Haylel:

Aiiishhhh... The Drills aside, I come back to this thread often to simply read your writings again. If there is one thing i would really want from you, it's your way of words.
Did you consciously develop it? How can i learn this beautiful art?

live by it and join be bold....
Never forget to take chances

found this thread Some days back while reading some redpill article. Still on page 35( Aug 2016 posts) But I’d definitely finish up. I’ve been doing things wrong this whole time. My game was nothing good but with this drill.... Testimonies shall be shared in no time. HARDDON I’m grateful.


From those posts you kept emphasizing on meeting new people to build Game. So I’m in a Taxi and this girl gets in. Remembering what you said about not using the norms( Hello, Hi,etc) I look at her and notice she’s got some flyer with band hanging from her neck.
Started a conversation using the flyer without mentioning Hi/Hello. We get talking and at some point I said; I find you interesting and it rarely ever happens. Smiling and not making eye contact, she Smiles and asks why( I bleeped up at this point and you’d prolly tell me to hit myself with a book as I replied; I don’t know, I just do)

Opened my bag to bring my phone out and then tell her I want to keep this conversation going and she says she’s not interested... so I point at my phone and say; This?? Oh it’s not for you. We talk a bit more and when the vehicle got to her destination she didn’t go off immediately and was still talking with me. Asked her her name and she was relaxed and saying it before the driver had to yell ; won’t you go down! Getting out she says; okay byeee!!!

Was a boring texter till I found this thread.
Met this Girl late last month and I’ve been doing the regular WHAT QUESTIONS but after I started this thread.

Me: (commenting on her WhatsApp post)I’m sure you dressed to kill today but you rather chose to show us just your head. Where’s the rest of your body??

Her: Lol
Her:you want to see?
Me: No... I’ve lost the interest to see the pictures.
But, If you tell me you’ll be available to join me on a stroll this week, then you can show me the pictures now.

Her: ok
Her: What stroll

Me: Not a special stroll in particular. I normally do that at evenings when I feel bored at home with a friend but she’s currently out of the state. Just walk and talk basically.

Her: OK so when do u want it?
Her: I will join you
Me: I’ll check my schedule and tell you

Haylel:

Aiiishhhh... The Drills aside, I come back to this thread often to simply read your writings again. If there is one thing i would really want from you, it's your way of words.
Did you consciously develop it? How can i learn this beautiful art?

There are seeds you come fashioned with and you never realize until you bury your brain in diverse rich books, great articles from magazines/newspapers, and especially quality novels.
You find yourself deriving joy from well woven words, highlighting and jotting sleek lines, idioms, proverbs, great sayings and writing down strange words in a jotter (so that you can look them up in a dictionary later and write their meaning across them). Movies , books or wherever; you become so sensitive to words.

The more you repeat this process, original words/Iines connect in your mind and you started writing them down. At first, one liner, then two until you realize one day, that you could write original bars without blinking. You could flow peoms without poking your mind.

There were days, you will be in the rest-room, with soap all over your fine form and then some beautiful bars/words/sounds come flowing. You relished them greatly and hoped to jot them down immediately you are done, little did you know that, like great ideas, when words flow like wine, you must pause your life and give them flesh by jotting them down, if not, by the time you get done washing, they would develop wings and fly off forever.
I was caught, unfortunately, painfully, a couple of time off guard like this. I racked my brains to the point of splitting tears. And till this very day, they never visited again. Not in that fine form.
I learned from my pains; now, I would run out of the bath to jot down lines or voice-activate my recorder and record melodies that decides to visit in my awkward hour.
I would wake up from sleep and do the same. Words, songs, ideas, notwithstanding.

Effortlessly, you began writing pieces, a little longer than every other person, and read your piece over and over again, not just to correct the structure/grammar, but to soak in their beauty.

10 years later, you return to them and find out that they still speak cooly like you wrote them yesterday.

Finally, you come to terms with the special seed and you consciously feed it. Read more, take up remote jobs that can help promote it, carry out research, write books, set up blogs and socials, all for to horn it.

Hopefully, I have been able to answer you succinctly.

Ok, Bye.

JmyNigaa:
Was a boring texter till I found this thread.
Met this Girl late last month and I’ve been doing the regular WHAT QUESTIONS but after I started this thread.

Me: (commenting on her WhatsApp post)I’m sure you dressed to kill today but you rather chose to show us just your head. Where’s the rest of your body??

