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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by 6ixT8: 11:35am On Oct 04, 2021
AbujaCitiBlog:

Sorry about your situation. Don't be a gambler be a business man. A lot of people are building houses with money from betting. Be wise. Let me see what I can do for you tomorrow.

E sure me say na una dey use everybody contribute build houses. Cut soap for your boy.
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by 6ixT8: 11:37am On Oct 04, 2021
Herbephe1:
I was tempted yo gamble last week.My roommate has being winning bet9ja since last week,he bought plenty food and while I feed only on garri..I asked him of just 1k to buy food stuff, the guy unleash unprintable words on me because I used to discourage him from gambling. Few days later my lecturer a friend sent 2k to me..I used 1k to buy kulikuli and used the remaining play bet9ja,... Now I'm back to square one... betting is evil, dissociate yourself from it.

This one burst my head! grin grin grin


Asin the guy no fit epp you as per roomies?

Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Yoighaman(m): 11:38am On Oct 04, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡

Bro, don't be hard on yourself, take it easy. We all have at one time or the other had a vice or two. Just know when to let go. Gambling is an addiction, just like Cigarette, Alcohol, Masturbation or Drugs, and it can be dangerous; You need to consciously work on quitting, though it's not easy. For now, please gamble with only the amount you can afford to lose, not your entire earnings or savings. May God help you quit. One love, my brother.
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by redsun(m): 11:41am On Oct 04, 2021
Being in that part of the country in the first place means you have a foot in the grave and to add to it with your recklessness means like you rightly said, that you are dead alive.

Hook up with a viable woman if you can find any in that land of the half-dead.
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Drsnives(m): 11:43am On Oct 04, 2021
Lamasta:
OP repeat after me....

My Father My father

Every spirit of gambling and recklessness
tormenting my destiny


What are you waiting for.......
Mountain of fire man

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Blackdisciple(m): 11:47am On Oct 04, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡


Eeh just wait next month they will pay you another allawee

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Warmaterial(m): 11:50am On Oct 04, 2021
First delete flash score or any other app associating with football, stop watching football for now, make sure u don't have any app or page in Facebook reminding u of any team, delete ur bank mobile app so that u can't transfer money to ur bet account again, destroy ur ATM if its the one ur using, tell ur fellow gamblers ur done gambling that they should not engage u in any gambling discussion... Do all these and have peace and thank me later.

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 11:53am On Oct 04, 2021
Yoighaman:


Bro, don't be hard on yourself, take it easy. We all have at one time or the other had a vice or two. Just know when to let go. Gambling is an addiction, just like Cigarette, Alcohol, Masturbation or Drugs, and it can be dangerous; You need to consciously work on quitting, though it's not easy. For now, please gamble with only the amount you can afford to lose, not your entire earnings or savings. May God help you quit. One love, my brother.


Word!
Thanks so much bro. I'd appreciate
Hopefully I'll get rid of the habit.

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by 15ssDRIVE(m): 11:54am On Oct 04, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡


Nothing is wrong with you, you have only learnt your lessons.
The owner of the gambling business, set up the business to make money .
So you are always gonna loss 99.9%. You are educated, so if it’s worth risking ur money on 00.01 chances of wining, then go ahead and gamble again.

If not look for other thing you can do to make ends meets, like teaching extra classes. Build a network of people you meet daily and create opportunities .
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by FROGMAN101(m): 11:54am On Oct 04, 2021
Flairoqy:
If you’re reasonable, weigh your profit & losses whenever you’re doing something, if you lose more than you win then it’s bad for you, it’s nothing new to take risk, risk takers are the game changers, but before taking risk, make sure you’re always ready for the fall out, because 99% of the time we lose on any risk we take, but the 1% chances changes our lives, if you want to quit gambling then it’s a strong will nothing more, gambling isn’t a bad idea it’s not just recommended for financially unstable people, so man pick yourself up by the bootstrap, the hustle continues. Go to school tomorrow like nothing happened, sleep like nothing happened, you can try and get loan since you’re a corper for these loan sharks but make sure you’re paying back month end, fill your kitchen with food enough for the month, eat, work and sleep for this month, live a simple life since you know your state, until you’re financially balanced don’t think gambling will make your way out of poverty.
Stay safe too

Good advice but dont take any yeye loan from any yeye loan sharks.

BEWARE!!!

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by uvie66: 11:55am On Oct 04, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡
You are a teacher who should be acting as a role model advising his students not to gamble...
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 11:55am On Oct 04, 2021
Vaiki:
You gambled away just 33k and you are crying? Poverty is bad!!


For real its not actually the money that made me to cry... It's how I'm destroying my Life!
I don't wanna continue like this. Deep down I really wanna stop. I'm tired¡
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Nobody: 11:55am On Oct 04, 2021
There is something questionable about your attitude. Learn a sense of humanity. The guy who lost 33k today has an ingredient to succeed than the guy who choose not to have compassion over him. Keep your strict policy of yourself next time
Karleb:


I will advice against giving him a kobo. Let him learn the hard way.

It's even better that it's just 33k and there's hope next month. If he doesn't learn now, he might gamble with a million tomorrow.
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 11:56am On Oct 04, 2021
frozen70:


Good thinking

Thanks so much.
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 11:58am On Oct 04, 2021
DMCY:


Was once in your shoes back then in uni, I was almost sent back home when I used my tuition to play how I was able to get the 65k back till today I don’t understand, na then I know say I gats stop or else it will stop my heart beat.

The funniest part of the game is when it remains only one for the game to enter and you’re so sure that team will win and they eventually play 0-0 till 70mins, that’s when your refreshing flashscore every second begins grin grin reality dawns on you when they later finished the match like that grin grin grin

If it’s night, you just jejely lay on your bed and think to sleep



I can relate bro. I've been through it all
Damn!

