Offpoint1:

Depress? Naaa! I've mastered the act of dealing with life problems since I was 11, nothing on earth can make me depress. No pleasure, nor pain, nor rejection.

Isolation is a powerful tool to unleash spirituality, the more isolated you are the less human you become and the more spirit you become. It's a key to spirit realm. More powerful than prayers, chants and incantations.

If you can trace some historical spiritual books, most communications with the spirit realms took place in isolated places.
Take a clue from the Bible for references.
Abraham communicate with God in isolated places
Moses as you know always left for the mountains
Jesus always left his disciples behind into isolation when he wants to communicate with God.

Let me not derail my thread

Bro. Are you a christian?

U go soon mental oo.. God created Adam and eve for a purpose. It's not good for a man/woman to be alone. Don't create depression, loss of memory into your life. And try to guard the way you think. very important. Too much of it brings sickness to the brain and to the body

Really,you're not alone.
I am just the same rather worse in all these than you are.Although,i hardly reply or like any post on nairaland,but, visit here everyday.not really active on any social media except I'm being forced to reply.infact,the only social media I'm on is Facebook and just visit like once in 4months,hardly post too.
I don't really have friends as such too.sometimes I wonder how people form group of friends.i also wonder how I'm going to cope when I'll be wedding because there's are no friends to invite.who are those going to be my bridal train?
I might not have a single message on WhatsApp for two days.As a lady,I find it difficult to make friends especially with females.i'm just used to being alone.What's the point of friendship?To me,it only brings problems upon problems.

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

Some would call you a sociopath

Maybe a neuropath even.


I'll say you're perfectly normal cos I'm just the same

As the challenges are new so u have to think a new.

All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

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My own is, how can one get Business WhatsApp and personal WhatsApp lines on the same phone, how is it done?

I don't like calls too but for me not to call my Mum, I no follow you for that one.

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

You are living in your own world ald you don't want people to disturb you also you are proving that your are just comfortable with the way you are and ca t find it easy relating with people

But I can see that you are active on your business WhatsApp probably because you earn something from it

But bear in mind that communication is the key

Lack of communication is like staying in the darkness in a hole

Was trying to figure out the op until I read where he mentioned universe, soul travel etc then I got where you're coming from.
Don't try to explain yourself to anyone. You're doing alright. Most especially if you're in the buddhist, and other spiritual path.
Things will change when you decide to have a family of your own. Except of cos you don't intend to.
I used to be like you. Although I made things happen in the office but when I'm home, I love spending time with the universe and I love my me time. Had no friends, just office acquaintances. Don't go to church, didn't visit neither did I allowed visitors, I didn't live a boring life cos I'll buy drinks and eat catfish etc alone. My dad complained I don't call, I created a time table for that and I called him every week cos he gives me peace.
But marriage changes everything. I'm changed now. So you're alright sir.

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

I was sincerely like you until I got married,
Marriage made me change my perceptions about certain things , and even though I sincerely want to remain that way, I can't considering my husband and children feelings....

qtguru:


You will be depressed and isolated if you keep this up, no cap , talk to people esp family

when old age comes, he will understand. leave am...

Offpoint1:

I wouldn't use the word "ignore" I'm in good term with my family...

That's because family tolerates our excesses. It doesn't mean they wouldn't have preferred it if you were a bit closer. I read where you explained how you've mastered self sufficiency. That's beautiful, but learning how to be self sufficient serves to help you survive when you find yourself in a situation where you are alone. It's not reason to isolate yourself. I also read where you said you don't have friends but get along fine with people. Again, that's okey, but people you get along fine with can't perform the role of friends. All these are not a problem now. You're probably a young man full of life/energy. You have enough to sustain yourself and you don't see any reason why you should bother with people, especially seeing that they hardly bring anything to the table asides burdens and inconveniences.

However, like someone said, no one is an island. There's what we call 'people currency'. At some point, you'll need people; if not for yourself, for your offspring. Asides from the fact that the people you roll with today are the connections your children will have tomorrow, there's also something called a social support system. Work, money, career, etc. keep us so busy we hardly ever feel the absence of people these days, but the pressure just keeps rising gradually and steadily. There comes a point where you'd look back and realize how empty and useless this world is without anyone by your side. This time will come, I'm not guessing.

