pansophist:
What I'll tell you is this.

In as much as you should work on your sexual game, don't make a woman set the timeline of how long you should last. If she needs to be satisfied, she should get a love machine that uses electricity and can pound forever. You're human.

Until women become the active one in sex, doing the pounding, carrying, and cumming, they'll never understand the strength necessary for a man to fork well. If you allow people set standards for you, they will set one you'll never be able to meet.


#On sexual game

pansophist:
Story.

Women reject men alot because they have lots of options when young. A girl of 23 that gets loads of guys asking her out daily will naturally have a high rejection threshold. Now go ask older one if they have the luxury to reject. When the choice becomes unavailable, the available becomes the choice.

And when men are younger, they always want relationship because they are not at their peak of attractiveness, but progressively feel caged being in one as they transitioned into being a real man. The opposite is true for women.

pansophist:
How could you even be dating a girl that talks about celebrities always, even at the age of 25? Usually such women should not cross your radar, so you might as well admit that there is something wrong with your female selection process. Listen, the most expensive people to deal with are those that can't carry their own weight. The dumber a person, the more difficult it is to deal deal them. Usually people assume that dumb people are easier, like going to village to carry a wife for example, but its a disaster.

Usually humans are like a raw diamond, and it is the Job of each person to transform, develop and refine themselves. If you've done the work on yourself but the other person haven't, then any interaction with them means you'll have to do it on their behalf, and you know what's worse? They won't appreciate it because they've not been through the process themselves. Appreciation only comes from knowledge that someone did something difficult for you.

A good example is that if you look at the multi varied analysis data for divorce, it becomes evident that most divorce happened due to financial reason. It is the poorer person (Usually the woman) doing the divorce, not the men. When someone is poor, they usually do not, and can not appreciate the work it takes to makes money. They've never gone through that route before, so relationship is a place of enjoyment, not work. So divorce is next when they see that they have to deliver. Hardly you'll see two financially well off couple divorcing for monetary reasons. I'm giving this example to prove a point, that is, your girl won't understand you, and you may even appear stupid to her. That's why you should date or marry your type. Brain over feelings bro.

So being with a ripe adult that is ignorant about the necessity to woman-up and start carrying life responsibilities simply means you'll carry her weight for her, and you should not do that. So let her follow celebrity news, you should go for a woman that is actively working on herself and future as much as you. Then she will appreciate the sacrifice.

MJBOLT:
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CAPSLOCKED:


YOUNG FELLAS READING THIS, NEVER LOWER YOUR GUARD. IN FACT, THE VERY MOMENT SHE EMPLOYS ANY OF THE LINES ABOVE IS THE MOMENT THAT YOU DOUBLE YOUR GUARD.

A WOMAN'S MOUTH SAYS SOMETHING BUT HER HEART SAYS ANOTHER, WHILE HER HEAD THINKS SOMETHING COMPLETELY DIFFERENT. HER BODY THEN MOVES TO DO SOMETHING ALL 3 ABOVE NEVER PLANNED.

donaldking10:


there's a reason why i don't take all these guys forming redpill advisers and alpha-males here on nairaland serious until i get to see & know them personally in reality.
the Martinez guy be forming boss here, but if u check deep down u would get to find-out there's actually a bıtch out there he's simping for.

luminouz:

Bossman....sorry to read about this. The way a man loves differs from a woman's. Ideally, loving a woman like that should make her worship the ground you walk on and her faithfulness is guaranteed but in reality, they see you as 'conquered, boring, just there,unexciting and weak' and these make them lose interest easily. Why? Because you have showed her how awesome she is and how you can't live without her and such level of commitment drives a woman nuts, ego wise. And her contempt of you will only increase the more you keep monitoring, and wailing after her.

How do I know the latter part? Because their cruelty will only increase. You start to wonder how the gentle and sweet girl you knew became so cold-blooded and treats you like disdain. That shows you the evolutionary perspective of a woman's reaction to what they perceive as weakness in a man. I have seen this same reaction in animals(cats,dogs,lions, tigers and apes). You are only guaranteed love(or their version of it) when you show you are in control. Once you lose that, you lose them.

I have seen this same cruelty in so many broken relationships and it bothers me when such men still continue looking for love. The only person who can absolutely love you is YOU.

I remembered fuqin a girl whose bf called her and she promised to always be loyal and faithful and she said 'i love you' like 20 times while I was doing doggy(slow motion style). This same girl hissed after the call and kept promising to always be with me. Is that not premium confusion? She gave me the money the other dude sent her and the pussy too. She washed my clothes and cooked my food. But I dumped her afterwards. Why? Only a fool would believe such love from her is real. Whatever she did to that dude to break him,would be done to me, once she sees I'm soft or weak. Whatever love she felt then was because I was mysterious and not committed to her. They always love to change a hardcore Mudafucker but once they do,they lose interest and consider him weak. Is that not premium bewilderment?

If I were to believe a woman by the number of times I heard the word 'i love you'... It would reach like 10-15 million times. But I learnt as young as 9/10 years old that humans say shiit and can't be trusted. It's what they do, that you can trust.