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 12:03pm On Oct 04, 2021
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Mehn I wan just stop am!
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 12:06pm On Oct 04, 2021
uvie66:
You are a teacher who should be acting as a role model advising his students not to gamble...


I know right!
I Believe I can still be that Role Model to the kids.
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 12:13pm On Oct 04, 2021
15ssDRIVE:



Nothing is wrong with you, you have only learnt your lessons.
The owner of the gambling business, set up the business to make money .
So you are always gonna loss 99.9%. You are educated, so if it’s worth risking ur money on 00.01 chances of wining, then go ahead and gamble again.

If not look for other thing you can do to make ends meets, like teaching extra classes. Build a network of people you meet daily and create opportunities .


Alright thanks so much bro. This means a lot! I'll work on this advice...
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Moxil(m): 12:21pm On Oct 04, 2021
chatinent:
You don't deserve insults. You deserve to be used to insult others!


Nonsense and ingredients!

Continue gambling.

You are a very stupid person, if you can't advice or help the op....shut up and quench, people like will be looking at someone that is dieing of 10naira you won't be able to give
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Moxil(m): 12:23pm On Oct 04, 2021
Davash222:
You're a disgrace to your moniker!

This is a very stupid fellow I swear, this op is asking you for advice, he stated it that he's depressed, instead of you to advice this guy, you are insulting him....you are a product of hell
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by isax(m): 12:23pm On Oct 04, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡

it is alright, you are not dead.
At least I thank God you are alive to see the result of your deeds. As some other people get depressed over issues like this. That is a life learning lesson, learn and move on.
Failure is not final.

On a lighter note just to get you to smile; YOUR TOPIC REACHED NAIRALAND FRONT PAGE!!!!!
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by written007: 12:29pm On Oct 04, 2021
Dahustler007:



I've been trying to learn from mine but I keep falling back. Thanks for the word bro.


Until you accept what gambling does psychologically to you, you would not stop.

Know this and know peace: Gambling is a lose lost street, a two way street, if u like, with same finish line. One is You Lose and the second is you 'win' which allows your mind forge unhealthy habit that traps you until you lose.
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by EndBuhariNow(m): 12:34pm On Oct 04, 2021
Fulani herdsmen are currently recruiting they are paying new recruit 50k for appearance fees, just contact Sheikh Gumi and enlist ur name , take their money and japa... that's my only advice for you
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by DaRenewed(m): 12:34pm On Oct 04, 2021
Bro!.... Take this!
Just last week, I was in cell for 4days with hardened criminals for betting with about 600k belonging to my workplace. I’ve been in your shoes. Served 6years ago & gambled with all alawee. Got different Jobs afterwards; gambled with all the salaries I’ve been getting these years. In all, I have lost almost 10M to sportybet. The cell experience was a punishment for the years I’ve been able to cover my mess coz no one knew until last week. My Mum had to sell her land to foot the bill. I made up my mind I will quit and I’m still holding on to that. I have few thousands with me now. If na before, I go don carry am go POS deposit come transfer am go sportybet account coz I no dey gree take eye see Money at all.
Bro, gambling wasn’t designed to enrich you, it’s designed for the owners to make money & it’s the gimmick of the devil to not only make you poor but take your life. My Babe who works in a bank saw 600billi in one of the betting site accounts (one out of Many).


Just STOP it Bro..... I’m still surviving in God’s grace. It might lead you to your end if you ain’t careful
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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Gamesmart: 12:35pm On Oct 04, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡

F**K OFF!
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by barinedan(m): 12:37pm On Oct 04, 2021
Did you asked for help when you were gambling? Had it been the gamble favoured you would you have called for help while spending your money? Please bear your pains alone so, I have my own problems too, your pains are self inflicted so bear it

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Gamesmart: 12:43pm On Oct 04, 2021
Dahustler007:


I've been there bro.
I'm trying to change my mind it's just hard! That's why I came here for some advice on how to get over this.

Advice on how to stop yourself from doing what you should not do that is bad for you?
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Gamesmart: 12:46pm On Oct 04, 2021
nniero11:



wow! your future is calling bro! it's good to make mistakes but a real homie does not make the same mistake twice.

ask for help from whatever you believe in and i assure you that help will come.

BABA U NEED SPIRITUAL BACKUP AS A MAN because LIFE NO B BEANS!


SPIRITUAL BACKUP!

THE RICH DON'T PLAY WITH IT. BUT U WILL SEE A POOR MAN LIVING CARE FREE.

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A POOR MAN AND A RICH MAN IS SPIRITUAL BACK UP.

THE KNOWLEDGE I HAVE GIVEN U TODAY IS PRICELESS

You are a perplexing and irredeemable moooron!
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by chatinent: 12:47pm On Oct 04, 2021
Moxil:


You are a very stupid person, if you can't advice or help the op....shut up and quench, people like will be looking at someone that is dieing of 10naira you won't be able to give

All right.
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Gamesmart: 12:48pm On Oct 04, 2021
Dahustler007:

WORD! Priceless indeed!
Thanks Bro. I really appreciate... I'm working on my spiritual Life likewise.

This shows your IQ is too low to manage and improve your life.
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Gamesmart: 12:50pm On Oct 04, 2021
lied:
Dont give up.
Winners never quit.
Take a loan, and play again.

If this is sarcasm, it is brilliant!

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Gamesmart: 12:59pm On Oct 04, 2021
AbujaCitiBlog:

Sorry about your situation. Don't be a gambler be a business man. A lot of people are building houses with money from betting. Be wise. Let me see what I can do for you tomorrow.

Another foooool!

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