Kobojunkie:
Hey

Are you imposing the family on him at this point then?

It is his family. Nobody is imposing family on him.

fnep2smooth:
Paternity Fraud don enter street.


Let me share one recent experience with a friend. The guy told me how a particular girl he met in the village came to see him. During the time he was not aware she was pregnant. 3 weeks into the relationship the girl told him she is pregnant. The guy took her to the nearest clinic, did pregnancy test and it came out that the girl is 2- 3 month pregnant. The nurse even politely said , oga e show for her body na.

That's how he take her back home, that's where she open up about the pregnancy and start beging the guy to help him abort it. Before the guy will say jack, the girl don google abortion drugs, make some calls and it was waybill which the guy paid for it. The matter long abeg.

The guy for marry and settle down not knowing say the baby no be him own, and for the girl to know the truth and still hide it is pure evil and should be seen as crime.


So OP no fear... And don't blame the man... Maybe mummy way no too clear, or maybe you de behave somehow and him won verify whether na him born you true true

Bro, dont you think the best thing is to talk to your mum ?

tunize:

Nothing my head dey pain me this evening "sorry" but the question is rather disrespectful u asked about is mother na the boi I blame wen e dey indirectly sey e mama nor dey faithful for public forum nor vex bro chess

It's not disrespectful. The question will help him to know who his real father is. I didn't call his mother any name. Besides, this is a faceless forum. If he doesn't need help, he wouldn't have opened up. It's better to open up and find solution to the problem than hiding it and die in silence.

tunize:

No he shouldn't what ever trauma the child is passing through was brought upon by the mother.

Exactly men are the victims in DNA fraud.
The bastards are the collateral damage.
The adultress sex hungry women who suddenly start having unprotected sex during marriage (something they avoid like Hades while single) are the perpetrators

marttye:
this DNA test facilities that being set everywhere now is no good thing for marriage s right now.

think of it deeply.

Why is it not good for marriages?? Any marriage that is ruined cos of DNA results, it is the woman that ruined it with her own hands through deceit

People should embrace this DNA thingy cos it has come to stay

MeghaneMorgane:

It is his family. Nobody is imposing family on him.

It is? even if he doubts it?

Kobojunkie:
You assume he is alive and wants to be burdened, don't you?

I don’t make assumptions.

I offered an opinion to the OP. He’s free to decide what he’ll do and what he’ll find.

My opinion is worth exactly what was paid for it N0.

Scottz:
you don’t have any right to ask that
It was completely unnecessary honestly
Let’s be sensitive pls.
Think about it even if she does will he tell you?
So why asking ?
Na wa

Sickness wey person hide go kill am. The essence is to be sure of who his real father is. Besides, this a faceless forum.

Scottz:
different kinds of humans
God try sha

Na this one problem be this
Wahala no de end

I've responded to his primary concern. He should yield to his father's request.

Damn. U sud b scared son

@op, from ur story I believe you already kwn the truth.

Elporo:


Na wetin I tell am nah...

Make e pray sey e real papa .. hold pass e current papa ... if not oboi ..

na oyo be him own o

Barrister026:


this is immature.

The essence is 4 u to know who ur real father is.

Barrister026:
My dad called me on the phone 2 days ago asking if I be coming home for the holiday, which is unlikely of him, because I just left home not quite long and he hardly call. (I school within our state, studying law)..... while we were on the call he mentioned about the Dr appointment. (We normally do routine check-up every 2 months )

Throwing the question to me if I even know my blood group. (I replied, no)
At FIRST I thought it's just a normal question.

Am 21yrs old, eldest among 3 siblings and I think my dad has something planned out, he's an Internet freak even more than I, he's actively online on twitter, facebook, and seeing all the uproars about DNA test here and there on Nairaland, I think he's going to ask me to come to the hospital with him disguising it as me Knowing my blood group (for a DNA test.)

The thing here is am scared, because all my life I have seen people saying never to trust a woman (I love my mom, but still am scared)

What if it's a DNA test (which I strongly believe it is)
What if it's turns out complicated
Would he still accept me? Or abandon me to myself.
So many thoughts running through my head, they are reasons for that.

He's black, I am fair (though my mum says I took his father complexion)


Pls help me...am thinking to stay back in school or go home This evening.
Am confused.