Her: Lol
Her:you want to see?
Me: No... I’ve lost the interest to see the pictures.
But, If you tell me you’ll be available to join me on a stroll this week, then you can show me the pictures now.

Her: ok
Her: What stroll

Me: Not a special stroll in particular. I normally do that at evenings when I feel bored at home with a friend but she’s currently out of the state. Just walk and talk basically.

Her: OK so when do u want it?
Her: I will join you
Me : I’ll check my schedule and tell you [b][/b]

There are better ways you could have responded when she asked if you want to see her;
Yours truly rarely respond to questions like this with a YES or a NO. you shouldn't either. They Are too SUBJECTIVE for my liking and do not help me achieve anything.

Rather, think up responses that heighten your mystery, makes fun of her or her question.

So, let's hear some better lines. other than the wack NO.
You should know that that NO, is a vibe killer. she is cool not to have ignored you.

btw,

Sleek! @emphasized

HARDDON:


Hopefully, I have been able to answer you succinctly.

Ok, Bye.

Yes, Don. This is more than enough.

HARDDON:


There are seeds you come fashioned with and you never realize until you bury your brain in diverse rich books, great articles from magazines/newspapers, and especially quality novels.
You find yourself deriving joy from well woven words, highlighting and jotting sleek lines, idioms, proverbs, great sayings and writing down strange words in a jotter (so that you can look them up in a dictionary later and write their meaning across them). Movies , books or wherever; you become so sensitive to words.

The more you repeat this process, original words/Iines connect in your mind and you started writing them down. At first, one liner, then two until you realize one day, that you could write original bars without blinking. You could flow peoms without poking your mind.

There were days, you will be in the rest-room, with soap all over your fine form and then some beautiful bars/words/sounds come flowing. You relished them greatly and hoped to jot them down immediately you are done, little did you know that, like great ideas, when words flow like wine, you must pause your life and give them flesh by jotting them down, if not, by the time you get done washing, they would develop wings and fly off forever.
I was caught, unfortunately, painfully, a couple of time off guard like this. I racked my brains to the point of splitting tears. And till this very day, they never visited again. Not in that fine form.
I learned from my pains; now, I would run out of the bath to jot down lines or voice-activate my recorder and record melodies that decides to visit in my awkward hour.
I would wake up from sleep and do the same. Words, songs, ideas, notwithstanding.

Effortlessly, you began writing pieces, a little longer than every other person, and read your piece over and over again, not just to correct the structure/grammar, but to soak in their beauty.

10 years later, you return to them and find out that they still speak cooly like you wrote them yesterday.

Finally, you come to terms with the special seed and you consciously feed it. Read more, take up remote jobs that can help promote it, carry out research, write books, set up blogs and socials, all for to horn it.

Hopefully, I have been able to answer you succinctly.

Ok, Bye.

My man!

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HARDDON:

Hopefully, I have been able to answer you succinctly.

Ok, Bye.

Recommendations! I will appreciate if you can recommend good books to start with.

Haylel:

Recommendations! I will appreciate if you can recommend good books to start with.

This thread is enough

Uzomacharles:


This thread is enough

Actually, I need recommendation for his art of weaving words, not on how to be ballful, win women and stuff.

Haylel:

Actually, I need recommendation for his art of weaving words, not on how to be ballful, win women and stuff.

just flow with your real sef

There's this girl in my area I gave a lift sometime last month.

She sometimes comes to visit my neighbor in the evening and goes back early morning of the next day

Although I liked her after I gave her a lift that day but I didn't get her number

I saw her again last week, going back home early in the morning from my neighbors house and she was happy to see me. this time around I didn't give her lift, I just waved at her

Something tells me she likes me but I'm considering losing interest in her because I'm sure she's the money type cos my neighbor is richer than me, and even if I'm to approach her, I believe she won't treat me well the way she's treating my neighbor cos they're obviously richer than me

And I remember Harddon you always talk about not doing home chicken but she doesn't stay around our area.

Should I still go ahead and try my luck in approaching her and getting her number when next I see her or just save face and just be waving at her anytime I see her?

cc: harddon, stanliwise

HealthWealthy:
There's this girl in my area I gave a lift sometime last month.

