BRATISLAVA:


Justifying what?

That's the problem with the way men see things.

Most men don't understand how women cheat. Believe it, a woman who cheats never loses love for her husband. To her it's just exciting sex and maybe some money. She will always return home to her true husband. The sooner men understand this, the better. Men have emotional sex. Women just have sex. It's nothing personal.

The man will be the biggest loser to quit this marriage with a child. Where will he start from with relationships again? Is it from dating all over again? Plus women are wiser today to avoid divorced men. He just has to endure it and hope for better days

This woman is remorseful, and if OP and family pray for her, with time she will cool down and stay in one place with her rightful husband. What God put together let no man put assunder.

Pls enlighten me how the man will be the biggest loser to quit his marriage??

A man has no problem getting remarried. A man can always easily get remarried than a woman

Men are gatekeepers of commitment while women are gatekeepers of sex......a man decides if and when marriage/commitment will happen while a woman decides if and when sex happens

A man that wants to get married will easily remarry. That's not a problem for men

It's the woman's problem since she has a child (which she'll keep custody of) and she'll have a hard time getting a man again cos a lot of men now have become wiser and seriously avoiding having any serious relationship with single mothers and divorcees with a child (ren)

Genea:
keep this same energy if it's a man too

ofcourse he wont - he is a hypocrite . They don't know the hypocrisy that has served them so well has run it's course and women's eyes have opened . They will wail and shed blood until they learn it they don't change their ways - it will only get worse .

TWLifestyle:
shut up- if men are out there chasing variety with their preek that is not even enough for one woman - who is supposed to satisfy the wife at home ?

You can go ahead with that rubbish but I hope we someday hear your story on nairaland

TWLifestyle:
lol , ur such a liar. Na only when womwn cheat you pwople will be yarning trash about murderers and killers. Abeg , the women men cheat with outside cannot kill the wife to take her place in the home ?

It could happen but I've not heard of a man killing his wife to bring in another woman

OKOATA:
I swear you be imbeciile, you are either a kid or a fool still at 40. Did the man tell you he's a cheat? So because the man cheated, the wife also has the right to cheat. Ajeh you be fool. Until your wife carry another man pikin or give you STI your eye go clear that's even if you are married.

loooooooool ! Oga mi , man up! Men have been giving women STI s since forever - do you see women wailing like puppies ? You people are weak o . Small std you dey cry like pikin loooool .

Susily:


Pls enlighten me how the man will be the biggest loser to quit his marriage??

A man has no problem getting remarried. A man can always easily get remarried than a woman

Men are gatekeepers of commitment while women are gatekeepers of sex......a man decides if and when marriage/commitment will happen while a woman decides if and when sex happens

A man that wants to get married will easily remarry. That's not a problem for men

It's the woman's problem since she has a child (which she'll keep custody of) and she'll have a hard time getting a man again cos a lot of men now have become wiser and seriously avoiding having any serious relationship with single mothers and divorcees with a child (ren)

A man has problems of getting remarried, don't act like it's so easy.

Men are gate keepers of sex, and women of commitment. A woman decides if and when marriage/commitment will happen while a man decides if and when sex happens. After all, he has the libido, ring and penis to offer in return for her commitment.

A woman that wants to get married will easily remarry. That's not a problem for women. Men are predictable.

It's the man's problem since he has a child as one of his responsibilities (which he will fight to keep custody of) and he'll have a hard time getting a woman again cos a lot of women now have become wiser and are seriously avoiding having any serious relationship with single fathers and divorcees with a child (ren), except the damaged ones. Times have surely changed for the better. Gynocentrism is the way ahead.

Gracias.

Nwaezehopr:
I did introduction recently but the news about cheating lately really disturbing. I'm having a rethink because I have been having a trust issue with her. I need a happy home.

infact , dump her and dont bother about marriage at all - all women are polygamous nowadays - just like men

murphyibiam15:

You will still have something to do with women whether you decide to have a babe mama or girlfriend, similar results unless you're gay sha

Am 100 percent straight and i do have some couple of girls i call for sex once in a while when ever am Hot, and i make sure they dont spent more than 3 hours, because i dont want them to become too comfortable,

TWLifestyle:
at least she is nyashing for something useful her case is still better- you fools donate preek for absolutely free with no sense . Infact not just free you pay women to have your free dyck . Foolish people

Vagina person no vex o

TWLifestyle:
lol , but when the cheating partner is the male one - he is just polygamous , right ? Lol . You people deserve every terrible thing women do to you .

