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Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by Oyinlomobambam(m): 7:16pm On Sep 30, 2021
It's better to know the truth and know how to deal with it... I wish all father's can take the bold step too

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Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by TheWolfen(m): 7:16pm On Sep 30, 2021
Every man deserve to know their biological sons and daughters....


Deceit is not acceptable. The young man deserve to know the truth. Whatever the decision the father of OP decides to take shouldn't be judge for that because he was deceived in the the first place. . .



Righteousness2:
You don't need to be Scared!
You are old enough to have a Bold and Courageous Man to Man Conversation with your Dad.

And if He wants a DNA, you do it. You Didn't Give Birth to yourself.

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Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by KarinaLove(f): 7:16pm On Sep 30, 2021
Do What Your Daddy Says....Daddies Boy!!!

Better still. Do the DNA Test yourself and carry it to your Dad. Boom!!!
Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by MPESA(m): 7:17pm On Sep 30, 2021
rex21:


You said your dad is on nairaland right ??
So it makes sense to you if he sees this post right ??
Una can sabi chase clout for Africa. Rubbish

Re-read am again, you go understand wetin him talk.

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Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by juman(m): 7:17pm On Sep 30, 2021
It may not be dna issue.
But if it's dna and you are not his son.
Talk to him, assuring him that you are still his son forever.
Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by demoBaba: 7:18pm On Sep 30, 2021
He's black, I am fair (though my mum says I took his father complexion)



This part got me rolling....,......

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Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by LordGuru1: 7:18pm On Sep 30, 2021
cool I knew it! I knew!!! I knew it!!! Nobody has ever been that fair skin colour in my family and his mum's, and now he has proven his doubt here that he is not mine. The heartless woman must leave my House and take this bastard back to his useless father. Glad I'll stop wasting my money on school fees for a bastard!
Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by Babastrong(m): 7:18pm On Sep 30, 2021
Why scared?
go home guy, even if your father demands DNA test, do it.
if the result shows that he's not your father. I believe your real father is somewhere and he may still better than your known father.
secondly, don't ever hate your mum for any outcome of the test.
Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by michoim(m): 7:18pm On Sep 30, 2021
I understand your fears, and rightly so. No one would want to witness possibility of his mother being disgraced or humiliated. No one will want a happy family, shattered. But be bold and courageous, your father is a man also and his emotion need to be respected. He doesn't equally deserve to be cheated or deceived throughout the rest of his lifetime on earth...

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Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by naturefellow(m): 7:18pm On Sep 30, 2021
Barrister026:

Am 21yrs old, eldest among 3 siblings and I think my dad has something planned out...

The thing here is am scared, because all my life I have seen people saying never to trust a woman (I love my mom, but still am scared)

He's black, I am fair (though my mum says I took his father complexion)

Pls help me...am thinking to stay back in school or go home This evening.
Am confused.

'I am' or "I'm", not 'am'

Is this how you write academic work undecided

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Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by Kobojunkie: 7:18pm On Sep 30, 2021
marttye:
this DNA test facilities that being set everywhere now is no good thing for marriage s right now
Wait till the Scam labs begin business before you understand say all na false hope. undecided
Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by Nobody: 7:19pm On Sep 30, 2021
Barrister026:
My dad called me on the phone 2 days ago asking if I be coming home for the holiday, which is unlikely of him, because I just left home not quite long and he hardly call. (I school within our state, studying law)..... while we were on the call he mentioned about the Dr appointment. (We normally do routine check-up every 2 months )

Throwing the question to me if I even know my blood group. (I replied, no)
At FIRST I thought it's just a normal question.

Am 21yrs old, eldest among 3 siblings and I think my dad has something planned out, he's an Internet freak even more than I, he's actively online on twitter, facebook, and seeing all the uproars about DNA test here and there on Nairaland, I think he's going to ask me to come to the hospital with him disguising it as me Knowing my blood group (for a DNA test.)

The thing here is am scared, because all my life I have seen people saying never to trust a woman (I love my mom, but still am scared)

What if it's a DNA test (which I strongly believe it is)
What if it's turns out complicated
Would he still accept me? Or abandon me to myself.
So many thoughts running through my head, they are reasons for that.

He's black, I am fair (though my mum says I took his father complexion)


Pls help me...am thinking to stay back in school or go home This evening.
Am confused.

Call your Mother and explain these things to her.
Beg her for the truth because you're about to lose your mind.
Believe whatever she tells you and go do that DNA test with your Dad with your FULL CHEST.
Relax, you'll be alright, nothing de happen.
Who knows if he needs the DNA test to codedly process your papers abroad to further your studies.