She sometimes comes to visit my neighbor in the evening and goes back early morning of the next day

Although I liked her after I gave her a lift that day but I didn't get her number

I saw her again last week, going back home early in the morning from my neighbors house and she was happy to see me. this time around I didn't give her lift, I just waved at her

Something tells me she likes me but I'm considering losing interest in her because I'm sure she's the money type cos my neighbor is richer than me, and even if I'm to approach her, I believe she won't treat me well the way she's treating my neighbor cos they're obviously richer than me

And I remember Harddon you always talk about not doing home chicken but she doesn't stay around our area.

Should I still go ahead and try my luck in approaching her and getting her number when next I see her or just save face and just be waving at her anytime I see her?

cc: harddon, stanliwise

she is your neighbour girl, be mindful of that, you may not need to thread that line if you don't want to.

meanwhile stop talking about your neighbor is richer than you, there are million of people richer than you that can take any woman from you. Don't put that into consideration and totally forget about those metrics. The only one important is how rich she herself is, And ofcourse that would only be a problem if you think you want to enter a transactional relationship.

Find convictions in the list.
1. You are not going to be intimidated by your own thoughts of other damn niggas and what ever they do or own
2. By asking her out does not mean you should ​continue anything with her in the future
3. She saying no is just part of the game, she is in no obligation to say yes to you and she saying yes is not a problem
4.You're not asking her out because you want relationship, instead you want to know her more.
5. You're more than qualified to ask her out
6. She is not doing you a favour if she says yes.
7. If you don't want a relationship and you just need something else then you're going to say it early enough
8. She saying yes does not translate to her asking material stuff from you.
9. You would only give her attention and gift because you feel she deserves it.
10. If she does not treat you rightly, you will not give her a chance in your life.

stanliwise:

7. If you don't want a relationship and you just need something else then you're going to say it early enough.

I'm more interested in the number 7. When or how is the best approach to go about it because I've tried it before and got burned.

Sex is not a form of payment Guys, simps have overrated sex and skyrocket it's value but we know better.
Below is a woman who wanted to use sex as payment for $40 in a TV show set in 1878.
The man had control, sadly a lot of us would have fallen for this...
Let's work on controlling that urge Kings.

...

Something happened at my shop today, two ladies came to get something from my shop, one of them was begging, seducing me to reduce the price to the point of becoming pesky, I just returned the goods back to the shop and sat, that was when she brought out the money. Women will use anything and everything to make things go their way.

HealthWealthy:


I'm more interested in the number 7. When or how is the best approach to go about it because I've tried it before and got burned.

You mean transactional relationship?
And what do you mean try it before?

Transactional relationship is give and take.
It’s more like doing a business but on social ground not necessarily with words.

Get her contact,
Get to know her
Drive your chat towards romantic interest and mind you not relationship interest.
If she vibes with you without taking about relationship then take the lead and invite her over.
This invite over does not mean anything rather it means a confirmation of her commitment.

If you’re aren’t going to invite her over then let it be over a drink and on next occasion it would be on business.

But ensure the foundation has been built over chat.

In conclusion it is a process of compatibility. If you want transactional relationship with people don’t be afraid if they say no. It’s just business but that does not mean you should flow ethics

Debauhaus1990:
Something happened at my shop today, two ladies came to get something from my shop, one of them was begging, seducing me to reduce the price to the point of becoming pesky, I just returned the goods back to the shop and sat, that was when she brought out the money. Women will use anything and everything to make things go their way.

What was she offering? Smile and fake green signals I suppose. You acted wisely.
Girl who are interested in you don’t act out for material exchange

stanliwise:

What was she offering? Smile and fake green signals I suppose. You acted wisely.
Girl who are interested in you don’t act out for material exchange

Yeah, she was smiling and stylishly winking at me. She was saying" if I ask you to buy me something with the change, won't you" I just didn't answer her.

Debauhaus1990:

Yeah, she was smiling and stylishly winking at me. She was saying" if I ask you to buy me something with the change, won't you" I just didn't answer her.

Never ever give her anything for free until she deserves it.

Mr HARDDON I salute you....My Oga’s I hail you all too.
Drills never fail...

Worked so well and in less than a month of meeting this girl , she has submitted to me all round.
Thing now is; she’s always pulling up the; “what are we “ question.
Now even proceeded to what are we doing, what do you want and all of that... (She reduced calls too)
Yes I’ve told her don’t fall in love but she just couldn’t help it....lol....
called her to come meet me at a spot as I told I felt like getting some chops.
We get the items and return to her place to enjoy the consumables and she goes ahead with her question again after saying I’m controlling, I’m not straightforward with my intentions, I’m annoying too....lol

I then bring up how we met, all the drama she’s put up whenever another lady seemed to be getting more attention, how I thought she was a boring nerd but I was wrong. (Had her smiling ear to ear the whole time). Told her I enjoyed watching her do all the impressing me stuff as it makes me happy and told her I wanted to remain Happy and all that. She wasn’t satisfied with the answer obviously she’s expecting me to ask her to be my girlfriend..

