I thought so Sir. am just being honest, but marriage made me realise my assumption is wrong

georgeakins:




Fake story!

Women don't complain about big pricks, they all love being serviced by big rods.

MASTERYANKEE:
Get one side chick pregnant not time men

Kaiii

Hmmm ok what do she want you to do then .?

DavidNative:
Thank you ma.
Has any one gone through this pls, how were you able to fix. kindly help a brother, its been a lot of struggle , something i just sleep and just wait to go to office the next day so i can distract my mind, i am deeply struggling on my inside as a man,

Talking from experience
Have a heart to heart to with her and be very frank and sincere about how you feel. Outline the cons of her actions and what it could make a man do outside marriage.
Tell her you have tried and will not be making further efforts if she’s not willing to adjust.
Tell her you love her but her actions are driving you crazy.

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

The two of u should have sat down to discuss all these things before saying 'i do'.
Little things that u both ignored now has become a big problem.

DavidNative:
Yes Sir, she said she never had sex

Did you disvirgin her then ?

chatinent:
Make sex enjoyable, then, since that is the only option you both have. Of course, you know cheating is never an option.

You never indulged premaritally, she likewise. Good one!

Big Gbenga shouldn't be a problem with the perfect how-tos.

Now let's hit the bulls eye!

Try lubrication, fair play, lubrication again.

Don't replicate porn roles you watched. Don't watch it... because you'll start replacing her with the other figures you fantasize on.

Don't do fantasy oo! Just have it as a blessing of marriage!

Try not to be a sexaddict too! You know na person daughter. You can't be having it twelve times daily na, baba. You both need to discuss on the perfect time!

Tell her hoo haaa she has to learn to love sex; that's an only option for her too!


She has to be in with the right stimulation, yeah? Learn it.

Make stimulation good.


And where it's about to hit 10pm, reach for the sky.

I still feel you missed sth during courting. Yes, no to premarital sex but you had to discuss this situation since you think you know it already.

By the way, be a stimulant! It works!

Enjoy.
Lol. Don't tag me.

Pointless! What are you even saying exactly? Meaningless! Don't be this, don't be that.. bullshit! She is his wife. When thing like this happen, best advice is to go to phymacy and get libido booster for her. My wife did got it for me when I performed less now it's like we both go online at a time and last like tomorrow no dey

not yet Sir

mistijude:
I want to ask op a question; is she with kid already?

So he is indirectly paying for sex?

You can never really enjoy a one-sided sex, it's frustrating.

No sex before marriage sucks!

AutoC:

Let her know sex is important to you... Anytime she gives u sex be sweet to her... Buy her gift, help her in the kitchen etc... Anytime she doesn't just keep to yourself n ignore her.. It's works for women trust me

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

You shouldn’t have married her. Now you will deny yourself sweet knacks.

I guess she may be having difficulty in handling the sensation or feeling pain due to dryness. So take it easy with her and try to groom her.
Before s3x take time to explore sensitive parts of her body like cli***is, bre*st, side of the neck by the ear, or lips.
Be patient to play with and teach her how to kiss softly if she doesn't know how to kiss.
While doing this, surprise her with some gifts, airtime, and money.

grandstar:
DavidNative

Her behavior is selfish by saying she's not the sex type. 1 Cor 7 says warns against denying each other of it.

Is she circumcised? It reduces libido

You can imagine o. very manipulative something.
That marriage will Soon be hitting the rock . it's inevitable. I pity op cus frustration will soon set in

Foodqueen:
Continue talking to her, one day she will reciprocate.

she won't.

She is manipulating you. Think!

DavidNative:
Yes Sir, she said she never had sex

im not understanding you bro...

she said she never had sex before you married her and you also said you believed her...

did you confirm this on your wedding night? did you meet her a virgin?

if she claimed she never had sex before, its expected that you met her a virgin... did you meet her a virgin on your wedding night?

do not shy away from factual questions which will help you in resolving this issue cos thats what most married men do to keep their marriage but they end up disappointed in the end...

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

You really know that you are big down there and you should know that not every woman wants it big down there

Assuming you guys were having sex during courtship, she would have seen it a D either stay with it or pull out

But you dodged that part, expecting her to accept it the way it is

Well, that single part alone is enough to discourage her from sex due to pains and discomfort

You have to look for Al alternatives so that when she can't stand it, you get it else where

Men that are big down there, dates women that lives sex and ready to accommodate the size

Complicated though but to be honest with you why did you stay long with your elongated peninsula ??