And incase you have '2' Dads, look on the brighter side grin

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Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by Kobojunkie: 7:19pm On Sep 30, 2021
OKOATA:
cheesy
It's better late than never. If you aren't his kid I believe it will be impossible for him to hate you because of the loves he's shown you from birth.
Are you your own father's child? undecided

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Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by Echoban: 7:19pm On Sep 30, 2021
mariahAngel:


Tell him you can do the “blood group” test in school, then hear what he says next.

Excuse won't stop the man from doing what he wants to do, the p.man na soji guyman na..

Op, ur fear is Incase he finds out maybe he would stop sponsoring u, na na, I doubt, he won't do so for a grown up man like u, una don go far, bond well, he LL only see u as an adoptee he wants to help, if u're a kid that's wen he will push u out to meet ur father but ure grown already, the anger will only go to ur mum and consider her gone out of the home already.he will put the anger all on her.
P.Man seems so despirate to know .

Meanwhile just know he doesn't even need ur presence to get ur body DNA, just ur cloth ,, brush is enough. So u better respect urself and face ur trial.. no fear

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Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by Burgerlomo: 7:20pm On Sep 30, 2021
marttye:
this DNA test facilities that being set everywhere now is no good thing for marriage s right now

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Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by datamillionaire: 7:20pm On Sep 30, 2021
Do the test and shame the devil irrespective of result
Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by SenecaTheYonger: 7:20pm On Sep 30, 2021
JovialJune:
Hehehehe, I'll be on the lookout for "m" monikers, let's see if they will be bold enough to bitch about since this one is a grown ass adult, of which his momma was born in the time past, and not females of these days.

What are you kikiking about? Are you blind or can’t you see the whole comment section is filled with m moniker? What are you so happy about when the OP has not even gotten the result of the DNA test, that is if his father wants one

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Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by Scottz: 7:20pm On Sep 30, 2021
Truvelisback:
U are dark and ur father is fair. Hmmmm, he reach to fear sha! But do u think u mum do av secret affairs with men secretly?
you don’t have any right to ask that
It was completely unnecessary honestly
Let’s be sensitive pls.
Think about it even if she does will he tell you?
So why asking ?
Na wa

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Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by Scottz: 7:22pm On Sep 30, 2021
naturefellow:


'I am' or "I'm", not 'am'

Is this how you write academic work undecided
different kinds of humans
God try sha grin

Na this one problem be this cheesy cheesy
Wahala no de end

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Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by Kobojunkie: 7:23pm On Sep 30, 2021
Oyinlomobambam:
It's better to know the truth and know how to deal with it... I wish all father's can take the bold step too
Look whose talking.... you wey refuse to confirm whether you be your own papa child follow dey respond too.. undecided

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Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by greatiyk4u(m): 7:24pm On Sep 30, 2021
It's obvious the man is wealthy and giving the OP the best life can offer and that's exactly what he is scared of losing especially now that he is totally dependent on the man.


Solution

Codedly inform your mom of the man's plan of doing DNA, ask her if you should accept or reject the offer

Her answer will guide your decision, if she advises you reject it, then accept to go to the hospital with him and once DNA test is mentioned, blackmail him with quarrel accusing him of suspecting your mom and leave back to school in anger

Find way to dupe him of some reasonable cash that can see you through school and refuse going back home again till you graduate then need dependent to move your mom and siblings away from the man.

Tankio

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Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by Myhusband(m): 7:24pm On Sep 30, 2021
Barrister026:


It's DNA sir am sure, he's asking if I know my blood group (which I don't)
But I believe he knows it, they might have done it before.

What if it turns out, am not his biogical child.
And me been the first child, I suspecting he's opping for the dna test.

So many reasons he might decide to do it, he's black, am slightly fair.
Honestly am scared.


calling your mom a wh0re publicly speak low of you, as a 21 years old, you're a man already, so man up and stop sounding like sissy



go home and stop giving yourself HBP

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Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by Kobojunkie: 7:25pm On Sep 30, 2021
datamillionaire:
Do the test and shame the devil irrespective of result
Devil has nothing to do with it. undecided
Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by manigold: 7:27pm On Sep 30, 2021
Op please what's your mother's complexion? This is to help rule out any unfounded fears.
Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by OKOATA(m): 7:27pm On Sep 30, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Are you your own father's child? undecided
You this feminist girl again, dem take you swear for me?

