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Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by Nobody: 12:56pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
You deserved what you got. A girl once tried that with me. I saw her at my work place, talked to her and asked for her number. She gave it to me willingly, under no duress. I sent this girl a message on WhatsApp, she didn't respond. I sent a second message days later, she responded after about 3 days with just a word; "Hi". I ignored her. I called her about a week later. I took about 3 minutes introducing myself. When she recollected, she began to speak like someone who is being forced to talk. As someone that doesn't have time for childishness, I jejely ended the call, deleted her number and my chat with her on WhatsApp. About 2 months later, she sent me a message on WhatsApp that her mum was sick and would really appreciate if I can assist her with anything. She even took a picture of herself with her sick mum and sent to me. I read the message and just shook my head at the guts of some people. I had to block her. An advise to Nigerian ladies: If you don't intend to talk to a guy, no need giving him your number. You can't give a guy your number and when he calls or send a message, you act as if he is a burden to you. Drop the mindset that every guy asking for your number wants sex or relationship. Some may end of being just friends and you never call tell when both of you may need each other! OP, it is clear the 3k you gave her was far below her expectation. Count your loss and move. Next time, stay clear from pretty, entitled, starving girls. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by Nobody: 12:57pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
��������This is not ordinary, this one is greater than betrayal. How can someone just come out of the blues to ask for money, and i dey run go meet her, even when am not mad, If someone do this to me I will not eat for two days 1 Like |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by UDUJ(m): 12:57pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Kondomatic: Lol perfectly explained. I could not have said it any better. Some guys will never learn. Don't be surprised if this keeps happening to this dude over and over again. Some guys turn into mumus once it comes to the female gender. Sad 2 Likes |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by torqque7(m): 12:58pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Idiot simp.. ,no matter how many stories they hear and see,the foolish simp will always be a simp..I just wish she took more from u,ode 1 Like |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by joelart: 12:58pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by Ayt27(m): 12:59pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Demigod22: Omo this United Nations off me 3 Likes |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by Mckinnelspencej(m): 12:59pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
jaelz: First red flag be say she dey work for Spa Second she no send your papa till sapa hol am she con remember you and tried her luck with the oldest format which you fell inside. .. E sweet me sha cos I know say another girl go still job you before you learn.. No ves bro I wan ask just be honest with your response "in the last two weeks out of all help way a fellow guy don ask of you,how many did you help? When last you sent your sibling money? 3 Likes |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by Guyman111: 1:00pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Kondomatic:No bro i think he developed feelings for her. That's what makes it look like that. |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by Boss13: 1:00pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
I'm not going to call that help. I think you are being disingenuous. You were Facilitating the process of sleeping with her. You could have been blunt and straight to the point. She did not respond to your initial communication because you had nothing to offer her at that point. That was a warning sign or redflag. She called you at the least expected time and you fell for it. Again, you should have proposition an offer. I guess you would learn from your little experience. 5 Likes |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by streetsoldier1(m): 1:00pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
jaelz: Not some women, 99.9% of Nigerian girls behave this way. Perhaps she was expecting much more from you and got disappointed with your widows might. Nigeria girls are ever needy with annoying entitlement mentality from what i've gathered from people's experience. Just be at ease and see every good you do as a seed. Learn from Reno Omokri's nugget. Any woman that is not your wife, sister or mother doesnt deserve any kobo from you. know this and know peace. 6 Likes |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by mybiz234: 1:01pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
FutureIsFemale, have you seen the life of your fellow ungrateful female? If the future is female, then the future is cursed 2 Likes |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 1:01pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
I guess you have learnt your lesson by now, next time know the kind of person you help, some of these girls out there are ungrateful 1 Like |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by Bigfish121(m): 1:02pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
That is why I always tell me niggas that it is better to help your fellow nugga than to help a bitch. 1 Like |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by Iamlakexide(m): 1:02pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Just free her. I am 101% sure she will still unblock your number and call you very soon don't worry or bother. Stay calm expecting her return pretty soon. |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by CountVersailles(f): 1:02pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Kolaboluv7: I think you might be the more stupid person. You obviously don't realise that A LOT of people in the world are sensitive to this kind of picture you've put up. I'm sure you don't know that. You aren't that smart. |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by BigYash: 1:02pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
SmellySperm:You dey mind am.. She do am well.. Simp of the year award goes to Op |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by Mexyz(m): 1:03pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
arthurwillia: Boss you na Oga patapata of all alpha males oo... so you collect everything wey you buy for her? I greet you sir 3 Likes |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by Nobody: 1:03pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
jaelz:You are really a very stupid man. The only regret that I've is reading the stupid story, only if Seun could add a "Block this user" feature. 1 Like |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by obynokoko: 1:03pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
You be original mumu.you don't have sense.upon all the red flags from the heartless girl,you still continue 1 Like |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by Originalsly: 1:03pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Bro... you helped someone from the kindness of your heart .... expect nothing in return. She blocked you ....fine .... you should have no doubt about what she's about.... move on. 4 Likes |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by yemi1504: 1:04pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
jaelz: |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by generalwo(m): 1:05pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Quick question sir, why did you collect her number and after buying stuff for her, why were you calling her? Your response should tell you why she did what she did......... |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by Dammyseyon(m): 1:06pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Drop her name and telephone number, let’s show her what ingratitude looks like. I personally will bombard her with curses text messages. She no go ever find helper. You can imagine how ungrateful people can be 4 Likes |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by yemi1504: 1:06pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Omihanifa: Abi. I have even become heartless with them these days. |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by Odunharry(m): 1:06pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
SmellySperm:Lol. He needs to answer that question most guys have asked him. Will he do same if it's a guy in need?? |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by Nobody: 1:07pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
SenecaTheYonger: Exactly, she must be expecting more than that. She needs someone who can carry all her problems. I sha know say OP will make heaven, but that girl, she can't even smell it 1 Like |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by cletz991(m): 1:08pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Bros if na guy man ask you for this favour na you go say e nor de e nor de jaelz: |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by Starz825(m): 1:08pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:Na you need read well ooo guy... He just mentioned some women, to mean *not all* 1 Like |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by bigcee(m): 1:08pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
brosom: 1 Like
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Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by okoroemeka(m): 1:09pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
brosom:haahaaaa,how do we know you are a man,same experience I nearly had from a girl after 2 weeks incommunicado she called that she needs money,needs this,needs that.i have never called any woman a gold digger but I called the girl an unrepentant gold digger,she was quite a pretty girl but I didn't let my emotions control me,after telling her my mind and calling her a gold digger several times I cut the call,she started begging on WhatsApp I simply have to block her. 3 Likes |
Re: What A Lady I Helped Did To Me by Emola12(m): 1:09pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
seniorgozman:he need to pick it because he dosn"t know what happen to her and why she refused to pick her call,, i tout u are a matured person nah, to slap u dey hungry me aswear |
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