coolbreezy01:
Fathers forgive me for I have sinned. Been lowkey following this wonderful page for months now. Digesting all the redpills. My babe for 2 years recently started visiting my guy. Talk to her about it, she said dey got close wen i said we should take a break some months back. I asked to continue the relationship as i was in school wen i asked for a break. Now she's telling me that we are 3 and she'd think about it, i told her i don't drag so gave her a day ultimatum which she still didn't gimme an answer, so i backed out. I found out that my guy was the second person which she didn't want to admit at first. Told her she's talking like a cheap bitch and blocked her on whatsapp. I later unblocked her as i find it childish tho didn't send any message yet. Just tried her 2 lines and they were busy, seems she blocked me. And the guy is dating tho his babe isn't around here so I know it will end in tears for her. Am totally redpill to other girls, except her sadly. She claimed i am her best friend and she still likes me. Should i just ignore her going forward?

coolbreezy01:
Fathers forgive me for I have sinned. Been lowkey following this wonderful page for months now. Digesting all the redpills. My babe for 2 years recently started visiting my guy. Talk to her about it, she said dey got close wen i said we should take a break some months back. I asked to continue the relationship as i was in school wen i asked for a break. Now she's telling me that we are 3 and she'd think about it, i told her i don't drag so gave her a day ultimatum which she still didn't gimme an answer, so i backed out. I found out that my guy was the second person which she didn't want to admit at first. Told her she's talking like a cheap bitch and blocked her on whatsapp. I later unblocked her as i find it childish tho didn't send any message yet. Just tried her 2 lines and they were busy, seems she blocked me. And the guy is dating tho his babe isn't around here so I know it will end in tears for her. Am totally redpill to other girls, except her sadly. She claimed i am her best friend and she still likes me. Should i just ignore her going forward?

posty56:
"Am totally redpill to other girls, except her", brah there's nothing like half redpill , omo how una they reason no offense please, she is cheating you with nigga for that matter , but your brain only process the only time she complimented you and from your question , I can see you what to go back to her, my brother you ain't redpill no offense.

coolbreezy01:


Just deleted everything concerning her in my life. I feel free. Thanks. Oh facebook, i am coming. Lemme go block a b.itch.

coolbreezy01:
Fathers forgive me for I have sinned. Been lowkey following this wonderful page for months now. Digesting all the redpills. My babe for 2 years recently started visiting my guy. Talk to her about it, she said dey got close wen i said we should take a break some months back. I asked to continue the relationship as i was in school wen i asked for a break. Now she's telling me that we are 3 and she'd think about it, i told her i don't drag so gave her a day ultimatum which she still didn't gimme an answer, so i backed out. I found out that my guy was the second person which she didn't want to admit at first. Told her she's talking like a cheap bitch and blocked her on whatsapp. I later unblocked her as i find it childish tho didn't send any message yet. Just tried her 2 lines and they were busy, seems she blocked me. And the guy is dating tho his babe isn't around here so I know it will end in tears for her. Am totally redpill to other girls, except her sadly. She claimed i am her best friend and she still likes me. Should i just ignore her going forward?

Skepticus:


"Senior mumu uncle" even concluded his tale with: "She told me she has not slept with the guy that it's just chat jokes"

That's how multiple Nigerian men are tricked into raising the child of other men.

posty56:
blocking her on social media is useless if you haven't blocked her mentally so blocking her won't solve anything, go and heal there's no shame admitting heartbreak , but disrespecting yourself ( by attempting to give her second chance/calling back) that's where the shame is , don't disrespect yourself bro you are a king, go and heal focus on your goals.

Emmynator:


You asked for a break, and she has moved on already, you should too. The moment you exchanged words with her and blocked her, you would have kept it that way, i promise you if you guys get back together, she will have some leverage over you (she knows it's hard for you to let her go). Just lock up, make your Bleep up no pass like this.

She even went for someone in your close circle (or he went for her), that's unforgivable.
You know it will end in tears, then chill and watch in HD.

At the bolded, where strong feelings for a girl goes, simping follows. It's universal, that's why I subscribe to the "chosen" principle. Being in love will a girl will put you in a position of weakness. The only way out is to skillfully hide that feeling, but that's one of the most difficult things in the world or avoid girls you are strongly attached too emotionally, to avoid a case of "like moth to a flame".

My two cents.
I trust you will make the right choice. Plenty of fish, happy fishing

coolbreezy01:



Never been more greatful. You acknowledged it will hurt, it did. and I've been holding myself back. Why cry over a lost fish wen I'm in the middle of the freaking ocean. Thanks..

Junnior:

I was expecting someone to counter at least some parts of this post so that we can all learn more. But everyone just chorused AMEN!

Thanks for your submission. Great post.

I have some reservations though. But for now, I'm only interested in highlighting one:

You talked about having platonic relationships with women. You claimed a man is not redpilled if he ain't able to do that.

Because I genuinely want to learn, perhaps even change my prenotions, I'm not gonna say you're wrong, but I want to ask

Is it possible, as a man, to have a genuine and balanced platonic relationship with a woman? Kindly explain well. Cite good examples. Thanks.

posty56:
when you replied me I knew you were hurt, some people think you just wake up and become a redpiller overnight it doesn't work that way it's a gradual process,redpillers here call it the anger(abi na revenge phase?),the only way I avoid simping is my one rule "never fall in love use your head instead of your heart",I don't know for others but that's how I overcame simping , note this rule doesn't mean you should be bitter however it teaches you to approach women from logical point , instead of being emotional and fantasizing about a girl who probably is not thinking of you.

