow him.

The5DME:
this is a fake story
Don't bother yourself

I swear bro

Big time fake. Na AK 47 i go use kill the tout and Agbero commot for him body

Philadelphia:




Bold 1:
Your parents are irresponsible to rejoice with you for impregnating a girl out of wedlock. They’re leeches.

Bold 2:
Her mom is right and you confirmed it in bold 3.

Bold 3:
Truthfully, you’re a tout and a street dog.

Bold 4:
You are a leech and that’s why you got the girl pregnant; just to benefit from her parents.

Bold 5:
How can your parents possibly assist you to take care of the child when you tear ticket for a living?
Not possible. Stop looking for cheap sympathy.

Bold 6:
You’re unemployed and you’re an agbero. Face it.

Bold 7:
Your parents should use the money they want to use to assist you in taking car of the child to train you to school. Also, tear more tickets so you can pay your school fees.
When you get a degree and a job, then you can think of impregnating a woman after marrying her.

No sane parents will even allowed that tout of a thing close to her house to plea. If i was the girl parents. I wouldn't only abort the pregnancy. I'd make sure i so deal with that tout and his useless parents that are applauding and supporting their Agbero pikin

VTJN:
Teach your gender bro to control their dick. Those prostitutes for hotel shey na them go dey drag men come ni? Na men like you and i dey carry our leg go meet them.

We Africans focus much attention to the female folks leaving the guys behaving abnormal. Even a mad man on the street will never allow her daughter have a child for such person

God forbid on behalf of the girl and her family

You are comparing another different thing entirely (a brothel). It's business. It's transaction if an Ashawo is involved.

Some women have strived to maintain no sex before marriage with their partner. Talking about CONTROL. It should be for both genders. Many women can't control urge for sex too. Not only men.

But you see consent for sex to happen, it lies solely in the hands of a woman. She has the final say when a man requests. And that gives her immense power. Emphasis should be on the girl-child. Teaching them a lot of things will go a long way to curtail many things. Defending them and blaming the male child jointly only worsens the situation.

BRATISLAVA:


Your sense of responsibility is commendable. You have what it takes to be a proper family man.

You aren't a bad guy, but you have bad influences.

If you don't want her family to see you as a tout, why are you behaving like one? Why don't you tell your parents to join you to go and see her parents like civilized people? They aren't rejecting you because of money, but because of your life associations. You're living by impulse and temperament, which is the attitude of the lost. That is a bad influence.

Being poor is not an excuse to impregnate someone's daughter. Right now you're fired up about it, but what are your long-term plans for your child? To prove you're ready to have this child you must not think of dependence on your parents, because that is what a child does.

But why is it that you're living in 2021 and you don't know that people use condoms? And you have access to the internet.

If I were her parents, I would be angry at you for that especially. For not using a condom. And will insist she lives with you in a house that you will rent to prove you are capable.

I salute you

Juliusmomoh:


Mummy ishilove. I hope you have seen it all.

Welcome to nigeria

This must be fake. It's must be a nollywood. If it's real, that guy and his irresponsible parents ought to rut in jail after aborting the smelly thing out of the girl

Useless tout of an Agbero

1. You call the girls mother troublesome
2. You want to take thugs/youth to create nuisance in the girl's house
3. you are creating problems for your parents
4. You think your parents are entitled to clean up after you or entitled to bear your misbehaviors
5. Since you know what to do why bring it up here
6. You talk with so much audacity as if fornication is not a sin
7. Do you love the girl in question? Or you just want your child or you love that she is from a rich home.
8. No sane Parent will embrace this act of immorality from their teenage girl child
9. The girl in question is not your sister, daughter or wife so you do not have such rights over her or her parents
10. The responsibility of bringing up a child is way more than your youthful exuberance, even adult are scared of the path you are trying to take, do not let your exuberance embarrass you. Thank you.

Juliusmomoh:


Mummy ishilove. I hope you have seen it all.

Welcome to nigeria

This one pass me

MNDY:



You are comparing another different thing entirely (a brothel). It's business. It's transaction if an Ashawo is involved.

Some women have strived to maintain no sex before marriage with their partner. Talking about CONTROL. It should be for both genders. Many women can't control urge for sex too. Not only men.

But you see consent for sex to happen, it lies solely in the hands of a woman. She has the final say when a man requests. And that gives her immense power. Emphasis should be on the girl-child. Teaching them a lot of things will go a long way to curtail many things. Defending them and blaming the male child jointly only worsens the situation.

