lookingfly:
true but getting the virgins too na big work. I've come to realize that a lady be it a virgin or not actually decides who she want to stick with. So as a dude, no carry gal matter too serious for head like gala, play whatever game she likes and just enjoy yourself

SirBunky85:
can't you understand sarcasm?the person you quoted was just being sarcastic

ray501:
What is the opposite of side chick?

jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.

Decryptor:


Oga, this is nothing new!

Did you really in your heart of hearts think that she was dating only you?

It seems you are a learner.

Nigerian ladies make the loudest noise about men cheating but yet they are the biggest cheats ever! If you want to know the volume of infidelity in a Nigerian lady, have access to her phone and read her text messages and go through her social media accounts like WhatsApp, Facebook etc.

You will see her professing "love" to 15 different guys including you.

Kolaboluv7:


This your gf go strong die, imagine collecting two big blokos for this kinda buhari led government’s..

Hmmm.

This one shock me ohhh

maxist2020:

Oil dey your head even me same thing, now na she won die because of me

Meek127:
how do you know that she was being sarcastic(i dey suspect you) .for all we know,she might have been laughing while typing that shit.Be like these girls neva enter you before.No worry you go soon understand

IbrahimSkiba:




Try dey spell well, e get why

OKOATA:
Bros forget that talk, there so are many beautiful women out there with shapes, sizes that you want. Stop prioritizing a lady like she's some trophy, If your gf is disrespectful to being with another guy the best is to be stone hearted, it's either you turn her into a sex machine or quit the fvcking relationship and look for another girl.

Kolaboluv7:


This your gf go strong die, imagine collecting two big blokos for this kinda buhari led government’s..

Hmmm.

This one shock me ohhh

SirBunky85:
any discerning mind would know the person you quoted was being sarcastic. Even the last paragraph about buying the girl a G-Wagon should've made you realize that it's all about sarcasm. No dey too serious like Ceaser Azplicueta

IbrahimSkiba:




Try dey spell well, e get why

BlowYourMind:
You aren't his husband yet, all of you are sinners and fornicators, enjoy your sinfulness

BlowYourMind:
You aren't his husband yet, all of you are sinners and fornicators, enjoy your sinfulness

walkingshadow911:


as for me I'm done with anything call falling in love now. to just be on friendship level till marriage happen. cos the emotional burden no be here. this girls will know who they want, yet be telling you that you be their number one. even wen they can see you are geniue, they want care to break your heart still.

i can pay anything for a virgin, but you see those hoes, they dont deserve one penny of that scam call dowry.

OlawaleBammie:
Op, this is exactly wat happenend to me just that mine didn't keep multiple bfs.

But i sorted it out myself sha, and we re still together. But u need to be rigid with her onward if u stil need her.

UncleKoboko:

Lol
Keep fooling yourself
If you know her true bodycount, you will almost commit suicide.
Love a Nigerian girl with all your heart at your own peril.

slickycee:
Hello Bro.

I find myself in a similar situation,
But mine is different because one she told me upfront that she was in a relationship
Secondly she was the one who approached me and initiated our first convo.

Which I just fell for her instantly.

I can't talk about the complications of our situationships but let me advise you the way I advised myself.

First things first, this connection is deep and not the usual stuff I used to experience.

Secondly this babe is a good person, and I genuinely love her, Which isn't a bad thing.

In my past, I never settled for being an option , I used to walk out, ghost or just make the babe to choose.

But nah, this time I'm going with my heart, fvck fear or worries.

Game wey go cut go cut,no kill yourself.
Have told this babe how I feel, and even tho she never the same thing to me directly.
I trust her actions.

I told one of my female friend and she even suggested maybe the lady was my soul mate and if I was going to get her,it would never be on a platter.
Such relationships would test your character, to know if you're ready.


So what's my decision.

I would continue to love her !!!
I don't care bout the other guy , I don't care if she dumps me..

I love her and I would love her as if I never knew any of her baggage

I'm tired of playing games, pretending to be immune to feelings.