Junnior:

I was expecting someone to counter at least some parts of this post so that we can all learn more. But everyone just chorused AMEN!

Thanks for your submission. Great post.

Emmynator:


Point 1: You can't date or have romantic relationships with every woman you come across, part of the red pill has to do with building relationships and boundaries to accompany those relationships.
There are women that will be useful to you in business, school or other places, we have many men thinking with their d1cks and ending ruining a business plug with sexual advances.

Point 2: In some cases a man can be the one keeping the relationship platonic, if he judges that he doesn't need the current relationship to be complicated based in what he gains from her.
A friend had a read mate in school, he told me she helped him a lot academically, and she was giving him green lights, but he knew he would never date her, because if they do they will break up after some times and that will definitely put an end to the current benefits he was getting, he prioritized his academics over pussy in this case.

Point 3: If you gain nothing from a woman, absolutely nothing, then cut her off, it's that simple. But if you decide to keep her for sexual purposes, better make sure your resources, time, energy, aren't suffering seriously as a result.

coolbreezy01:


Hmmm, I'd keep trying. And learn from my mistakes. Is there a known way to move on?

Emmynator:


Someone that was asked to bring hammer and condom
That guy is too much of a simp for his own good.
He'd rather swallow the lie.

posty56:
when you replied me I knew you were hurt, some people think you just wake up and become a redpiller overnight it doesn't work that way it's a gradual process,redpillers here call it the anger(abi na revenge phase?),the only way I avoid simping is my one rule "never fall in love use your head instead of your heart",I don't know for others but that's how I overcame simping , note this rule doesn't mean you should be bitter however it teaches you to approach women from logical point , instead of being emotional and fantasizing about a girl who probably is not thinking of you.

Skepticus:


You'd be surprised at how many Nigerian guys walk around with this mindset, hoping to mumu like the OP when they attain some wealth.

Lol. The guy (side-dick) visits her in the house he rented for her. He also rejects her food when he is pissed.

I better not have that fool as a blood relation, I'll physically beat "sense" into his empty head.

Emmynator:

The red pill is a process not a destination. We will never get there, life keeps testing us, The koko is to from the mistakes of both yourself and others.

SOZINN:


GOLD

ProphetJeroboam:
Give me your top red pill movie character guys. Mine is Tommy Shelby from peaky blinders and Harvey Specter from suits. So far so good, Hollywood hasn’t ruined them completely yet.

SkyFlint:
Quick question:

What do you guys think about using steroids in bodybuilding?

Pansophist
Skepticus

coolbreezy01:


Hmmm, I'd keep trying. And learn from my mistakes. Is there a known way to move on?

SkyFlint:
Quick question:

What do you guys think about using steroids in bodybuilding?

Pansophist
Skepticus

Emmynator:


Point 1: You can't date or have romantic relationships with every woman you come across, part of the red pill has to do with building relationships and boundaries to accompany those relationships.
There are women that will be useful to you in business, school or other places, we have many men thinking with their d1cks and ending ruining a business plug with sexual advances.

Point 2: In some cases a man can be the one keeping the relationship platonic, if he judges that he doesn't need the current relationship to be complicated based in what he gains from her.
A friend had a read mate in school, he told me she helped him a lot academically, and she was giving him green lights, but he knew he would never date her, because if they do they will break up after some times and that will definitely put an end to the current benefits he was getting, he prioritized his academics over pussy in this case.

Point 3: If you gain nothing from a woman, absolutely nothing, then cut her off, it's that simple. But if you decide to keep her for sexual purposes, better make sure your resources, time, energy, aren't suffering seriously as a result.

SkyFlint:


Thomas Shelby is NOT a Red-pilled character.

He is merely cunning, ruthless and Machiavellian. Plus, he is very competent at what he does. Though these qualities can be an indication of TRP-awareness, they are not exclusive to TRP. Successful CEOs/entrepreneurs possess similar characteristics.

Now, back to why I said Thomas Shelby is not a Red-pilled character. He married a professional who.re (Lizzie). Not just any who.re, but the same who.re he prevented his brother from marrying.

He became a hoe's retirement plan. That's GROSSLY anti-TRP.

Oswald Mosley, on the other hand, could be considered a Red-pilled character.

pansophist:
Saying that virginity doesn't guarantee a successful marriage is like saying that an educated hardworking man doesn't guarantee sucess. Well yea, it doesn't, but it's an indication. And I'll rather pick a virgin, than one would compare sex with every other man she has slept with.

posty56:
when you replied me I knew you were hurt, some people think you just wake up and become a redpiller overnight it doesn't work that way it's a gradual process,redpillers here call it the anger(abi na revenge phase?),the only way I avoid simping is my one rule "never fall in love use your head instead of your heart",I don't know for others but that's how I overcame simping , note this rule doesn't mean you should be bitter however it teaches you to approach women from logical point , instead of being emotional and fantasizing about a girl who probably is not thinking of you.

Polynek:
I love the place you said the only way to avoid simping is to avoid loving with heart instead head. Nice point