OlawaleBammie:
Op, this is exactly wat happenend to me just that mine didn't keep multiple bfs.

But i sorted it out myself sha, and we re still together. But u need to be rigid with her onward if u stil need her.

Bros forget that talk, there so are many beautiful women out there with shapes, sizes that you want. Stop prioritizing a lady like she's some trophy, If your gf is disrespectful to being with another guy the best is to be stone hearted, it's either you turn her into a sex machine or quit the fvcking relationship and look for another girl.

jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.

You asked her the right question for what she wants. Her answer and her action are contradicting and this is giving you an headache.

Actions speak louder than words, you may have to consider love from her as a materialistic one in other to move on.

In summary, give her a space, she's Confused just as you are. Don't be tempted to monitor her or her friends to know who she's choosing. If she's for you, she'll come back but for now, tell her you need space.

ahnie:
Please forgive her,to hell is yuman,to forget is divine.please buy her lots of gift,show her extra love,if you're still scared of the other guy snatching her from you,pls make plans and move to the state she is.

If she collect my prick, her brain go reset.

jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.

If ure wealthy as u claim and u don’t want to be played like a fool u need to calm down and tell her she’s free to do what she likes. Why? Cos she’s far from u and in same state with the other guy. She will surely cheat.,. Unlesss she cuts off all communication with that guy and changes her no, if not with that distance at ur disadvantage and to the other guys advantage and her ex there is no way she won’t cheat even if she loves u except she’s a Virgin or celebate.

U also seem to love her “probably” more than she loves u. So that’s another disadvantage. U are wealthy cud be a confusing disadvantaged cos u won’t know if she loves u for u or cos u do things for her. Lol

Mad oooh!
No joy

IceColdVeins:


I'm sorry I feel no compassion for you.
Woe unto all simps!!!

Keep scrolling, you'll see my advice below.

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jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.

oga relax it's painful and it's normal, there was a time I almost came out naked from the bathroom after an ex broke my heart, but today I found someone far more better, my ex is not even in my legue anymore. U will surely find someone better, get busy with your time e go pass

jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.

Keep begging her, cry in her presence.

Transfer 100k to her account, if you don't have it, borrow, if you can't borrow, steal.

With that money, she might pity you and stop stop talking to the guy, whenever she's with you.

If you can't do the aforementioned, then better start looking for another girl, or allow yourself to hurt, it will pass.

That girl still loves the guy, he's not her ex, maybe the guy is broke, and she's using you to cope.

Bro you can do better naaah..

Break up with her and see her reaction, it she plead, refuse.

Don't chat or talk to her for like Two weeks, if you can do this, you will be shocked on what you will observe from her.

You beta face your life.

The girl dey use you dey catch cruise and as a lover boy, your eyez never open

Just like an unseen rain, e go shock you wen she invites you for her wedding.

Idiot, be loving upanda

She's not your girlfriend then!

Whatsap me guy. I was once like you, I will tell u what to do. So simple. 08172964029


Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.[/quote]

They in the same state hmmm and you are far away and she said she will never stop loving him and you there having sleepless night bro borrow yourself brain now she using you for your wealth and the other dude for this dick wake the Bleep up I fell in love last time I was 16 and now am 40 loving a woman can be good and can be deadly don’t ever fall in love with a woman till you know she will do anything for you and that takes years

Starz825:

*Even your boo getti boo
*Now you no know wetin you go do
*For your mind you go think say na only you be boo
.....Oxlade don madd...
Listen to that jam ..ojuju by Oxlade... download am you go understand wella

Guy...love is complicated..its masked and you can't know what it entails...

Personally, I'm fed up of falling falling and falling in love ..

Oxlade Ojuju is a hit! Girls na real Ojuju I swear

lookingfly:
I hope you Don knack countless times? If not, you be suwebge!......gals de always get ex wey them de continually trip for, enjoy the cake while it last.

this is why it's alway wise to runs virgins. this our girlfriends dont get over their exes, and be draining you emotionally
but op, you said you are wealthy, whats stopping you from running another boo too. abi you wan make i swear for you ni

Ode still dey call am "my girl..."

walkingshadow911:


this is why it's alway wise to runs virgins. this our girlfriends dont get over their exes draining you emotionally

true but getting the virgins too na big work. I've come to realize that a lady be it a virgin or not actually decides who she want to stick with. So as a dude, no carry gal matter too serious for head like gala, play whatever game she likes and just enjoy yourself

All these small small boys

LilMissFavvy:
Tell her to call off her relationship with every other man, tell her you will give her time to do that. Then hold on, watch, with time you will know if you are the chosen one.

Wahooo!!!! Chosen one ke? Am shocked to hear this. This gender shal....

You sound like a weak man.
God exposed her for a reason. Man up & get rid of the lying b*tch.
In one breath she said the guy broke up with her & wants her back, yet you read a message where she professes her never dying love to the guy.
Isn’t it obvious where her heart & p*ssy is? I bet the guy is regularly f*cking the shit out of her in the state where they reside, while you stupidly decided not to eat or sleep because of a wh*re. She is just using you to meet her financial needs, while the stud is meeting her sexual & emotional needs.
You honestly sound like you & BBN Saga are twins!

ahnie:
Please forgive her,to hell is yuman,to forget is divine.please buy her lots of gift,show her extra love,if you're still scared of the other guy snatching her from you,pls make plans and move to the state she is.

I would also suggest your giving her monthly allowances say like 60k.And if by any chance she needs upgrading pls buy her a G-wagon.

chai,una wicked for this forum o

OlawaleBammie:
Op, this is exactly wat happenend to me just that mine didn't keep multiple bfs.

But i sorted it out myself sha, and we re still together. But u need to be rigid with her onward if u stil need her.

Oil dey your head even me same thing, now na she won die because of me

Which state is are they and which state are you in?

jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.

oh, how my heart bleeds everytime I read this type of tales

If only you know op. if only....

Wealthy as you mentioned, she never loves you, you are only paying her bills . Is an early sign for you to leave her and move on. She likes the other guy more but I guess is broke or arrogant

Meek127:

Either you are his girlfriend or you're into the gold digging business.
your comment wreaks of it

can't you understand sarcasm?the person you quoted was just being sarcastic

jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.

are you sure you are wealthy. cos the way you sound, the way you take fall for woman so, naso poor man dey do . and she's even in another state where the other boyfriend is. you don go park your car at owner's risk

70 years old man

Guy free the girl.... How did the ex got your number? You don't need to waste your time in this relationship... Bleep her well and free her...but use condom ooo.

Please, end the relationship and don't look back. She is not worth it.

Wetin I fit tell you be say, try dey chop. Girls plenty, alaye dem choke

jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.

boy send her mob to me, okay, I promise I will just bang her and let her come back to you while I pay her off. Momos, go mak money and stop these your broke men stories. Come up and understand women are meant to chass men. Keep wasting your good time on nonsense lowlife. There's no gain dating Nigeria girls

Eastcaostboy:
There's no gain dating Nigeria girls

definition of a woke nigga lol