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Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by Ogaga87(m): 7:27pm On Sep 30, 2021
Barrister026:
My dad called me on the phone 2 days ago asking if I be coming home for the holiday, which is unlikely of him, because I just left home not quite long and he hardly call. (I school within our state, studying law)..... while we were on the call he mentioned about the Dr appointment. (We normally do routine check-up every 2 months )

Throwing the question to me if I even know my blood group. (I replied, no)
At FIRST I thought it's just a normal question.

Am 21yrs old, eldest among 3 siblings and I think my dad has something planned out, he's an Internet freak even more than I, he's actively online on twitter, facebook, and seeing all the uproars about DNA test here and there on Nairaland, I think he's going to ask me to come to the hospital with him disguising it as me Knowing my blood group (for a DNA test.)

The thing here is am scared, because all my life I have seen people saying never to trust a woman (I love my mom, but still am scared)

What if it's a DNA test (which I strongly believe it is)
What if it's turns out complicated
Would he still accept me? Or abandon me to myself.
So many thoughts running through my head, they are reasons for that.

He's black, I am fair (though my mum says I took his father complexion)


Pls help me...am thinking to stay back in school or go home This evening.
Am confused.




Papa eyes don clear

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Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by ivolt: 7:27pm On Sep 30, 2021
marttye:
this DNA test facilities that being set everywhere now is no good thing for marriage s right now
How?

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Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by zeeace(m): 7:28pm On Sep 30, 2021
Seems like your mama is a hoe. embarassed
Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by enemachris(m): 7:29pm On Sep 30, 2021
Barrister026:


It's DNA sir am sure, he's asking if I know my blood group (which I don't)
But I believe he knows it, they might have done it before.

What if it turns out, am not his biogical child.
And me been the first child, I suspecting he's opping for the dna test.

So many reasons he might decide to do it, he's black, am slightly fair.
Honestly am scared.
What if your dad is on Nairaland reading this? go home son. It may turn out to be something else and stop beating yourself.
Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by dnawah(m): 7:29pm On Sep 30, 2021
Barrister026:
My dad called me on the phone 2 days ago asking if I be coming home for the holiday, which is unlikely of him, because I just left home not quite long and he hardly call. (I school within our state, studying law)..... while we were on the call he mentioned about the Dr appointment. (We normally do routine check-up every 2 months )

Throwing the question to me if I even know my blood group. (I replied, no)
At FIRST I thought it's just a normal question.

Am 21yrs old, eldest among 3 siblings and I think my dad has something planned out, he's an Internet freak even more than I, he's actively online on twitter, facebook, and seeing all the uproars about DNA test here and there on Nairaland, I think he's going to ask me to come to the hospital with him disguising it as me Knowing my blood group (for a DNA test.)

The thing here is am scared, because all my life I have seen people saying never to trust a woman (I love my mom, but still am scared)

What if it's a DNA test (which I strongly believe it is)
What if it's turns out complicated
Would he still accept me? Or abandon me to myself.
So many thoughts running through my head, they are reasons for that.

He's black, I am fair (though my mum says I took his father complexion)


Pls help me...am thinking to stay back in school or go home This evening.
Am confused.
nous fear,but if e no match and your come find out say,your papa na one big man nko?
Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by byteem: 7:29pm On Sep 30, 2021
You being fair and your dad being dark is not an issue in. , Call I mum.. ask her this simple question.

"Mum I feel dad want ma to run a DNA test on me.. do I need to be worried".

Based on her reply u will know if you should be worried..

If she snaps and vex . At your dad then no probs

If she tries to dismiss it as nothing by laughing it off or making a joke of it.. then u should be worried..
Re: DNA Test, I Am Scared by egunna(m): 7:30pm On Sep 30, 2021
Echoban:


Excuse won't stop the man from doing what he wants to do, the p.man na soji guyman na..

Op, ur fear is Incase he finds out maybe he would stop sponsoring u, na na, I doubt, he won't do so for a grown up man like u, una don go far, bond well, he LL only see u as an adoptee he wants to help, if u're a kid that's wen he will push u out to meet ur father but ure grown already, the anger will only go to ur mum and consider her gone out of the home already.he will put the anger all on her.
P.Man seems so despirate to know .

Meanwhile just know he doesn't even need ur presence to get ur body DNA, just ur cloth ,, brush is enough. So u better respect urself and face ur trial.. no fear
hmmm.u think it will b easy to live with d fact dat ur wife cheated and lied to u for 21 years?d family will never b normal again.d man will hate d wife and d hatred will b transfered to op.face reality bro,no gentleman for here.common person toast ur woman na issue,talk more of getting pregnant and bearing u another man's child.bros dis ur talk no follow

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