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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Indispensable85(m): 1:14pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
This is why I advise people to take courtship seriously. You've got to know as much as you can about your partner before saying I do. Your situation is obviously a case of mismatch. There's a woman out there praying for your type of man and there's a man out there praying for your type of wife. Sometimes we're too religious about certain things and make cheap mistakes in the end. Wisdom is profitable to direct. I'm not saying you would've have engaged in premarital sex but for crying out loud didn't you guys talk about sex all through your courtship? My wife and I had series of interactions concerning sex. We made enquiries on how we both want it, when we want it,how long we want it,best time to have it, preferred positions, how large the sizes of our privates were. After several discussions around that,it was clear we were almost on same page in that regard and eventually it turned out to be exactly what we both wanted because we were honest with our answers to each other. So sweet! We had same engagements in every department too. My people perish for lack of knowledge. Marriage should be enjoyed not endured. Now that you're already in it, patience becomes a virtue for you. Lasting long with big koboko is supposed to be a blessing. Lol..... 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DMerciful(m): 1:14pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Comparing sex to food is ridiculous! Sex in marriage is far more important than food. How many great men have fallen because of food? Have you heard of any that traveled from Lagos to Calabar because of food? Common, food is common, you can get it from anywhere! ShishaPipe: 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by airsaylongcome: 1:15pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Foodqueen: Lies |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by rottennaija(m): 1:15pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
chatinent: Woah Achorladey. Come and see your chatinent oo. I mean, woah. |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by BePrepared: 1:16pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
KarinaLove: Sorry ma but ur advice isn't wise, I'm solely against premarital sex but the case here is a young active man, so u are suggesting that at his young age he should forget sex with his youthful wife |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by techWriter3: 1:16pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Pls i necessity an honest and kind tips . I will deeply enjoy |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by chatinent: 1:17pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
rottennaija: Medical advice, uncle. Funny you! You don't even know if I am married! By the way, I think I made a good point. |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by 1bunne4lif(m): 1:19pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative:PICTURES! who's with me? |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by BENEAMATA: 1:19pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Which of the nairaland gyals go help OP wife to help OP bayi ? |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by MrNipplesLover(m): 1:19pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Tell her that you will only use the head to fvck her. Just sweet talk it like, it is only the head that will enter, you won't go all in. And give her the sweet talk again that u will not do more than 2 - 5 mins. If u can convince her and she allows u, don't do the opposite of what u promised her. As time goes on, she will be the one telling u to try and go all in first and see if she can take it. Just be a man and talk to her, let her understand why it's needed to be done. Don't forget, always sweet talk am. And let her see it on ur face that u really want it. Don't ignore lubricants. A reminder: just the dick cap and little time. She go ask for real fvck as time goes on. I hail u, bro. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DMerciful(m): 1:20pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Banging a frigid woman might also delay evacuation. It's egg and chicken scenario goodmorning40: |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Gee64: 1:21pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Don't force her against her will. Sex comes naturally. She is new to it. You have to adopt other sex methods to stimulate her and ginger up her interest. Not banging everyday particularly with your big gbola. Some ladies are afraid of big manhood while some enjoy it. For her, she is new to sex as a virgin like you said, and unfortunately she started with a bulldozer rod! Well, bear with her till her abuna becomes used to it. And for goodness sake, stop those blue movie stunt. Just suck the mangoes and do some fingering. You can use a sizable cucumber to tickle her desire, then gradually insert your joystick...Don't be in a hurry to get it in fully...Just lubricate with Vaseline and go in slowly..then, gradual thrust, then increase the speed, then hear her speak in tongues, then watch her ask for more..then, thrust harder and deeper...then, watch her cum..then, cum too! Then, await the result after a few weeks...a baby would thank your efforts right inside her womb and another Nigerian would be born into this harsh reality soon! Cry, my beloved Country! HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY! |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Remman(m): 1:21pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
