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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Nostring: 3:09pm On Oct 01, 2021

KarinaLove:
Try and respect her decision. She said she is not the sex type. Then leave her.

Must marriage be all about sex?

I don tire.

Everytime Men And Sex....Tueeehhh

Can't men use their time for something more productive in life

all this secondary school girls sha sad

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DenreleDave(m): 3:09pm On Oct 01, 2021

thorpido:
Good day DenreleDave. Nothing has come up yet that is why i haven't given you any feedback.

Okay sir.. Thank u

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by eguarojeona: 3:14pm On Oct 01, 2021

Simdyofficial:
lol. Big Black cockk(dick)

Na spoil we spoil. We no dey thief

Lol,the question was rhetorical.We spoil too.We just dey disguise here.

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by goodmorning40: 3:14pm On Oct 01, 2021

DMerciful:
Banging a frigid woman might also delay evacuation. It's egg and chicken scenario

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She is not frigid
She is not just interested in sex with him because it produces her pain and discomfort, she dreads the act and so would just stay and hope that it ends quick,

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Yoursidekickpsy(f): 3:15pm On Oct 01, 2021

Hello brother, you really need redefine how you view marriage and should start having kids.

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Davidnative2: 3:17pm On Oct 01, 2021

Thank you ma

Yoursidekickpsy:
Hello brother, you really need redefine how you view marriage and should start having kids.

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by oneclickng: 3:18pm On Oct 01, 2021

Resize your pen!s to suit her need.

DavidNative:
Thank you ma.
Has any one gone through this pls, how were you able to fix. kindly help a brother, its been a lot of struggle , something i just sleep and just wait to go to office the next day so i can distract my mind, i am deeply struggling on my inside as a man,

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Nobody: 3:19pm On Oct 01, 2021

Foodqueen:
Continue talking to her, one day she will reciprocate.

, for how long na.

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by MarioZigabel(f): 3:21pm On Oct 01, 2021

Oboy you better go look for a better wife that match your design. They are so many out there look for your kind of model angry

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by INVINCIBLECSP1(m): 3:21pm On Oct 01, 2021

Octopusssy:

Don't answer them o. They will just help you to scatter your marriage

OP don't even answer her too cus she's Octopussy as in October pussy. And where in the month of October. Independence pussy cheesy

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Oyiboman69: 3:22pm On Oct 01, 2021

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DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

stop giving her head or going down on her...that's why she's misbehaving cos she's already satisfied before your turn. She is doing all that because she's already satisfied with your efforts. who said you cannot visit a brothel sometimes besides, its more suitable than keeping a serious side chick. that's how most of those housewives misbehaves...and how do she intend to get pregnant if I may ask?

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by CaptainAyub: 3:22pm On Oct 01, 2021

expiray:
From your conversation more like you and your wife are the religious type, one your wife doesn’t love you that a fact,
First work your way to make her love second let your wife set the game tempo most time some girl prefer fore play and mild penetration and it possible she has lesbian tendencies.
If you know you can cope just find your way, marriage is meant to be enjoy

You have mentioned a very important fact.
The wife doesn't love him or doesn't love him enough.
When a woman is in love with you,she is willing to go to d ends of the earth for you,especially on this type of thing.
I'm not saying she should put up with painful sex but a woman in love will be running helter skelter to get around it / find a solution.

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Oyiboman69: 3:26pm On Oct 01, 2021

Octopusssy:
Oga, what is the measurement of the said oversized preek? I want to check something

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by hormodupsy(f): 3:28pm On Oct 01, 2021

You're not supposed to be here seeking advice, pls go talk to a marriage counselor. You can also do that online, there's a solution to every problem

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Oyiboman69: 3:29pm On Oct 01, 2021

KarinaLove:
Try and respect her decision. She said she is not the sex type. Then leave her.

Must marriage be all about sex?

I don tire.

Everytime Men And Sex....Tueeehhh

Can't men use their time for something more productive in life

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Solatium(m): 3:29pm On Oct 01, 2021

thorpido:
Some take longer. Not everybody jumps into the 'deep end' of sex quickly. You also need to understand there is something called sexual dysfunction.

Anything wey you like make you talk,all i know is that someone life can not be on hold because the other is not making effort to overcome whatever the problem is

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by EmyGod(m): 3:30pm On Oct 01, 2021

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

What kind of religious person are you that involves himself with MouthAction my friend MouthAction is demonic and no believer should live such dirty lifestyle and stop masturbation is wrong and evil. Only talk to your wife with patience she will understand.

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by NevetsIbot(m): 3:33pm On Oct 01, 2021

emperordelis:

Why you go carry big Gbola?? I feel your pains sha,try use lub before penetration,if it's still not working for her,then use soap my brother..Self serv and rest...I'm sure your type have talked bad a lot about people that had premarital sex,now you have seen why it's important to test before you buy

Last sentence collapsed my left lung ��

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by NevetsIbot(m): 3:34pm On Oct 01, 2021

BigYash:
I just hope she is not trying to manipulate you to believe she is a learner. I no dey trust those pipo at all... You give her head,she no wet scatter everywhere? Your joromi no still enter after giving her head? Bros na electric pole you carry inbetwn ur legs be that o

Lmao

Man!!!!

