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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Dmanky(m): 2:40pm On Oct 01, 2021
Foodqueen:
Continue talking to her, one day she will reciprocate.

One day fit be eternity.

This is not a good advice.

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by achorladey: 2:40pm On Oct 01, 2021
chatinent:


He feels I am sexting..lol.

You will have to prove that to him based on his response to you.
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by taiwolomo1: 2:41pm On Oct 01, 2021
KarinaLove:
Try and respect her decision. She said she is not the sex type. Then leave her.

Must marriage be all about sex?

I don tire.

Everytime Men And Sex....Tueeehhh angry

Can't men use their time for something more productive in life
U girls shd try and gather sense once in a while na. Haba
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by BRATISLAVA: 2:41pm On Oct 01, 2021
princewarri1985:
How will you feel if she was your sister? You knew what you were doing when you tell her no pre marital sex because you knew she was going to turn your marriage proposal down if she saw the size of your dick, i believe your dick is the same size with that of my room mate back in my university days, his dick lenght almost touches his knee like that of a cow, i have never seen a dick that big in my life before, THIS WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO DO, DURING SEX BE PUTTING ONLY THE CAP OF YOUR PENIS MAKE YOU FOR NON GO KILL PERSON DAUGHTER BECAUSE AM FEELING SORRY FOR HER OR YOU DIVORCE HER AND GO LOOK FOR A WOMAN THAT HAS A VERY BIG WIDE DEEP PUS*Y THAT LOOK LIKE WELL TO MARRY PROBLED SOLVED

LMAO.

Are you serious?
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by gentlegenius(m): 2:41pm On Oct 01, 2021
KarinaLove:
Try and respect her decision. She said she is not the sex type. Then leave her.

Must marriage be all about sex?

I don tire.

Everytime Men And Sex....Tueeehhh angry

Can't men use their time for something more productive in life
So how will they have children? Is marriage not about having children?
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by thorpido(m): 2:42pm On Oct 01, 2021
Octopusssy:

She is still learning after one whole year of marriage??
There is something called sexual dysfunction. Some people need more like therapy to overcome it.
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Thebigheart: 2:42pm On Oct 01, 2021
Human wants they said are ..................?
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Davidnative2: 2:43pm On Oct 01, 2021
Thank you all, i had read all comment, i deeply appreciate , i had taken time to speak to a friend who is a doctor but he discouraged me against taking drugs to reduce my size, i know its a big mistake i made and i am feeling the pain of not discussing it b4 marriage , for now i had stopped my daily exercise and started consuming sugar to be able to stay less, i hope it help, thank you everyone , i wish i can retrace my steps
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by thorpido(m): 2:44pm On Oct 01, 2021
KarinaLove:
Try and respect her decision. She said she is not the sex type. Then leave her.

Must marriage be all about sex?

I don tire.

Everytime Men And Sex....Tueeehhh angry

Can't men use their time for something more productive in life
Is it not the sex that produces a baby? angry
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by golor(m): 2:44pm On Oct 01, 2021
DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls


Get her gorotula and sugar lung ....she will always be dripping and her pussy won't be tight ...
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by IJEYdiamond(f): 2:44pm On Oct 01, 2021
Wahala be like bicycle... oooo

Sometimes una men... where do u keep your head.... When dating why didn't you discuss that u are big and long... why didnt u put all this on the table....

Now she is trying and cant take it anymore... Oga try not to go in full with your long rod.... and do more and more pre-intimacy... na wetin go help if last last she born e fit wide small to accommodate ur long rod.... ... Pray oooo

If after all this e no work... that means na sexless the matter go be oio... u know what follows.

You men sometimes ... una head no dey una neck .. upon all the issues of sex in marriage.. said on narialand eheeeee

Try and give una brain sense...!!


No use hand.... oooo... this is exactly what happens that self service comes to play!!
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Nobody: 2:45pm On Oct 01, 2021
chatinent:
Make sex enjoyable, then, since that is the only option you both have. Of course, you know cheating is never an option.

You never indulged premaritally, she likewise. Good one!

Big Gbenga shouldn't be a problem with the perfect how-tos.

Now let's hit the bulls eye!

Try lubrication, fair play, lubrication again.

Don't replicate porn roles you watched. Don't watch it... because you'll start replacing her with the other figures you fantasize on.

Don't do fantasy oo! Just have it as a blessing of marriage!