Cheating partner is a killer either male or female.

BRATISLAVA:


A man has problems of getting remarried, don't act like it's so easy.

Men are gate keepers of sex, and women of commitment. A woman decides if and when marriage/commitment will happen while a man decides if and when sex happens. After all, he has the libido, ring and penis to offer in return for her commitment.

A woman that wants to get married will easily remarry. That's not a problem for women. Men are predictable.

It's the man's problem since he has a child as one of his responsibilities (which he will fight to keep custody of) and he'll have a hard time getting a woman again cos a lot of women now have become wiser and are seriously avoiding having any serious relationship with single fathers and divorcees with a child (ren), except the damaged ones. Times have surely changed for the better. Gynocentrism is the way ahead.

Gracias.

The child becomes his responsibility if the DNA TEST proves the child is his...... but he won't be taking care of another man's child which is the plan of the woman all along

DNA test is women's undoing in this era.... watch them jitter at the idea of DNA test

AquaPetals:
nice. Thanks and sorry for my earlier post.
DNA is available for a 75% discount.
And if the baby turns out to be his, he should take responsibility but divorce her.

When you take an oath of fidelity before the altar or gods, make sure you keep it.

it seems its only women that take this vow, right ? Cos last I checked men are still loving variety up and down irrespective of any vows they took . Oh sorry I forget , the hypocrisy of men - vows are only meant for women to keep - variety is for men. Lol

TWLifestyle:
is this not the same advice you people dish out to women ? Have women died of hypertension ?

Not me please, marriage is not a do or die affair, if it's not working out, take a leave before u end up strangling each other

tightpussy156:
Simple @ op.i no it you happen to.see very clear forget the fucking marriage.if not u will dig your grave commit suicide.na ashawo you wan marry.that is a dog you have over there all men food.Bleep an pass the bitch to next baller.one dick.no they satisfy them.who quote me hug transformer.

loooooooool . Cheating can pain you people . See hot tears everywhere .

TWLifestyle:
ofcourse he wont - he is a hypocrite . They don't know the hypocrisy that has served them so well has run it's course and women's eyes have opened . They will wail and shed blood until they learn it they don't change their ways - it will only get worse .

All these Vagina people self. Weldone ma

Susily:


The child becomes his responsibility if the DNA TEST proves the child is his...... but he won't be taking care of another man's child which is the plan of the woman all along

DNA test is women's undoing in this era.... watch them jitter at the idea of DNA test

Not if the DNA test blah blah. The child is his.

You know so much about the woman's plan, are you the woman? Or are you the man who fathered her child? Single men always looking for women's plans.

DNA test is good for children, but what is the right test for the man who fathers such a child? Or that doesn't matter, as men destroy themselves?

That man better apologize to his wife and hit the gym. She can't be running after expired products.

braine:


You are talking about forgiving a cheating woman!! Omo!

yeas naj ! No be women they forgive cheating husbands ? Una get two head ? Shiorr

BRATISLAVA:


Not if the DNA test blah blah. The child is his.

You know so much about the woman's plan, are you the woman? Or are you the man who fathered her child? Single men always looking for women's plans.

DNA test is good for children, but what is the right test for the man who fathers such a child? Or that doesn't matter, as men destroy themselves?

That man better apologize to his wife and hit the gym. She can't be running after expired products.

The woman sure wasn’t blind when she married him na. All this Vagina people self

BRATISLAVA:


Not if the DNA test blah blah. The child is his.

You know so much about the woman's plan, are you the woman? Or are you the man who fathered her child? Single men always looking for women's plans.

DNA test is good for children, but what is the right test for the man who fathers such a child? Or that doesn't matter, as men destroy themselves?

That man better apologize to his wife and hit the gym. She can't be running after expired products.

The man should apologize to the wife for her cheating on him?

Susily:



The man should apologize to the wife for her cheating on him?

That Vagina person doesn’t have sense ooo. They are pained that one of them is about to be sacked from her husbands house. Vagina people never seem to amaze me.

SimpleGuy001:


That Vagina person doesn’t have sense ooo. They are pained that one of them is about to be sacked from her husbands house. Vagina people never seem to amaze me.

