DeusMagnus:
my brother I've been fucking a particular girl for 2 months now,she's doing all the duties of a girlfriend, very feminine chic, but we have never said I love you to each other. Omo, if na some men, them go don rush dey shout i love you. The level of game I played on this chic is mad, made me to understand that redpill+game is the truth. Where burst my head na when she tell me to warn one of my girlfriends that she's not competing with her. She just wants to enjoy her life. I off. The so called girl is quite pretty but as she no gree give me sex, I Japa, now she dey put body and still no wan give me sex, I still dey japa Now i just gave this my f*vk buddy the illusion of the girl wants. She sees the girl around me often and women want men that other women want. Love na scam

G0LANHEIGHTS:

Abort bro.....leave this girl alone. She's manipulating you. Your game isn't too strong yet to withstand a girl like this.

G0LANHEIGHTS:

Women are incapable of loving a man PROPERLY infact there is no such thing as love.

Nezzjnr:
Please guys never let a woman to be the One in charge of the Home even if she's from a wealthy Family.

Winnerautomatic:


You overrate the importance of women my friend. You can be 100% successful without playing all the women games.

There are many ways to success and being a high flyer in-terms of education is one of them. Infact making it via the education route may even be the easiest and least physical way of making it. All you gotta do is stare at laptop screens and get paid millions @ month end.

Again, anyone who says you can’t be rich by working for someone else is a big liar. Most of my colleagues are worth upwards of 100M and counting.

There are many ways to financial freedom but a 2.1 or first class is definitely one of them ( if you have good interview and aptitude test skills).

All my exploits were just with a 2.1. I can’t imagine what i would have done if i had a first class.

I earn 7 figures monthly all because of my damn 2.1 and of course God’s grace. There are many more like me and many more that even out earn me. Never believe anyone who says good grades is not a meal ticket. Such statements are usually put out by bitter people who either didn’t go to school or graduated with bad grades.

Back to your question about women, we attract who we are . If you attract bad women, 9 times out of 10, you’re a manipulator yourself.

You might say, how about nice guys who get played by women?

Answer is, most times the niceness is usually an act of manipulation and the women can see through it.

You can’t be real and nice because to be real is to be selfish. To be real is to put yourself first. Its just natural instinct of self preservation.

If you’re still in school or job seeking, i could teach you some tricks. If you’re neither of the two and way past that phase then i apologise

pansophist:
Women look at men's future to determine if they should latch unto him, and it's your job as a man to do the same to any woman you wanna be with (looking at her past). it's also important to know a woman from multiple channels (eg people that knows her, her enemies, workplace etc), make you no go recruit a repentant ashawo as wifey.

Women know that their past haunts them, and the will try so much to hide it, but its left for you to figure it out, that's where the work is. As a rule, if you're not convinced with how much you know a girl, you should have nothing to do with her. So I advice men not to be forking anyhow, especially in naija where the hunger is so much, and had literally turned lots of girls to situational ashawos.

Negative experiences damages women, it doesn't strengthen them. The feminine energy is not forged in hardship like the masculine, its wholesome and complete on its own. And if femininity go through pain, the man that inherits it will be the collateral damage. If guys really understand how the world works, women will not shark you. You'll even run from a lot of them.

sajmark:

You are right when you said "women are incapable of loving a man properly", then you went ahead and ruined your comment.
Love exist, but the way men love women differ from the way women love men...

1. Can you stop using smart phones and computers from this day to the next 30 years? NO, because they make communications easier.
2. Can you trek from Lagos to Kaduna? NO, you would rather fly on a plane.
3. Can you cultivate a very large acre of land in one day? NO you would rather use tractors.

Men love machines because machines make our life fun and easy.
Women love men the same way that men love machines.

This is a very hard pill to swallow, take your time.

ma373733:



Perfect shit!

#StayTaliban

Tonnyray:
The very challenge I foresee with the 22 year old girl I'm seriously considering tying the knot with right now. The envisaged problem isn't even her, it's the family. Obviously she's played down the caliber of her pedigree. Did my research and yes, thoroughbred aristocratic Fulani family (surprisingly Christians funny enough). Her grandfather na IBB boy (for those who know) and I also discovered her dad is even a board member in my organization. My fear is these guys are controlling as fvck. I've met only one of her brothers and even though we got along pretty well, that air of arrogance is unmistakable. Undeniable.
Long story short these ain't guys to fvck with. Fortunately (but potentially unfortunately) this girl is now hopelessly in love.
I cannot possibly thrive with or stand a controlling extended family and the little I've deduced so far points to just that.
At the same time losing her will hurt (I won't lie or form "Alpha" here).
Or maybe I'm just overthinking things.

Anyone been in a similar scenario before? As in married folks successfully handling/dealing with a controlling extended family.
Any thoughts on how this can be better managed?

sajmark:

You are right when you said "women are incapable of loving a man properly", then you went ahead and ruined your comment.
Love exist, but the way men love women differ from the way women love men...

