Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Kobojunkie: 8:01pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Dapcity007:
Check and invalidate them then get back to me Since you have no source to reference, am to then assume them possibly made up? Not even a Google search of the claims on there returns a valid reference linking them equality in marriage. So why do you do this? 5 Likes |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by AmazonTopaz(f): 8:04pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA:
And. . . You're back
Your post is the truth. Subtract "money" from most Nigerian men, and they are very undesirable. And that is why women leave them when they are broke, all the ugliness is laid bare then.
They spend so much time preaching on what a virtuous woman is, and yet their own virtue is in shambles.
Yes I am back thank you very much. You have said the basic truth but many of them don't like to admit it 5 Likes |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by AmazonTopaz(f): 8:06pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA:
Fear Bible bangers when it comes to women matters. Most of them are infidels by the same biblical standards.
The only righteousness to them is to be the head of the home and for women to be submissive. The rest of the Bible doesn't exist to them. Not even the 10 commandments
Religion twisted to the patriarchy. That is why they don't want women to preach, because their control points will be trashed. @bold,truer words have never been spoken, they forget where the Bible warns against adultery but remember they are the head of the home they don't admonish men against adultery but admonish the women to tolerate such men that a good woman builds her home blah blah blah 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Awinneralways: 8:14pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
ImaIma1: OP it's the woman you married o. That is her character. It's not all women. So just deal with the matter as per it's one of her flaws. Maybe spending money pinches and peppers her body.
Not all of us mouth off like that because we pay for one thing or the other. We have to work together. If you arent careful, some stuff you read here may start affecting you. Deactivate immediately |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Kobojunkie: 8:20pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA: Fear Bible bangers when it comes to women matters. Most of them are infidels by the same biblical standards.
The only righteousness to them is to be the head of the home and for women to be submissive. The rest of the Bible doesn't exist to them. Not even the 10 commandments.
Religion twisted to the patriarchy. That is why they don't want women to preach, because their control points will be trashed. na wa oo! |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by BRATISLAVA: 8:26pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: na wa oo! What happened? It's true. Most men are prime candidates of hellfire without wearing miniskirts and using earrings and lipstick and flashing their panties. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Kobojunkie: 8:50pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA:
What happened?
It's true. Most men are prime candidates of hellfire without wearing miniskirts and using earrings and lipstick and flashing their panties. Nothing but marveling at what religion has reduced the Word of God to. Anyone who thinks those in bold are sins does not know God at all. 1 Like |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by socialmediaman: 8:58pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
JESHAL:
Equality doesn't work in marriage We complement each other, that's how successful families have been built in every civilization in every era
She knows her roles I know my roles
She defers to my command and authority
I cherish, value, love and take care of her
She assists me, I make the final decisions
Marriage is putting family above individual selfish hedonistic happiness
That's why mordern marriages are failing, Feminism ideology made things worse I agree with most of what you posted here, but let's separate these misandrists parading themselves as feminists (the "men are scum" gang) from the feminists who know and perform their roles in marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by frozen70(f): 9:26pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
reel14: Hello Nairalanders. I got married late last year. Even though I got married late, I.made sure I was gainfully employed before taking the giant stride I love my wife and she loves me too. I carry 98 % of the home responsibility, recently, because things are on the high side and my wife is working as well, I told her to be taking care of filling the gas while I handle other bills. I have observed that anytime I go near the gas maybe to make food or boil water, she will remind how expensive gas is right now, after all, if it finishes, I won't give money to fill. These words hurt me alot as this is the only thing you do for us in this house. I know how much I pay for rent, DSTV etc with other utility bills. My thoughts now are; How do men which their wives are feeding them cope with insults and embarrassments that come will every meal? How do unemployed/ underemployed men cope? What if anything happens with my job, will I be able to stay in a verbal abusive home?
It's time you give her additional financial responsibilities so that she will appreciate you and talk with caution For men whom their wives are bread winners, they have to humble themselves for absolute peace 1 Like |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by cococandy(f): 9:45pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz:
It isn't attached to poverty there are men with good jobs who do this.
Nothing stops a man from helping out in the home and making time for his family.That is a wise and honourable man. 100. Either the man employs someone to help out or he helps out. There’s no reason why it should all be on one person. We all know MOST MEN expect financial contribution. therefore there shouldn’t be a debate about the domestic duties in that case. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by ImaIma1(f): 10:00pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Awinneralways:
If you arent careful, some stuff you read here may start affecting you. Deactivate immediately You that just joined this forum last month, telling me to deactivate . What else do I want to hear here? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by BRATISLAVA: 10:00pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Nothing but marveling at what religion has reduced the Word of God to.
