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Please Advice Me Guys by Babaijeshaa: 12:07am On Oct 05, 2021
I have a girlfriend I've been dating for 7 months now and she seems to be the kind of girl I can marry. I've been planning marriage with her and even my parents have been telling me many times to bring the girl to them and talk about marriage because they see her sometimes when she comes over and they actually like her. Since the beginning of our relationship she had never hear me talking to a girl on the phone, though she knows I'm always on whatsapp and I might have some girls I talk to but I don't make calls or get female calls beside her of which she gets male calls most of the times. But due to my understanding, I believe female tends to receive male calls for the fact that they are female and they will always have many guys disturbing them. I use to get mad at her sometimes when she's recieving a call and I notice she's speaking with a guy and all she will say is that they are just normal person and I should just stop worrying about her that she's not that type that do what I'm thinking. I will still tell her to just stop recieving all those calls beside me. To cut the story short, she slept over at my place last night and she hurriedly left the following morning which doesn't happen. I asked her where she's going so early but she said she's going home and that I should escort her but I said no because I'm still feeling sleepy. Since then that she left, I didn't wake up until 10:00 am and I didn't even bother calling her maybe she's home already or not and I don't even have call card tbh. So in the afternoon I went to my farm to harvest the maize and did lots of work there until 7:00 pm before I could get chance to look at my phone. I was expecting to see her calls but no I didn't see one. I called her number and it ring like four times which she didn't pick. I actually don't trust her too much because of the male calls she receives so I started feeling unrest and I started calling her multiple times which she didn't pick. I gave up and expect she will call me back whenever she see my missed calls. Later this night, I checked the time and Its already 11:00 and I'm feeling sleepy already because all these social media platforms are down so I was feeling bored and sleepy. I tried calling her befre sleeping and thank God she picked and I started asking her why she have not been picking my calls and she was faking being sleepy on the phone and said she was charging her phone. I was about asking with anger why didn't she call me back until I heard a guy's voice under. I was shocked and had to cut the call and immediately blocked her two numbers by a very hot anger. After that, I got a call showing a private number and I know she will be the one so I cut the call too. Her elder sister is someone who likes me a lot and even want me to marry her sister even she plans for us most of the times. I made a call to her elder sister and narrated everything to her and she said she will call her right away and find out whats going on. Later, her sister called me and told me her number was not reachable and I should be calmed till tomorrow morning and she will go to their family house and see her if her number don't go through still. I said OK and ended the call. So guys please what do you think I can do after the sisters investigations because I know that the sister will beg me and my girlfriend will deny the allegation which is visible to the blind and audible to the deaf.
Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Fernandowski(m): 12:12am On Oct 05, 2021
The answer is there



These hoes ain’t loyal

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Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Emocruize(m): 12:29am On Oct 05, 2021
Op you no dey give paragraph.
how can i read your story without twisting lines.

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Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Babaijeshaa: 1:05am On Oct 05, 2021
Emocruize:
Op you no dey give paragraph.

how can i read your story without twisting lines.
Please Im sincerely sorry. Perdorn me for my mistake and give me the best advice.
Re: Please Advice Me Guys by budaatum: 1:12am On Oct 05, 2021
Both of you are not yet mature enough to marry. Go and live some more and sow some oats. The experience will do you good in the long run.

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Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Babaijeshaa: 1:15am On Oct 05, 2021
budaatum:
Both of you are not yet mature enough to marry. Go and live some more and sow some oats. The experience will do you good in the long run.
Thank you sir. But this particular girl is 26 and I'm 27 . Is that age too small for marriage? And what are some of the experiences?.

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Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Godada(m): 1:25am On Oct 05, 2021
Babaijeshaa:

Thank you sir. But this particular girl is 26 and I'm 27 . Is that age too small for marriage? And what are some of the experiences?.



Do you want to spend the rest of your life checking up on a woman that sleeps over in a man's house when you get married?

The thing is: do you want to have hbp over a woman you don't trust?

Marriage is not a walk in the park

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Re: Please Advice Me Guys by budaatum: 1:30am On Oct 05, 2021
Babaijeshaa:

Thank you sir. But this particular girl is 26 and I'm 27 . Is that age too small for marriage? And what are some of the experiences?.