1. Can you stop using smart phones and computers from this day to the next 30 years? NO, because they make communications easier.
2. Can you trek from Lagos to Kaduna? NO, you would rather fly on a plane.
3. Can you cultivate a very large acre of land in one day? NO you would rather use tractors.

Men love machines because machines make our life fun and easy.
Women love men the same way that men love machines.

This is a very hard pill to swallow, take your time.

ma373733:
Heard whitemoney took a guy for his Dubai trip

Then I saw alot of frustrations from bitches online why didn't he take queen bla bla bla

And some simps online were calling him gay that he should have picked one of the girls there

I know guys here ain't interested in that bbn shit but hey I follow it one thing I discovered about whitemoney is that guy is very redpilled

Most of the guys that simped there got Thier ass whooped ozor is a pure example

Tonnyray:
The very challenge I foresee with the 22 year old girl I'm seriously considering tying the knot with right now. The envisaged problem isn't even her, it's the family. Obviously she's played down the caliber of her pedigree. Did my research and yes, thoroughbred aristocratic Fulani family (surprisingly Christians funny enough). Her grandfather na IBB boy (for those who know) and I also discovered her dad is even a board member in my organization. My fear is these guys are controlling as fvck. I've met only one of her brothers and even though we got along pretty well, that air of arrogance is unmistakable. Undeniable.
Long story short these ain't guys to fvck with. Fortunately (but potentially unfortunately) this girl is now hopelessly in love.
I cannot possibly thrive with or stand a controlling extended family and the little I've deduced so far points to just that.
At the same time losing her will hurt (I won't lie or form "Alpha" here).
Or maybe I'm just overthinking things.

Anyone been in a similar scenario before? As in married folks successfully handling/dealing with a controlling extended family.
Any thoughts on how this can be better managed?

MJBOLT:

na so e suppose be na,Bros before hoes but simps don scatter everything.
Queen should not feel bad,one simp out there will still take her to Dubai.

Peaceyw:

Me and this guy i met recently were walking on the street today when two girls walked up to us to help them with tfare to get to naco, the thing that surprised me was that the guy didn't even stop he just kept walking. Later I brought the matter up and asked why he didn't answer them, he replied that they should trek since he has trekked the distance before. I laughed and said to him that even if we don't help them, other guys will, he claimed guys are waking up now. I told him if one guy wakes up, five will not wake up, if five wake up, twenty will still be asleep.

Winnerautomatic:


You overrate the importance of women my friend. You can be 100% successful without playing all the women games.

There are many ways to success and being a high flyer in-terms of education is one of them. Infact making it via the education route may even be the easiest and least physical way of making it. All you gotta do is stare at laptop screens and get paid millions @ month end.

Pls big bro teach me secrets. This Country too tight

Again, anyone who says you can’t be rich by working for someone else is a big liar. Most of my colleagues are worth upwards of 100M and counting.

There are many ways to financial freedom but a 2.1 or first class is definitely one of them ( if you have good interview and aptitude test skills).

All my exploits were just with a 2.1. I can’t imagine what i would have done if i had a first class.

I earn 7 figures monthly all because of my damn 2.1 and of course God’s grace. There are many more like me and many more that even out earn me. Never believe anyone who says good grades is not a meal ticket. Such statements are usually put out by bitter people who either didn’t go to school or graduated with bad grades.

Back to your question about women, we attract who we are . If you attract bad women, 9 times out of 10, you’re a manipulator yourself.

You might say, how about nice guys who get played by women?

Answer is, most times the niceness is usually an act of manipulation and the women can see through it.

You can’t be real and nice because to be real is to be selfish. To be real is to put yourself first. Its just natural instinct of self preservation.

If you’re still in school or job seeking, i could teach you some tricks. If you’re neither of the two and way past that phase then i apologise

ProphetJeroboam:
My RP family, I would like your input on this matter. What would be the best course of action? I don’t want to give advice solely based on what I feel is right in my eyes so I would like several inputs. I want inputs from anyone who wants to contribute.

A girl I’ll call F chases after a guy I’ll call M, she calls all the time, texts all the time, basically begs for the guy’s attention and literally sets up a sleepover meeting at the guy’s house but the guy plays hard to get, doesn’t give attention and cancels on her sleepover meeting. All of a sudden, she stops begging for attention, gives hints that one of her female friends advised her not to get worked up over one guy as there are lots of rich guys out there who will spoil her. Now the thing is, she withdraws over texts and calls only as she doesn’t call anymore and text once in awhile to ask for random information about school. She is always the first to reach out to said guy In public literally every time, she walks over to him first all the time, smiles sheepishly and can’t maintain eye contact. She is receptive to touch and wants to touch the guy’s face, arms and sit really close to him but the problem is she has refused two invitations to come over. Most plausible thing should be to ignore her as she’s basically sh*t testing. I advised said guy to hang out with more chicks and let her see this because all of this is happening in a school environment and women usually come around with this method. I also advised him to not respond to her usual random school questions she asks once in awhile as this would push her to desperation. Give me your inputs in this case guys.