Anyone who thinks those in bold are sins does not know God at all. That's what men say sins are. Because they feel better if they make it that it's women going to hell. 1 Like |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Rubbiish(m): 10:02pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Romanoff:
You are right sha. The woman I cited above who just bought a house and car, her hubby takes care of the kids and runs the home while she's at work. She doesn't come back from work to start rushing to the kitchen to cook.
Hubby would have done that.
Weekends, she cooks soups, hubby does laundry. God forbid! No man would ever wish for this! It is a curse! That man is helpless! 1 Like |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Rubbiish(m): 10:05pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Romanoff:
If I hear. She worships him.
They respect each other. Hahaha fat lie! 2 Likes |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Romanoff(f): 10:05pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Rubbiish:
God forbid! No man would ever wish for this! It is a curse! That man is helpless! Okay 3 Likes |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Romanoff(f): 10:06pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
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Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by BRATISLAVA: 10:09pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
socialmediaman:
I agree with most of what you posted here, but let's separate these misandrists parading themselves as feminists (the "men are scum" gang) from the feminists who know and perform their roles in marriage. A lot of misogynists and misandrists are married. Likewise feminists and chauvinists. Role play is very easy. Most men like to think misandrists aren't married, the same way they demonized feminists as aged spinsters, but hoodwinking a man is not a difficult task when all of them want virtuous women. It is people who have complicated relationships with "roles". Find someone who wants your "roles". Don't try and force them into or it will always backfire. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Maxwell4404(m): 10:13pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Yes Ma, welcome Ma, no Ma, okay Ma, Oya Ma, alright Ma, I think so Ma, Maybe Ma, everything for those kind Men na just Ma, make the woman ( breadwinner ) no dey vex 3 Likes |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Sterope(f): 10:13pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Call her and speak to her please |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Kobojunkie: 10:14pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
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Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Cyphar(m): 10:14pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
chatinent:
This scenario reminds me of Jude and Eniola Badmus that was always cartoonized on The Sun Newspaper.
That means if she were the one providing the meals, ọ ga -esiri gị ike ga ahu banana nke a rapuru fo.
Mehn..
Nothing dey vex me pass references to every little efforts you make forgetting my daily stabs to make you happy.
Most women cannot be men even for a day.
Only one evening my cousin sister took me out, I never even remove my shoe naim I read her status: “I like the woman I am becoming. Always learn to man your womanhood.”
The only thing most women tend to appreciate is credit alerts..or send your account number. They will become so emotional..they can even cry.
Let the case be the reverse.
Make she just take care of you for two days.
You go hear weeen. She go even remind you how she carry you for stomach for nine months.
“Richie, what is this na, can't I have peace after coming back from work again? How can you eat and cannot wash your plates again! What's this na!”
“Baby, why are you shouting? The neighbours are at...”
“Don't baby me. What have I not done to make you happy? Will I kill myself? Am I the only married woman in the world..what is this na.”
(You try to hold her hands to calm her down...she slaps you damn hard).
“(She is crying now..tears flowly freely). Just see what you made me do. Just see it. Everything is just wrong with this world.”
You mah wey dem slap go still go meet am for parlour where she dey cry dey pet am (and that is after checking your cheeks if blood dey comot). You go come humbly tell am say no bi you eat, say na the one she eat for morning..but anyways, you forgot to wash it.
Another matter don dey brew.
She will now come to the parlour and sit, ask you for the remote and change the football to Telemundo and mutter these words you'll never hear: “work e won't work, such a failure. It's only remote e can pass.”
You will try to look at her with your side eyes but meet her full eyes staring at you in disgust. Mumu you go come smile enter bedroom.
As you are walking into the bedroom, the volume of the muttering is increasing but it's still inaudible.
In the oza room, just respect yourself. Don't even dare..unless you want the whole world to know how you will be idle and want to kill sb’s daughter after working all day!
“oh, it's your plan, Richie, baa? To kill me so that you can now go and meet Ishilove, baa?”
Only you go dey like Stone Cold Steve Austin sleep.
It will be normal...the “honey, darling etc.” is going to die. You will be called your name...two seconds, she will stop calling your name and just be giving out orders.
Abeg, don't even remind her you are the husband. You will get the insult of your life. She will say “no, say it loud na, let mama Chisom hear you. How many husbands stay at home watching football and their wives are left to do all the work!”