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Vireani79: 3:34pm On Oct 01, 2021

Learn how to make love to your wife's mind before her body

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by chinae(m): 3:36pm On Oct 01, 2021

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

The best is in your next sex opportunity, just stroke slowly and do not insert the full length immediately.

Resist the urge to go fast, it is always there in man also start by stroking with the head pan only for some time (like a month)

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by here: 3:36pm On Oct 01, 2021

You refused to resolve your preferences before marriage. You both can’t do this to yourselves. What of pregnancy? How can a spouse be complaining about size of other. It’s meant to be both parties work out their preferences not one party playing victim. Even if the other party needs help he or she must show effort in both parties looking for the help. Not someone crying that his spouse wants to. It’s marriage not relationship. What kind of ignorant partners are these. Look at your posts you’re now frequenting Olosho groups. Better walk out of that marriage before you harm yourself looking for public toilet outside. It’s one year. Sit her down and ask her way forward and you both can explore it and if there is no way forward walk. You both will find who you can cope with. This is wrong on every side. Did she tell you during courtship? There are lubes and you both can take a vacation but it’s feelings first if she isn’t interested there is nothing you can do. Forget the crap of some feeling pain but I ask do you know all those still find a man they relax and have real fun. It’s about the mind and if a spouse doesn’t feel like it why torture and marry who you don’t want? And yes next time be sure you see and confirm what you’re buying. Just pissed reading your post.

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by newdawn2017(f): 3:40pm On Oct 01, 2021

DavidNative:
Pls i need an honest and kind advice . I will deeply appreciate

the key word there is one sided. U went & married a woman who isn't attracted to u, not to talk of sexually. U re in trouble if u don't know like dis. D time to act is now because u ve talked severally to her about how u feel yet no improvement in here treatment towards u.do u not know that sexually intimacy is a love showing act between husband & wife as given by Yahweh to be enjoyed by both. D answer u came here to seek from us is right b4 u, The way a person treats u, is how they feel about u period!.

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Nobody: 3:40pm On Oct 01, 2021

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Go do blockos reduction abeg. No con kill sombody pickin with your Anaconda.

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Simdyofficial(f): 3:42pm On Oct 01, 2021

eguarojeona:
Lol,the question was rhetorical.We spoil too.We just dey disguise here.

lol. So you dey whine me before. Bekiaful o tongue

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by victons(m): 3:42pm On Oct 01, 2021

DavidNative:
Yes Sir, she said she never had sex

she said??(

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Nobody: 3:43pm On Oct 01, 2021

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls
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Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

Have you noticed that fish head people with female monikers are indirectly advising you to threaten your wife or cheat?

If you say you want to marry another girl that can give you what you want or have a side chic, just be ready to birth another man's child.

Take the advice of people who respect the sanctity of marriage and ignore all these home wreckers and public toilets.

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Simdyofficial(f): 3:43pm On Oct 01, 2021

Skyview01:

Go do blockos reduction abeg. No con kill sombody pickin with your Anaconda.

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Cutehotnerd001: 3:45pm On Oct 01, 2021

Foodqueen:
Continue talking to her, one day she will reciprocate.

Meaning? You wan give the guy employment for love FM abi wetin? Is that the purpose of the marriage? Was she not aware there will be sex in the marriage? I blame the op for bringing this topic here in the first place. Every woman knows the kind of man she married, make my wife turn her back from me for one week make I give am 1 year break....inukwa grin

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DMerciful(m): 3:46pm On Oct 01, 2021

The pain is cos she's lubricated. She's not lubricated because she doesn't like sex or interested in it.

Staying and hoping it ends quick actually makes her dry. She should find a position she enjoys or one where she can control the depth of penetration like woman on top(cow girl). But someone thats not interested won't think of solution other than to avoid.

Common, some ladies have sex with several men per night for a living and they're not dead!

goodmorning40:
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She is not frigid
She is not just interested in sex with him because it produces her pain and discomfort, she dreads the act and so would just stay and hope that it ends quick,

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by EndRape2(f): 3:48pm On Oct 01, 2021

Mad man,
will getting a side chic pregnant solve the issue, see advice you are giving,
Later you people will be shouting parternity test, you can not eat your cake and have it, once a woman discover the man has side chic and pregnancy outside, she will definitely get a side cook , then what will be the end result?

Just shut u.
.please ignore this mad single guy advice

.....

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...quote author=MASTERYANKEE post=106340194]Get one side chick pregnant not time men [/quote]

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Paulo3ree(m): 3:48pm On Oct 01, 2021

Tannhauser:

Three things
1. She's naturally frigid (long thing)
2. She's a closet lesbian
3. She doesn't love you, just manipulating you with her tears.

Or chronically into masturbating.
Oga what ever requires work(effort) is simply work (call for duty)
1) cam your house
2) calm down, keep you emotions/Hot state aside and understand the process of getting her aroused
3) if you succeed in achieving nō 2,
turn her on, dump her and come back an hour plus later engaging her on something entirely different[repeat this process](24hrs in a day right?
you cant afford watching cams as your new unpaid job.
4) don't use sex pills on her, especially without her consent cause it will be an abuse or even lead to fatal error
(OP I really avoided this your post like snake, so much pity for you after reading it

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