Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Decryptor(m): 5:09pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
jobportng: Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.
I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.
Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.
When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.
Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.
Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused. Oga, this is nothing new! Did you really in your heart of hearts think that she was dating only you? It seems you are a learner. Nigerian ladies make the loudest noise about men cheating but yet they are the biggest cheats ever! If you want to know the volume of infidelity in a Nigerian lady, have access to her phone and read her text messages and go through her social media accounts like WhatsApp, Facebook etc. You will see her professing "love" to 15 different guys including you. 17 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Ceazario: 5:09pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
You’re an idiot |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Lexusgs430: 5:09pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Even your boo, get a boo....... |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Okhuadams(m): 5:09pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
jobportng: Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.
I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.
Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.
When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.
Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.
Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused. are you telling us, are u explaining or are u complaining, I know ur pain but I don't feel it. She is just a girlfriend not a WIFE 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Nobody: 5:09pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
You read some thread topics on Nairaland and you laugh. My girlfriend has another boyfriend. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Superboss: 5:10pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Righteousness2, pls come and see this one who is angry that his co-fornicator has been sleeping around. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Nobody: 5:10pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Jonzing Guy, You better move before she move you. |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by nwakibe: 5:10pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
My only advice is to go for HIV test first. Then start using condom anytime you want to Bleep her. Some guys are dating disguised Olosho. Nonsense. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Muhylonaire007: 5:11pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
You are on your own brah . |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by AmazingELixir: 5:11pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
I really need to understand why some guys love so deeply like this....Op the reason why I would no disparage you is that I had a friend way back in the university who loved a girl somuch like you did...when he had some misunderstanding with the girlfriend...the girl went to his close friend to complain.....little did the girl know that the friend had interest in her and he was buoyant financially. Before we knew it baby girl has switched lane oo...she's nolonger in love with my paddyman....she's now in love with my paddyman paddy. And these are people staying not upto 7 blocks from each other. My man stirred up a serious commotion in the neighbourhood that resulted to conflict between their parents. At the end of it they both lost out on the girl and for her adventure the girl was blacklisted in the neighbourhood. Maybe it is a gene thing for certain guys to love so deeply but on current reality that gene is an abnormality better locate it and root it out before it plants you permanently 6ft to the ground. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by okpas01: 5:12pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
First thing first, get rid of that too much attachment. She will never stop loving another guy but dating u out of pity cos you are treating her like a Queen. what if all the queenly resources yiu you are using disappear today, will she still be there? Borrow sense and get another girl to distract you from the b***** 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by psalmz(m): 5:12pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
And the boyfriend has another girlfriend,and the circle goes on and on |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by BigBashiru: 5:12pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
jobportng: Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.
I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.
Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.
When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.
Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.
Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused. We are in the animal kingdom there's really nothing like one person to one partner unless it's to meet judeo Christian requirements. |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by aBrokeRichDude: 5:12pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Op correct the headline My friend has a boyfriend |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by lereinter(m): 5:13pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Almost had a heart attack!
You aren't getting heart attack about what's the future of things in this country
Who told you you are wealthy?
How many countries passport do you have
Obrosi 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Tosdam(m): 5:13pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Lol..... Bro, just be simple and show her affection....Most ladies have many guys that disturb them on a daily basis... The lady has not done any harm.... She said she wanted you... If you played ur game well, she will dump that other guy totally and grow with you... The lady is only playing safe, you can as well still dump her later... Who knows??
Love is not enough bro... 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by staga: 5:13pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
jobportng: Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.
I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.
Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.
When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.
Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.
Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused. Congrats, you have been appointed as the Assistant Boyfriend. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by tonero230(m): 5:15pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
jobportng: Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.
I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.
Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.
When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.
Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far awfay from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.
Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused. Nonsense |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Soljaboi44(m): 5:15pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
I have something to say.
But lemme book space fes |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by floss(m): 5:15pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
jobportng: Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.
I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.
Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.
When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.
Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.
Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused. I'm disappointed among other pressing issues, you chose this one...go make money,if you have, try and make more money, you will have any brand of lady you desire. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Chasegb(m): 5:15pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
[quote author=jobportng post=106437752]Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.
I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.
Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.
When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.
Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.
Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.
Relationships/friendships should be 50-50. You’re feeling emotionally down and perhaps you feel quite cheated because you have actually invested more into the relationship than she has...It’s time we allow girls to also invest in relationships too. It could be in a whatever manner but they need to be putting in something otherwise guys will always feel cheated. For example, if you’re buying food then she should be buying water. No matter how little she should contribute...it keeps the relationship healthy. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Vanmatrix(m): 5:15pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
jobportng: Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.
I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.
Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.
When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.
Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.
Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused. Lols, my guy mouve on, was here some months back, I got a lot of responsibility to carter for bro, life is large enjoy Your life, it’s too short to think about who likes being hurt (she) and all.. Mouve on 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Fasshyt(m): 5:15pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
My views....distance relationship is too risky for men 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by highbee02: 5:16pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Somebody should assist me with#1k to feed o, Kwara State Government is yet to pay some set of workers.Thanks
Name: Raheem Ibraheem, union bank savings account : 0157580238 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Lebronjames23(m): 5:16pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
jobportng: Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.
I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.
Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.
When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.
Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.
Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused. summary, ur babe dey collect steady preeq!! From the main boyfriend 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Nobody: 5:16pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Meek127: omg ,are you for real.those kinda girls can never ,i repeat "can never" ever change.it has been designed in her DNA for her to be a hoe.A hoe will always be a hoe no matter how much you got. She belongs to the street 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Cesclxg(m): 5:16pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
jobportng: Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.
I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.
Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.
When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.
Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.
Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused. Wealthy guys don't behave like u... How much u get sef? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Prenonjebose: 5:16pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Quit. The girl doesn't love you enough. They stay in the same state. That in itself puts you in a disadvantage, plus the issue of she knowing that you love her 1000%. Your heart will heal overtime, so don't be afraid to leave her. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by kapelvej: 5:17pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by BigBashiru: 5:17pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Decryptor:
Oga, this is nothing new!
Did you really in your heart of hearts think that she was dating only you?
It seems you are a learner.
Nigerian ladies make the loudest noise about men cheating but yet they are the biggest cheats ever! If you want to know the volume of infidelity in a Nigerian lady, have access to her phone and read her text messages and go through her social media accounts like WhatsApp, Facebook etc.
You will see her professing "love" to 15 different guys including you. See every girl gets at least 50 messages from different guys on social media on a daily basis. It's not their fault. Its guys that are thirsty. If you had 50 different girls messaging you every day won't you do the same? 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by pawesome(m): 5:17pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Who told you to fall in love in this 2021?
All these cock blockers self 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by frozen70(f): 5:17pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Jo jobportng: Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.
I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.
Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.
When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.
Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.
Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused. If you are prepared to share her with another man, then keep the relationship but make sure you use condom When you are tired of the relationship that breaks your heart, that same heart will get solidified then you look for another woman 1 Like |