baralatie:

To achieve what purpose?

Prechgold1180:


She nur think of suicide when she Dey sleep with person husband

Unah go just Dey talk Rubbish

Adviser nowamagbe abeg advise her make she go break another woman marriage Rubbish

Raalsalghul:


Not just ladies, everyone. It gives me insight into their type of person.

Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

Vision101:
The name-calling for the op here is too much na. Remember that she is a pregnant woman. She needs peace of mind. It can happen to anyone.

First she said that they knew each other before, lost contact and reconnected. The man was insincere with her. When she got to know she had fallen deeply in love with him. I'm assuming that this lady is a soft-hearted person. The foolish man exploited it.

Don't get the wife or relations involved. Inform him that you will keep the baby. I just hope that you have a good source of income incase he disappoints you.

Brace up. You can never know what the baby will become in future and the foolish man will like to come around and lay paternity claim. That will be the time you will show him the negative side of yourself.

It's life lesson. You have learnt it the hard way.

Winters23:


Mumu man

WoundedLamb:


The same purpose a DNA test achieves: the truth.

BKsoul:
Since you have already concluded, who am i to say no Thanks for the compliment....Idiot.

UDUJ:


You thought process is that of a poverty stricken leech. Sad

Larrykaysail:
leave his wife out of this ? Why would want to keep a stolen sperm

My advice let the pregnancy go, don't turn urself to baby mama , Baby mama dey suffer o .

And most guy outthere don't want to marry baby mama .

Don't message his wife don't ruin their family .
Next time do no condom no sex

Lollittaa:

how can I advise you when your story is full of half-truths?
1. You knew or at least suspected he was married.
2. You were scheming to trap him with pregnancy.

alizma:

She doesn't even have the heart to blackmail him. As stupid as it may sound, it is obvious the girl is In love with him but you couldn't see that in her writing

Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

FutureIsFemale:
And you did not see that he tried destroying her future?

questted:
You already know wat u r asking for is wrong. Prepare for life of single mother and leave the mans marriage alone

Arizoner:
scumbag, cheap harlot, idiot

mayemi:
I have never see were she is wrong.

Kobojunkie:
There is nothing like alone here since she is now part of the man's family by virtue of carrying his child.

Abragidi:
First lala....

Pregnancy nor dey break homes again....

GOFRONT:
Everybody be blaming the lady......But they never blamed the shameless he goat of a man who neither regard his wife as anybody nor respect his marriage to start with by calling his raging penis to order.......

If it his wife that got pregnant by another man from outside marriage, then the man would start crying DNA upandan.....

Kilotat:
Quote me anywhere,
No Man will leave the woman he paid her bride price (mother of his Children) for another one that he just miss fucking or side Chick. When will women know that we men naturally like sex? Do you know we can tell side chick anything just to be seeing her pants on a daily bases?
If you like, tell the wife Everything, you will then know that belle no dey kill marriage again. Married women are wise now!

UDUJ:


And you were not smart enough to see that she was not telling the whole truth, that she knew the man was married all along?

Prechgold1180:
When you they nack another woman husband you nur come nairaland to seek for advice

When you Dey shout harder herder ya killing me o
You nur seek for my advice

When the thing slip out nah u still carry your hand plug am back insyd
U nur call for advice

When u do round 2 u nur call for advice

Now u don get belle u Dey call for advice

See let me tell you

Belle nur Dey fit break marriage nowadays

Naija women don wise if u like u tell the wife she go vex for one week
But she nur go leave the man

So just get prepared for single mother life style
I fit give u tonto dikeh number for more enquiry on how to survive

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I won't judge you..my advice for you is to keep the baby, get yourself a good job and life, move on from the man and pray God will bless you with a man that will take you and your child as his own... keep away from married men