I don’t want no ship now... how do I get her off my back with the questions and still keep the interest level on a 100

JmyNigaa:
Mr HARDDON I salute you....My Oga’s I hail you all too.
Drills never fail...

Worked so well and in less than a month of meeting this girl , she has submitted to me all round.
Thing now is; she’s always pulling up the; “what are we “ question.
Now even proceeded to what are we doing, what do you want and all of that... (She reduced calls too)
Yes I’ve told her don’t fall in love but she just couldn’t help it....lol....
called her to come meet me at a spot as I told I felt like getting some chops.
We get the items and return to her place to enjoy the consumables and she goes ahead with her question again after saying I’m controlling, I’m not straightforward with my intentions, I’m annoying too....lol

I then bring up how we met, all the drama she’s put up whenever another lady seemed to be getting more attention, how I thought she was a boring nerd but I was wrong. (Had her smiling ear to ear the whole time). Told her I enjoyed watching her do all the impressing me stuff as it makes me happy and told her I wanted to remain Happy and all that. She wasn’t satisfied with the answer obviously she’s expecting me to ask her to be my girlfriend..

I don’t want no ship now... how do I get her off my back with the questions and still keep the interest level on a 100

very read laced with sleek dealings.

Next time she ask that, reply with;

"I've been waiting for you to ask me out babes. Or is your liver failing you?"

She may reply with 'huh? isn't it the guy that is meant to bla bla bla?

reply with , 'well, I'm not your average everyday guy!'.


but if ever she does, which is unlikely,

your reply should be ; ' hmmm, I'd think about it!' �

use these, or fashion others in that line.

Whatever you do, never give her an inch of sway by asking her out. The man died that day.

sajmark:
Sex is not a form of payment Guys, simps have overrated sex and skyrocket it's value but we know better.
Below is a woman who wanted to use sex as payment for $40 in a TV show set in 1878.
The man had control, sadly a lot of us would have fallen for this...
Let's work on controlling that urge Kings.

what film is this

CC: Stanliwise x Harddon

Ignoring a girl who ignored ur advances towards her, as in, never even wanted to communicate with u or anything so she won't get attached or make u get attached to her or overlooking wat she did nd kip shooting ur shot which is better?

Is ignoring the girl dat ignored u being childish on ur part?
Or is overlooking it n still trying a show of shame on ur part?

HealthWealthy:
CC: Stanliwise x Harddon

Ignoring a girl who ignored ur advances towards her, as in, never even wanted to communicate with u or anything so she won't get attached or make u get attached to her or overlooking wat she did nd kip shooting ur shot which is better?

Is ignoring the girl dat ignored u being childish on ur part?
Or is overlooking it n still trying a show of shame on ur part?

The way the world works is a bit unfair for guys, you just have to be the one to go get what you want and that means go for it.
The only mistake you would make when going to get what you want is to loose too much resources. That is why you have to size everything just like a tiger in the jungle.
You have limited time, energy and cash to chase girls in the world. So
1. Chase the one you like
2. Spend more time with that complement(not compliment) the effort
3. Stay with the only one that worth it.

For the ones who are not in this list. Then spend just little time with this people.

The natural way of behavior is to keep chasing as they keep running and most cases chasing faster. Only a wolf thinks this way and that is because it has a park to feed from if he loses, this is called one-itis. Also you shouldn’t never degenerate into anger or frustration, no guy appear attractive in this form, you only appear like another loser who fit to be pitied with love and it never last.

A lone tiger don’t exhaust its energy. He has a good sense of calculation within few seconds before he launches and few seconds know when to give up.

So when a girl ignores you or pull far then reduce the amount of time you approach her but still keep her in the loop and the more she rejects you the more you fade away. It is very important that it must sync and it is always best if you’re the one to call the quit before she does. There is no straight forward advice to know when to do this but many times it is somewhat easy but tricky.

