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My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by jobportng(m): 3:15pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys. I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was. Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock. When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen. Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy. Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused. 56 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by IceColdVeins(m): 3:17pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
jobportng: I'm sorry I feel no compassion for you. Woe unto all simps!!! Keep scrolling, you'll see my advice below. 605 Likes 36 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Zaxbash1: 3:20pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
U see ... This thing called ego and emotional attachment U need to get eliminate it... Now imagine person way no get 5k for account they make U craze ... Bros U dey mad 558 Likes 37 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by BlowYourMind: 3:21pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
You aren't his husband yet, all of you are sinners and fornicators, enjoy your sinfulness 82 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by horlahwaley(m): 3:21pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
That moment when your boo gets a boo. Mumu be loving upandan. Redpillers are coming for your head. 236 Likes 13 Shares
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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by IceColdVeins(m): 3:21pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
No Not this one, keep scrolling!! 158 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Spider20: 3:24pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
jobportng:A Simp will always be a Simp despite numerous advices.... OGa fix your mess................. 155 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by yuping(m): 3:30pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
I go dey hold Cain come this romance section because some boys/men need divine flogging to get sense, see as girls take make this one secound fiddle without stress. Congratulations you are officially a backup boyfriend. 290 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by GoldenJAT(m): 3:33pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Lol! Your eyes go soon clear. I no de advise people like this o! Him go still do wetin him want do 91 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by ray501(m): 3:34pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
What is the opposite of side chick? 46 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by tnerro1(m): 3:34pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
So your boo has a boo, so what, you too you are a boo so get a boo too 25 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by jobportng(m): 3:38pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
GoldenJAT:no chief if i wanted to do what i want i wouldn’t come here to seek advice 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by LilMissFavvy(f): 3:40pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Tell her to call off her relationship with every other man, tell her you will give her time to do that. Then hold on, watch, with time you will know if you are the chosen one. 46 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Starz825(m): 3:45pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
*Even your boo getti boo *Now you no know wetin you go do *For your mind you go think say na only you be boo .....Oxlade don madd... Listen to that jam ..ojuju by Oxlade... download am you go understand wella Guy...love is complicated..its masked and you can't know what it entails... Personally, I'm fed up of falling falling and falling in love .. ![]() 38 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Oduduwa707: 3:49pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
All dis new generation, underage and immature boys claiming 'grown' have indeed been a huge disgrace to men in this era... ![]() 130 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by ahnie: 4:03pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Please forgive her,to hell is yuman,to forget is divine.please buy her lots of gift,show her extra love,if you're still scared of the other guy snatching her from you,pls make plans and move to the state she is. I would also suggest your giving her monthly allowances say like 60k.And if by any chance she needs upgrading pls buy her a G-wagon. 40 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Tunechi5(m): 4:03pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Wen dem say stay toxic till marriage una no hear 12 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Edyice: 4:04pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Jobportng that bae belongs to all of us (dude Don’t be stingy mate 83 Likes 10 Shares
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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Nobody: 4:19pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Abeg, na who dey born & train all dis stupid guys? 100 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Isokoson1: 4:27pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Mehn this is beyond local man logistics Op you Don cast.. You dey another place the girl dey close to the guy. Op you suppose use your sense take calculate say them dey bleep each other all the time.. She dey use your money dey give the other guy. If you be my guy I for slap nonsense comot from your head.... 135 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Pumpumking: 4:35pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
jobportng: bro dont wooorry...I will giv u Pegi23 or that IbrahimSkiba babe for free from nairaland sir... they date anytin...U WANT?? ((THAnk ME LATER))). ![]() 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Wahalaperson: 4:36pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Wahala Immediately I saw she is in another state I know say na better wako you be 41 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by OloshoMan: 4:39pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Chances are She's not that into you, bruh... could be just for the money, cos you in your words "treat her like a queen" 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Savedday: 4:41pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it. In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them! 46 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Nobody: 4:42pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
LilMissFavvy:omg ,are you for real.those kinda girls can never ,i repeat "can never" ever change.it has been designed in her DNA for her to be a hoe.A hoe will always be a hoe no matter how much you got. 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Nobody: 4:48pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
ahnie:Either you are his girlfriend or you're into the gold digging business. your comment wreaks of it 44 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by LilMissFavvy(f): 4:51pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
You do not know her, so don't conclude. She might not be having anything intimate with the other man. It's obvious she's still very young and just carried away with the attention men are giving her. Or you want the OP to leave her? Meek127: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Nobody: 4:51pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
LilMissFavvy: I think love needs to thrive on personal decision for it to stay real, telling her what to do is like compelling/influencing her decision .... its best the guy just tell her he can't be with her if she is double dating, let her know he is redrawing to allow her to make her own decision, after if she comes back to him that clarify the chosen one. favy remember eric didnt force you to pick him ![]() 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Nobody: 4:56pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
LilMissFavvy:I love the way you think and see the good in an already compromised situation. its a no-brainer really,he should move on 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Don27tiky(m): 4:57pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Girls no need soft handling. You will see you as a weakling. The babe will sure hook up with her ex that is in the same state with her. End the relationship with her quietly. Don’t tell her it over, stop spending on her. Look for another babe 31 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by osuofia2(m): 5:02pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
![]() CC NwamAipke 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by abdulyaro66(m): 5:02pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Focus on yourself king 10 Likes 1 Share |
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