But na you still dey pay rent, buy foodstuff, and children fees.
Baba, kuku collect that responsiblity back. I hate to talk much. No dare shift any of your responsibility to woman...even if she persists to want to help. E kuku better she dey do am willingly than you register her name on it.
Only women, babies, and pets are loved. Men are respected when they man up. Na the respect we dey translate to love. I love this comment. The last paragraph is just the bitter truth 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Nobody: 10:15pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Romanoff:
You are right sha. The woman I cited above who just bought a house and car, her hubby takes care of the kids and runs the home while she's at work. She doesn't come back from work to start rushing to the kitchen to cook.
Hubby would have done that.
Weekends, she cooks soups, hubby does laundry. 2 Likes |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Sterope(f): 10:16pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Uhn I am a woman and I won't support such advice. spice123:
My brother, I was out of job for like 6 months and wife took care of all the bills excluding rent and school fees and nobody noticed or knew I was out of job. No negative attitude showed up and I will tell you why. A close friend gave me this advice and I will share same with you. When you get your salary or business profit, remove your t-fare/car fuel and give the rest to your wife to manage the home. I was very hard for me to do but t I summoned courage and since 3+ years I started it, I have complete peace. Infact, my wife was praising me on how I was able to pay all bills and manage funds. By the time your wife will mismange the home funds (feeding, rent, kids sch fees e.t.c) she will wake up and realize that paying for gas in the home is the least issue. You will have utmost respect bro. I have been married for 7 years now. 4 Likes |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by chatinent: 10:16pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Cyphar:
I love this comment. The last paragraph is just the bitter truth Thanks boss. |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by LaSenior: 10:16pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Sometimes things we ignore in courtship tend to Hunt us when married your supposed wife may have exhibited this act when Dating but you ignore it
95% of women has this attitude
There's no better way to handle a woman if not using iron hand
Use iron hand for that woman and pray that God should protect your job if not sorry is your name
This why many guys today are being discouraged of getting married 9 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Gireiboy(m): 10:17pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
chatinent:
This scenario reminds me of Jude and Eniola Badmus that was always cartoonized on The Sun Newspaper.
That means if she were the one providing the meals, ọ ga -esiri gị ike ga ahu banana nke a rapuru fo.
Mehn..
Nothing dey vex me pass references to every little efforts you make forgetting my daily stabs to make you happy.
Most women cannot be men even for a day.
Only one evening my cousin sister took me out, I never even remove my shoe naim I read her status: “I like the woman I am becoming. Always learn to man your womanhood.”
The only thing most women tend to appreciate is credit alerts..or send your account number. They will become so emotional..they can even cry.
Let the case be the reverse.
Make she just take care of you for two days.
You go hear weeen. She go even remind you how she carry you for stomach for nine months.
“Richie, what is this na, can't I have peace after coming back from work again? How can you eat and cannot wash your plates again! What's this na!”
“Baby, why are you shouting? The neighbours are at...”
“Don't baby me. What have I not done to make you happy? Will I kill myself? Am I the only married woman in the world..what is this na.”
(You try to hold her hands to calm her down...she slaps you damn hard).
“(She is crying now..tears flowly freely). Just see what you made me do. Just see it. Everything is just wrong with this world.”
You mah wey dem slap go still go meet am for parlour where she dey cry dey pet am (and that is after checking your cheeks if blood dey comot). You go come humbly tell am say no bi you eat, say na the one she eat for morning..but anyways, you forgot to wash it.
Another matter don dey brew.
She will now come to the parlour and sit, ask you for the remote and change the football to Telemundo and mutter these words you'll never hear: “work e won't work, such a failure. It's only remote e can pass.”
You will try to look at her with your side eyes but meet her full eyes staring at you in disgust. Mumu you go come smile enter bedroom.
As you are walking into the bedroom, the volume of the muttering is increasing but it's still inaudible.
In the oza room, just respect yourself. Don't even dare..unless you want the whole world to know how you will be idle and want to kill sb’s daughter after working all day!
“oh, it's your plan, Richie, baa? To kill me so that you can now go and meet Ishilove, baa?”
Only you go dey like Stone Cold Steve Austin sleep.
It will be normal...the “honey, darling etc.” is going to die. You will be called your name...two seconds, she will stop calling your name and just be giving out orders.
Abeg, don't even remind her you are the husband. You will get the insult of your life. She will say “no, say it loud na, let mama Chisom hear you. How many husbands stay at home watching football and their wives are left to do all the work!”