Age is not the same thing as maturity. Go and experience a few more girlfriends before you settle down in marriage. This your current girlfriend is not your wife, and to be honest with you, if you were mature you would not be here asking us if you should marry her!

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Re: Please Advice Me Guys by anthonyuncle(m): 2:26am On Oct 05, 2021
it is(kinda) too early to conclude, but due to her history with communicating with guys, am afraid.

you will wake up this morning to a well constructed lie that was endorsed by that her elder sister

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Re: Please Advice Me Guys by chocboi78(m): 3:20am On Oct 05, 2021
You heard a mans voice and immediately cut the call.
What happened to confronting her immediately.
Aje u dy motivate me grin

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Re: Please Advice Me Guys by richidinho(m): 3:23am On Oct 05, 2021
Where una dey see ashawo dey call "my wife to be"?

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Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Konor: 3:28am On Oct 05, 2021
Babaijeshaa:
I have a girlfriend I've been dating for 7 months now and she seems to be the kind of girl I can marry. I've been planning marriage with her and even my parents have been telling me many times to bring the girl to them and talk about marriage because they see her sometimes when she comes over and they actually like her. Since the beginning of our relationship she had never hear me talking to a girl on the phone, though she knows I'm always on whatsapp and I might have some girls I talk to but I don't make calls or get female calls beside her of which she gets male calls most of the times. But due to my understanding, I believe female tends to receive male calls for the fact that they are female and they will always have many guys disturbing them. I use to get mad at her sometimes when she's recieving a call and I notice she's speaking with a guy and all she will say is that they are just normal person and I should just stop worrying about her that she's not that type that do what I'm thinking. I will still tell her to just stop recieving all those calls beside me. To cut the story short, she slept over at my place last night and she hurriedly left the following morning which doesn't happen. I asked her where she's going so early but she said she's going home and that I should escort her but I said no because I'm still feeling sleepy. Since then that she left, I didn't wake up until 10:00 am and I didn't even bother calling her maybe she's home already or not and I don't even have call card tbh. So in the afternoon I went to my farm to harvest the maize and did lots of work there until 7:00 pm before I could get chance to look at my phone. I was expecting to see her calls but no I didn't see one. I called her number and it ring like four times which she didn't pick. I actually don't trust her too much because of the male calls she receives so I started feeling unrest and I started calling her multiple times which she didn't pick. I gave up and expect she will call me back whenever she see my missed calls. Later this night, I checked the time and Its already 11:00 and I'm feeling sleepy already because all these social media platforms are down so I was feeling bored and sleepy. I tried calling her befre sleeping and thank God she picked and I started asking her why she have not been picking my calls and she was faking being sleepy on the phone and said she was charging her phone. I was about asking with anger why didn't she call me back until I heard a guy's voice under. I was shocked and had to cut the call and immediately blocked her two numbers by a very hot anger. After that, I got a call showing a private number and I know she will be the one so I cut the call too. Her elder sister is someone who likes me a lot and even want me to marry her sister even she plans for us most of the times. I made a call to her elder sister and narrated everything to her and she said she will call her right away and find out whats going on. Later, her sister called me and told me her number was not reachable and I should be calmed till tomorrow morning and she will go to their family house and see her if her number don't go through still. I said OK and ended the call. So guys please what do you think I can do after the sisters investigations because I know that the sister will beg me and my girlfriend will deny the allegation which is visible to the blind and audible to the deaf.
Bro listen to me and listen clearly!! forget about that girl And move on. Don't give room for any begging or explanation. Move on right away. This is the best thing to do believe me. That girl isn't loyal.