The way this lady made me feel in a month is more intense than have ever felt with others for over 2 years.

If she's a dime, it would be worth the patient.

Love her like you never knew her flaws, let her be free to do whatever she wants..

Las las nothing lasts forever .

Just give you best and leave the rest to karma.

Bro trust me, this is just a test of your love.
Don't convince her, don't even have the conversation of the other guy.

Whenever she spends time with you, enjoy it and be grateful..

Life goes on bro. But don't let fear or people mistakes make you be less of who you are.
If you're a lover, pls love with your full chest.

This life na one life, nothing is guaranteed.
Heartbreak isn't the end of your story

UncleKoboko:

Lol
Keep fooling yourself
If you know her true bodycount, you will almost commit suicide.
Love a Nigerian girl with all your heart at your own peril.

OlawaleBammie:
bro I understand u very well

But the issue is dis, I could say she was actually cheating on her bf with me, or how do I put it sef. She was in a relationship but wen she found me, she revered me more than her man and she was looking for a way to dump him for me, in the process of looking for a way to dump him, we both found out

Now this put me in a tyt corner, every girl I have dated are like a torn for me spiritually, I always found tins difficult to achieve while with dem, but wen I met this lady, tins has bn so smooth, everything moves forward and it made me bliv that those girls comes with different energies truly.

Brother, oropo ninu iwe kobo, but laslas I had to do what I had to do jare and I gboju.

slickycee:
Hello Bro.

I find myself in a similar situation,
But mine is different because one she told me upfront that she was in a relationship
Secondly she was the one who approached me and initiated our first convo.

Which I just fell for her instantly.

I can't talk about the complications of our situationships but let me advise you the way I advised myself.

First things first, this connection is deep and not the usual stuff I used to experience.

Secondly this babe is a good person, and I genuinely love her, Which isn't a bad thing.

In my past, I never settled for being an option , I used to walk out, ghost or just make the babe to choose.

But nah, this time I'm going with my heart, fvck fear or worries.

Game wey go cut go cut,no kill yourself.
Have told this babe how I feel, and even tho she never the same thing to me directly.
I trust her actions.

I told one of my female friend and she even suggested maybe the lady was my soul mate and if I was going to get her,it would never be on a platter.
Such relationships would test your character, to know if you're ready.


So what's my decision.

I would continue to love her !!!
I don't care bout the other guy , I don't care if she dumps me..

I love her and I would love her as if I never knew any of her baggage

I'm tired of playing games, pretending to be immune to feelings.

The way this lady made me feel in a month is more intense than have ever felt with others for over 2 years.

If she's a dime, it would be worth the patient.

Love her like you never knew her flaws, let her be free to do whatever she wants..

Las las nothing lasts forever .

Just give you best and leave the rest to karma.

Bro trust me, this is just a test of your love.
Don't convince her, don't even have the conversation of the other guy.

Whenever she spends time with you, enjoy it and be grateful..

Life goes on bro. But don't let fear or people mistakes make you be less of who you are.
If you're a lover, pls love with your full chest.

This life na one life, nothing is guaranteed.
Heartbreak isn't the end of your story

OKOATA:
Bros the spiritual thing is real because they have used most of this girl's and maybe your girl hasn't been used or she's someone who doesn't keep lots of men, a lot of ladies that keep many men usually have spiritual problems due to the men they sleep with, most of these guys are mostly fetish. Light and darkness don't mix so when a fetish guy sleeps with your girl expect things to go downhill for the other guys that sleeps with her especially if the fetish guy is a destiny stealer. I have slept with a girl that I lost my job, sold almost all I had but I later found out the fault was mostly mine. I was also being fetish at that time so the fetism attracted another fetish girl to me. In essence my advise to you is to stop being fetish if you are one and watch and be spiritual with any girl you sleep with. Anyone who doesn't fit ur spiritual life quit sex with them. And if you notice any thing about your current girl no that she's sleeping with a fetish guy using her glory to tap from you, or the guy she's sleeping with has an evil demon around him.