Emmadoc:


You are so so right.

I've helped a lot of niggas, friends, but I found out, I was being taken advantage of.

There was friend I helped when he was in school, nigga called me, that he needed some cash to tidy up some schools stuff.

I sent him the money, he couldn't pay back, so I told him to pay me whatever he has with him.

He gave me half of the funds I borrowed him, as a real nigga, I told him to keep the rest.

There was a time we were having a conversation about his school, and the idiot told me the money I borrowed him, he never used it for school stuffs, he told me he gave it to his girlfriend...

After sometime, I went to this same guy to borrow me some cash, because he was doing well, I even promise to pay back with interest, men the nigga stopped picking my calls till date.

Before I help such friends in my life again, you must have a collateral, something of value for that money, else I won't give you 1kobo.

Bro code my foot, and he is not the only one, because of people like him I stopped making friends, except na for business.

Baba,I be think say na only me e dey happen to...the thing dey break my heart till I stooped making friends and keeping more casual relationships.
Cheers

Akinblogdotcom:
A Nigerian lady has empathized with men over how they survive whenever they are financially incapacitated.



The young woman wondered how men get money for food whenever things are terribly bad as she never experienced some of the struggles they complain about no matter how broke she was.

Taking to Twitter via her handle Udara @Caviarpurple, The Nigerian Lady expressed deep concern while recounting stories of male students drinking garri, and trekking to and fro class due to brokenness.




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Na God o

Four-eyed Edo Boy on twitter is one of the only truest gees I have found. I won't forget that bro when I finally make it.

cybluesky:

Yes.....I want to

Abeg dash.

I swear it is God alone..

Emmadoc:


You are so so right.

I've helped a lot of niggas, friends, but I found out, I was being taken advantage of.

There was friend I helped when he was in school, nigga called me, that he needed some cash to tidy up some schools stuff.

I sent him the money, he couldn't pay back, so I told him to pay me whatever he has with him.

He gave me half of the funds I borrowed him, as a real nigga, I told him to keep the rest.

There was a time we were having a conversation about his school, and the idiot told me the money I borrowed him, he never used it for school stuffs, he told me he gave it to his girlfriend...

After sometime, I went to this same guy to borrow me some cash, because he was doing well, I even promise to pay back with interest, men the nigga stopped picking my calls till date.

Before I help such friends in my life again, you must have a collateral, something of value for that money, else I won't give you 1kobo.

Bro code my foot, and he is not the only one, because of people like him I stopped making friends, except na for business.

also tell us about your ordeal with women.Thats if you dnt give them for free

Hmm. I'm not a man but things were this hard for me while in school.

Agbebakun22:




True talk man to man giving tight gan.. Me don stop to dey help my male friends cux wetin those nigga use my eyes see weh I no get money back then for sch.. Hmmm if no be female friends weh I get weh dey help me out with food.. Well Man gat thank God for today sha cux where dem see me put yesterday, today level don mature than yesterday own

i swr, if u get money them go da call u blood blood, if u broke, dem go da withdraw from u, if u mistake ask for help, they go use am mock u for ur back, say na u nor use ur money well.. anyhow sha, on God..the sun will rise again

You're absolutely right. I remember a friend who was willing to buy several bottles for me at a beer parlor when I went to see him after graduation but I declined cos I hardly drink. But when I met him to help me with T-fare to travel to Lagos from Delta for interview(a job I finally got), he promised to help but stopped picking my calls when the time came. It was through the grace of God I got money for that interview. He is now broke, I have helped him severally afterwards but stopped when I notice he's trying to take advantage.

Magnoliaa:


''One-off'' situation? LMAO. Go conduct a poll or carry out a research on this topic, yo. Even on this thread, you'll find more guys agreeing with what I and the person I quoted said than guys disagreeing with us.

Why does it kill y'all to actually agree with things a lady say? When women come out to share their wins, you say it's pussy power...when women post ass and all on IG, you say it's to attract clients; you talk about the evolutionary kinikan about how men are attracted to women and want to sleep with them, bla bla bla... I don't care sha. The fact is men spend on ladies than on their fellow guys. If a lady comes to talk about how men sponsor her and bankroll her, you'll lap it up and call her all manners of name. Now I'm saying men bankroll ladies (NOT ALL) MORE THAN, AS COMPARED TO their fellow guys. Hence, some lady might not go broke or hungry because she has a man giving her money. (I know it might not exactly be what the OP is talking about, but this is just my perspective).

*That* (women collecting money from men) is another scenario and point that could require its own discussion, but *the* point I'm pointing out here is that men give women money more than they give guys. You can see it from the moral aspect and equality aspect or whatever, but HERE NOW, I am choosing to focus on the fact and part of MEN NOT HELPING EACH OTHER.

