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Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by RedpillAnalyst: 5:42am On Sep 22, 2021
Dating is a very new concept and the modern dating started in the 1950s after World War II when women were given freedom to work outside the house.

Prior to this time, dating was seriously frowned upon and it was linked to prostitution. Dating historically was used as an avenue to entertain prostitutes before engaging in sexual activities.

Dating today from a logical standpoint is not distant from prostitution - A man exchanges his resources (money, status, lifestyle and time) for access to sex.

In the early 1900s, in most part of the civilized world, it was a crime for a man to sit down and entertain a woman he is not related to. Both men and women could get arrested for giving and collecting money if they can not give any tangible reason for such transactions.

Dating in this age is not very much different from paying prostitutes only that prostitutes are sincere and straight forward. They want your money and they are ready to put out unlike "dating" modern girls who often think they are better than the pros and want to put you under the illusion of love while tapping resources from you while rationing sex to you depending on how you show your love i.e. spend money on her.

There are few scenerios where dating might be good and I know some people would claim it's about knowing your partner and so on. That I agree, but most people don't even know who they are dating until they are bored of one another and they move to the next person.

Dating has been abused by both men and women and it is nothing more than prostitution for decent people.

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Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by dingbang(m): 5:57am On Sep 22, 2021
cool
Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by Sonnobax15(m): 5:57am On Sep 22, 2021
grin
Who don talk this one again na

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Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by Nobody: 6:11am On Sep 22, 2021
He's right,nice one op

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Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by Nobody: 6:12am On Sep 22, 2021
dingbang:
cool
Ben the aggressive banker how are you doing

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Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by Futurez(m): 6:21am On Sep 22, 2021
Dating is beautiful. You get to know each other.
Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by JimmyDarmody: 6:55am On Sep 22, 2021
This truth is bitter and will be campaigned against.

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Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by Ganvic: 7:25am On Sep 22, 2021
Dating is an avenue to have sex and both parties knows it
Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by dingbang(m): 7:43am On Sep 22, 2021
Iyaebe:
Ben the aggressive banker how are you doing
i hope you know i converse with real people and not alternates wink, so i will be ignoring you until you come out from your hiding place. cool
Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by Demigod22: 8:48am On Sep 22, 2021
Personally, dating is okay for me, but religiously and morally, fornication is bad. But,who cares? They are people who don't even believe in the religious and moral beliefs. Morality and religion should first deal with people making life hard.
Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by Nobody: 9:42am On Sep 22, 2021
I hate to read all this kind of trash...

Because I can't really get the Op point in all of this. Is it that we should stop dating? Or what?

Cos to me dating is same as courting. A period set aside for knowing eachother better, to gauge compatibility. It's up to the couples maybe séx will be given.

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Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by Kendudu007(m): 9:49am On Sep 22, 2021
Doradorwa:
I hate all this kind of trash
grin cheesy because its the bitter truth whats the point of a lady "dating" a guy under the illusion of love in return they keep banging each other reckless lol and she makes her profit from him where by he keeps sending her money and buying her iPhone grin and gifts and at the end they don't marry each other ....nothing different from prostitution just the illusion of love is at work in exchange of money. Low key I'm right .....

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Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by Kendudu007(m): 9:53am On Sep 22, 2021
Doradorwa:
I hate to read all this kind of trash...

Because I can't really get the Op point in all of this. Is it that we should stop dating? Or what?

Cos to me dating is same as courting. A period set aside for knowing eachother better, to gauge compatibility. It's up to the couples maybe séx will be given.
grin hmmmmm if you say its courtship process will you be in a " courtship process" for years and the guy will not send you a dime and you won't ask for anything and y'all won't bang each other can you do that ? What's the point of doing this advanced prostitution dating style were by deep down y'all not going to get married at the end ?? Its someone else y'all eventually get married to ...maybe after like 13 to 15 "dating" lolz

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Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by Nobody: 10:05am On Sep 22, 2021
Tf is Redpill Analyst grin grin grin
Fgs enough of this clownery
Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by Palazee(m): 10:21am On Sep 22, 2021
Men takes dating as an avenue to have sex


We mostly don't date you to know more about you

Know this and know peace.