Yes you are right

But that tout of a guy isn't responsible or fit to have a child. I'm so sorry for being rude

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Guy just calm down and get another babe pregnant since your own parents are happy for you. They are happy you got a girl pregnant even when you know you can't take care of yourself let alone a girl and baby.
As it's stands now, the girl's family are the ones that have the final say. If you like gather Nigerian army to their house, it won't change a thing.
If you want a baby so much, get another girl pregnant and maybe this time, let the parents know that you want to get their daughter pregnant so that they won't try to abort the baby. You are young and full of fertile sperm.

miss congi nawa 4 u o

Ayanwukoma:


We are both same age.

Guy...I no wan use harsh words on you, but you get mind. You don't have a reasonable source of income, you can't feed yourself talk less of paying for an accommodation, but you want a child.

Who will take care of the pregnancy till birth? Who will take care of the mother and child after birth? Who will take care of the child during infant?

So you want to bring another child out unthis World to suffer like you: dell tickets at junctions? Guy...normally you should be hiding in shame. Do you know what happens when a woman doesn't get a proper medical attention during and after pregnancy? Should that girl die as a result of lack of proper healthcare, you sef is in trouble.

Chai...Guy...you mind oo...if na for ma sef ee...Guy...you should have found yourself in one uncompi receiving better beating.

Jazzer:
1. You call the girls mother troublesome
2. You want to take thugs/youth to create nuisance in the girl's house
3. you are creating problems for your parents
4. You think your parents are entitled to clean up after you or entitled to bear your misbehaviors
5. Since you know what to do why bring it up here
6. You talk with so much audacity as if fornication is not a sin
7. Do you love the girl in question? Or you just want your child or you love that she is from a rich home.
8. No sane Parent will embrace this act of immorality from their teenage girl child
9. The girl in question is not your sister, daughter or wife so you do not have such rights over her or her parents
10. The responsibility of bringing up a child is way more than your youthful exuberance, even adult are scared of the path you are trying to take, do not let your exuberance embarrass you. Thank you.

God bless you for this input sir

No sane parents would even listen to the tout of a guy. Even his parents are irresponsible. No wonder he chose the part of having sexial intercourse at his very young age and he's a tout and Agbero. What a perfect combination of a child

This just looks fake to me seriously

Easy nah, gosh

Bitter truth my brother, laugh wan finish me





You see why her mom said you're a tout?

You want to take boys to their house to constitute nuisance.

Gbola = Active
Sense = inactive[/quote]

od501:



Guy...I no wan use harsh words on you, but you get mind. You don't have a reasonable source of income, you can't feed yourself talk less of paying for an accommodation, but you want a child.

Who will take care of the pregnancy till birth? Who will take care of the mother and child after birth? Who will take care of the child during infant?

So you want to bring another child out unthis World to suffer like you: dell tickets at junctions? Guy...normally you should be hiding in shame. Do you know what happens when a woman doesn't get a proper medical attention during and after pregnancy? Should that girl die as a result of lack of proper healthcare, you sef is in trouble.

Chai...Guy...you mind oo...if na for ma sef ee...Guy...you should have found yourself in one uncompi receiving better beating.

God forbid, God forbid. If na me this nonsense happen to eh i swear i go kill this guy 3 times

AuroraB:
My daughter(s) will not put me to shame and disrepute, in Jesus' name; Amen �


Just negodu ☹️���

chineke me

VTJN:


God forbid, God forbid. If na me this nonsense happen to eh i swear i go kill this guy 3 times

I don't even know of to call his boldness courage or stupidity

paprika212:
Easy nah, gosh

Bitter truth my brother, laugh wan finish me





You see why her mom said you're a tout?

You want to take boys to their house to constitute nuisance.

Gbola = Active
Sense = inactive

No, not to constitute nuisance, you all got me wrong.
I spoked with the street vice chairman about it which he suggested we should go and have a sit down with her parents.

Since I have limited time to convince my own parents to go and plea on my behalf.(especially my dad)

The thing is you all mistaking me mentioning community youths as street touts and urchins saying we are going there to fight, that's wrong.

We have alot of responsible adults in my community that are well respected, and I believe if her mum sees them and they made an input she may likely change her decision.

Anyways, have heard all your inputs.