I know it's because I'm saying this from a critical and condemning stance , hence some of you will disagree with me, but if I switch to a sympathetic and empathetic tone, and start criticizing the ''so called olosho girls'', you'll be lapping up what I'm saying.

But alas, I'm not a fighter for men nor a pick-me or a virtuous woman that wants to win you over with my tone, mannerisms and delivery. So disagree all you want.

It's a free Internet and it's your data.

Have a good night!

P.S: Oh. Even in your spendings one one another once in a while, it's to carry yourselves to beer parlors and clubs and buy the most expensive drinks, bathing yourselves with beers and champagnes, drinking peppersoup and eating cow heads- you call it simple life, because you're not complicated beings. But to give yourselves worthwhile money, in a life-transforming way, for things that actually matters, like responsibilities and buying pampers, taking care of family? Na stories you go start to hear.

Anyway, I don't think I need to mention that exceptions apply to all the things I've said here sha.

SmartPolician:
That's why there are more guys into crime than the ladies. It's very easy for a lady to get help than guys and guys find it easy to help a lady than a fellow guy. That's how our brains were wired but some of us are taking bold steps to rewrite the narrative.

Spot on. And a lot of guys don't reciprocate. You help your G out and he'll never do the same for you. It hurts badly.

My own friend lent money from me since January ti now,when I asked he said m bigger than the money. I cut myself off from him completely, after Al when I had an accident last year,he only called me like for 30 secs,someone I do dash money to. I have so many enemies and less friends now cos I decided to ans my papa last name o.

dammie4j:
Sometimes the smile can be masked. I’ve always promised to support my fellow bro at the slightest opportunity whenever there is a genuine need. I’ve been there honestly.

P.S: Guys, learn to help your fellow gees rather than lavish to impress who will not care sighting a better offer on the table

Boss, shey make I Kom learn how work?

Kondomatic:
We work

That's it. We work and work

Damn
I invest in my mum and senior sis heavily so whenever I run out of cash I always fall back to them

bigcee:

Simp? Really? Just like that? Is that how you're raised? Is your father a simp? Oga, don't mention me again. I no dey that level with you. I take God beg you, avoid me.

someone cannot play with you again

davealvaro:
i swr, if u get money them go da call u blood blood, if u broke, dem go da withdraw from u, if u mistake ask for help, they go use am mock u for ur back, say na u nor use ur money well.. anyhow sha, on God..the sun will rise again

U sef get their format, na there u go dey hear omo iyami and my blood, OG lol.. Baba run oo anybody weh no dey help u weh things Kala for u bro run from dem and never give dem ur money or help

ESANMEA:
Lol.. Me wey dey always be the best nurse anywhere I work.. Always loved by both colleagues and clients /patients..

Hmmmmm..night nurse. All of us here get night fever o.

Hmm..
Always with one mind which is
Money minded only..

Niyeal:
Capital G O D

Ya head get ororo

dammie4j:
Sometimes the smile can be masked. I’ve always promised to support my fellow bro at the slightest opportunity whenever there is a genuine need. I’ve been there honestly.

P.S: Guys, learn to help your fellow gees rather than lavish to impress who will not care sighting a better offer on the table

Hope you are going to support all the people that have been asking for your support. Action speaks louder than words.

It's not eazy that's why bobyrisky turn to woman

Akinblogdotcom:
A Nigerian lady has empathized with men over how they survive whenever they are financially incapacitated.



The young woman wondered how men get money for food whenever things are terribly bad as she never experienced some of the struggles they complain about no matter how broke she was.

Taking to Twitter via her handle Udara @Caviarpurple, The Nigerian Lady expressed deep concern while recounting stories of male students drinking garri, and trekking to and fro class due to brokenness.




SEE MORE >>> https://www.akinblog.com/i-always-wonder-who-gives-men-money-when-theyre-broke-nigerian-lady-empathizes/

............ beautiful babe with brain.

Vireani79:


And a sprinkle of scams

I don't understand the scam part

lets start from u!am sure u must av bn in one or more rltnshp then!how did ur boyfrd survive?or he was never broke?

Hmmm

siofra:
Me I'm a woman, no man dey dash me money o
Not even my own father.

Thats to show how independent u r..the money comes when you give to those who can't provide for themselves and can't pay you back e.g a blind youth/old man etc

A hoeee surviving on men turning some broke

Why wondering how simp survives

Niyeal:
Capital G O D

No doubt

siofra:


Abeg dash.

I'm ready to dash and marry.....I think I'm in love with u

Niyeal:
Capital G O D

Na true talk my brother.