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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Lordofalmajiri(f): 9:00am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Techsupport:He's not far from the truth, especially southern girls |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by AbujaCitiBlog: 9:17am On Oct 04, 2021 |
brodalikeme:Well, there you have it. I don't suffer fools gladly! Virgins are highly sought after for the reasons I gave. Stop trying to trash talk virginity with your warped sense of reasoning. |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 9:24am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Techsupport:you're on this earth yet you dont know what happens around you.go to linda ikeji,you go see tire. Stop expressing your ignoramus self on here,its really deflating.it would be merciful if you never get to have a child tbh. |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 9:26am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Lordofalmajiri:ignorance is a disease.let him wallow in it lol |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by pansophist(m): 9:50am On Oct 04, 2021 |
bepositive11: You're saying this because you don't have sense. So my refusal to wife up a promiscuous woman means I have low self esteem, but my acceptance to wife up an ashawo means I have a high self esteem? In other words, its men's fault for refusing to be with a promiscuous woman, meanwhile the women is a Saint? Once again, you don't have sense. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by uzoma213(m): 10:19am On Oct 04, 2021 |
SenecaTheYonger:of cus he know the efficiency of a car depends on many things, that what he is saying. He is saying that a successful marriage depends on many things, not just marrying a virgin. Virginty alone does not make a successful marriage |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by SenecaTheYonger: 10:52am On Oct 04, 2021 |
uzoma213: Marrying a non virgin does not make a successful marriage either. |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by abbatoir(m): 11:36am On Oct 04, 2021 |
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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by CaveAdullam: 12:14pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by FullBlastLight: 12:39pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by jcross19: 3:15pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
duality:we have taken this issue of sexuallity more than the true love of Christ.... Every Christian pages you visit all they talk about is "sex" ah ah so is that the reason Africans are backward? Huh I stand on my point virginity is not only yardstick for a successful marriage , we still have a lot of qualities that can help the marriage as well... |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by angelfallz(m): 3:33pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by angelfallz(m): 3:43pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
This your argument has K leg. Why are you so bothered about whether a man wants to marry a virgin woman or not? I have said this before on NL and I'll say it again, Nothing, I repeat nothing guarantees a successful marriage. But there are decisions that a man can take that would help increase the odds of having a successful marriage, and one of those decisions is marrying a virgin woman. Marrying a virgin woman does not mean she wouldn't be promiscuous, no. It just means the odds of her being promiscuous is very low. In the same way, marrying a non virgin woman does not mean she would be promiscuous, no. It just means the odds of her being promiscuous is very high. So, your declaration that men who want virgin women have low self esteem is plain silly. Your declaration that men who want virgin women are themselves not virgins doesn't make sense. What is stopping a from wanting a virgin man? [s] bepositive11:[/s] |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by angelfallz(m): 3:45pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Any body can be entitled to what they want. If a man wants a virgin woman, if he would get a virgin woman, whether the man himself is a virgin or not is irrelevant. You're funny. bepositive11: |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by tonyson010(m): 3:58pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
HiideaConsole: Being a virgin isn't easy. Kudos to them. The problem lies with the man that is will be dreaming of virgins.......... 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by bepositive11: 4:57pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
angelfallz: Those men are the ones who are funny. They disvirgin another man's wife then demand a virgin |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by bepositive11: 5:03pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
angelfallz: No, it's not plain silly. It's the bitter truth. Go through the thread again and see the reasons for wanting a virgin. Their reasons obviously point to low self esteem You, please tell me. How does marrying a virgin lower the chances of promiscuity? How do you even verify whether the woman is truly a virgin? What do you mean by lowering the odds of infidelity? If you can't trust your woman fully, why are you even marrying her? That distrust itself stems from low self esteem |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by bepositive11: 5:10pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
pansophist: Keep shaming out of this. If you have nothing better to say than "you don't have sense", please don't reply Are all non virgins promiscuous? How many women have you had sex with? Are you not the one who is promiscuous? Will you even be faithful to your virgin wife? There's nothing wrong with not wanting a promiscuous wife. We're talking about non virgins Non virgins include women who only have sex in committed relationships The bottom line is wanting a virgin wife is because you don't trust women to stay faithful to you so you're trying to lower the odds (and that lack of trust stems from low self esteem btw). But what's the point of being with a woman you can't trust? Virgin or non-virgin, if you can't trust her to stay faithful, don't marry her |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by bepositive11: 5:12pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