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Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Pumpumking: 4:58am On Oct 05, 2021
Babaijeshaa:
I have a girlfriend I've been dating for 7 months now and she seems to be the kind of girl I can marry. I've been planning marriage with her and even my parents have been telling me many times to bring the girl to them and talk about marriage because they see her sometimes when she comes over and they actually like her. Since the beginning of our relationship she had never hear me talking to a girl on the phone, though she knows I'm always on whatsapp and I might have some girls I talk to but I don't make calls or get female calls beside her of which she gets male calls most of the times. But due to my understanding, I believe female tends to receive male calls for the fact that they are female and they will always have many guys disturbing them. I use to get mad at her sometimes when she's recieving a call and I notice she's speaking with a guy and all she will say is that they are just normal person and I should just stop worrying about her that she's not that type that do what I'm thinking. I will still tell her to just stop recieving all those calls beside me. To cut the story short, she slept over at my place last night and she hurriedly left the following morning which doesn't happen. I asked her where she's going so early but she said she's going home and that I should escort her but I said no because I'm still feeling sleepy. Since then that she left, I didn't wake up until 10:00 am and I didn't even bother calling her maybe she's home already or not and I don't even have call card tbh. So in the afternoon I went to my farm to harvest the maize and did lots of work there until 7:00 pm before I could get chance to look at my phone. I was expecting to see her calls but no I didn't see one. I called her number and it ring like four times which she didn't pick. I actually don't trust her too much because of the male calls she receives so I started feeling unrest and I started calling her multiple times which she didn't pick. I gave up and expect she will call me back whenever she see my missed calls. Later this night, I checked the time and Its already 11:00 and I'm feeling sleepy already because all these social media platforms are down so I was feeling bored and sleepy. I tried calling her befre sleeping and thank God she picked and I started asking her why she have not been picking my calls and she was faking being sleepy on the phone and said she was charging her phone. I was about asking with anger why didn't she call me back until I heard a guy's voice under. I was shocked and had to cut the call and immediately blocked her two numbers by a very hot anger. After that, I got a call showing a private number and I know she will be the one so I cut the call too. Her elder sister is someone who likes me a lot and even want me to marry her sister even she plans for us most of the times. I made a call to her elder sister and narrated everything to her and she said she will call her right away and find out whats going on. Later, her sister called me and told me her number was not reachable and I should be calmed till tomorrow morning and she will go to their family house and see her if her number don't go through still. I said OK and ended the call. So guys please what do you think I can do after the sisters investigations because I know that the sister will beg me and my girlfriend will deny the allegation which is visible to the blind and audible to the deaf.


angry

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Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Pumpumking: 4:59am On Oct 05, 2021
Babaijeshaa:
I have a girlfriend I've been dating for 7 months now and she seems to be the kind of girl I can marry. I've been planning marriage with her and even my parents have been telling me many times to bring the girl to them and talk about marriage because they see her sometimes when she comes over and they actually like her. Since the beginning of our relationship she had never hear me talking to a girl on the phone, though she knows I'm always on whatsapp and I might have some girls I talk to but I don't make calls or get female calls beside her of which she gets male calls most of the times. But due to my understanding, I believe female tends to receive male calls for the fact that they are female and they will always have many guys disturbing them. I use to get mad at her sometimes when she's recieving a call and I notice she's speaking with a guy and all she will say is that they are just normal person and I should just stop worrying about her that she's not that type that do what I'm thinking. I will still tell her to just stop recieving all those calls beside me. To cut the story short, she slept over at my place last night and she hurriedly left the following morning which doesn't happen. I asked her where she's going so early but she said she's going home and that I should escort her but I said no because I'm still feeling sleepy. Since then that she left, I didn't wake up until 10:00 am and I didn't even bother calling her maybe she's home already or not and I don't even have call card tbh. So in the afternoon I went to my farm to harvest the maize and did lots of work there until 7:00 pm before I could get chance to look at my phone. I was expecting to see her calls but no I didn't see one. I called her number and it ring like four times which she didn't pick. I actually don't trust her too much because of the male calls she receives so I started feeling unrest and I started calling her multiple times which she didn't pick. I gave up and expect she will call me back whenever she see my missed calls. Later this night, I checked the time and Its already 11:00 and I'm feeling sleepy already because all these social media platforms are down so I was feeling bored and sleepy. I tried calling her befre sleeping and thank God she picked and I started asking her why she have not been picking my calls and she was faking being sleepy on the phone and said she was charging her phone. I was about asking with anger why didn't she call me back until I heard a guy's voice under. I was shocked and had to cut the call and immediately blocked her two numbers by a very hot anger. After that, I got a call showing a private number and I know she will be the one so I cut the call too. Her elder sister is someone who likes me a lot and even want me to marry her sister even she plans for us most of the times. I made a call to her elder sister and narrated everything to her and she said she will call her right away and find out whats going on. Later, her sister called me and told me her number was not reachable and I should be calmed till tomorrow morning and she will go to their family house and see her if her number don't go through still. I said OK and ended the call. So guys please what do you think I can do after the sisters investigations because I know that the sister will beg me and my girlfriend will deny the allegation which is visible to the blind and audible to the deaf.