Oh boy just man up & dust away your fears.
You no commit any crime, don't put a burden on yourself that is not yours to bear.
This is a little test you must learn to firm up your your mind and emotions.
Be in charge and face the outcome like a real man.
Make your liver gum you well well.
Las Las you go dey alright.

MPESA:


Re-read am again, you go understand wetin him talk.

He just created a fictitious story bro

Kobojunkie:
How you take know say im papa hold cash?

na normal person dey do DNA test? Na person wey chop belleful dey do DNA.
You no hear of that doctor wey them threaten for lekki? That na poor man area? If e sure fir am why him no put him clinic for mushin? Or somewhere like kano?

Your dad must have been suspecting you are not one his child, or your mom cheated before you were born ! How can your mom say you like her father and not your father's father or any of his relations.

Dreadshy:
na normal person dey do DNA test? Na person wey chop belleful dey do DNA.
You no hear of that doctor wey them threaten for lekki? That na poor man area? If e sure fir am why him no put him clinic for mushin? Or somewhere like kano?

There are DNA labs in other parts of Lagos.

Kobojunkie:
It is? even if he doubts it?

Well, if I am the guy, I won’t do any DNA, I’ll post my dad for as long as I can until he forgets. Op I wish you all the best.

Barrister026:


Yes, I love to know the truth, but am still in law school (200 level) what if it turns out complicated.

at your level you should know your blood group . I suppose you did medical examination as freshman in your school?

MeghaneMorgane:

Well, if I am the guy, I won’t do any DNA, I’ll post my dad for as long as I can until he forgets. Op I wish you all the best.

ROFLMAO

Elporo:


Exactly men are the victims in DNA fraud.
The bastards are the collateral damage.
The adultress sex hungry women who suddenly start having unprotected sex during marriage (something they avoid like Hades while single) are the perpetrators

Yeah

Kobojunkie:
There are DNA labs in other parts of Lagos.

ok oga no vex

Barrister026:


It's DNA sir am sure, he's asking if I know my blood group (which I don't)
But I believe he knows it, they might have done it before.

What if it turns out, am not his biogical child.
And me been the first child, I suspecting he's opping for the dna test.

So many reasons he might decide to do it, he's black, am slightly fair.
Honestly am scared.

Shebi your mama dey there? If he's not your father, then your mama go sort you out.

Don't be a bîtch, bro

Truvelisback:
It's not disrespectful. The question will help him to know who his real father is. I did call his mother any name. Besides, this is a faceless forum. If he doesn't need help, he wouldn't have opened up. It's better to open up and find solution to the problem than hiding it and die in silence.

Hmmm

Seems the men crying for DNA tests will be the first victims. LMAO. Told y'all.

Too many idiots fighting for what they can't stand. Males on the forum are daft.

WHAT IF YOU DO THE TEST AND YOU FIND OUT HES NOT YOUR FATHER AND YOUR REAL FATHER IS DANGOTE OR OTEDEOLA WOULD YOU STILL BE SCARED OR YOU WOULD DISOWN HIM PACK YOUR THINGS AND GO TO YOUR BILLIONAIRE DAD LOL KEEP DECIVING YOURSELF OGA GO AND DO THE TEST JARE

Barrister026:


It's DNA sir am sure, he's asking if I know my blood group (which I don't)
But I believe he knows it, they might have done it before.

What if it turns out, am not his biogical child.
And me been the first child, I suspecting he's opping for the dna test.

So many reasons he might decide to do it, he's black, am slightly fair.
Honestly am scared.

What's your mom's complexion?

Your fair skin may be from your mom.

Elporo:


Exactly men are the victims in DNA fraud.
The bastards are the collateral damage.
The adultress sex hungry women who suddenly start having unprotected sex during marriage (something they avoid like Hades while single) are the perpetrators

Hey! Easy with the word bastards na.

MeghaneMorgane:


Well, if I am the guy, I won’t do any DNA, I’ll post my dad for as long as I can until he forgets. Op I wish you all the best.

But males have been fighting for it, forgetting that they will be subject to it themselves. Very soon they will oppose it when they realise it is a test that does more harm than good.

Prepare to see more homes of adult children scattered.

Barrister026:


this is immature.

Honestly