But na you still dey pay rent, buy foodstuff, and children fees.
Baba, kuku collect that responsiblity back. I hate to talk much. No dare shift any of your responsibility to woman...even if she persists to want to help. E kuku better she dey do am willingly than you register her name on it.
Only women, babies, and pets are loved. Men are respected when they man up. Na the respect we dey translate to love. Damn! bro! you are a genius, you are going to be a good producer and director in you eventually venture into the film industry 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Nobody: 10:17pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
spice123:
My brother, I was out of job for like 6 months and wife took care of all the bills excluding rent and school fees and nobody noticed or knew I was out of job. No negative attitude showed up and I will tell you why. A close friend gave me this advice and I will share same with you. When you get your salary or business profit, remove your t-fare/car fuel and give the rest to your wife to manage the home. I was very hard for me to do but t I summoned courage and since 3+ years I started it, I have complete peace. Infact, my wife was praising me on how I was able to pay all bills and manage funds. By the time your wife will mismange the home funds (feeding, rent, kids sch fees e.t.c) she will wake up and realize that paying for gas in the home is the least issue. You will have utmost respect bro. I have been married for 7 years now. 1 Like |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Yaruk1: 10:18pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Wisdom chok chatinent:
This scenario reminds me of Jude and Eniola Badmus that was always cartoonized on The Sun Newspaper.
That means if she were the one providing the meals, ọ ga -esiri gị ike ga ahu banana nke a rapuru fo.
Mehn..
Nothing dey vex me pass references to every little efforts you make forgetting my daily stabs to make you happy.
Most women cannot be men even for a day.
Only one evening my cousin sister took me out, I never even remove my shoe naim I read her status: “I like the woman I am becoming. Always learn to man your womanhood.”
The only thing most women tend to appreciate is credit alerts..or send your account number. They will become so emotional..they can even cry.
Let the case be the reverse.
Make she just take care of you for two days.
You go hear weeen. She go even remind you how she carry you for stomach for nine months.
“Richie, what is this na, can't I have peace after coming back from work again? How can you eat and cannot wash your plates again! What's this na!”
“Baby, why are you shouting? The neighbours are at...”
“Don't baby me. What have I not done to make you happy? Will I kill myself? Am I the only married woman in the world..what is this na.”
(You try to hold her hands to calm her down...she slaps you damn hard).
“(She is crying now..tears flowly freely). Just see what you made me do. Just see it. Everything is just wrong with this world.”
You mah wey dem slap go still go meet am for parlour where she dey cry dey pet am (and that is after checking your cheeks if blood dey comot). You go come humbly tell am say no bi you eat, say na the one she eat for morning..but anyways, you forgot to wash it.
Another matter don dey brew.
She will now come to the parlour and sit, ask you for the remote and change the football to Telemundo and mutter these words you'll never hear: “work e won't work, such a failure. It's only remote e can pass.”
You will try to look at her with your side eyes but meet her full eyes staring at you in disgust. Mumu you go come smile enter bedroom.
As you are walking into the bedroom, the volume of the muttering is increasing but it's still inaudible.
In the oza room, just respect yourself. Don't even dare..unless you want the whole world to know how you will be idle and want to kill sb’s daughter after working all day!
“oh, it's your plan, Richie, baa? To kill me so that you can now go and meet Ishilove, baa?”
Only you go dey like Stone Cold Steve Austin sleep.
It will be normal...the “honey, darling etc.” is going to die. You will be called your name...two seconds, she will stop calling your name and just be giving out orders.
Abeg, don't even remind her you are the husband. You will get the insult of your life. She will say “no, say it loud na, let mama Chisom hear you. How many husbands stay at home watching football and their wives are left to do all the work!”
But na you still dey pay rent, buy foodstuff, and children fees.
Baba, kuku collect that responsiblity back. I hate to talk much. No dare shift any of your responsibility to woman...even if she persists to want to help. E kuku better she dey do am willingly than you register her name on it.
Only women, babies, and pets are loved. Men are respected when they man up. Na the respect we dey translate to love. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Kobojunkie: 10:18pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Sterope: Uhn I am a woman and I won't support such advice. It wouldn't work in every marriage ofcourse. 1 Like |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Sterope(f): 10:18pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
He is useless because he takes care of his family? Rubbiish:
God forbid! No man would ever wish for this! It is a curse! That man is helpless! 3 Likes |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by enemyofprogress: 10:19pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
The same reason I fashi bola146 I no get time for nonsense 1 Like |