Try not to be a sexddict too! You know na person daughter. You can't be having it twelve times daily na, baba. You both need to discuss on the perfect time!

Tell her hoo haaa she has to learn to love sex; that's an only option for her too!


She has to be in with the right stimulation, yeah? Learn it.

Make stimulation good.


And when it's about to hit 10pm, reach for the sky.

I still feel you missed sth during courting. Yes, no to premarital sex but you had to have discussed this intimate situation since you think you know it already before marriage.

By the way, be a stimulant! Buy a booster! Hit the bulls eye. It works!

Enjoy.
Lol. Don't tag me.

Na wa ooo,you seems an expert but you'll be acting novice, you better come out of your shell
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Cajal(m): 2:50pm On Oct 01, 2021
Consult a sex therapist
She may have female sexual dysfunction syndrome
Ordinarily women are meant to enjoyed sex more compared to men although they are more difficult to get into the act
She may have either
Sexual arousal problems

Lubrication problems


Orgasmic problems

Painful intercourse
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by topiiiiiiii(f): 2:50pm On Oct 01, 2021
DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls
is it that she does not want to get pregnant, maybe there are somethings or darker side of her you need to know, unpopular opinion though!

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by IJEYdiamond(f): 2:51pm On Oct 01, 2021
OutisComputers7:

You married someone you don't know about her sex life? Y'all think marriage is what? Dating?

Tell them... they dont hear at all...
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Saao(m): 2:54pm On Oct 01, 2021
Lol why ur thing too big na? In a serious note, marriage is not all about sex. U must help her to love it
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by chatinent: 2:54pm On Oct 01, 2021
Iyaebe:
Na wa ooo,you seems an expert but you'll be acting novice, you better come out of your shell

Medical consultancy knowledge, yes.
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by udume(m): 2:54pm On Oct 01, 2021
My brother if stays so long and your manhood is big, then someone like Tonto Dike needs you. She like such
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Nobody: 2:56pm On Oct 01, 2021
chatinent:

Medical consultancy knowledge, yes.
Abegi
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by grandstar(m): 2:56pm On Oct 01, 2021
thorpido:
You need to be patient with her. She is a 'learner' when it comes to sex. It's like just learning to ride a bicycle. It's rough initially and full of falls.
Keep doing what you're doing... pre-intimacy. It will help her become more receptive. You also need to make love to her mind. You keep talking to her.

I think she's circumcised. It reduces libido and sex becomes a chore to them.

There's clitoris corrective surgery which may help but reduces sex drive in under 10% of those treated with it.
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by joyousever(f): 2:56pm On Oct 01, 2021
How big is it? Is it like thie size of the fist or a baby's head? After pre- intimacy, use some Vaseline on your organ before penetration, it's a whole lot easier. Being married for a year should have gotten her accustomed already Na, what the heck! Was she a virgin when you married her? Because I don't understand the " I'm not the sex type" slogan! Stop giving her head, it's unhealthy for oral health. Use your fingers instead to get her ready and try to locate her g- spot. A touch on it will make her yearn for penetration each time and will awaken her dead sex cells!! For a fact, you've got what most women have a preference for and I'm wondering why she's whining.
DavidNative:
Thank you ma.
Has any one gone through this pls, how were you able to fix. kindly help a brother, its been a lot of struggle , something i just sleep and just wait to go to office the next day so i can distract my mind, i am deeply struggling on my inside as a man,

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by seanjy4konji: 2:56pm On Oct 01, 2021
After a year and you never loose weight

Amaka deh dissapoint you...

Which type of rubbish...Just tell her you will go outside and see her reaction..

Dont beg your wife for sex ooo....She go turn am to bargaining chip...you paid for the toto...

You should be able to have it any time but put here into consideration...she is not putting you into consideration...

The food they eat inside that house will reduce..dtsv and co till every one starts doing normal...
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by INVINCIBLECSP1(m): 2:58pm On Oct 01, 2021
DavidNative:
She has been exposed to porn in the past from what she said. All saying am comparing her to other ladies. i had bought books sex to help, she enjoys its when i perform romance and oral o her, but when i request for sex or she should give me some, she says she cant cos of my size and i should give her time, but its been a year, hence why i had to voice out
Thanks alot once again for your comment ma
Pls stop doing oral or anal sex. As I. Stop licking your wife's pussy, stop giving her head. Which kain wahala be dis sef.