Even if she eventually says yes, you will still need to fade in same way you fade out.
Time to stay away from a girl if she does not fit your person. Don’t manage, just go. It is best for both you and her

HARDDON:



C. SECRETS TO GETTING THE 10s EASILY

1. Ignore d fyn face n cute body n see her for who she really is: a Lonely/bored lil girl that could make do with a lil laghter in her life

2. Be kul in ur skin n different from every other guy she has ever met

3. Use that her beauty as a weapon for fun jabs. Send less

4. Body aura should read "im inna hurry, stop wasting my time

hii from 2017
I'm still reading up so I don't know if you have addressed this... how do use their beauty as a weapon to tease and throw jabs boss?
a few examples would be gold

Just joining starting from page 1.... hope to sharppen my skills.

HARDDON:


very read laced with sleek dealings.

Next time she ask that, reply with;

"I've been waiting for you to ask me out babes. Or is your liver failing you?"

She may reply with 'huh? isn't it the guy that is meant to bla bla bla?

reply with , 'well, I'm not your average everyday guy!'.


but if ever she does, which is unlikely,

your reply should be ; ' hmmm, I'd think about it!' �

use these, or fashion others in that line.

Whatever you do, never give her an inch of sway by asking her out. The man died that day.

bad guy............ wow I just saw this thread from someone I'm following I'm doing this format

Lol... what can I say; I learn from the best....

She did ask me out but nahhhh... mans not having that....lol

Blowing my phone everyday and all and doing all she can to own my attention solely.

Was dulling to let a brother in..what I do?
Kissing, boobs handling, gave em nipples proper attention then with my hands went around the V without going in... already wet and I stop and whispered in her ears; Would you want another girl getting all these( in story form, said all I planned doing with another girl step by step and she just couldn’t allow the imagination grow in her head anymore)... and that was how a brother gained access.

Never mentioned Love

Boss Hardon and my Oga’s i hail thee...


There’s this girl I met way back. I‘d bore her with the compliments and boring questions before stumbling upon this thread. I switch my game, on a good day she’s around my vicinity (@ her relation’s actually) so I go over as she’s new here. We vibe well and I hit her with the; I’m the cake you should be striving to have a piece off, the whole you love me and should impress me thingy. Goes well and I leave.


Next time she’s here, she beeps me and I go to her sisters place again to see her with picking her up in mind. Get there and she’s in a hurry to leave with me. I get chops (not to impress) and I resume my game and plant the idea of her staying over in her head without saying it outrightly(she was supposed to leave that day) and she takes the bait and calls her sis and says she’ll be staying over. Cooks food without me asking and all’s going well. I’m relaxed and she’s having fun too. Kisses here and there till she’s so comfortable to make videos of us smooching. We get on it, but midway my spell broke and I didn’t go in. Tz morning and we get all mushy mushy again before hitting the road for a trip.

During her stay; I’d occasionally rub in the; you know you love me and can’t get enough of me and all that.


She calls to make sure I got to the park. I said I’ll call when I get to my destination but didn’t and she calls the next day kinda pissed that I didn’t call and that she’s not getting the SORRY.

Then we text a bit on w.A:
Having teased her about me dropping in weight and how she should get ready to feed me till I’m round and all that. Says she’s not my cook bla bla bla and.....


Her: What do you want me to do for you

Me: Instead of listing things out; *Make me happy* covers it all.
Me: Making me happy at all times should be your priority.

Her: why should I make you happy?
Her: Am I your wife??

Me: (replying to “am I your wife”) Lol.... you’re moving too fast. you’re yet to pay my groom price and you haven’t even gone on one knee to propose with a diamond ring talk less of the fact that you haven’t done a nice job impressing me.
Delay further and you’d just miss this guy you can’t get enough of�.

Me: (replying to “why should I make you happy”) Making me happy is directly proportional to your happiness.. if you keep me happy , then I just might break my walls and allow you gradually move an inch closer to getting a favourable position.



Then I call to know if she was at my place when I left(As she took a spare key which I’ll be getting back), and she’s cold with replies and I choose to find out what’s up and she goes; “you’re annoying, you think you’re funny but you’re not, you’re playing games, you’re trying to play games with me, you can’t play games with me, you’re playing yourself”...not getting the whole thing she says: if you don’t know what’s going on, forget it. I just laugh and end the call.

Then I come online on WhatsApp and see she replied to my texts even before I called her.

Her: Gerrout




What could be the issue here?

Cause I planned on replying; Lol... you make me happy so I guess I’ll let you hang around me for a while�... Bore me and I’ll not hesitate to move away