Bro their reasoning is something else

It's called The Sisterhood, they'll never accept the responsibility of their actions

OKOATA:
You are the stupid Nairalander talking trash, so because your wife sleeps around like a dog others should do the same.

see a member of the natural dog gender complaining about someone else fvcking like a dog ? please shut up with your hypocritical trash jargon you are yarning here .
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Susily:



The man should apologize to the wife for her cheating on him?

Yes, if he wants to keep his family. Otherwise she and that side man will get together. He seems to be more loving and not a nag.

Don't you love the arrangement?

Susily:


Bro their reasoning is something else

It's called The Sisterhood, they'll never accept the responsibility of their actions

Don’t mind those pussy people. It’s the ones that can do it or are currently doing it that are justifying it on her behalf.

Nonetheless, I don’t support cheating whether from the Man or Woman.

poweredcom:
Girls of today are totally not worth to trust

That is why when I see many good looking ladies wandering about crying for husband I don't pity then

After all @womenareapess have said it they are all apes

it's men that are trustworthy? Oga go and sit down with your hypocritical bullshit

BRATISLAVA:


Yes, if he wants to keep his family. Otherwise she and that side man will get together. He seems to be more loving and not a nag.

Don't you love the arrangement?

A marriage where there's infidelity shouldn't stand whether infidelity is on the side of the man or woman

The man for the sake of his peace of mind should divorce the wife and the wife can go back to her sideman(if he'll accept her) and live happily ever after

You see I told you earlier that men control commitment.....the woman can only get back to the side man IF he accepts her and the child and you can most accurately bet that he was just in for the knacks and enjoyment not commitment

lajid:


I wanted to reply this but then I figured you’re a woman so I pretty much know how you think and why you justified her cheating. But then it’s all good, have a nice day.

is this not how men justify their own cheating too ? No be from men we day heat " men are naturally polygamous " .

Susily:


A marriage where there's infidelity shouldn't stand whether infidelity is on the side of the man or woman

The man for the sake of his peace of mind should divorce the wife and the wife can go back to her sideman(if he'll accept her) and live happily ever after

You see I told you earlier that men control commitment.....the woman can only get back to the side man IF he accepts her and the child and you can most accurately bet that he was just in for the knacks and enjoyment not commitment

All your talking points are the old red pill drivel.

You see, women are wiser nowadays. This man in question needs to apologize to his wife. He caused her to stray. If he were a good husband she wouldn't need to have sex with another man.

He must have been squeezing the life out of her until she went to the warm and welcoming arms of a man who is treating her right. Let's bet the new man is endowed, provides lovingly and cares about his hygiene. Luring a man isn't rocket science. Most aren't smart to begin with.

Blackdisciple:
He is worried about the father of the child cos according to him, his wife had visited the man shortly after their wedding.


Ok some one should tell me why would she wanna get married when she vividly knew that she can't stay in her matrimonial home.

Oya mind your business crew over to una

why do men get married when they know they can not keep their preek in one pant ? When you answer this question then you have the answer to the question you asked .

So after you lots go around destroying women, you steal their virginity, you spoil teen girls and don't let them grow...... After all these you lots dream of marrying a virgin? No man deserves a virgin unless he is also a virgin.

Myhusband:
fire any single guys that pay bride price of non virgin lady henceforth

TWLifestyle:
is this not how men justify their own cheating too ? No be from men we day heat " men are naturally polygamous " .

You guys need to know not everyone is the same for goodness sake. Those saying men are polygamous in nature are deceiving themselves.

I’m of the believe that whatever you sow, you shall reap. Anyone who thinks cheating is right should go ahead doing it, that’s their problem.

For this case, if the child is his own then he can salvage the marriage I think, but it will be difficult if the child isn’t his.

zeenaman:
Most men endure rubbish like this because they consider all their financial and emotional commitments, some even ask themselves "where do I start from?" They should know that no loss is greater than keeping a cheating girlfriend let alone a cheating wife. I loathe such women with all the energies in me.
My ex cheated on me, and since then, I don't know if it was a psychological thing, she started smelling to me, she was never beautiful again, I saw her flaws at all at once which was too much for my mind to contain. I hated seeing her calls, I couldn't regard her as a woman anymore. What's better than simply walking away from a cheat?

I hope you loathe the men who cheat as much ? Cos we sll know its hypocritical double standards that will kill you men - all this loatbing u are loathing the poor girl i hope you didnt cheat on her while you wete in the relationship ?