I understand if this is your personality. We all have the things we value more than others. If you're a loner, that's who you are. You can't be someone else. But even a loner needs a couple of people he knows he can easily reach out to talk even if he doesn't do that eventually. That sense of having someone is just sufficient on its own. Please, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Offpoint1:

Depress? Naaa! I've mastered the act of dealing with life problems since I was 11, nothing on earth can make me depress. No pleasure, nor pain, nor rejection.

Isolation is a powerful tool to unleash spirituality, the more isolated you are the less human you become and the more spirit you become. It's a key to spirit realm. More powerful than prayers, chants and incantations.

If you can trace some historical spiritual books, most communications with the spirit realms took place in isolated places.
Take a clue from the Bible for references.
Abraham communicate with God in isolated places
Moses as you know always left for the mountains
Jesus always left his disciples behind into isolation when he wants to communicate with God.

Let me not derail my thread

On ur page too brother

You are on track..takes alot to have this experience,guild it.

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

Proffeluczy1:


Bro. Are you a christian?

I'm a HUMAN

Your life will be so boring even with your millions. By the way, are you married? If no,then you will change your behavior after your wedding because that is the day you will know that you need people in your life.

Friends and family go show you shege that day

I used to be like you but not anymore.

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

My own problem is that i dnt knw how to check on people nd I don't knw how to keep anybody that are nt near(i dnt knw how to keep pple i dnt see on a daily basis)
My parent tot am wicked ns selfish, smtyms they doubt me of coming back home wen i make it

Offpoint1:

Ego? You don't know me personally.

Low self-esteem? Naaa there's no one I can engage in conversation, I've address countless crowd of people on many occasions. I've lecture people in high positions, I've challenged and questioned ideologies of people far greater than me Academically.

Don't mind the i*diots who open their mouths, say nonsense, and then justify it with weird logic. As long as you are not hurting anybody, just keep being yourself. Tell your parents how much they mean to you once in a while, and then try to help the most needy ( e.g out of school children)

How on Earth can one stay 6 months to 1 year without talking to his family members even your parents? Maybe you are not close to your family because I can't stay a week without talking to my family, never.

illicit:
It's like u are alone o....

It's like u no well too

You are entitled to your opinion

I swear. Me too but wen I need anybody help, I go remember say I been suppose de relate well with them before.

You might understand the important of family in old Age..

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

This sounds like you are either a mean person or you have low self esteem.

Hmmmmm.......


I love the fact that you wish or want to adjust your life style. I Can't imagine not speaking or talking to nne na nna m for over 6 months or my siblings for that matter. This is not something one should boast about because even if you're rich, this is the type of lifestyle that one will die in his room for ages and no one will notice.

Human being is a social being..

Try to get your self a small circle of friends and start liking people's ideas by liking mine.

Or get an online pal you can chat or mail with pending one you have adjusted.
You can mail me for more assistance.

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

Early signs of depression

It's good now but when you get older you will regret it. Just hope you don't want to get married. You will live this life of solitude alone and not start building friendships when you're 70. I know someone like you it didn't end well.

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

Low self-esteem

Honestly speaking OP, until you change your name (OFF POINT) to ONPOINT you may remain the same.


You see those people saying "You are not alone" fear them because they're behind your back with a big grin saying "You are all alone" aka OYO

Chronic Introvert alert !

Snitch24:


Well if you're under 30yrs
And u can ignore ur mom for that long
You have a problem
You really do need to talk to people about it
Ur own mama ooh
Lol

You never can blame him cos you don't know the relationship he had with him mum growing up, everyone is always quick to show sentiments when issues like this crop up forgetting that the bond btw him and his mum was never there....

Laeroy:


You never can blame him cos you don't know the relationship he had with him mum growing up, everyone is always quick to show sentiments when issues like this crop up forgetting that the bond btw him and his mum was never there....

For 6months bro

You aren't normal. You are alone.

You're a diagnosed introvert. Quote me if I am wrong but you didn't just suddenly become that way. Maybe you can pinpoint how and when the process was triggered, maybe you don't even know. Not all introverts are sociopaths, though, although it's a thin line, really. I'll bet you have other emotional issues that are the actual fountain of these "symptoms".

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.