HAPPY INDEPENDENCE

Kevincal144444:


I was literally laughing while reading your story and that of the other guy martinez talked about.
Thank God for redpill.

I had practically the same story as yours. I nearly destroyed the girl when she cast me, because I couldn't even imagine myself living a life without her. At a time I was just looking for money to go get married to the love of my life. Hahaha, simping bad o.

There's nothing I didn't sacrifice just to make sure this girl was happy. Broke ass nigga like me then, hahaha. Chai, nawa o. I fought and quarreled with anyone that has a contrary view about my girl. This life sef. SMH.

When she left me, I cried. Me wey be strong man naturally na im this girl turn to cry cry baby. My world crashed. I couldn't think of anything else to do with my life. No be small thing guys.

I wanted revenge so badly but at the same the time the love I had for her couldn't let me go the extreme. I just left everything for nature to take it cause. Lol

I left Nigeria after few months, I suffered but in the cause of the suffering. I learnt my lessons.

N.B: Women no be your friend o. They go mess you up when you least expected it.

emmaodet:


You are right bro. Some of these experiences leaves us Damaged.

emmaodet:


Bro you are right and some of these scenarios were my life changing events and I just feel kind of emotionless with women and don’t really see that value in them. My wife is really insisting on dragging me Togo and see marriage counselor with her. I just hope they can do something.
Have been badly hurt by whom I really love, that young virgin novice sincere LOVE and getting burnt has really changed me mentally and psychologically.

adambeatz:


And the worst case is as men society expects us to toughen up and not show emotions. Look at us, walking robots fighting hard to be able to provide physically and emotionally for our family and loved ones then one piece of waist from the pit of hell would decide to scatter our lives by to helping the devil finish the job he started.

Gentlemen it is 2 things in life, the earlier you were emotionally bleeped up the better for you so you can wake up to the ugliness of reality. If you managed to escape all this while thank God and pray you survive it when your turn to weep comes cause as a Nigerian, everybody must collect in one way or the other.

It is survival of the fittest in Life and remember to pass all your knowledge of women down to your male offsprings, if you don't i pity the way they would be easily manipulated when they come across the wrong partner.

luminouz:


Why is your wife insisting on counseling?
She thinks you are emotionless?

emmaodet:


Yes bro

emmaodet:


Yes bro

emmaodet:


You are right bro. Some of these experiences leaves us Damaged.

luminouz:


What are you saying? What's the essence of dating someone I can't ask.direct questions from? So I shouldn't ask about her past and make guesswork based on the girls in her area and then magically conclude and marry her? . That's is some weird redpill stuff,if you ask me. So if na oshodi or ojota area, I would conclude she is loose but if na Ajah or Maitama, I would say she is ermm less razz? What of Ado-Ekiti in ekiti or Okumagba in Warri. Isikwuato in Abia nko? Or Ohwhelogbo in Isoko North? Should I use it also for Obagana along Lokoja or Zungeru in Zaria?

Ask of her past. It forms a basis for the present and a foothold for the future. Any statement she makes of her past would be vetted to determine whether you are dating a perpetual liar or not. Other indices from such are her mindset, her personality, her goals and lastly her faults.

MetalJigsaw:
Ask of her past and then expect a direct and honest answer?

You just seem to derive pleasure in countering posts here and there bro. That post was a sensible one.

Just reread and ponder about it. Thanks

ProphetJeroboam:
Give me your top red pill movie character guys. Mine is Tommy Shelby from peaky blinders and Harvey Specter from suits. So far so good, Hollywood hasn’t ruined them completely yet.

Rillycool:
https://www.nairaland.com/6781162/fiancee-betrayed-me-what


We must raise our sons not be like this man.

Senior uncle..

ProphetJeroboam:
Give me your top red pill movie character guys. Mine is Tommy Shelby from peaky blinders and Harvey Specter from suits. So far so good, Hollywood hasn’t ruined them completely yet.

CAPSLOCKED:


YOUNG FELLAS READING THIS, NEVER LOWER YOUR GUARD. IN FACT, THE VERY MOMENT SHE EMPLOYS ANY OF THE LINES ABOVE IS THE MOMENT THAT YOU DOUBLE YOUR GUARD.

A WOMAN'S MOUTH SAYS SOMETHING BUT HER HEART SAYS ANOTHER, WHILE HER HEAD THINKS SOMETHING COMPLETELY DIFFERENT. HER BODY THEN MOVES TO DO SOMETHING ALL 3 ABOVE NEVER PLANNED.

Kevincal144444:


I actually thank God for the experience because it helped me to become who I am today.

On a serious note, I would recommend that every guy should go through this experience because it's the best teacher.

Karlifate:


Not everyone learns from personal experience, some learn very well from observation & hindsight.

DieRich5:
Tommy Shelby way broke rule for Grace and dats mk him more redpill but he's make the right decision to marry her sha

Anyway mine is Ragnar Lothbrok ND I will add James Bond too

Meedon:


Mine is Cory Hardict from Brotherly Love.