Ronnnie:
Girls and thier entitlement...lemme gist you all what am facing now...

My girlfriend had this throat issue (dunno what it's called) around August so she had to go to the village to get it locally removed Kos it was an infection..I do keep her money so the saving she had with me I sent it back to her so she could travel and get it operated,she also bought some drugs which made her broke and finished all her money...
So she was stranded in the village for more than two weeks and her dad and mum isn't that bouyant...she was feeling moody always anytime she called me,as she was saving up to further her education from her work..I felt pity for her and I asked her to borrow from anyone(6k) and I will pay back (Kos I was broke also by then but was expecting some money)....
So luckily she saw who to borrow from and came back and she began to work... unfortunately,the money I was expecting didn't work as planned so I told her about it,she got angry and said the girl she borrowed from has been disturbing her with calls and so she paid back when she received her first payment from her work..
Last month,she began saving again with me and she raised the matter again saying I should pay back, but I bluntly refused Kos she has paid for it and told me not to border,she got angry and ended the call on me...I didn't call or apologise..
She called the next day So we resolved the issue and this Sunday wen we were talking,she brought it up again pleading that I should add the money to her savings for her education...I agreed Kos it was for something meaningful and told her that it will be her birthday gift,she got angry and ended the call on me(the second time)..I didn't call back or do anything....now she is calling me with different number and I am ignoring her since that day...
Redpillers what's your say on this?

Martinez39s:
You guy has been doing well, but the important question is, what is his end-goal? Is it that he is not interested in anything with her or does he want to fuçk her or what? It's either of the two. What is his end-goal?

Having a defined end-goal will ensure that he doesn't go astray and it will put him in a position where he can be properly advised, relative to his end-goal.

NB: If he just wants her to keep chasing or being interested till god knows when (that is, he thrives and basks in her doing the chasing and all that), then he had better stop. He is unintentionally putting himself in the realms of emotions and, if care is not taken, he might gradually fall for her withdrawal and distancing without knowing, except he is smart about it and he is just toying with her for the sake of it. Let him just live his life; there should be no competition on who can play hard to get the most or on who can get the other's attention. No need to start flirting with other girls to send a message to a girl (no man should do this, I can explain why if you don't get); if he must flirt with other girls, let it be that he is doing it because he wants to. He has nothing to prove to anyone.

I hope you grasp what I am trying to convey.

Emmynator:


I will say your word should be your bond, since you promised her, you should have fulfilled your promise.
Next time, avoid making a promise.

But I wonder, if you didn't promise to pay her the money after she borrows, was she planning to stay stuck in the village?

I think for the very fact that you made a promise to fulfill, then you should give her the money (that's if you have it). Just send her a text that you have added the money to her savings, then keep ignoring her for as long as you deem enough, i don't think you will loose frame this way.

You are punishing her for ending the call on you, that's her crime, but you seal your own part and make her feel bad, knowing that she handled the matter badly, since the fact you refused to give her the money isn't going to serve as a justification for her anymore.

Ronnnie:

Nice one boss..

I will fulfill my promise...but the fact she kept blaming me for making her take the loan when it was for her own good just makes it illogical...it's like am rewarding her for her bad behaviour..

Martinez39s:
No need to start flirting with other girls to send a message to a girl no man should do this, I can explain why if you don't get; if he must flirt with other girls, let it be that he is doing it because he wants to. He has nothing to prove to anyone.

I hope you grasp what I am trying to convey.

Emmynator:


Welcome to the world of women, they have no business with logic.
You see you can fulfill your promise and still punish her for her bad behaviour.
This way she knows she's being punished for bad behavior and not because you don't want to fulfill your promise.

Winnerautomatic:


Are you serious .

Ronnnie donot give her anything.

Give her that money and she will do same to you next time as it worked this time

Havent you spent more than 6k on her? How much has she ever spent on you? Why must you be the one to pay back the debt when she is able to?

This is just disappointing and is almost a mockery of countless pages on this thread. Cant even type.

You didn’t promise her the money per se, the promise was to get her out of the fix but she is out of the woods already so why is she punishing you for your good will?

Should we tell him what will happen if she meets a richer dude?

She cut the call on you and you want to reward her behavior with 6k

Ronnnie:

Lol...I see your reasons bro
I always tell her if she meets a richer guy,she is free to move on with him....it's all up to her

TainyLite:
Av been following this thread from first page till today nd I rarely drop comment... The way my life has been transformed financially, academically, physically and emotionally is even beyond my understanding after that daughter of Jezebel left... Thanks to TRP... If not where I for dey today... I never even thought of aspiring for degree after marriage nd I was hoping to take care of her nd my child buh d witch no appreciate my efforts... My business is doing fine and I have peace of mind.... Taking step to establish another shop for my Mesh Wire business... I no even get up to five shirts when we were together... This month should make it exactly a year I broke up with her.... I congratulate myself...

Winnerautomatic:


What was your experience and what’s your advice for younger dudes looking to get married?