The first mistake you made was bowed down to the pressure mounted on you by your family. Now, you've lost a prospective wife and ended up with an ungrateful nagging machine.

Well, if you can't cope anymore with her, I'd urge you to divorce her and focus on yourself. I'm sure you are a mature man and I'm disappointed but not suprised that you couldn't make decisions about your life and future yourself. Where's your mom now when you're feeling the heat in your matrimonial home?

As long as no family or parents is feeding you, they don't have any final say on your life. They can only make suggestion and give advice.

Divorce your woman if you can't cope anymore! Peace of mind is underrated!

Oga for your mental health leave that marriage, your mother will pass away one day, she does not live with you in your house, you either decide to bear the brunt of your wife's bad character or walk away from the union to protect your mental... Call your mum, sit her down and give her reasons why your marriage with your wife won't work, whether she accepts or not is her business, go after the love of your life, win her back and live happily ever after.

Another confused op on the beat

Mr.man,you better find a way on how to settle with your wife and leave that your ex alone . Na now you know say she be better person abi? . Mumu talk...

Well,na if that your ex venture come back to you,na then I go confirm am say whether she be Mumu or not

I can't help you

Is good to respect your parents but Tru Tru I'm not sure my folks can tell me to marry or not to marry a particular lady

You bleeped up the moment you allowed someone to decide who you break up with and who you marry. That's where you goofed big time

Then seek divorce

Great

Na long throat dey worry you. Because the other lady earns a 7 digit salary that's why she's now the love of your life and your wife is the devil. Shame on you!

See, you brought whatever it is you're facing upon yourself. so, carry your cross in peace. If you had practised self-control, you wouldn't be in this mess today..

Let this serve as a lesson to the likes of you who are still sleeping recklessly around without protection.

What sex is going to cause this generation?

From what I read, you are a shameless man, A dead beat dad. Women de suffer aswear

MyOleSolksjaer:
Dear All,

I need your candid advise on these matters that touch the heart. I got married last year to the mother of my beautiful daughter sometime in August last year during the COVID lock down. The marriage was against my wishes and due to parental pressure. Prior to marrying my wife, I was doing a good job by making sure I take good care of my daughter and the mom. My daughter just turned 2 in July and has already started going to school. My wife and I met online and started dating immediately after our first sexual encounter. Along the line she got pregnant and we started having misunderstandings. We both decided we will keep the baby because I made a vow with God not to abort any child with any woman I impregnate.

However, to cut the story short we both agreed we won't get married and her parents were cool with it as long as I take care of their daughter and my child. Then came COVID and during the events of the lockdown, I entered into a relationship with a Chemical Engineer that earns a 7 figure monthly salary. The relationship lasted for months but my mom never supported the relationship and did everything to make sure I break up with this lovely lady in a bid to marry my baby mama. I was against it knowing fully well that she is very quarrelsome and dramatic. I had inner peace with my lockdown girlfriend. Till now I still miss her and want to be with her despite being married to my wife who is always looking for ways to suspect me for one thing or the other. She has even threatened that if she catch me cheating, she will cheat back.

My marriage for the past 1 year has been full of problems, drama, and even attempted violence. My wife just graduated from Uni and is about to go in for her NYSC. I am even praying she gets posted out of Lagos preferably the North. This marriage has drained me of all my resources and has taken away a lot from me. My wife doesn't appreciate the good I do for her and my daughter. She is always quick to judge me and criticize for every small mistake I make. She nags all the time and always want to pick a fight for bullshit reasons. I don't find my wife attractive anymore and I have lost every desire to have sex with her from the first day we married in August last year.

She gets upset when female colleagues at work call me. I had considered resigning because we had an issue over my boss at work who always calls me for work related stuff. I am not on good terms with my mom because she engineered this marriage against my own wishes. My wife and I don't have a good relationship. It has gotten so bad that we don't sleep in the same room anymore. I had to leave the house for some time to stay in an accommodation provided by my work place so I can have inner peace and regain my sanity.

I am so pained because of my relationship that ended abruptly. I tried getting back with my Ex whom I still love but now she doesn't want to have anything to do with me despite how much I still love her. My question is, should I still try to win my ex over or find another woman? As for my marriage, I consider it dead and over. I don't care what my parents particularly my mom will do. I don't bleeping care anymore. All I want is my love to come back to my life and end this toxic marriage.

You just found a younger more attractive girl and are looking for "advice" to ditch the older girl you no longer find attractive. you have already made up your mind na.

You are not alone on this okay?

SmellySperm:
Hmm marriage wahala here and there. Una com dey mk us fear.

Baba God abeg mk we no fall into the hands of wrong and devilish women wen we finally wan setle down,Amen
But single life sweet abeg

Why are you wicked? You done quickly use that guy pics do memes

My advice is that you and your wife should go for a comedy show to be happy
Am sure basketmouth bovi and the rest won't disappoint
And you guys would be happy again
Say your thanks later

anoda nollywood script hits the fp na.

SmellySperm:
Hmm marriage wahala here and there. Una com dey mk us fear.

Baba God abeg mk we no fall into the hands of wrong and devilish women wen we finally wan setle down,Amen
But single life sweet abeg

This pics don turn meme now now..
Omo

Speechless, but women should learn to appreciate the little their spouse do.

SmellySperm:
Hmm marriage wahala here and there. Una com dey mk us fear.

Baba God abeg mk we no fall into the hands of wrong and devilish women wen we finally wan setle down,Amen
But single life sweet abeg

Guy, I wouldn't play with that guy pics if I were you, tho.

Bros, you can't have your cake and eat it!!!

Marriage built on wrong foundation. If the foundation be destroyed what can the righteous do...

BigDawsNet:
Is good to respect your parents but Tru Tru I'm not sure my folks can tell me to marry or not to marry a particular lady

Exactly!

Go home and love ur wife then u wil have peace in ur home. I think u are a gold digger to love someone u only want bc of money. Most men one day may even hate this wife's but all will end well if they persist in the house.
I hope someone slaps some sense into u. See yaa mouth like 7figures.

Take it easy bro, dialogue solves all matters but with time and sincerity of mind

MyOleSolksjaer:
Then came COVID and during the events of the lockdown, I entered into a relationship with a Chemical Engineer that earns a 7 figure monthly salary.

Are you saying there are people who earn 7 figures, lousing about in facebook?

This is what 7 figures looks Like ==== 15,000,000 naira monthly..

Guy you're a fraud.

Take this post to the romance section

Let your partner know that you're not happy.

chatinent:


Guy, I wouldn't play with that guy pics if I were you, tho.

SmellySperm:
Hmm marriage wahala here and there. Una com dey mk us fear.

Baba God abeg mk we no fall into the hands of wrong and devilish women wen we finally wan setle down,Amen
But single life sweet abeg

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U don colonize this guy pics as meme immediately..
*****Back to the topic******

I really DNT have much to say to you. But you should know a way around your marriage problem. Is normal everyone has it.
This tym might be ur one and only trying time you could face In ur marriage and will have "happily ever after" afterwards.
Be a man and call your shots!!!!!! Make you decision