Can u repet the question sir? angry

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Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Spider20: 5:11am On Oct 05, 2021
A Hoe will always remain a Hoe grin grin grin
Nigerian ladies are useless+Stupid, all of them
Date them at your peril cool cool cool

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Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Nonexisting1: 5:27am On Oct 05, 2021
As soon as you suspect something, the something is there. Everything may fail you but not your instincts. By the way, the more man calls a vaginarian receives, the more dicks she receives as well, forget their usual yarns of "we are just friends or I like keeping guy friends". Those yarns na wash. Come smoke some weed and feel good my nigga.

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Re: Please Advice Me Guys by AutoChick4U(f): 7:05am On Oct 05, 2021
Fake love everywhere

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Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Babaijeshaa: 7:21am On Oct 05, 2021
budaatum:


Age is not the same thing as maturity. Go and experience a few more girlfriends before you settle down in marriage. This your current girlfriend is not your wife, and to be honest with you, if you were mature you would not be here asking us if you should marry her!
Agreed. Thank you brother.
Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Babaijeshaa: 7:22am On Oct 05, 2021
Nonexisting1:
As soon as you suspect something, the something is there. Everything may fail you but not your instincts. By the way, the more man calls a vaginarian receives, the more dicks she receives as well, forget their usual yarns of "we are just friends or I like keeping guy friends". Those yarns na wash. Come smoke some weed and feel good my nigga.
Stupid bitches everywhere. Please pass me the lighter make I use her matter puff loud.
Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Babaijeshaa: 7:23am On Oct 05, 2021
Spider20:
A Hoe will always remain a Hoe grin grin grin
Nigerian ladies are useless+Stupid, all of them
Date them at your peril cool cool cool
Infact they are the real definition of hoe. Why is Nigeria so cursed with everything?
Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Babaijeshaa: 7:25am On Oct 05, 2021
Konor:
Bro listen to me and listen clearly!! forget about that girl And move on. Don't give room for any begging or explanation. Move on right away. This is the best thing to do believe me. That girl isn't loyal.
But why are these hoes just Lupe this. Are these things happening all over the world or only in Africa . Make God kuku kill us all.
Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Babaijeshaa: 7:27am On Oct 05, 2021
chocboi78:
You heard a mans voice and immediately cut the call.
What happened to confronting her immediately.
Aje u dy motivate me grin
Ehn Ehn, I was actually shocked and confused at that moment and the only thing that came to my mind was to end the call. I wish I had the thought of lambasting her and the guy from the phone. I swear you dey motivate me aje.

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Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Babaijeshaa: 7:27am On Oct 05, 2021
anthonyuncle:
it is(kinda) too early to conclude, but due to her history with communicating with guys, am afraid.

you will wake up this morning to a well constructed lie that was endorsed by that her elder sister
Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Babaijeshaa: 7:30am On Oct 05, 2021
anthonyuncle:
it is(kinda) too early to conclude, but due to her history with communicating with guys, am afraid.

you will wake up this morning to a well constructed lie that was endorsed by that her elder sister
Mehnnnnnn, should I just move on?
Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Isokoson1: 8:26am On Oct 05, 2021
Men this is beyond local man logistics

Bros op, I swear nah man house she dey, this one way she dey form like say sleep dey her eyes ,all nah because she no want make you hear the guy voice.. But you later hear am... Bros op I swear nah Bleep your girl friend go Bleep, I swear her elder sister go cover up for her.. No just mind wetin she she go talk... .Any girl way dey make too many calls from guys... Fear them, they are oloshos in disguise...

If you continue with that relationship you go fit go get high blood pressure

Bros e happen to me...

But Las Las God save me

#Say no to olosho as wife to be#

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Re: Please Advice Me Guys by anthonyuncle(m): 8:56am On Oct 05, 2021
Babaijeshaa:

Mehnnnnnn, should I just move on?

take flight

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Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Babaijeshaa: 9:15am On Oct 05, 2021
Isokoson1:
Men this is beyond local man logistics

Bros op, I swear nah man house she dey, this one way she dey form like say sleep dey her eyes ,all nah because she no want make you hear the guy voice.. But you later hear am... Bros op I swear nah Bleep your girl friend go Bleep, I swear her elder sister go cover up for her.. No just mind wetin she she go talk... .Any girl way dey make too many calls from guys... Fear them, they are oloshos in disguise...