You really think anyone can help you solve these arithmetic ?

You can't force yourself on her as it will be a rape case instead please engage her in any other hobby or activities.

You might not know if she was a virgin since they wasn't a premarital sex and now you won't know since your peninsula is extraordinary?

[quote author=DavidNative post=106340084]Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls[/quote

u aren't man enough u come outside on social media talking about ur marriage issue and ur intimacy here don't u think it doesn't make sense, if it woman now I would have say it there way but man haba it not good and u stated u suck her and she said ur dick is big are u praising urself or what? Ok ooo if u want my answer on that please cut it off or u trimmed ur prick to her pussy shape because the last thing I would advise u to do is having extra marital affair outside because of the danger involve now, so mr man used ur brain. And mind u not everything u post on social media

chatinent:

Enjoy.
Lol. Don't tag me.

Did you read where OP stated he gave her head and spends long time in pre-intimacy?

DavidNative:
Thank you ma.
Has any one gone through this pls, how were you able to fix. kindly help a brother, its been a lot of struggle , something i just sleep and just wait to go to office the next day so i can distract my mind, i am deeply struggling on my inside as a man,

Three quick questions will give you an idea on what to do.

1. Is she happy or moody?

2. Does she get wet enough during intercourse?

3. Is she circumcised i.e. is the clitoris still present?

DavidNative:
Pls i need an honest and kind advice . I will deeply appreciate

the truth is that you need to make her understand the need to have sex or don't you guys want kids

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Bros, stop masturbating...You will be fine

From your conversation more like you and your wife are the religious type, one your wife doesn’t love you that a fact,
First work your way to make her love second let your wife set the game tempo most time some girl prefer fore play and mild penetration and it possible she has lesbian tendencies.
If you know you can cope just find your way, marriage is meant to be enjoy

She is complaining is too big yet saying you don't stay long? Your statement doesn't correlate.

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Have a heart to heart discussion with her about her sexual fantasy, your wife has that sexual fantasy she doesn't want to disclose or reveal or too ashamed to say. If she can reveal this fantasy, you know where to take it from there.

Is he married to a child? She can't communicate what she wants?

If she doesn't enjoy it the way the husband is doing it why can't she tell him they way she enjoys it? I hate unnecessary complications

IDERAWOLE:


Hmmm, I feel you.

Just relax and calm down.

The truth is that sexual matters are not always what you read or watch in porns.

There's a side of your wife yet to be discovered! Take your time to discover it.

Don't back down on the love languages you've been speaking. However, you may need to withdraw from those sexual gimmicks you've been trying to use. She may not even like them.

Why not try jisting and see if she'll like that. Sexual preferences are as diverse as people. Find out hers.

Let me tell you, sex for newly married is huge with a lot of fantasies, so I can feel you.

Believe it, women too loves it, but theirs are a bit complex.

For a guy, except the wife has emotionally wounded him, all he needs to be ready for sex is her body.

For a lady, it may be more, How do you know that? Ask her.

Talk about other things of interest to her. She may love outings. Find out!

All the best.

Octopusssy:
Oga, what is the measurement of the said oversized preek? I want to check something

Bad lady, you want to pay him a surprise visit

If she's not the sex type trust me she is not the sex type.
But you have to let her know that her marital vow is to be there for you sexually. And as much as she keeps avoidinv it she will never do it, but as she engages more her v muscles will be losing us to accommodate you more no mater the size. Stop waiting for her to initiate, go for it provided she will not say No.

Speaking from experience . It is still a marital obligation to some of us not necessarily that its something we want to do everyday. This has no relationship with the satisfaction we get from it. People are just built that way. That's why you are advised to jejely marry your type to avoid conflict of interest

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Get unplugged. Read the Rational Male

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Must it be her pussy



Can't you find any other female homo sapien across the world to bang?



That thing you call love has to decrease or disappear since it facilitates a sexual urge towards someone that is not sexually compatible with you




You will never have peace if you remain baselessly or fruitlessly stuck to that thing you call love towards that woman !!!!

You'll learn the hard way if you don't know sex is one of the most productive thing. In fact,
that's how you came to be!

Nikeruka:

After you don talk finish, then you remembered your status