A wise man seeks advice from another. Your coming here looking for advice means you're a good person and from your explanation, your wife is not a cheat! All right, She's your wife... There are four things involve! (take no. 4 seriously) 1. Your wife isn't sexually attracted to you. Forget the "i'm not a sex type" she says, a human is a human. There's somebody who will sex her and she loves it. So, i'll advice you watch the time you engage her in sex. Try giving her sex driven foods (not drugs) and try different styles of nacking. If possible, watch porn with her sometimes before you engage in sex. She'll be hungry for you there after. 2. Your wife has never given birth. Wait until she gives birth, she'll later tell you that your thing is too small because after birth, her thing will be wider. 3. You're not romantic sexually. You need to improve on making love with her. 4. Your wife could be having an underlying disease that could be preventing her from enjoying sex. Take her to the hospital and run test |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by JesseJo: 1:21pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Omonigho1976: No, it doesn't...Have you masturbated for over 5yrs before? When dude sees my comment he will understands perfectly what 'm talking about. The large penis size is also as a result of dry masturbation...It's like exercising the pen1s by stretching it everytime...It makes it long and develop advance muscles... Don't ask how I know these things ... Experience is always the best teacher. |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by foleskay(m): 1:22pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Was expecting such story on nairaland this no work Friday. Nairaland has been dry since morning, then the mods fabricated this gbola story to make the site lively. And trust nigerians they derive joy in pussy and dick stories. See number of views and on page 10 in less than an hour on front page.lol. the hustle is real |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by madmelon: 1:22pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative: You can go do suction to suck out some fat from your Private part..all these uncircumcised son of Fulani..na so Una go slack babe Pvssy... |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Truekay: 1:23pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
I feel your pain my friend. There are some questions you need to answer. One thing I want you to know is that ladies pretend a lot! I found out that you don't know the lady you got married to yet. Stop believing everything she tells you or what she had told you before marriage until you confirm. To me you can't differentiate between who is a virgin or not having believed her when she told you she is one. Even if you find out that she wasn't a virgin before you had sex, you can't turn back the hand of the clock. That said, you need a lot of time and experience to get it right. Here are what I think you should do: 1. Helping a lady is not enough to prove you are romantic. Your words should do same. 2. Always looking at her body romantically ie her nipple her bumbum etc. 3. If you want to do it, put her on suspense, don't rush!!! You may even set her on and leave as soon as you notice that she is wet and return later before she gets angry 4. Don't make it a daily bread, apply self-discipline. If you can't hold it, get yourself busy or masturbate if your faith accepts it 5. Study her mood and work on it in your favour. 6. Finally, avoid promiscuity. GOOD LUCK |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by rottennaija(m): 1:23pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
chatinent: Taah, It's doesn't matter what I know or don't know. I'm just impressed. |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by olabrinks(f): 1:23pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
It depends on how long you last because 20 mins of non stop penetration is not only a workout, it is boring and not satisfying. Especially as most Nigerian men think pumping hard and fast is good sex. There’s a lot of sucking touching teasing and slow thrusts that need to be involved. Your wife seems to get satisfaction from clitoral stimulation( which is the reality for 90% of women). So it’s either you keep her clit stimulated whilst penetrating or you simply ask her what she wants you to do. Men please learn how to kiss properly(less saliva and not too much tongue) , learn how to give head properly ( suck mainly on the clit pleeeassee! Located at the top of the vagina above the hole. ) and please learn how to penetrate well. ( slow thrusts + fast..changing the pace). Also suck nipples slowly and gently (NOT BITING no teeth) and keep your hands on the woman’s body. Try to massage clit whilst penetrating if you can (not compulsory). Please it’s not hard, try and learn ah beg. Your woman will never forsake you honestly. Good sex is very very hard to find. Most men are not good at it, even when they think they are because most women lie. This is why you see Married women withholding sex because they can no longer pretend to enjoy it because they don’t have to. Just a few tips for you. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by havigold(f): 1:24pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative: You claim you stayed FAITHFUL during courting without being intimate . Oga calm down your woman no dey run , na because of the years of 'Abstinence' according to you , if I may asked una no romance each other ni to test whose sex drive dey low... I go suggest you introduce good food supplements to your daily eating style to boost her immune and yours... Women of all sizes and ages acts like babies generally,you can define the best method to use in luring her to enjoy the act rather than being BOSSY and feeling ALPHA MALE during this period . Sinec you are blessed naturally downside without though you didn't mention the size for us to give the appropriate advise . I will say you should try some SEXUAL POSITIONS for BIGGER SIZE .... You could add some fun to it by applying good HYGIENE SEX LUBRICANT... # not a chief judge # calm down # it will be well.... |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Aganju849: 1:24pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative: Shey you no dey fūck ashawo ni? No be you dey find olocho telegram upandan for sexuality section? |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by ghettochild(m): 1:25pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Foodqueen:A pure waste of time Did OP get to know the sexual activeness of his wife before marrying her... Am sure the answer is No..... Cos if they were having frequent sex during date...he'd have seen this |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Ynix(m): 1:26pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Toks2008:It seems you don't know how the way some of the minds of these ladies works. The man must create a space for himself and speak out, I can't continue this |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by KosiGee(m): 1:26pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative: You are not alone sir. There are many like you. Some men have little finger size D and some erupt like La Palma as soon as the pinkie touch their knob head...Some like your type is blessed with Dangote trailer size D and takes eternity to blast like Vesuvius. It’s natural. That’s how you are made. Embrace it. It’s a license to cheat or discontinue the marriage. I’d rather be in a relationship with a retired Akwuna/Olosho with restless pvssy than marry a woman who is made like yours. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by julieenoch(m): 1:28pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Please bros, You have not done anything wrong & please don't stop playing your role in the house. my advice is this. 1) I am sure your wife has someone she respect who is a mentor to her & also to you, who has succeeded in marriage discuss it with the person & let that mentor call you two to have the discussion with you. 2) Take her to a marriage counselling specialist who can help in orientating your wife & also yourself. Your wife needs to be educated on sex matters. Everything we know today we learnt them. If she kept herself before marriage, then she must be educated about it. You can also learn about sex by being thought by a marriage counsellor. follow this marriage counsellors on their instagram page, they will be a blessing to you.@love.boulevard or @kemitalkin. These are two instagram page of marriage counsellor that can help. Also please check their pages before following them for verification purpose. 3) Take out time to pray for your wife. Don't complain about her. I am sure apart from the sex aspect she is a pleasant woman to you. Isaac prayed for Rebecca when she had delay in child bearing. you can pray for your wife too on this matter so that every of your effort will also yield result. |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by 00FFT00(m): 1:28pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative: Which one be hmnn? Follow the man's advice and change your misery A woman can take in any manhood size, or show she wan take born pikin? If you've deployed all you enumerated here and no luck, then it stands to reason that she may be frigid, or even a closet lesbian that is prevalent in this country Take this bull by the horn and see how it does Good luck! |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Pacesetter123(m): 1:28pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
delzbaba: Some of una no well at all for dis nairaland aswer |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Franzinni: 1:29pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
KarinaLove:women are the greatest freaks ... you used to pretend but now , you all are very open about it. His wife is lucky he is still being faithful ... what is in that germ filled stinky hole that women take so special... ? It's just the next door neighbor to an asshole madam. Nothing dey unah body, I only wish men could wake up! |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by eguarojeona: 1:31pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative:How can you as a guy not be a virgin and still subscribe to no sex till marriage.You want to buy something and you don't know specifications,its wrapped up and you still go ahead to buy it? When there are others in the market.Better products at that. |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Nobody: 1:31pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Klass99: Considering OP and I rock the same both in terms of the big Daddies maybe I can help him with my questions as per my past experience. |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Scottz: 1:31pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
nairaman66:off point |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by MrMacinterchi1: 1:32pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
princewarri1985:according to the story, she was the one that initiated it. read the op's write up. |
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