How can mature people still indulge in this stupid act. Consider the health implications of doing all this.
Hian!!!

As for your advice, I will say you should leave her alone for sometime without touching her.
Then monitor her movements or where she goes to get a perfect size for her Hoe.
If you think women are to be trusted, then you're on a long thing.

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by chatinent: 2:58pm On Oct 01, 2021
Iyaebe:
Na wa ooo,you seems an expert but you'll be acting novice, you better come out of your shell

I don't understand what you mean by coming open.

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Rickles: 2:59pm On Oct 01, 2021
KarinaLove:
Try and respect her decision. She said she is not the sex type. Then leave her.

Must marriage be all about sex?

I don tire.

Everytime Men And Sex....Tueeehhh angry

Can't men use their time for something more productive in life

I won't insult you, but I'll just say, just incase you're the marrying type, change this mindset before marriage else it will lead to premium tears
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Nobody: 3:01pm On Oct 01, 2021
Simdyofficial:
hmmmm.. Oga she needs understand you or tell her you will need another wife.. Some ladies are like that. When they hear anything like competition they will start fixing themselves.. Its no sin if you both watch porn xvideos.com can help.. She needs see other ladies feeling happy on BBC's.

Marriage is crazy though

Nairaland boys will bomb your inbox because of this post. Lol

These randy children
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Avast(m): 3:02pm On Oct 01, 2021
MASTERYANKEE:
Get one side chick pregnant not time men

I swear
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Nobody: 3:04pm On Oct 01, 2021
chatinent:


I don't understand what you mean by coming open.
lol,let us know your badboyside
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by BassReeves: 3:06pm On Oct 01, 2021
Davidnative2:
Am sorry, ii. was banned, i had to use my second account
So am acctually very gentle
i also only had sex 4 or 5 times before i married and meet her, i am 32,
i actually appreciate everyone times
The reason i commented on the sexuality trend is also cause, i just feel getting on the telegram will help me to learn| i appreciate everyones concerns, trust me , i am very gentle and understanding . i will press more and as for oral, fondllng, i do that alot. if i waited for 2 years in relationship b4 marriage and no sex, it meant i am very understanding . The pain is am satisfying her but she is not receiporating, and for one year, the only sex style has been me ontop opf her the few times,, i most time do not penerate until abt 30 mins of pre-intimacy i believe,
She even cums/ orgaism as i know wen her body begins to sake, but she cannot suck me she says, her mouth pains her, romance or sex me, she says she does not have the energy. Thank you everyone once again
Thank you Sir
Davidnative aka Davidnative2, well beloved, as I earlier advanced, this is your lot in life i.e. 'am satisfying her but she is not reciprocating, and for one year, the only sex style has been me on top of her the few times. She cannot suck me she says, her mouth pains her, romance or sex me, she says she does not have the energy'

I am sorry bro, if this post sounds harsh or brutal, but no doubt, its reality and the truth. One can take a horse to the brook, but one cant force it to drink water.

Here's the lowdown. Everyone has a price. I am not saying anyone is a hoe, but with the right price, when you tell someone to jump, they'll ask you how high.

I repeat that everyone has a price, the important thing, is to find out what the important thing is, that you can legitimately, and with love persuade her with to do what you want, if or when, she's offered that important thing.

Be content with you make her cum from your cunnilingus going down on her. Isnt that one of, if not your ultimate pleasure-oriented goal for her. If thats the only means, so be it.

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by SugarSpill(m): 3:07pm On Oct 01, 2021
Is your joystick as big in diameter as a foetus head? For your info, if her vj can handle the head of a baby then, it can certainly handle your joystick because it's the same hormone that relaxes the vj during child birth that also relaxes the vj during intercourse. Unless maybe she's not ready to be a mother or she's pretending or you don't know how to use your thing or your post is all fake.
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by intruder15(m): 3:07pm On Oct 01, 2021
Ynix:

Play a simple game...

Write this word on paper and say,

I CANNOT TAKE THIS ANY MORE, BYE BYE WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST IN LIFE

Drop it and travel to a friend's place

Notice her reaction, if disturbed, don't come back until she begs and after that prepare a written agreement. Also be an alpha man

Alpha kor. Omega ni
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Simdyofficial(f): 3:09pm On Oct 01, 2021
WUdec:


Nairaland boys will bomb your inbox because of this post. Lol

These randy children
lol. My dear, They are welcomed any day any time.. I am a good mother grin

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