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Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by Nobody: 10:40am On Sep 22, 2021
Kendudu007:
grin hmmmmm if you say its courtship process will you be in a " courtship process" for years and the guy will not send you a dime and you won't ask for anything and y'all won't bang each other can you do that ? What's the point of doing this advanced prostitution dating style were by deep down y'all not going to get married at the end ?? Its someone else y'all eventually get married to ...maybe after like 13 to 15 "dating" lolz
it seems you forgotten it takes 2 to tangle. The only thing I can say is that some parents has failed to raise a good and responsible male child. All I see lately is lazy, irresponsible, uncultured and blame gaming males.... I won't raise mine to be this way.
Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by Vinnie2000(m): 10:56am On Sep 22, 2021
Palazee:
Men takes dating as an avenue to have sex


We mostly don't date you to know more about you

Know this and know peace.



This Nairaland Guys.. sad
Girls also Date to Have sex too..

If a Girl does not Find a Guy sexually Attractive, She won't Date him!

When you are Wooing Nigerian Young ladies nowadays, They Size/Study..
*Ur Smile
*Ur Voice
*Ur Confidence
*Ur trouser Bulge (whether ur Gbola is Big) wink
*Ur Energy Levels (Whether you know how to Bulala) cool

So, Dats it!

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Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by Kendudu007(m): 11:55am On Sep 22, 2021
Doradorwa:
it seems you forgotten it takes 2 to tangle. The only thing I can say is that some parents has failed to raise a good and responsible male child. All I see lately is lazy, irresponsible, uncultured and blame gaming males.... I won't raise mine to be this way.
okay oo madam its a free world ...
Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by InfinityFabric: 12:31pm On Sep 22, 2021
Crisp hit, true finish.

There are few scenerios where dating might be good and I know some people would claim it's about knowing your partner and so on. That I agree, but most people don't even know who they are dating until they are bored of one another and they move to the next person.
I'd say: no scenario.
These "knowing your partner and so on" camp still fight and divorce soon after wedding ceremonies.
You don't actually know anyone until marriage (or at least live together like you're).

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Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by RedpillAnalyst: 12:44pm On Sep 22, 2021
Kendudu007:
grin hmmmmm if you say its courtship process will you be in a " courtship process" for years and the guy will not send you a dime and you won't ask for anything and y'all won't bang each other can you do that ? What's the point of doing this advanced prostitution dating style were by deep down y'all not going to get married at the end ?? Its someone else y'all eventually get married to ...maybe after like 13 to 15 "dating" lolz

13 failed relationships and 14th eventually leading to marriage. The last 13 relationships are nothing more than paying for subscription fee to have access to that coochie as needed.

Most men and even women know they are not going to marry one another. Both parties act a fool and get whatever they want to get from each other before things fully scatter.

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Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by RedpillAnalyst: 1:25pm On Sep 22, 2021
Doradorwa:
I hate to read all this kind of trash...

Because I can't really get the Op point in all of this. Is it that we should stop dating? Or what?

Cos to me dating is same as courting. A period set aside for knowing eachother better, to gauge compatibility. It's up to the couples maybe séx will be given.

I have nothing against dating, it is just seeing things for what it is.

and no ma, dating is not courtship. Courtship traditionally is a supervised form of "dating" i.e. knowing one another under the supervision of your parents and the most intimate thing people do while courting was hold hands and all these had to be in public places.

When people are "dating" what do you think they do mostly? Sing praises and worship together? Read bible to each others ears? or they are deliberating how to make the world a better place? You and I know these don't happen often maybe not at all.

Exchange of financial assets for coochie is same as prostitution for every date that doesn't result into marriage, so far sex and money were involved.

Same for Valentine's Day often misconstrued as romance day. Girls looking ahead towards valentine for gifts and guys looking towards valentine to not pay too much to get that coochie shined

Once again, I'm not against dating I like the word dating because it makes us feel better and morally superior than prostitutes and those who decide to cut the chase and bs and just pay for prostitutes.
Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by Kendudu007(m): 1:38pm On Sep 22, 2021
RedpillAnalyst:


13 failed relationships and 14th eventually leading to marriage. The last 13 relationships are nothing more than paying for subscription fee to have access to that coochie as needed.

Most men and even women know they are not going to marry one another. Both parties act a fool and get whatever they want to get from each other before things fully scatter.

You are blessed with wisdom


Re: Dating Is Prostitution for Decent People by RedpillAnalyst: 4:50pm On May 09, 2022
While at it. Dating has failed and it is not a working concept. It has led to more abortions, than marriage. Dating has produced more STIs than long term marriage, Dating has made many men poor - The money many guys could have used in starting business and build empires has been spent on girls who are under another women.

Facts: People are not supposed to be dating.. Your parents are supposed to pick partners for you.

Oh that's old fashion and archaic right?

How many guys/girls have you dated? How many are you still with?

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