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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by 24brains(m): 5:28pm On Oct 04, 2021
jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.
i was once like you when i was still lost in the world. But the difference is: i was a redpiller while you are a simp. And the goodnews is: there is a chance for all furnicators to return to christ. Jesus loves you

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by SeanBeezy(m): 5:28pm On Oct 04, 2021
Follow your inner instinct bro. All the best!
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Nobody: 5:29pm On Oct 04, 2021
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The Op is the most foolish person on this planet. I will make sure I curse him for making me so angry. E no go beta for the Op.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Nobody: 5:31pm On Oct 04, 2021
Is she your WIFE?
What Legal Right do you have over her?
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Unrated900(m): 5:31pm On Oct 04, 2021
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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Teerach: 5:32pm On Oct 04, 2021
Be like dey just released Simps from God knows where this EMBER month.

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Nobody: 5:32pm On Oct 04, 2021
Meek127:
she has masters in prostitution.would have given her a phd but she got caught

If she keeps trying, she might get her PhD in prostitution.

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by iceberylin(m): 5:32pm On Oct 04, 2021
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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by OlawaleBammie: 5:32pm On Oct 04, 2021
jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.
Op, this is exactly wat happenend to me just that mine didn't keep multiple bfs.

But i sorted it out myself sha, and we re still together. But u need to be rigid with her onward if u stil need her.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Frales6(f): 5:32pm On Oct 04, 2021
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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Drsmartphilips: 5:33pm On Oct 04, 2021
jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.
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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by horlanrewaju11(m): 5:33pm On Oct 04, 2021
jobportng:
no chief if i wanted to do what i want i wouldn’t come here to seek advice
she's not yours until you marry her bro.... Be wise.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by icenti: 5:35pm On Oct 04, 2021
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I'm sorry I feel no compassion for you.
Woe unto all simps!!!

Keep scrolling, you'll see my advice below.

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Josephamstrong1(m): 5:35pm On Oct 04, 2021
But wait o, who does distance relationship now? In this current state of the country? When most girls senses have gone with the economy?
Even in the close relationship, if you ain't my wife, ain't taking you no serious. Even as my wife, ain't putting my life to it. Whuman are so unpredictable.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Elanqy: 5:35pm On Oct 04, 2021
You're being a SIMPle guy cry

jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Okonjo123(m): 5:35pm On Oct 04, 2021
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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by funshint(m): 5:36pm On Oct 04, 2021
An average girl has multiple bfs. I can't tell you what to do. It's sad but that's the truth. Dumping her and getting another gf is not even a perfect solution. Just enjoy whatever it is you share together. Know this and know peace!

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Stanfeelings: 5:36pm On Oct 04, 2021
dUDE, lEAvE HER, siMPLe. yoU dESerVe BettER...aND YOU KnoW IT
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by overlord77: 5:37pm On Oct 04, 2021
[quote author=jobportng post. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really [/quote]

While you are there having sleepless nights, not eating, some dude will be making her happy. Be there. I feel your pain though. I loved my first like that till she left me. Damn it was painful but hey, there is so much to live for. Some girl out there is your queen waiting to be met.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Subzeroad: 5:38pm On Oct 04, 2021
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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Adol84: 5:38pm On Oct 04, 2021
jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.
. You are an idiot. I myself is here having sleepless nights about how to jakpa this country and you are having sleepless nights over someone who is in love with someone else.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by sammirano: 5:38pm On Oct 04, 2021
jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.

grin grin So people still breed these kind of children. Shame. A girl you are having sleepless nite ova is doing same ova some guy. Are you under a spell? Shey won de e ni.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Okonjo123(m): 5:39pm On Oct 04, 2021
Are you on whatsapp pls kissAre you on whatsapp pls
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Phaaarm(m): 5:40pm On Oct 04, 2021
Even your boo get a boo
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by quest118(m): 5:40pm On Oct 04, 2021
The average Nigerian girl dates at least two guys simultaneously. If you are shocked then you are probably a Norwegian.

How do I begin to advice a man in love?

All I can ask you to do now is hiv (and other deadly STI) tests because you’ve apparently been swimming in a public pond.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by dante0147: 5:41pm On Oct 04, 2021
jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him nii bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.

Girl wey no fit send u 10k? Na him u wan kill ur self u top? Receive sense !
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by maxist2020(m): 5:41pm On Oct 04, 2021
Sometime one would really wonder what women really wants, if you truly love the girl then try to severe her communication with the other guy.
I was once in your situation and I Know how painful it is, I know many people here will call you names and tell you how you are a woman rapper and how you should dump her buu it is not easy to dump someone you love.
My advice to you is that you should bring her close tell her that if she wants you then she have to stop seeing others and if she refuse by that time you can go your way.
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by dhappyking(m): 5:41pm On Oct 04, 2021
See all the peeps reading your super story. Quit before it's too late. Scram for your dear life. If she claims to be with you and still communicates freely with the other guy, then something is wrong. Since it has gotten to a stage where you can not eat or sleep well. You are on a path to self destruct. Quit while there is still a chance to recover. A word....
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by allen2020(m): 5:43pm On Oct 04, 2021
bros from this article, you are just serving as the financial Manager while others are the true love manager....one thing we guys don't understand about girl is this...in a every relationship a girl must have someone that she loves most and in other hand have someone that she love because he take care of her upkeep...so now choose were you fall in ..

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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by NGArmyTerrorist: 5:43pm On Oct 04, 2021
jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.
Learn not to be a POST Office to girls or ladies.. Or you give your life to Jesus Christ and repent totally, renounce everything about girls and accept Jesus Christ into your life brotherly. Goodluck!
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend! Please Advise Me by Khiz(m): 5:45pm On Oct 04, 2021
The fact that you still call her "My" sha 😂😂😂
You know exactly what she's doing but you dey wait for confirmation. She was never yours bro... Move oonnnnnnn

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