duality: Are all non virgins promiscuous? How many women have you had sex with? Are you not the one who is promiscuous? Will you even be faithful to your virgin wife? |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by angelfallz(m): 5:22pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
And they would get a virgin. Virgins aren't scarce. bepositive11: |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JayCynic(m): 5:38pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by angelfallz(m): 5:49pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Lol. It is not the bitter truth. How does marrying a virgin lower the chances of promiscuity? Good question. Women who have been sleeping around have experienced a lot of different levels of sexual pleasures. Now when such women get married and the husband does not match up to her previous sexual experiences, she would naturally seek out men who can take her to those levels of sexual euphoria she experienced in her past. Also, pair bonding. It is well known that women naturally put a lot of emotional attachment into sex unlike men. Women who have been sleeping around have lost their ability to Pair bond, so they can easily sleep with any man without inhibitors. Personally, I have noticed that players(men who like to hit and run) don't like virgin women simply because of this reason. Virgin girls are clingy to the men that disvirgined them. Why are virgin girls clingy to the men that disvirgined them? Simple. They bonded with those men. They are emotionally attached to those men and they keep going back to those men even when such men don't want them any more So a virgin woman has little to no sexual experiences, so she can't judge her husband based on her past sexual experiences. A virgin woman still has her ability to Pair bond with her husband reducing the chances of her being promiscuous. bepositive11: |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by shaybebaby(f): 6:19pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by bepositive11: 6:38pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
angelfallz: You need to dig deeper to understand what I'm saying. Men who seek virgins to avoid being compared are deeply insecure. They have very low self esteem. How about this? A man gets married to a non-promiscuous non-virgin then learns what she likes and focuses on pleasing her while being confident in his own abilities to learn how to please her better than anyone else. That is how a man with healthy self esteem would think I would personally advise women I care about to stay away from men who want virgins. Those are the kind of men who can't stand being compared, who think that they are not good enough, who think that they don't stand a chance against other men, who take constructive feedback as negative criticism, who can't communicate openly, honestly, and directly In fact, you, do a quick Google search for signs of low self esteem and assess yourself This whole concept of a promiscuous man wanting a virgin woman is a form of control. That's what men with low self esteem need to feel secure. Control. Minimizing the chances of infidelity because of insecurity Keep denying all you want. You have to reflect deeply to get what I'm saying |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Wawelexy(m): 6:57pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
shaybebaby: Filthy LovePeddler |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 7:02pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
bepositive11: 1. So according to you, a man with low self-esteem and insecurity is a man who wants to be with a virgin?? Wow!!! Wisdom full your body 2. That's very true... 3. You see why I say wisdom full your body . So we now have 2 categories of non virgins ... Tis well o... 4. So type b non virgins are most likely to be "unpure" . While the type a are pure . Wisdom dey your body die CONCLUSION Wise one , just because I don't agree with you doesn't mean I'm pathetic. You're entitled to your opinion and so am i. And what's up with the insults?? Can't you state your opinion without insults?? Your entire conclusion is classified as assumptive knowledge and all assumptive knowledge without means of proof is foolishness . I will say no more Take care of yourself wise one.... I sincerely hope that the next time you come on my mention, you'd have grown up a little... |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by bepositive11: 7:15pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Favfables: Do a quick Google search for signs of low self esteem and assess yourself. I tired of going back and forth with folks like you Most men are insecure. Wanting a virgin is a subtle form of control to feel more secure. Keep denying it all you want |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by DaytonaAries(f): 7:25pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
What I find funny is how people are comparing human beings to cars, phones and tyres. Please who thinks like this. Virgintity or the lack thereof are all social construct. The emphasis on one over the other has no basis. People are going to have sex whether it is deemed proper or not! Get with the programme. Safe sex should be prompted instead of all this bullshit Unless from the religious and socio-cultural standpoint, marriage and virginity do not correlate in any way. Please, I believe we are better than this baseless talks about women virginity. Morality should not be based on lack of sex. Maybe I think this way because I am not wholly religious. This conversation is childish and makes no sense. Sex, at the end of the day is just a physical act for pleasure. To each their own This discussion is just stupid. |
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