If you continue with that relationship you go fit go get high blood pressure

Bros e happen to me...

But Las Las God save me

#Say no to olosho as wife to be#
Meeeeehn, Ajeh you dey motivate me.
Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Babaijeshaa: 9:16am On Oct 05, 2021
anthonyuncle:


take flight
I Don book ticket.
Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Chrisgod001(m): 9:35am On Oct 05, 2021
Bro you have the answers to your questions.
Just move on that girl is cheating on u full time and trust me the sister will beg you but will never tell you her sister went to a man's house. If u choose to still date her do so at your own peril. Before she dumb you dumb her first.
Babaijeshaa:
I have a girlfriend I've been dating for 7 months now and she seems to be the kind of girl I can marry. I've been planning marriage with her and even my parents have been telling me many times to bring the girl to them and talk about marriage because they see her sometimes when she comes over and they actually like her. Since the beginning of our relationship she had never hear me talking to a girl on the phone, though she knows I'm always on whatsapp and I might have some girls I talk to but I don't make calls or get female calls beside her of which she gets male calls most of the times. But due to my understanding, I believe female tends to receive male calls for the fact that they are female and they will always have many guys disturbing them. I use to get mad at her sometimes when she's recieving a call and I notice she's speaking with a guy and all she will say is that they are just normal person and I should just stop worrying about her that she's not that type that do what I'm thinking. I will still tell her to just stop recieving all those calls beside me. To cut the story short, she slept over at my place last night and she hurriedly left the following morning which doesn't happen. I asked her where she's going so early but she said she's going home and that I should escort her but I said no because I'm still feeling sleepy. Since then that she left, I didn't wake up until 10:00 am and I didn't even bother calling her maybe she's home already or not and I don't even have call card tbh. So in the afternoon I went to my farm to harvest the maize and did lots of work there until 7:00 pm before I could get chance to look at my phone. I was expecting to see her calls but no I didn't see one. I called her number and it ring like four times which she didn't pick. I actually don't trust her too much because of the male calls she receives so I started feeling unrest and I started calling her multiple times which she didn't pick. I gave up and expect she will call me back whenever she see my missed calls. Later this night, I checked the time and Its already 11:00 and I'm feeling sleepy already because all these social media platforms are down so I was feeling bored and sleepy. I tried calling her befre sleeping and thank God she picked and I started asking her why she have not been picking my calls and she was faking being sleepy on the phone and said she was charging her phone. I was about asking with anger why didn't she call me back until I heard a guy's voice under. I was shocked and had to cut the call and immediately blocked her two numbers by a very hot anger. After that, I got a call showing a private number and I know she will be the one so I cut the call too. Her elder sister is someone who likes me a lot and even want me to marry her sister even she plans for us most of the times. I made a call to her elder sister and narrated everything to her and she said she will call her right away and find out whats going on. Later, her sister called me and told me her number was not reachable and I should be calmed till tomorrow morning and she will go to their family house and see her if her number don't go through still. I said OK and ended the call. So guys please what do you think I can do after the sisters investigations because I know that the sister will beg me and my girlfriend will deny the allegation which is visible to the blind and audible to the deaf.
Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Ocholu: 9:50am On Oct 05, 2021
OP let me be real with you;

Make sure you update us on her response. That's the only way I can dish out a constrictive and logical advise. As for now, go get some ice block and cool your left balls.
Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Babaijeshaa: 10:00am On Oct 05, 2021
Chrisgod001:
Bro you have the answers to your questions.
Just move on that girl is cheating on u full time and trust me the sister will beg you but will never tell you her sister went to a man's house. If u choose to still date her do so at your own peril. Before she dumb you dumb her first.
That's a big word. "befre she dump you dump her first " Thanks for that advice brother.

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Re: Please Advice Me Guys by Babaijeshaa: 10:02am On Oct 05, 2021
Ocholu:
OP let me be real with you;

Make sure you update us on her response. That's the only way I can dish out a constrictive and logical advise. As for now, go get some ice block and cool your left balls.

OK sir. I will update you as everything dey go.

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